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Open Question: (guy) best friend problems...? and more... Open Question: (guy) best friend problems...?i really like my best friend and he likes me too but he says he's in love with someone else but she doesn't love him...i really like him and he says he would date me in a heartbeat if it wasn't for her...i've had sex with him and he got me pregnant (had a miscarriage) and i have really strong feelings for him.and i did before we had sex...what do i do? Open Question: High school boys.....?Ok so i really like this guy. He likes me too. So we have discussed this a million times and idk something seems to be going on. Normally a guy asks you out if he likes you. we talk constantly and we tell each other everything. He says he wants tot kiss me and stuff, but he is very old fashion which is really rare to find. i don't know what to do because i really just wanna hold his hand and kiss him, but idk if he is ready or what. Does he really like me?? ok so our cute convos happen over texting usually and i know this could be a contributing factor to the problem. I just wonder if i am wasting my time idk. I believe in finding that one special person to be with, but dating is an important step in reaching that point. I know its cheesy, but he is adorable. He compliments me everyday (in texts and in person a couple times). Is he just shy? Idk what to think. Open Question: Why can't I get a girlfriend or least make friends with a freaking girl real life...?Why can't I get a girlfriend or least make friends with a freaking girl real life... I'm 21, I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed by a girl. I don't even have any friends that are girls... I can't even make friends with girls in real life without screwing it up... I've never even been on a freaking date. I've been praying for a girlfriend for over 6 years. There's no girls for me at chruch, not like that matters since I did like a girl from chruch. She'd probably reject me or, I'd screw things up before we become friends... I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do sometimes look at porn, though for the most part it's fixed. But I could still use some prayer for to get this fixed. Since I don't want it in my life anymore. I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm lazy I'm apprently creepy... I have Social Anxeity Disorder I have low self confidence I can be selfish I tend to slur my speech. I talk too speech. I have a hard time explaining things. I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I have OCD(Mostly fixed, yay God) GAD(Mostly fixed, yay Jesus) ADD(Not bad enough to cause any real problems) Social Anxiety and a touch of depression(Fixed) Open Question: How can I eliminate this problem?At one time I briefly dated "Andy", but I decieded to end it when I moved on into another relationship which was better for me. Andy wished me the best, and as a friend told me he thought I was making a mistake. Having respect for my new relationship, I distanced myself from Andy but he has done everything in his power to stay in contact with me. Recently, I began conversating with "Andy" via phone a couple of times through the week. Andy has his own business which involves repo and towing. I have found it strangely coincidental that Andy now has a new business intrest in the state in which I live and he finds reasons to come here (I have not disclosed exactly where I live to him). Sometimes he talks what I consider to be crazy and uses info about my life against me and he brings it up out of the blue! He glorifies himself and his importance in the lives of others and gets mad if he feels I do not believe him. What really bothered me was the fact that he keeps requesting me to be his friend on FB. My current BF is aware we dated and by accepting him as a frind my current BF will see this. I asked "Andy" out of respect and for privacy reasons, I do not add him as a friend on FB and that he needs to understand my reasons. Andy, says he understands but continues to debate me as to why not and keeps requesting me! What really struck me as disturbing was the fact that Andies sister and I were co-workers, we developed a friendship long before knowing him, and we communicate daily via FB since I live in the neighboring state. Andy is frequenting his sisters home and acsessing my FB profile from her home, I believe! Andy, sent me an e-mail solicting that I contact a freind of a friend via FB in a fake conversation to find out where they live so he can repo their car and that if I helped him he would pay. Andy also called me and stated this, but did not tell me how he got this info. Andy continued to try to make me feel guilty about the help he provided to me when I was unemployed and wanted me to do him this favor . I told him no and have deceided to cut any and all contact with him at this point. Do you think he is a stalker, dangerous, and should tell his sister what he has done and that he is using his own sister. Open Question: This goes for all the Anti-WHlTE trash(aka ANTl-RAClSTS) here?"Anti-racist" are anti-White. Loxist. Term-plagiarist- Connelly-never- came-up-with- while-ignoring-loxism. Take your choice. Invent your own. But don't use your enemy's. When on faces an enemy in the dominant position, one fights back by overtly refusing, rejecting, and spitting on his skewed terms and frames. One does all one can to impose counter terms and frames that serve one's own argument. As you know, term 'racism' was invented and coined by a communist jew(Trotsky). When you use 'anti-racist' you're conceding that racism is a valid concept, when in fact it is merely a cover to allows jews like Wise to pretend they're against certain whites' views rather than all whites per se. You win the battle by outing "anti-racist" for what they are - Marxists scumbag who hate whites and seeks their genocide through bullying, moral intimidation, legal discrimination, and inculcation of racial self-hatred. What "ANTI-RACISTS" are doing is best described as this : "No matter what I put on this sign you'll say it's racist." The term has now lost any tethering to any meaningful concept. It was always an attack device, but now it's like the ultimate garden-weasel IED - it is used to blow up literally any position or person that gets in the way of the judeo-left's communizing. Resist the judeo-left on taxes or health care, resist the white minority and defend your white heritage, date within your race and you're just as racist as if you resist them on discrimination or social engineering. It's whites' existence that's the problem. That's all anti-racist trash are saying, in a few more words. Open Question: Does this make a me a shallow person?I like this guy and he likes me but the problem is I am 5'7 1/2 and he's 5'1. I am attracted to his personality and but I do not want to a date a guy that much shorter than me. IT IS DIFFERENT IF THE GUY IS TALLER. A guy that is "510" with a girl that is "4'11" is not weird. I feel uncomfortable dating a shorter guy Open Question: The woman (that I think) I love, has 'relationship trauma' coz of her ex....HELP PLEASE?So theres this woman... shes from brazilian´s branch office, I met her about 2 months ago..shes new here in nyc office...and she'll return to her country (brazil) as soon as our new project finish,(shes architect). Seriously, Im impressed, I cant take my eyes of her, Im always creating unreal situations and reasons to talk to her, (I create a story that my my apartment was painted, and coz of my "allergy", I spent one week in the same hotel that she is, to get closer and talk to her)... Shes gorgeous, really is, extremly beautiful and hotttt... besides that shes intelligent and polite...but her attribute that I most like is that shes very decent...I noticed that coz almost all singles men from office asked her out, and she didnt accept none. And when I was in hotel, I noticed that her routine was: work + gym (in hotel) + shopping sometimes, and nothing more, always alone or with Kate (also architect from our office)... The problem is that she doesnt give space to me, when I try to talk to her, she only answers... I was so curious about her, that I called a friend from brazilian's branch office, and he said shes divorced with no kids; She got married at 17, with her 1st bf,and he was 15 years older, lawyer and became judge. She divorced him when she was 26! Now shes only 28! Her marriage ended coz HE HIT HER! Reason: jealous. And since this situation, she became more quiet, sad, and closed person. He also said shes always receiving flowers, but never accept a date. Shes lonely since she got divorced (2 years ago)!!!!!!!! Well, now that I know she says NO to everyone, Im acting like a 18 year old boy: I dont know how ask her out..Im afraid of her answer! Im scared with my own feelings, coz I think Im in love with her..I think about her all the time... and to make things worst, Kate told me that she complains EVERY DAY that is horrible stay away from her family and culture, that she misses to hear portuguese (her language).. that she cant wait to return to Brazil.. So, I was wondering: I want a serious relationship with her, and if this happen, I would like to marry her, but seems she would never leave her country. SO, is it better force myself forget her, get over???? reasons: 1st coz she will probably say NO, 2nd coz she would never move here, to live with me... Or should I try, maybe she falls in love and changes???? Please, I really need advices!!!!! Open Question: Landlord trying to evict me because my girlfriend comes over.?Hello, I live in st petersburg fl and i am having trouble with my landlord. I moved in a few months ago into this new apartment and right away i seamed to be having trouble with my landlord. After about a month is gave me a notice on my door accusing me of allowing people to use our laundry facilites, my friends smoking on the property(which is not allowed), saying my girlfriend was over to much that if she stayed at my house i have to stay at her house the next night, it is there rule, and that my friend was in my apartment when i was not home. So i called him over and over and he never answered, i kinda gave up and just ignored the accusations, which were all false and just went along with my life. Well about 2 months later he is giving a me a notice to quite and threatening to evict me if my girlfriend doesn't move out. Well she does not live here with me, she has her own apartment with her own lease and own bills. She spends 3 or 4 nights a week at my house. I talked to one of my friends and they said FL has a law that landlords can do this if you have some one over more then like twice a week. She had the same problems when she started dating her new boy friend and she just put her BF on the lease and he moved in and they paid more money. I do not know if anyone knows the laws in Florida about this stuff. I am wondering if there is a rule about someone being in your apartment when you are not there, None of this is in my lease, there is a statement saying if someone stays more then three days in a row my landlord to be notified in advance but that is it. Any idea?? When she is here she just sleeps over and then she leaves in the morning, I pay water and electric my self. Open Question: Everyone has such a problem with my b/f?So i usually turn down guys, cuz the guys here are arrogant and cocky, and sleep with every girl, but yea anyway i started dating this guy who i used to think was a complete freak cuz he wore like skinny jeans and had 'skater' hair and stuff and that isnt really normal in my town so yea i never really talked to him. but we were lab partners, we started talking, and we hung out a couple times and now we r dating hes like the sweetest thing everrr, and hes so not as weird as i thought we like some of the same music, and hes not like depressed and lonely like i thought =/ so now everyones all like why are u dating him? or like seriously?? ur pathetic. and i dont even know where the guys go off saying **** cuz i turned most of them down so w/e. im not about to break up with him cuz i like him a lot, so how do i get ppl to stop freakin talkin to me bout it. and ppl arent really thinkin that they are prob makin him feel like ****, so i was in the hall, kinda near his locker, talkin to one of my friends so i dont even know wut happened but some girl bitched at me and was like "atleast im not dating chace" sooo loudly and he heard and looked so i was like "is there sumthin wrong with datin chace? cuz i dont see it." i didnt want to be b..i..tch back so yea.., he doesnt really seem to care, and acts normally w/ me but idk it would bother me if ppl were like y r u datin her to him.. i feel soo bad, cuz hes such a cutie, haha that sounds weird but his personality is just insanely cute, and ppl are like bitches do i just ignore everyone??? only my really close friends dont care, and obviously his friends dont care..but its gettin annoyin Open Question: Guys always seem timid about touching me?So I haven't dated a lot, but guys always seem afraid to touch! I mean I wouldn't mind a hug or him grabbing my hand. I'm pretty tiny and I guy I like is big and think that may be part of his problem but.. So how can I encourage the touching without coming off sleazy? Open Question: I'm having problems with showing my ex that i do love her.?She broke up with me cause i was busy with school. She said we lost the romance because I ignored her a lot. But i realized what i did wrong but she wants to be just friends. I dont really know what to do, i told her how i felt, ive showed her how ive changed. Im also giving it time and keeping my distance because its what she wants and i respect that but this is all repairable. We dated for four years and been through thick and thin together and I know she still has feelings for me cause when i told her i might move to seatle in fall she got all upset (in her facial expressions) but quickly covered it up and tried to give me her blessing. Also she will still hug me when i leave and she won't let go of me for awhile, i looked down and said "do you hug all your friends like this?' and she said she just missed me? Shes not the type to play games. She has a pretty rough life right now and is losing her home and a bunch of other things i wont get into detail about so I kind of think she is just stressing out about everything and is making irrational decisions? I dont know but i would like to read what you guys have to say or any advice you may have for me cause i hurt right now and im not the hurting type lol. Open Question: need more help than being told 'give it time'?Sorry if this is really long, but I need advice. I've been with a great guy for six months. He's 25, and I'm 24. We're in love, we're very happy, both together and with our lives in general. Everything is wonderful between us. Except... He was a virgin when we started dating, and I was not. At our age, that's a bit unusual, but I understood because his last girlfriend was very religious and did not believe in sex before marriage. They were together for several years, and the relationship ended over a year ago. When he and I started dating, we took things very slowly. I probably would have anyway, but because he was a virgin I wanted to be sure he felt comfortable/etc. He didn't show any inhibitions regarding sex, it was just that it hadn't happened thus far. The first time I gave him a blow job, he did not come. Which again, unusual, and has never happened with me before, but I asked a few guy friends of mine and they said some guys just can not orgasm from oral alone. So two weeks ago, we had sex. And he was not uncomfortable, not stressed, just really into it..... It was very good for me, but again, he did not come. It was disappointing but I chalked it up to nerves, whatever. But we've since had sex a dozen times and the same thing has happened. I've been online a lot reading articles, etc and found some articles about retarded ejaculation, and that's probably what it is. But the problem is, they don't give you advice on how to handle it. They only say give it time, etc. That's fine, but meanwhile I'm losing interest in even trying because it's disappointing he doesn't orgasm.He doesn't drink, smoke, and is not taking any medication. We're both young and healthy. And I doubt the problem is me, as I've been told I'm pretty/have a nice body/etc. So I'm just kind of stuck and need advice on what to do from here. It's too early to really think about him going to a doctor, but I have no other ideas. I wouldn't leave him over this- I love him. But I enjoy sex and I think it's a big part of a relationship. Plus, I know he's bothered by it. Open Question: I don't think I'll get over my ex until....?Okay, It was 9 months ago when I asked her out and I even know the exact date I asked her out and exact date I asked her to grade 8 grad. I'm in grade 9 now. We broke up a month later and didnt end up going to grad together and my heart is still broken. I can't go on like this. I still think about it and to be honest I think I have found the problem. I liked her to much and I dont think it will stop until I find another girl tht I really like... But I can't wait that long... Cause this is to hard for me. And me and my ex still aren't friends at least and she broke my heart and everytime she comes up to my frends when I'm there if I say something to her in a polite way she just gives a rude answer or something. I at least wanna be friends. What should I do about that and about finding another girl that I like...? I wanna find the perfect person that I will really like and she will like me back but I just can't go on like this. What do I do? Please help thanks :D And suicide is never and option. I'm afraid of death alone. What would make me wanna do that then? Nothing. More Recent Articles |
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