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Open Question: Guys would you date a stripper? and more... Open Question: Guys would you date a stripper?i having been seeing a stripper for awhile. i guess what we have is called friends with benefits. we agreed that its all that it would ever be and we were both happy with that. we were free to see other people. the problem is its been about a year now and the other day we had an awkward moment. i think we have developed feelings for each other. this either needs to end or go forward. it would be difficult knowing what she does for a living but something needs to change. so guys would you date a stripper? Open Question: I need Legal help with dealing with my Landlord. Ongoing harassment. Emotionally exhausted.?I have lived in my 2-bedroom apt for almost 9 years now. My Landlord is a 90 year old woman who also has her daughter on the title. My apt building is located in East Los Angeles. The son of my Landlord is a drug addict and he is the said named "manager" here. Since I moved in he has been harassing me non-stop. A month does not go by without having an incident with him. The biggest blowout came on Dec. 1st 09. We had an annual County of Los Angeles inspection done here. They posted a Notice stating they would need to have access to all apt's on a certain date. Well, that date came and I called in to work that I would be late due to having to wait for this Inspector. He came assessed all the problems the apartment had, which was very very many. The landlord's son then got a Notice in the mail just about 2-weeks ago stating he has to perform repairs in this apt along with others here in this building. When I arrived home on the said day of the letter, he ran out as I was pulling into my parking and began screaming at me. He said "Why did you F__ken let that damn inspector in. It's all your F__ken fault now I have to do a bunch of damn repairs to this place." His last words were "You're F__ken stupid you should know what happens to snitches." He continued on and as of saturday, it's gotten to where I had to go to the Police station due to his harassment and the fear I feel for my safety now... they would not help me. They said he has to actually say "I'm going to kill you" or any direct threat. I am emotionally exhausted and paying cheap rent doesn't even matter anymore. I need to get out but I want to know if there's any Legal option for my 9 years of continued harassment. Any info would be greatly appreciated. Open Question: Please comment im so confused?I'm going to try and make this as short as i possibly can here it goes... A guy im friendly with and have had history with says he was mad about me. One night out he got his friend to come over and suss it out but i was really drunk and said i'm crazy about this other guy and also i thought he looked abit old for me?(he's 27 and i'm 20) and also may i add i don't really remember this happening that night. A couple of months after that night(last xmas) I ended up talking to him when we were out now he knew who i was but i didn't know who he was a couple of weeks passed we seen each other out and exchanged numbers ETC.....Then things just fizzled out.I was quite annoyed cause i actually really liked him we got on great, but what can you do? So another couple of months passed (this was starting of summer) we were out and he came over and talked to me i was delighted and then he text me when i got home. Again we saw each other out few weeks after this and he suggested we should go see a movie the next night i said yeah that would be great but something really important came up so i had to cancel(family function) but we did end up going out afew weeks later for a drive ect it went really we talked for hours and he texted me after that and stuff and asked when i wasn't working and stuff? but heard nothing after a while. I was devestated, but he did say that the age gap was a problem for him and after awhile i totally accepted and respected that. But a month or so i found out he actually just start going out with a girl who was 18 i felt so insulted cause he claimed that was the only problem why myself and him wouldnt work, but then again I soon picked myself up. They broke up i saw him out and we were chatting away everything was cool ended up going back to his we just kissed. I didn't bother getting in contact with him and he didn't either. Just the other night we were at the same gig in a pub he asked me did i want to get a taxi home with him and his friends i said no but then ended up going outside and he was there. we all chatted for ages so ended up gettin a taxi with him we went back to his house just had tea and chatted for ages. I had to collect tickets from where he works for that gig on before the friday it was abit awkward but i didn't think too much into it. He said o"oh when i heard u would be collecting them i couldn't wait" and that he felt i was abit off with him..he was talking about dates he's been on and i think a guy he's acquaintance with is really good looking he said he'll try sort something out and then he was like ah i'll walk u home i think this was cause he thought i don't like him anymore? When we were outside my house he did try and kiss me but i could only kiss him on the lips cause of all the past i just don't want to be hurt again, but my heads wrecked again and i don't know what to think anymore? My sister thinks i have to have a chat with him about this so i can have complete closure if theres nothing there or if anything is there let it happen. Open Question: How do I know if she has a drinking problem or not?My father was an alcoholic. I would call myself a social drinker. I do not drink every day, I hardly ever drink alone, I have one or two drinks and I limit my drinking if I have to drive anywhere because I do not want to lose my license on a DUI charge. I started seeing this woman about a month ago. When she goes out with friends she likes to have a few drinks. She also plans with the group to have a designated driver. If she goes out with her girl friend, the two of them decide who will be driving and then the driver drinks less. I am not sure what goes on when she goes out with more than one friend to party. She doesn't like beer and wine, the lighter stuff, and prefers cocktails with mixed drinks with rum, vodka, tequila, or other sweet tasting alcohol or stuff that does not have much of a bite. As I am getting to know her, disturbing things are rising to the surface. She likes to go out with friends and party all night. Sometimes she will not get home until early morning and goes out to breakfast at 5 and 6 in the morning to cap off a late night of partying. She goes to clubs where there is dancing, even when she was living with a boyfriend, and says that she just dances with her girlfriends. She wants to continue to have the freedom to go out with friends and go to bars and clubs where single people are. I think she has gone out a few times while we have been dating. She starts off at a company party which she says I would find boring because those are her co workers. Then she goes off with one of the co workers, or a small group, after the company party is over and they go to a bar or night club. Sometimes they go to several bars and night clubs and stay out all night. When I asked her about how many drinks she has when she goes out on these adventures, she says " I really don't know. I buy a drink. My friends buy me drinks. It's a night out. I don't do the math when I am having a good time." She also told me about a time right before we started dating where all she remembers was a guy bought her a drink and the rest of the night she cannot remember. When we discussed it, we are both convinced that this guy may have given her a roofie. Luckily she was with one of her bar hopping female friends. Not sure who drove home that night. This is a woman that I have now been intimate with. We have agreed to date exclusively. She sees no problem in continuing to go out to bars and clubs with her girlfriends for girls night out. She said that her married sister, a mother of two small children, sometimes joins in the all night partying and her husband babysits the kids when she goes out. Do you think I have right to be concerned about my girlfriend's behavior? I am going to a party with her on Saturday to meet one of the groups of friends she parties with. It will be a chance for me to meet people who know her and also for me to observe her behavior in a group. So far, over the past month, we have only seen each other for one on one dates and some of those have wound up with me staying the night at her place. I think I may be falling in love with this woman but the partying and the all nighters concern me. Should I be concerned? Open Question: Problem with Boyfriend and his Friends...?So I just started dating this guy. He's really nice and we like each other a lot, however, he has an extremly tight group of friends, other guys and lots of others girls. Whenever I hang out with them I always feel like an outsider. My guy insists they like me m but I just don't feel it. How can I get into his group without feeling like a third wheel? Open Question: Is my good friend allowed to hit on my ex?So, i dated this girl for 3 years, from when i was 17 to 20, im 21 now. We broke up maybe around 7 months ago. Now this friend is a really good friend, known him for like 10 years, and talk to him almost every day. Now i have no feelings for my ex, and she can date who ever she wants i dont care, my problem is she's been telling me recently he's hitting on her constantly and talking like he wants to hook up or something. Now my issue is, that he's hitting on her without even telling me, being sneaky about it, i dont know , know what i mean? Let me hear some insight :) Am i just being jealous? (like i said, i dont care about her anymore, just i dont think he should be doing it, especially behind my back) Or am i right to be mad for him doing this behind my back, or should i confront him? He broke up with his girl who he was dating for 3 years maybe around the same time, he was emotionally broken and i was the one there to take care of him and keep him company. So let me hear what you think. added: he hasn't done anything with her, just hits and flirts, i know she isnt lying because she actualy posted his msn convos with her. yes maybe she might be trying to make me jealous, but shes posting what he's saying, and i totally am not ok with his conversations and totally feel like he's stabbing me in the back, i'll probably confront, thanks guys. Open Question: What did he mean when he said things could get complicated?I've rekindled a friendship with an old friend who is also now divorced. He has pursued me much more than I him, however I've noticed that when I do make a move forward, he pulls back. Like most men, he has no problem getting somewhat suggestive over the phone, text, email, but I recently saw him in person - first time in ages. I feel very certain there was physical attraction, but we're both still working through crazy situations with our ex's, so we had no physical contact, none. Well, I held his arm as we walked down the street and he kissed my forehead at one point, other than that no contact. The next day, I sent him a thank you email and I mentioned that I appreciated him being such a gentleman. He wrote back that he's not always a gentleman, he just knows when things can get complicated. What does that mean? At NO point have I appeared to be head over heels for this guy. I've made enough comments that he knows I think he's handsome and I enjoy his mind, etc. Never have I appeared like I could complicate something... At least, I don't think so. So did he mean that if the evening would have went on he may have not wanted to be such a gentleman?? Or did he mean that if something did happen, I would complicate things? Dear god...this dating after 15 years of marriage is awful! I don't know how men think! I just know they usually are trying to get some action and this guy didn't. That's great, I mean, he respects me, but I looked great (not to sound surface), and other guys were hitting on me each time he went to the bathroom. He even commented on that he can't leave my side for a second. Our connection is more than surface, obviously or we wouldn't have lasted on communication only for the last 6 months. We had a wonderful evening, and yes, I'm glad neither of us have something to regret, but now he's being distant. We were texting and emailing frequently. Now that I'm back, I sense things are different, so I asked along with a couple of other things that I sensed. Here's what he said: LOL :). Ok, Ok, I'm being overly sensitive. You hit alot of things on the head. Look, simple fact is that I'm perhaps too concerned with other folks' situations, emotions, etc--especially if it is a friend, family, etc. So if I have any doubt about anything (either on my side or theirs), I suppose I simply back away. Simple as that :) What does that mean??????????? 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