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Friday, December 11, 2009

Open Question: Help...I don't know what to do...? and more...

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Open Question: Help...I don't know what to do...? and more...

Open Question: Help...I don't know what to do...?

So, I was wandering around school...(few weeks back) and this group of people invited my to set with them..so I did...LONG STORY SHORT I dated one of them We broke up I still set at the table Okay, here's the problem...I have this guy friend that sits at the table with me (He sat there BEFORE me and the other guy went out...I DON'T LIKE HIM!) Someone at the table asked if we go out...Does this mean I shouldn't sit there anymore?...I mean, my ex still hangs out with me A LOT acutely...

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Open Question: WoW - Problems - Unable to validate game version!?

Can anyone help me with the way forward on this please? ... 2 weeks now and always getting logged off in the middle of combat normally. =[ ... has anyone experienced this and how did you put it right? ... Im in the middle of doing a thorough scan for viruses and it happens when i log onto a friends computer, which is totally virus free and it doesnt happen to him when he is playing ... im thinking its more of a game issue than a computer one, simply because his is a gaming comp and totally up to date! ... And part of the message that comes up is 'Unable to validate game version' ... Ive deleted wtf files and cache and dont have any add ons atm, Ive also done a few repairs and reloaded it three times now =[ ...Thanks xD

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Open Question: Am I a sick person and a terrible fiancee? I am so confused.?

my fiance lives in a different state, i love him. i really do. he comes to visit every other week, he's busy with work and me with school. we've known each other for 7 years now (neighbors, friends, dating, breaking up...etc) when we were both in our home country. but we got seriouse (and got engaged this past valentine day). he loves me too, i know that. but we never did it, we're both waiting till we get married, he respects that and never pressured me. three months ago, another man kissed me-- a friend and a coworker. i liked him so much but didn't expect that from him. secretly i think i liked that he kissed me, but it was forced so i cut him from my life and ended our friendship for good. my fiance doesn't know anything. i don't know what or why, but i can NOT tolerate my fiance touching me or anything. when my coworker kissed me (he actually wanted to do more but i had to slap him and actually run out of the office panicking).. i don't know what's wrong actually i am just trying to think of reasons why i can't stand my fiance touch me now. i didn't have this problem before. yesterday he came over and he asked me why i keep turning my head every time he tries to kiss me. i said i was too busy and concerned about finals, but honeslty i just did not want him to kiss me. at all. what the hell is my problem??

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Open Question: Should I ask him? Awkward?

In short, there is this guy I have fallen for, we've always been on "good" terms (occasionally talking). Anyways, last class he started flirting with me quite intensely, and we've talked some more. He's very nice, and seems interested.... (looks? personality? dating? I don't know!) The only problem is that he may act this way around many girls, because he's one of the popular boys at our high school. He enjoys partying, etc. Even so, due to my personality/hobbies, guys generally get the message that I'm not an easy catch, and that I won't just do hook-ups... Could he be a player? However, I'm in my last year in high school, so why not try something slightly risqué, and stir up a little drama? I was wondering- would it be awkward to ask him to hang out during winter break? Should I take initiative? Then, I was thinking of getting his opinion on relationships- maybe he isn't interested in one... Does this seem too straighforward on my part? Haha, I've always been known for assertiveness...

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Open Question: Well...This it awkward...?

So, I was wandering around school...(few weeks back) and this group of people invited my to set with them..so I did...LONG STORY SHORT I dated one of them We broke up I still set at the table Okay, here's the problem...I have this guy friend that sits at the table with me (He sat there BEFORE me and the other guy went out...I DON'T LIKE HIM!) Someone at the table asked if we go out...Does this mean I shouldn't sit there anymore?...I mean, my ex still hangs out with me A LOT acutely...

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Open Question: In Love with someone but when's its enough to say goodbye??? Please help?

Im in love with his guy n hes perfect in every way n i dont wanna be with anyone esle but him. My problem is this ive known him for 2 years now n we are great friends n i no relationships start out as friends but hes always giving me mixed emotions n seems like hes holding something back from y we arent dating. he always tells me im different from every1 esle n in my heart i believe that he just dont wanna hurt me cause we all no where relationships lead to. i brought up about the future n i told him how do u no we will still talk n see each other once im moved out n everyhing, he goes y would that change? i told him i will be movin on starting my life n everything he gets all defensive like pretty hes acting like ill be in his life for a life time n maybe i will be but whats he waiting on? This is my thing how long do u hold on to someone that u love? seems like im pushing everyother guy away cause i only want him but i cant keep playin the waiting game those. I no some say walk away n see what he does next but thats hard "/ please give me advice

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Open Question: I am dating a man from Brazil, and am having major difficulty helping him learn english. I need help?

I'm rewriting a previous question, I don't think it was detailed enough. My boyfriend has been in America for over 3 years, yet it is nearly impossible for us to communicate. He knows very few words and phrases, and most of the ones he does know are terribly incorrect. I try to correct him when he is wrong, but after I correct it he goes back to using the incorrect words and pronounciations. He has extreme difficulty with the American accent, pronounciation is very difficult for him. I have tried a few different things to try and help him learn: online translators, flash cards, repetition, and trying to learn more of his language (portuguese). He understands spanish, so he primarily watches spanish TV, he works and surrounds himself with people who only speak portuguese. I'm embarrassedd to have him meet my family or friends because he cannot understand or communicate. Every day is like a neverending game of sharades. His most often response to me is cocking his head and saying "huh?" and that is getting more and more frustrating, and lately I even get a little angry because I don't understand why he cannot understand things that I have been saying and explaining to him since we started dating 4 months ago. I know that is the wrong thing to do, because I don't want him to feel bad and embarassed when he attempts english. I feel like I am failing, like I'm not being a good teacher because I have started responding to his broken english isntead of trying to correct it reapeatedly. I have all but given up. Rosetta Stone is hundreds of dollars, and I don't have money to spend on this problem unfortunately, or I would have sent him to classes by now. I honestly feel like he has made little effort to really learn english, but I have explained to him how important it is to learn english if he wants to live here and date American girls. Communication is THE most important part of a relationship, and we have very little, so a relationship cannot thrive without communication. I knew this from the beginning but I honestly thought this would be alot easier. I want to be fair and patient but ... I am losing my patience quicker and quicker. Thank you in advance for and suggestions!

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