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Open Question: Help, Serious girl problems like 3 different girls problem is they all go to my school, and if i date 1 i...? and more... Open Question: Help, Serious girl problems like 3 different girls problem is they all go to my school, and if i date 1 i...?like basically loose everything with the other 2. Its like first when i started school i liked Girl 1 lets forget about names for the moment we talked alot and stuff on the phone and all that so we werent going out hadnt kissed or anything but were like pretty serious im 16 btw. Then we went on holiday and kinda lost the connection a bit still talk but not as much. Then theres Girl 2 in the same class as Girl 1, there both pretty but was only really intrested in Girl 1 until i started talking to girl 2 not i like her alot shes a really person love her smile and stuff. She just kinda makes me happy when i see her but again like girl 1 pretty serious like talking on the phone all night and stuff. But not at the stage of kissing and dating. Then theres Girl 3 now i really like her because shes really pretty got a good personality 2 shes in my other class and only really started to properly talk to her after a couple weeks but we talk alot now and like hug and link arms and stuff but still not at the stage of dating. But the problem is all 3 go to my school i wouldnt date all 3 eventhough i like them for different reasons because thats unfair to them and it wouldnt even be possible because they all go to my school. I really like Girl 2 because shes got a nice smile good personality pretty face and stuff. Girl 3 has got the prettiest face and is more like outgoing which is why i like her. And Girl 1 has like the nicest body ever and the cutest dimples and were kindah like not off eachother but haven't talked as much but we still talk alot. The problem is i like all 3 cant choose because i like them for all different reasons date 1 and the other 2 stop talking to me for obvious reasons dont date them at all and all of them stop talking to me because imagine if your like nearly dating someone and they just stop talking to you? So what do i do help please Open Question: Does this qualify as being 'easy'?Okay, so I'm a sophomore in high school, and my group of friends is seven people. Two of the guys have just started dating two of the girls (I'll call them Sarah and Nicole)- these two girls are two of my best friends. Another one of my good friends (I'll call her Emily) is just dating a guy from another school. The other two members of our little group have been very busy as of late, since they're members of the school play, which opens Friday. This effectively leaves me alienated- two couples, one pining best friend, and two busy thespians. So lately I've been hanging out a lot lately with a very sweet junior guy who's been my friend for a while; he also happens to be the guy I like. He is a nice escape from the lovey couples, stressed and never-present thespians, and pining Emily, and he and his friends are fun to hang out with. This also helps me get away from Nicole, who tends to unload her relationship stress by talking it out on her friends as if we're supposed to solve her problems for her. That's really hard for me; firstly, I'm kind of jealous about how happy she is with her boyfriend. Secondly, she's totally taking the whole relationship for granted. So it's really hard for me to listen to her talk and talk about how annoying it is when her boyfriend messes with her hair, when I really want to shake her and tell her to be grateful that she has a boyfriend. Sometimes, I just need a break, and I have someone else to hang out with. Well, today after school I was hanging out with aforementioned junior, when Emily and Nicole approached me and dragged me off. They started talking about why did I suddenly not want to hang out with them. They refused to listen to my explanation, then said that I was making myself look easy by hanging around the junior.* Me: O_o lolwut? Tl;dr: If my friends are making me feel left out, am I being easy if I just hang out with guys? Or are they being possessive? *Seriously, this isn't kindergarten. Guys and girls can have platonic relationships, especially tomboys like myself. I'm not even flipping flirting with him. Open Question: Ladies, do you shake hands or hug your bf/husband's father?When you see the father of your husband/boyfriend, do you shake his hand (more "proper" greeting), or do you give him a hug (more "friendly" greeting)? I've been dating my guy (we're both 19) for nearly 3 years, and his father always gives me a handshake (then always mentions that "a proper woman should give a firm handshake" (even though I do)). And he insists I call him "sir," or when he's feeling friendly "Mr. Johnson." Not that I have a problem with either. Just seems when Ive seen friends greet the father of their boyfriend/husband, it's been more friendly ( a hug, a pat on the back, a high five), and they called them by their first name. What do you do? Open Question: I need some advice: boyfriend trouble?I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 23. I've liked this guy for years, sense I was like 14 and we've only been dating for the last 15 months and we're really in love. I was pregnant in the spring but lost it at 9 weeks, we haven't tried again for obvious reasons but I also think he has fertility problems. But he's 23 years old and works 6 hours a week and I'm working on getting a 2nd job to get 40 in today's economy. I really stress myself out. He doesn't want to seem to do anything even though he tells me he loves me all the time. He's trying to join the army but doesn't seem to be trying hard enough. All my life i've had to work really hard to get what I want and up until his mom died a couple of years ago he's had everything basically handed to him. And I admit i'm guilty of basically "babying him". How do I go about any of this? I live with my grandparents and he lives with his sister because neither of us have any money but to me he doesn't seem to want to help to get us out of here. I feel like I've said everything I could to him to motivate him. I think a lot of it is depression, sense his mom died, and then it got worse when we lost our baby in the spring. He doesn't have health coverage to get tested or get medication. Any advice? Open Question: Poll: why does society look down on bad boys?I like bad boys hell that's the only type of boys I'll date. I'm not a bad girl though, (well not in school anyway) I get good grades, do my work, listen ect. But I have major problems at home. guess I can't have it both ways. Back to my question so what if they get in trouble a few times they are human just like the rest of us. They have feelings as does every living thing, they're just misunderstood do you agree? Why or why not? Thanks. um actually the guy I like does NOT treat people like crap hell if you didn't know his rep you wouldn't even think he gets in trouble as much as he does. Open Question: How can i man up and just make a Fuc*king move?Ok so whenever im one a date with a girl or even my first GF (now over) i can never seam to make any big moves as in kissing just the arm round the shoulder/waist? and even when i do somehow get to the kiss i get really nervous and don't try to make-out or anything just the short peck. so how do i just man up and go for it already? and im not gana try to rush her cause that's also part of my problem, IDK when she'd be ready? The reasodon't think i dont are becaunervousmple nervouse and never know when a girl wants me to? Open Question: Why am i having crazy mood swings?So i have been dating this guy for about a year now, and i had started taking lo estrin 24 around june and i started having really bad mood swings. where i would be cussing him and everyone in my house out for no reason. and i got off of that. and am still having mood swings. like i get SO angry over a little thing and i feel like breaking every dish in my house, or breaking a window. i have no idea what is wrong with me, but i feel like there is definitely something wrong because i have never been like this. btw im 18, having sex... and i just got on birth control again and im still having the same problem. see and i am so scared that my bf will end it with me. but luckily he is a good guy and is sticking through it with me! Open Question: gay guy problem please help?1st i came out as gay but i love girls to all my friends when i was drunk and they were drunk so i think they misinterpreted me and after thinking that i was gay for so many years when i was in denial i have to come out again and they might think i'm straight considering how i acted that night. i;m not bi because i like being gay so don't pull that although i somewhat consider myself bi the gay feelings are stronger sexually speaking. 2nd i have a straight crush and i can barely look the girl in the eyes because it makes me sad and i try to hide it and shes going out with a friend of mine, it's a really big crush too because my knees get weak when she walks in the room. she's going to go out with my guy friend who i also have a crush on so it's really depressing. i just want to get over it. 3rd i'm interested in this other girl who's playing hard to get the thing is i want to tell her i'm gay but still date her as well, i'm still 18 so i figured enjoy my hormones while i have them. yes i'm gay by the way there's no denying it without there being a struggle so don't try it. any suggestions? 1st i came out as gay but i love girls to all my friends when i was drunk and they were drunk so i think they misinterpreted me and after thinking that i was gay for so many years when i was in denial i have to come out again and they might think i'm straight considering how i acted that night. i;m not bi because i like being gay so don't pull that although i somewhat consider myself bi the gay feelings are stronger sexually speaking. 2nd i have a straight crush and i can barely look the girl in the eyes because it makes me sad and i try to hide it and shes going out with a friend of mine, it's a really big crush too because my knees get weak when she walks in the room. she's going to go out with my guy friend who i also have a crush on so it's really depressing. i just want to get over it. 3rd i'm interested in this other girl who's playing hard to get the thing is i want to tell her i'm gay but still date her as well, i'm still 18 so i figured enjoy my hormones while i have them. Open Question: What would you do if you sister-in-law was like this?My husband and I have a little bit of a patchy history, intertwined somewhat with another girl he was dating (he dated both of us on and off AND even better her and I got along when we did eventually meet each other). They dated off and on for way longer than we did. Either way, we were all so immature at the time. My husband and I got married and she is getting married to someone else, and we don't have a problem with each other. My sister-in-law (husband's brothers' wife) who I believe (they both are) very miserable in their marriage has always tried to pull me aside and talk bad about the other girl AND bring up things I just don't need to know about their history. I have asked her to stop. (She also likes to compete with me for the better daughter-in-law/aunt etc., and I don't even care, so it is pathetic.) She is also obsessed with his family and being a part of it (I sometimes wonder if she just married his brother for the family because they all grew up in the same town, I did not). I have been friendly with the ex-girlfriend as of recent because we have mutual friends (and she found out about it), and she is now telling his family that she misses her, and her and I don't connect (because she is a huge LOSER and I have nothing in common with her). She has been telling his family that she wishes they were still together...when she told me that it was a horrible relationship and she was soo happy we were together (we have a child together btw, and have been married three years). This was told to me kind of in secrecy, and my sister-in-law is totally the opposite to my face and is always wanting to hang out and talk. Is this pointless to even do anything or should I beat her up? Kidding of course, but should i just let it go? It really makes me mad! The wanting to talk about the ex has been going on for over three years...so I have said things to him, he has said things to them (I look like the jerk), I said things to her directly, now I am "forcing them to walk on eggshells around me" haha...if the ex even knew what she said she would be appalled, it is all really mean stuff...my husband would say something again, but ultimately it just makes me look stupid... Open Question: Plz help, dating problem?So I was walking on the beach, and and I found a turtle shell. So I grabbed the turtle shell and walked back to the house. My girlfriend was sitting on a couch watching MTV. I put a piece of cardboard on the turtle shell. As I preparing the turtle shell to give her. The house blew up. I then reached for my crotch to see if it was there. Yes it was. It turns out the turtle shell protected my nuts. My girlfriend was OK. By the way I wrote this all using speech recognition. Yay! Open Question: How do I let go of him for good?So I just met this guy a while ago and I swear it was love at first sight, well for me at least. And we "talked" for a while and hugn out a few times and really got to know each other quite well. I always just thought he had to be the one. But two months ago, he got a girlfriend. And I know her quite well. She's not really attractive, she fools around with other guys, and she is unfaithful to him. He doesn't know she does any of this and no one wants to tell him. The problem is, he was my first love and we never even really dated and I feel like I've lost everything. Not a day passes by that I don't think about him and wonder if he thinks about me at all. We have so much in common, so much chemisry, everyone says we'd be perfect for each other but he really just doesn't like me when it comes down to it. I think he sees us as friends and nothing more. Which breaks me apart. I really want to let go and move on because I know I can't make him like me. But everytime I try, he just pops up in my mind and wont go away. I would tell him how I feel but since he's dating another girl that would just be plain weird. So what do I do? I'm so lost! Open Question: Friends with benefits and such?So I've gotten myself into a friends with benefits situation with my ex. When discussing what to do he made it clear he'd just prefer not to date. I made it clear that i wasn't doing stuff with out knowing i wasn't just a girl to sleep with. We settled it by continuing to be friends with benefits and figuring it out later when we have to make a decision. The problem is, we don't act just like friends with benefits. We still say stuff to each other and hand hold and all that stuff that recommended not to do in a FWB relationship. He acts like we're still dating, minus our titles. Will this pose to be problematic? Like i said, we both know we either need to get back together or call it off later on. Open Question: How can I reclaim my social status?After I broke up with my boyfriend of two years, i lost a ton of friends. One of the friends I dont want to loose is my 6th grade bestfriend who started dating my boyfriend's bestfriend after our first anniversery. She still has all my old friends and I feel uncomfortable around her because they proboly talk abouut how much they hate me and stuff like that... at school im not the same and people just dont seem to gravitate toward me like they did. Its like my whole social status became dependant on my boyfriend, and when he left i was down to zero. I never had a problem like this before. Ive always been socially okay. I'm confused and I juts want my friend back and my social status back. How can i get my life back? Open Question: I know it's against the 'Rules', but should I txt him..?We were supposed to meet up at the weekend but we didn't as he said he has a cold.. I used to txt him every day to see how is he and he would reply.. I didn't txt him today..he didn't txt me either..so I'm thinking why should I care?? Clearly he doesn't care about me!! Should I wait for him to contact me or should I txt asking if he's feeling any better?!? One more thing..he is gna pay when my car get serviced which makes it more difficult cus then I MUST be nice to him and should brop have to txt him... The problem is that I think he is avoiding me for some reason and want to give him space ;(( I really don't know what I should do...we've been dating for over a month.. Open Question: Relationship advice. Help.?Ok im a freshmen in high school and I need some help. At the begging of school year I met this girl who was in love with this other guy. They had been dating for two years. Well about 6 weeks into the school year (or middle september) they broke up. Then she started to like....idk....flirt with me a lot and get all touchy and smile alot when I was around her. So yea she pretty much liked me or had a crush on me. I never really liked her at first, and she started to see that I didn't. So now about 4 weeks ago she stopped talking with me like she used to and doesn't really pay much attention to me, as if she hates me. Well guess what? Now I like her, and I cant stop thinking about her........So my problem is that I don't think she likes me anymore....like ive seen her flirt and talk with this other guy. How can I get her to like....idk....like me back AGAIN, so that maybe I could hook up with her and/or date her... Please Help meh! Open Question: Sims 3 won't install EA Store [free] custom content, or freeware custom content either. Help?It worked about a month ago, the last time I played (i've been travelling and I'm also a photographer, so between the two I've not had the time to nurse my obsession). The first issue I had was that the newest patch refused to install, I kept getting an error. Assuming one of my .packages or mods was the culprit, I backed it all up seperate from the game and did a complete uninstall of the Sims before reinstalling. I got the patch to work after that and so added back my mods. New Problem. It won't allow me to add any new content, not even from the EA Store. I double click the content in the Store, it brings up the Game Launcher and the item is listed, but the little window that pops up in front of it never finishes loading, and so it never actually installs, just sits in the launcher. WTF. I tried a complete wipe of the sims 3 from my laptop and installed it without adding ANY mods or anything, so it's completely out of the box + EA issued patches are up to date. Still won't let me download custom content. Please help. I'm a CC junkie and I love my mods. I'm running Windows Vista on a dinky Gateway laptop, fyi. Open Question: Is it ok for a 14 year old to be in love with a 19 year old?So i am 14 years old and i have known this guy (who is 19) for my whole life. I have slowly fallin in love with him. We would sneak (because if my parents caught me i would be dead!) and go bowling together (we both love to bowl). But then my parents found out and made me stop talking to him. That was the hardest thing i could ever hear. All my friends say we had (have) chemistry, and i thought we did to. But the problem is we cant date because of our age. Is it ok for me to still be in love with him? And lets say he was in love with me to.. What would you suggest me doing about that..? Thanks for your help. I need it. =] Open Question: Would a white girls parents care if she dated a mexican guy?well im going to school right now but im almost graduating. i will be on the lookout for a spouse. A white girl though with blonde hair and colored eyes. The reason is because im highly attracted to them and not that much to mexican girls. i am 20 yrs young and from mexican decent just born here in CA. do you think a typical girls parents would mind? or will they dislike me and be unhappy for a while? thanks i dont want to start any problems Open Question: Would you girls date a guy with a speech problem?If the guy had a good personality would you still date him? Not like sssssstuttter, but it takes awhile for him to get the words out. Open Question: could this be a good thing?me and my ex broke up in may. we broke up because he was starting to develop a drug problem, and since then he's gotten himself into some trouble. despite everything that's happened, i still love him as much as i did when we were together. today i was walking and he comes up to my all excited and tells me he quit smoking weed. he then starts to tell me how he thinks he should "make some new friends". that's exactly what he said to me a year and a half ago right before we started hanging out a lot and then dating. i don't want to get too excited, but does this sound like it might mean he wants to be better friends again? More Recent Articles |
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