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Open Question: Girls, what are your thoughts? pics included, 5 stars best answer, plus I'll love you forever ;)? and more...

Open Question: Girls, what are your thoughts? pics included, 5 stars best answer, plus I'll love you forever ;)?

I've been friends with this guy for a while, and I think he's sooo cute. I can't tell if he likes me or not. How can I be sure if he's into me, and what should I do to get his attention. He's hard to read because he's really sweet with all of his friends, so I can't tell if he's flirting with me or just being nice. Here's a little about me: I'm 22 and studying psychology. I'm social and outgoing, and I LOOOOOVE music and movies. I think musicians are way hot, but I also need intelligent conversation, so that rules out 99% of them LOL. Also, I'm 5'7, so I like a guy who's at least 6ft (I don't mean to be shallow, but if I'm in heels I still want my guy to have a couple inches over me). I'm usually a straight forward and fearless girl, but for some reason around him I can't help being shy. A little about him: He's 23 and in med school. He also is an amazing singer and guitarist with a deep crooning voice kind of like Ville Valo's. He's such a sweetheart and so much fun. He can be a little weird and quirky sometimes, but it's in that interesting and cute way. He's 6'1, so basically he fits all my criteria hahaha :P The only problems are: Lots of girls flirt with him. He's super busy all the time between school and music and sports, etc. He's really smart and charming so he can be very persuasive (even when we play Monopoly he always seems to get the best trades and win the game LOL), so I'm a little worried about losing my balance in the relationship. I think he secretly enjoys trouble because he has so many stories of shenanigans he and his brothers did while growing up (they almost sound like Malcolm in the Middle episodes LOL). Here are some pictures of him. Let me know what you think. Would you date him, or does he sound like too much trouble? Thanks! :) http://i850.photobucket.com/albums/ab69/nadia22j/Photo156.jpg http://i850.photobucket.com/albums/ab69/nadia22j/Photo175.jpg

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Open Question: Help i need serious advice on this problem i got?

She dated a drugi who will hit her, treat her bad, and forced her to loose her v-card. I told her i liked her so we messed around & she kept telling me to give her time. I got fed up of playing games since she will go back to him, and come back to me. We now got into a fight and don't talk anymore all she will do is make me feel (bad, and get me depressed). She is now dating my own cousin (he never told me about this). I haven't seen them or talked in 2 years since i moved away. I'm now going for a christmas dinner with my family and they both will be there. I'm now a completely new guy, and i'm successful, should i go in my ferrari and bring my best friend (she's hot) to pretend to be my gf she agreed already?

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Open Question: Dating an ex-date's friend?

I'm love struck by this girl I've only seen around campus, Ashley. She has a beautiful smile that makes her whole face light up and seems sweet, caring, and smart. The problem is I had one coffee date this summer with an acquaintence/friend of hers, Jamie, whom I met on match.com. I asked Jamie on a real date following our coffee meeting, but she never responded. This was 5 months ago and I couldn't care less about Jamie any more. I want to ask Ashley out, but would it be awkward since I had coffee with Jamie & asked her out a second time 5 mos ago? Ladies, would you go out with a guy one of your friends had coffee with once, but didn't want to date further? (She gave me a huge hug at the end... I think she liked me, but not romantically.) How do you suggest I go about this?

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Open Question: He's my best friend's brother, can it happen?

So my best friend is my age, and her brother is a year younger than us. I didn't start liking him until recently, but I just can't stop thinking about being with him. But there are problems. A) he's my best friend's brother B) i don't think his family would approve since his sister probably tells them my stories. C) I'm moving in seven months D) Biggest problem-I'm not even sure if he likes me back He's a sweet guy and is the perfect gentleman but maybe that's why he talks to me till 2 in the morning, maybe he just doesn't want to tell me he doesn't want to talk to me anymore? I don't know. I'm not that confident in dating aspects so any insight into this would be FANTASTIC! Thanks! C) Ps. I don't want to hurt him when i leave so if it's better to ignore the feelings, a blunt answer would be nice.

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Open Question: How long will he like me for?

So I really like this guy that I have been talking to for about a month. We met on halloween were I got a little too drunk and he took care of me. We've talked every single day since then. I really think I like him, and I'd really like to date him, but there is one problem. I have had mono since mid September, which means I can kiss him. I'm not sure how long I'm contagious for, but it seems to be dragging on forever. I don't know if he will want to go out with me if he can't kiss me. But I don't know how long he is going to wait for me. I really like this guy, and I just don't want to lose him.

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Open Question: Advanced help in healing astrological relationship difficulties?

I was born Aug. 12, 1979 at 8:40 AM in 94W44 32N30. This puts my Sun, Venus, and Jupiter tightly conjunct in Leo in the 12th house. This means that I fall quickly, and fervently, almost living and breathing someone that I fall for. I cannot bottle this intensity of emotion, even though I have Pluto in opposition to my moon (in the 8th). In fact, even the upswings are so strong that they begin to physically hurt me. It also doesn't help that my Mars is in it's fall (in Cancer) which means that I cannot separate love from love-making. The problem is that there have been six people since I divorced my last partner to whom I've gotten close, and all six of them have commented about how wonderful, sexy, cute, nice, stable, and loving I am, but when they are still scared off by the idea of starting a relationship with me because I'm too "emotional." When it has nothing to do with relationships, I'm extremely stable. Now, I have finally understood that I'm not interested in dating someone with the Piscean qualities of my 7th house, because I cannot handle the mutability that causes them to cheat with anyone who shows them emotional attention, then coming back to me. I have discovered that the 9th house cusp (2nd marriage) of Taurus shows me the qualities that I'm looking for. They are stable and endearing to me. I have found the person that ultimately showed me what I needed, instead of all the things that I thought I needed. However, Taureans are turned off by emotional instability. I've never created a feeling of expectation of return for my feelings, but I cannot hide how strong they are. It is implied that I will cause drama because of the intensity, but that's only because people don't understand I'm hurt, but I take the hurt and deal with it inside instead of causing problems. What I'm ultimately asking here is if there is any herbs, crystals, yoga, meditation, or ANYTHING that could possibly help me with these issues.

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Open Question: help with computer xp non destructive restore?

okay my computer started acting up after i was playing world of warcraft some how someone installed key loggers on my computer. anyway to make long story short i did a non destructive restore. now i dont no how to get my files back. in programs c folder theres a folder saying backup of the date i restored compter back to manufacter. now this is the problem i need all my documents back back for some reason i cant access them i tried doing the backup pogram to restore everything that was saved but wont let me. so heres what confuses me the most on my documents in that folder i copyied it to my documents now and also tryed desktop took about 55 minutes it went through all my documents in there everything when i opened it non of my documents were there but yet say everything in documents befre restore was there. so i deleted in that also took about 20 minutes and said deleted all th efiles i could not find. for example some of the folders with files in them were called tj (my name of stuff) and my dad has problems with a lawsuit with very important documents about people that were stealing from our apartment assoiation and there not there but yet when i copyed files from backup to my documents they were there but i opend that folder and there not ther either can anyone help me out here please? i have tred 3 programs that say they restore lost olders etc. they didnt work the files are in the backup folder but i cant get into them and even when i try open them in the backup folder under documents they dont show they only show when i delete the folder or copy to desktop etc can i please get some help i appreciate it. my os: windows xp gateway 504 gr the computer has to be at least 7 years old never upgraded since there never was a problem with this one

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Open Question: Help i need your opinions on this problem?

I'm 20, and about to get $250,000 next week but i don't feel excited or nothing.... Is this because i'm single, and have no kids to look up to? I don't want to date since my ex cheated on me with my cousin It's been a year now still hurts =(

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Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?

I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO?

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Open Question: Whats wrong with my Camcorder?

It turns on fine, the LCD screen is broken, so it just shows gray, and occasionally black bars. But the main problem i want to know how to fix is that when i turn it on, it just shows black. Im not that stupid, so please dont reply "the lense cap is still on" cuz its not. It shows the normal stuff like the time/date, fx that r turned on, etc. So its exactly like the lense cap is on, but its not. i can film the black but nothin else. I can playback and everything, and i can see wat i filmed b4 it broke, but now wen i film sumthing, and playback its just a black screen as the video. Help!! the make is Panasonic the model is MiniDV (idk anything else)

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Open Question: Anyone else have a problem with interracial relationships?

I'm getting better about this, but I was raised in the deep south where that kinda stuff is just straight-up unacceptable. My mom always said she would disown me if I brought home a black guy. My whole life, my parents would make a face and a disgusted remark if they saw a white girl with a black guy, or vice versa. I mean I was raised to think it was just WRONG. Like a crime. The funny thing is, many interracial relationships yield especially beautiful children. But in all honesty it's not something I'm completely comfortable with just yet. It's hard to break something you were taught, really. Was anyone else raised this way? Does it go away quickly or take time? When I was dating, I never considered anyone but white guys. I don't even think I did it on purpose, it came naturally. I have seen very handsome hispanic or black men, etc., but never thought of considering them as anything but an acquaintance or friend. Do you know other people who were raised this way, do you have a problem with raising children this way? I think when I have kids I will try my best to raise them to know that we are all equal in color and that it is okay to date someone who isn't white. I don't think my parents should have had the attitude with me that they did. I don't know if it makes any difference but part of this, why my parents had this opinion, was always because blacks/hispanics "are filthy, always stealing stuff, living off welfare & won't work, shouldn't be here", etc.

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Open Question: Is it common for sexually confused men to do these things? Allow me to explain.?

I dated an extremely attractive men about three months ago. He was a little to perfect than the average male if you know what I mean (well groomed, well dressed, nice body,etc). Nothing wrong with that, I think it is awesome. The problem was he came acrossed strong in the beggining, pursuing me and wanting to be exclusive from the get go. I was flattered but told him that I wanted things to go slow. Then he proceeded by introducing me to his family, friends and we started to get closer. The minute he got closer to me, he dropped what we had and started to ignore me. When I would ask if he was alright, he would push me away even more. In the bedroom he wasn't aggresive and hardly wanted to touch me. He once made a comment that it was fine if we did not get physical and all we did was enjoy each others company. It was during this time that my friends were coming up to me to tell me that he was probably gay or bi and confused about his sexuality. I heard it from at least five people, some who know him personally. So I don't understand why would he string me along and mislead me if he was uncertain about his sexual identity. He is an older man, should he know what he wants by now? Please help.

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Open Question: What free anti-virus software is compatible with Windows 7?

Anti-vir and AVG apparently are not. I had Vista, but I upgraded to 7, because I thought it would get rid of the BSOD. (While I had Vista, I installed Anti-vir.) I thought it was the antivirus software that was causing the problem, so I took it off, after upgrading to Win7. It seemed to work, as I was not getting any BSOD but I was now not protected from viruses. Then I found out about AVG. I installed it yesterday, and today I got a BSOD, the first in quite some time. My school used to supply those with PCs and laptops with Norton anti-virus, but this year they did not, so my protection was not up to date. Oh, and I cannot emphasize enough that it has to be free! I cannot pay any money for it. I spent $40 on the upgrade, and that's it. I just don't have money.

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