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Open Question: Girls, what's your opinion? and more...

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Open Question: Girls, what's your opinion? and more...

Open Question: Girls, what's your opinion?

I've been friends with this guy for a while, and I think he's sooo cute. I can't tell if he likes me or not. How can I be sure if he's into me, and what should I do to get his attention. He's hard to read because he's really sweet with all of his friends, so I can't tell if he's flirting with me or just being nice. Here's a little about me: I'm 22 and studying psychology. I'm social and outgoing, and I LOOOOOVE music and movies. I think musicians are way hot, but I also need intelligent conversation, so that rules out 99% of them LOL. Also, I'm 5'7, so I need a guy who's at least 6ft (I don't mean to be shallow, but if I'm in heels I still want my guy to have a couple inches over me). I'm usually a straight forward and fearless girl, but for some reason around him I can't help being shy. A little about him: He's 23 and in med school. He also is an amazing singer and guitarist with a deep crooning voice kind of like Ville Valo's. He's such a sweetheart and so much fun. He can be a little weird and quirky sometimes, but it's in that interesting and cute way. He's 6'1, so basically he fits all my criteria hahaha :P The only problems are: Too many girls try to flirt with him. He can be a bit mischievous (he has lot's of stories that honestly sound like a lot of fun, but I just don't know if I can handle that kind of trouble in my life). He's super busy all the time between school and music and sports, etc. He's really smart and very persuasive, so I worry that he could manipulate me (he's really nice so I don't think he would, but it's something to consider). Here are some pictures of him. Let me know what you think. Would you date him, or does he sound like too much trouble? Thanks! :) http://i850.photobucket.com/albums/ab69/nadia22j/Photo156.jpg http://i850.photobucket.com/albums/ab69/nadia22j/Photo175.jpg

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Open Question: She says she "doesn't know"?

There's this girl that i really like. We dated in grade school, until she ended it, even after that she still liked me. Then we got inton a fight and "hated" eachother. Freshmen year came around and she started dating an older guy. Sophomore year we started talking again, and both admitted to liking the other person the whole time. Her boyfriend and her had a really bad relationship and after a couple years, she broke up with him kind of for me, but mostly cause it was a bad relationship. Immediately after, me and her started "Talking" and hanging out. After a while, she ended it with me and dated her ex for a week. That ended and about a month later me and her started talking again. We've been talking on and off for about 5 months now and each time its ended cause she says she still likes me but just "gets confused" and doesnt want to stop liking me alot, but it just happens. She still says she's always liked/loved me and thinks she always will. I gave her room and let her try things with other guys and she says she just didnt like them like she liked me, she also says shes not ready for a relationship. I know every situation is different but what do you think is the problem? is it that fact that me and her jumped into a relationship (not technically dating but "talking") and that she needs or room/time, or that its just never gonna work? or something else

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Open Question: How do I get out of this relationship?

Help!! I'm 43 and my boyfriend is 31. I look really young. Anyway, we've been together for 4 1/2 years. He loves me sooo much and I love him but the problem is: he wants a kid and I don't. I'm divorced with 2. He says sometimes he doesn't care about that, but I know deep down he does. His mom won't even acknowledge me. She wants him to have nothing to do with me because SHE wants grandkids. So, I've never been invited to his parents house. It makes me feel like a dog. I've told him to go find the woman to have his kids and let me go, but he won't, He's obsessed. He won't let me go, but he won't committ. I've told him I need to live together or a ring, and he just says he wants that too but never comes through. He doesn't date other girls at all. Anyway, I know I have to get out, but HOW? We have extreme passion. What a mess!!!

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Open Question: Why do I feel like im the only one making effort?

I was wondering if anyone could tell me why I feel (as the guy) putting more effort into gettin to know new girls, and makeing hang out dates and asking questions, when all I get back is sort of relaxed not interesting answers.Especially in texting, not as much in person but alot in texting . Quick examples = "me-so how are you?" -"her-good and u?" me-"good thanks." her-"lol" me-"so what are you up to" her- "eh not much."......now at this point i dont know what to say because she just hada period and not a question...so - me - "cool...so you think that movie was funny in class? some kids did some didnt" her- "yea it was funny lol" etc.. Anyways. I just am always the one trying to start a convo, and to be honest i suck at talking. I feel like girls my age are looking for more relaxed and non-serious relationships where they play round with their boyfriend and nothin else, but right I am looking for a long term kinda relationship and slowly gettin to know each other and be a gentleman and such, like old style. I feel pathetic useing yahoo answers for help lol but i guess u guys are people to obviously so u should kno... so why do i feel like this and what can i do to fix this problem?

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Open Question: What the hell do I do now about by EX?

So I have been dating this girl for 4 months. Everything has been great and she is friends with all my friends. We got into 1 fight in 4 months and we were both drunk about my ex that she brought up. I noticed her acting weird the last couple days. So i asked what was wrong and she said she sees a side of me she doesnt like. All she had against me was the fight we had. She broke up with me 2 weeks later and would not answer my calls. My friends girlfriend who is friends with her said she said she was just stressed cus it was the last week of college classes and she was upset. Still no exuse to take such dramtic actions. If she had a problem with something she should have talked to me and worked through it. My friends g/f said she really cares about me and all this came about last week out of the blue. I have been nothing but nice to this girl and I understand I might have said things when Im drunk but its nothing we couldnt talk about. How am i suppose to know that something is bothering her if she doesnt tell me? Anyway its been 3 days and I have not contacted her and she has not contacted me. I really love this girl but its not right the way she acted. Since she broke up with me I feel I should not contact her untill she contacts me. I dont know what else to do. I am extremely hurt and I dont even know if I want to be with someone that could do that again. Should I mantain no contact as hard as it is? I refuse to look desperate and I wont beg for her back. I'm thinking about hooking up with my ex from about a year ago because she contacted me yesterday when she found out I was single. Im so upset and hurt that I feel like just sleeping with her and having my ex find out about it. I know jealousy is a strong emotion because I have been there. Is this a good idea? Any adivce is greatly appreciated because I am loosing my mind.

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Open Question: I just want my best friend to be happy. Why do YOU think he's dating this girl? Does he seem happy at ALL?

The guy is my best friend, Matt. We were dating a while ago (about a month) and I broke up with him because I thought we could be closer as friends. He agreed, and we stayed best friends. We tell each other everything, all our problems, dreams, everything. Not exaggerating one bit. And after that, we both decided we were probably going to stay single until next semester, just so we could focus on our friends, ourselves, and our grades. And now, about a month or two after our breakup, he starts dating this girl named sydney. I'm going to list all the people in matt's life that think this girl is a slutty *****. All matt's friends, his mom, his older brother, his younger brother, and myself. Oh, and many of MY friends. While we were dating, sydney gave me a bit of a hard time because she liked matt too. She was being mean, and bitchy. I told matt everything she'd said and he still knows how much I hate her. And while we were dating she would try to flirt with him all the time. Whether I was around or not. He never responded. He was really annoyed with it. Even after we broke up, her constant flirting pissed him off. Then suddenly he asked her out. (This is before the end of semester too. He lied.) Now, he's dating her and there are just certain things about the relationship that make me think he doesn't really like her at all. That he's not happy in the least. His body language- (aka- things he did while WE were dating and the last 3 he still does for me) He doesn't put his arm around her he doesn't hold her hand he doesn't completely face her when he talks to her He doesn't hug her for absolutely no reason he walks ME to class His friends say he isn't happy all the time for no reason like he was when he was with me. They say he doesn't brag about her or talk about her all the time like he did with me (im not trying to sound arrogant. I think it was sweet of him though). And they say he's not talking to them as much as he used to. What do you guys think is going on? I don't think he's into her at all. I just want your opinions.

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Open Question: Im confused. Why Is he dating this girl? Does he actually like being in this relationship?

The guy is my best friend, Matt. We were dating a while ago (about a month) and I broke up with him because I thought we could be closer as friends. He agreed, and we stayed best friends. We tell each other everything, all our problems, dreams, everything. Not exaggerating one bit. And after that, we both decided we were probably going to stay single until next semester, just so we could focus on our friends, ourselves, and our grades. And now, about a month or two after our breakup, he starts dating this girl named sydney. I'm going to list all the people in matt's life that think this girl is a slutty *****. All matt's friends, his mom, his older brother, his younger brother, and myself. Oh, and many of MY friends. While we were dating, sydney gave me a bit of a hard time because she liked matt too. She was being mean, and bitchy. I told matt everything she'd said and he still knows how much I hate her. And while we were dating she would try to flirt with him all the time. Whether I was around or not. He never responded. He was really annoyed with it. Even after we broke up, her constant flirting pissed him off. Then suddenly he asked her out. (This is before the end of semester too. He lied.) Now, he's dating her and there are just certain things about the relationship that make me think he doesn't really like her at all. That he's not happy in the least. His body language- (aka- things he did while WE were dating and the last 3 he still does for me) He doesn't put his arm around her he doesn't hold her hand he doesn't completely face her when he talks to her He doesn't hug her for absolutely no reason he walks ME to class His friends say he isn't happy all the time for no reason like he was when he was with me. They say he doesn't brag about her or talk about her all the time like he did with me (im not trying to sound arrogant. I think it was sweet of him though). And they say he's not talking to them as much as he used to. What do you guys think is going on? I don't think he's into her at all. I just want your opinions. Chris- Thankyou for the answer. I appreciate it more than you know :) I'll be praying about this before I do anything, IF i do anything about it. I just don't want to see my best friend get hurt.

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Open Question: When should I ask for first date?

I've been talking to this girl (mostly texting) for almost 2 weeks now. We have a lot in common, and can easily keep up a conversation. We'll text for hours on end. The only problem is that I'm a sophomore and she's a freshman. So I never get to see her, except occasionally in the hall when we say hi and she smiles at me. I wasn't sure (and still sort of aren't) about what she thinks of me. I've gotten one of her friends to talk to her, who said she could see herself liking me, if she got to know me better. That was about a week ago. Anyway, I was wondering when I might ask her on a date. How long do most girls like to talk to you before they feel comfortable on a date? How should I ask her, I feel shallow doing it over texting, but it's the only way I can talk to her out of school. Due to winter, the school events are over, so I can't talk to her there. She lives pretty close to me, but I'm not going to ask to come over/ invite myself over for fear of creeping her out if I randomly do it before I know her well. What kind of a date should I ask her out on? If it helps, my best friend is dating a really good friend of hers. Maybe I could ask her to go running or something sometime and ask her there? I don't know. Suggestions?

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Open Question: How can you word a motion or Grievance against an attorney that has lied to the courts?

My husbands attorney has lied to both me, the courts and my husband in his way of postponing a simple court case. Some of those lies are on digital recordings, he had one transcribed by his own Secretary and added in words that were not spoken. He has also lied to the Court about dates, times and reasons for a continuance, like stating a case number that he had a hearing with that he was removed from 3 weeks previous. He also has repeated here say to the Judge that was never spoken yet tried to convince the Judge it was truth. I personally had people around me when he stated certain threats and denies them to the Court. He has asked the Judge to Recuse himself on these lies and I can prove he lied. It has been 14 weeks that I have been waiting for a final motion, yet he continues find ways to postpone. He stated at the first hearing I would be in court within a week for Temporary support, the Judge at the time told him he knew that was not a possibility, so that lie he told me was answered and on transcript. This attorney is well known in this area for being a underhanded problem maker and yet no Judge wants to step up and stop him. I have and am still suffering with this case that could have been over 4 weeks ago if he had not refused to accept a motion the Sheriffs office tried to serve him. Isn't that illegal for him to be the representing attorney then refusing service of a legal motion?

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Open Question: Using the information below, can you tell if my friend likes this girl?

The guy is my best friend, Matt. We were dating a while ago (about a month) and I broke up with him because I thought we could be closer as friends. He agreed, and we stayed best friends. We tell each other everything, all our problems, dreams, everything. Not exaggerating one bit. And after that, we both decided we were probably going to stay single until next semester, just so we could focus on our friends, ourselves, and our grades. And now, about a month or two after our breakup, he starts dating this girl named sydney. I'm going to list all the people in matt's life that think this girl is a slutty bitch. All matt's friends, his mom, his older brother, his younger brother, and myself. Oh, and many of MY friends. While we were dating, sydney gave me a bit of a hard time because she liked matt too. She was being mean, and bitchy. I told matt everything she'd said and he still knows how much I hate her. And while we were dating she would try to flirt with him all the time. Whether I was around or not. He never responded. He was really annoyed with it. Even after we broke up, her constant flirting pissed him off. Then suddenly he asked her out. (This is before the end of semester too. He lied.) Now, he's dating her and there are just certain things about the relationship that make me think he doesn't really like her at all. That he's not happy in the least. His body language- (aka- things he did while WE were dating and the last 3 he still does for me) He doesn't put his arm around her he doesn't hold her hand he doesn't completely face her when he talks to her He doesn't hug her for absolutely no reason he walks ME to class His friends say he isn't happy all the time for no reason like he was when he was with me. They say he doesn't brag about her or talk about her all the time like he did with me (im not trying to sound arrogant. I think it was sweet of him though). And they say he's not talking to them as much as he used to. What do you guys think is going on? I don't think he's into her at all. I just want your opinions.

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Open Question: monster hunter portable 2nG media install?

iv got a custome firmware psp and ive download monster hunter portable 2nd G iso and installed the date on my psp i also used the english patch but my probleme is the media install option keeps turning off automaticly makin my loading time longer and i have to manually turn it onafter evry mission gets annoyin any of u kno how i can fix dat problem ?

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Open Question: What is this girls problem?

Okay so about six months ago I started talking to this girl. We hung out for a while but then we didn't hang out for a month or so and every time we had made plans she canceled them or gave me some lame excuse. She acted as though she was pushing me away and wanted me to just stop bugging her. So I started dating someone else. When she found out that is when she wanted to start hanging out again. Of course I would not do that because I would not want the girl I was dating to be hurt or anything. The first girl wanted to hang out all the time and kept saying that she was sorry and that she still liked me. After the dating ended with the second girl and she found out then she didn't want to hang out at all. Every time I am with someone she wants to hang out but if I am single she doesn't. What is wrong with her?

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