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Open Question: HELPPPP! RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS!! 10 POINTS!!!!!!? and more...

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Open Question: HELPPPP! RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS!! 10 POINTS!!!!!!? and more...

Open Question: HELPPPP! RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS!! 10 POINTS!!!!!!?

Ok well i have been dating this guy for awhile... we keep going on and off and we are talking right now. Well the most recent time i broke up with him 3 other guys came into the picture... one of them is my my ex, one i like in 4th through 6th grade, and the other moved here in 6th grade but i just got to know him. (oh by the way i'm in 8th). The one i liked in 4th grade is out of the picture cause i don't like him at the moment. The one who just moved here i'm pretty sure is talking with one of my friends. He still likes me though... and I don't really want to date my ex until high school. Well i really like the guy who just moved here and I know i could steel him away from my friend but i would feel absolutely horrible if I did. But she wouldn't really care. The guy i'm talking with at the moment is really nice but i have no idea why I like him. He isn't smokin hot but he is cute and he has the most amazing body and i think that is the only reason i keep going out with him. I want to end things for good and stop liking him but I don't know how. I also really want to date the guy who just moved here... please help me!

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Open Question: How to move on from someone you care about?

I have been seeing this guy for a little while. we instantly clicked. well we began seeing each other, and texting and what not. well things started to progress. we weren't dating just had a very strong connection. he told me he loved me and cared about me and wanted to be with me. well everybody who knows him is like listen you need to leave him alone, he isnt good for you. you will end up heart broken. bc since me and him have started alking i have put up with baby mama drama and other girls. i told him that shit didnt bother me. but because im younger he doesnt want me involved in that stuff. well day before yesterday he was supposed to be "breaking things off" with me but kept saying he loved me and he wants to be with me so bad, and we cant be together bc i am a little bit younger. but as soon as i feel like i could move on from him he pulls me right back in by telling me he loves me and misses me and wants to be with me. his family says he wont straight up tell me to break it off bc of his ego. so im getting mixed signals. hes telling me he loves me but his family is saying leave alone....but i can't just leave him alone and i can't just drop him i do care about him so much. but if he completely broke shit off with me and wouldnt tell me hr loved me at the same time everything would be okay. but he wont do it and thats the only i know i can drop him. but i do care for him and want to be with him, he knows im a good girl who wouldnt play his heart. but my effin age messes thigns up. someone please telll me what to do. how can i get him to see that he needs to be with me and NOBODY else. or how do i get him to straight up say he wants to end things......please help because i love that boy and dont know what to do???????? and please no rude comments. and thank you so much to anybody who can help me with this problem

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Open Question: I would like an opinion from a third party objective?

Alright I am in a little bit of a dilemma and I would like the opinions of people who do not know me or anyone involved in this problem I was dating a guy and we broke up back in August. Now he WILL NOT leave me alone. I have ignored his calls but he is obsessed and I have NO IDEA why. And I would also like to add that he is here illegally from Germany. He is a good kid, his mom has a green card because she married an American citizen so he is in college right now (no he does not have a green card and he is not in the process because she got married after he turned 18). He isn't your sterotypical illegal immigrant. So here is my question. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! He won't leave me alone and I don't want to report him to the police because then he could get deported. I am just out of options and I don't know what to do anymore so please anyone who knows about this please help! Do I think for myself and report him and chance him getting deported or do I just let him keep on calling me constantly? Thanks in advance!

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Open Question: How does an ex-man go about attracting women to him?

So traditionally women attract men to them and act as the selectors. For various reasons, I am not OK with this system. I find its rule to be silly and outdated. I don't care if some person I don't know rejects me, but at the same time I don't ask women out because it puts me in a position to constantly be moving the relationship. I'm not comfortable in the driver's seat of a relationship in that manner. I only want the woman that has shown some level of interest in me. I'm really not willing to do so under any circumstances or to ask women out. Like most women won't ask ex-men out under any circumstances. Why should it be seen as anymore lazy, cowardly or "not confident" for an ex-man to have that exact same attitude? I figured hopefully that you feminists would agree with me and see that this is very clearly a societal gender role at work. But it seems that is not the case. It's occurred to me that my beliefs are not the problem. I'm what's wrong and the problem is me, but I can change my fate by changing myself. Sure it would probably be easier for me to go ask out a bunch of random women and deal with the dating process that way. Or join some dating site, but that's the easy way out. I could really care less about sex in general, and I'm waiting until I am married or in a committed relationship. What do I have to do to become the kind of ex-man that a woman will go out of her way to pursue (and I don't mean just for sex)? I will do whatever it takes to become that ex-man.

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Open Question: How to break the routine in relationships?

well im 26 and my man is 28 .. we knew each other for almost 2 months .. we talked and open all the public topic that any one can open , such as our past , interest , work , traveling, education, family ...etc even about our Futur , such as where to live and number of children only :( we never go beyond the limits of talking about sexual stuff .. i addition to that we are not yet dating .. we only meet after work cause he walks with me to the car park and we had our late lunch together 3 times... the problem is we are a bit SILENT cause we don't want to go to sexual topics although its killing me and i know how is it with him .. the only raised topic is i want you , i miss you and i really need you , im lonely without you but he never says i love you .. Help me how to break the routine please ...

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Open Question: would call of duty 4 work on my computer. these are some info abot my system.?

System Information ------------------ Time of this report: 12/19/2009, 07:28:39 Machine name: ITEVH-EF1924802 Operating System: Windows XP Professional (5.1, Build 2600) Service Pack 2 (2600.xpsp_sp2_rtm.040803-2158) Language: English (Regional Setting: English) System Manufacturer: Hewlett-Packard System Model: HP Compaq dx2390 Microtower BIOS: Phoenix - AwardBIOS v6.00PG Processor: Intel(R) Pentium(R) Dual CPU E2200 @ 2.20GHz (2 CPUs) Memory: 2038MB RAM Page File: 507MB used, 2900MB available Windows Dir: C:\WINDOWS DirectX Version: DirectX 9.0c (4.09.0000.0904) DX Setup Parameters: Not found DxDiag Version: 5.03.2600.2180 32bit Unicode ------------ DxDiag Notes ------------ DirectX Files Tab: No problems found. Display Tab 1: No problems found. DirectDraw test results: All tests were successful. Direct3D 7 test results: All tests were successful. Direct3D 8 test results: All tests were successful. Direct3D 9 test results: All tests were successful. Sound Tab 1: DirectSound test results: All tests were successful. Music Tab: DirectMusic test results: All tests were successful. Input Tab: No problems found. Network Tab: No problems found. DirectPlay test results: All tests were successful. -------------------- DirectX Debug Levels -------------------- Direct3D: 0/4 (n/a) DirectDraw: 0/4 (retail) DirectInput: 0/5 (n/a) DirectMusic: 0/5 (n/a) DirectPlay: 0/9 (retail) DirectSound: 0/5 (retail) DirectShow: 0/6 (retail) --------------- Display Devices --------------- Card name: Intel(R) G33/G31 Express Chipset Family Manufacturer: Intel Corporation Chip type: Intel(R) GMA 3100 DAC type: Internal Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_8086&DEV_29C2&SUBSYS_2A78103C&REV_10 Display Memory: 384.0 MB Current Mode: 1440 x 900 (32 bit) (60Hz) Monitor: Plug and Play Monitor Monitor Max Res: 1600,1200 Driver Name: igxprd32.dll Driver Version: 6.14.0010.4926 (English) DDI Version: 9 (or higher) Driver Attributes: Final Retail Driver Date/Size: 2/15/2008 13:12:06, 57344 bytes WHQL Logo'd: Yes WHQL Date Stamp: n/a VDD: n/a Mini VDD: igxpmp32.sys Mini VDD Date: 2/15/2008 13:12:06, 5854752 bytes Device Identifier: {D7B78E66-6A82-11CF-B260-720AB1C2CB35} Vendor ID: 0x8086 Device ID: 0x29C2 SubSys ID: 0x2A78103C Revision ID: 0x0010 Revision ID: 0x0010 Video Accel: Deinterlace Caps: n/a Registry: OK DDraw Status: Enabled D3D Status: Enabled AGP Status: Not Available DDraw Test Result: All tests were successful. D3D7 Test Result: All tests were successful. D3D8 Test Result: All tests were successful. D3D9 Test Result: All tests were successful. ------------- Sound Devices ------------- Description: Realtek HD Audio output Default Sound Playback: Yes Default Voice Playback: Yes Hardware ID: HDAUDIO\FUNC_01&VEN_10EC&DEV_0662&SUBSYS_103C2A78&REV_1001 Manufacturer ID: 1 Product ID: 100 Type: WDM Driver Name: RtkHDAud.sys Driver Version: 5.10.0000.5423 (English) Driver Attributes: Final Retail WHQL Logo'd: Yes Date and Size: 7/11/2007 08:07:15, 4424192 bytes Other Files: Driver Provider: Realtek Semiconductor Corp. HW Accel Level: Full Cap Flags: 0xF5F Min/Max Sample Rate: 8000, 192000 Static/Strm HW Mix Bufs: 33, 32 Static/Strm HW 3D Bufs: 33, 32 HW Memory: 0 Voice Management: No EAX(tm) 2.0 Listen/Src: Yes, Yes I3DL2(tm) Listen/Src: Yes, Yes Sensaura(tm) ZoomFX(tm): No Registry: OK Sound Test Result: All tests were successful.

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Open Question: My milk goes bad, but if I lower the temperature the other food freezes. What else can I do?

Ok so my milk is continuously going bad before the expiration date. So I lowered the temperature, my vegetables, cheese, tea, etc. froze. What else can I do to fix this problem? I by a 1/2 gallon organic milk.

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Open Question: How does a man go about attracting women to him?

So traditionally women attract men to them and act as the selectors. For various reasons, I am not OK with this system. I find its rule to be silly and outdated. I don't care if some person I don't know rejects me, but at the same time I don't ask women out because it puts me in a position to constantly be moving the relationship. I'm not comfortable in the driver's seat of a relationship in that manner. I only want the woman that has shown some level of interest in me. I'm really not willing to do so under any circumstances or to ask women out. Like most women won't ask men out under any circumstances. Why should it be seen as anymore lazy, cowardly or "not confident" for a man to have that exact same attitude? I figured initially that you feminists would agree with me and see that this is very clearly a societal gender role at work. But it seems that is not the case. It's occurred to me that my beliefs are not the problem. I'm what's wrong and the problem is me, but I can change my fate by changing myself. Sure it would probably be easier for me to go ask out a bunch of random women and deal with the dating process that way. Or join some dating site, but that's the easy way out. I could really care less about sex in general, and I'm waiting until I am married or in a committed relationship. What do I have to do to become the kind of man that a woman will go out of her way to pursue (and I don't mean just for sex)? I will do whatever it takes to become that man.

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Open Question: Is anyone else this jealous?

I've never been able to be happy for other people. When something goes good for one of my friends or people I know, I don't feel happy for them - it just makes me feel envious and really unhappy and upset. I'm currently too jealous to be in a relationship. The guy that I'm practically dating, just unofficial, has many female friends - all who look worse than I do, so I shouldn't be jealous, but it really bothers me. I don't like the fact that he has such close friendships with girls; I don't have any guy friends. I broke it off with my boyfriend of a year and a half who had girl 'friends' who he claimed he would never cheat on me for - let me just tell you it can and WILL most likely happen, as it did for me. Anyway, it bothers me when he even talks to them or hangs out with them. He doesn't talk to me like he does with them, and when he has a problem he refuses to open up to me about it. That's one reason right there to not date him. He wants to make it official, but I know that as long as we're not dating I wont get hurt. Help me? Is this normal?

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Open Question: Help about my date for a school dance???!?

Hey guys, So I met this guy on myspace and we both happen to live really close. we started video chatting and i finally worked up the courage to ask him to my school dance (IN FEB.) !!! hes so great and totes adorable!! the only problem.....hes only seen me from the waist up when we video chat..and he doesn't know that i have three legs :/ its a really uncommon condition and i just wish people wold get over it !! okayyy so..WHAT DO I DO WHEN HE SEES I HAVE THREE LEGS AT THE DANCE?? [i'm still a really good dancer though :) ] do you think it will scare him? or is there a way i could hide it? please help!!! <3 (and don't laugh)

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Open Question: What Am I Going To Do?

my best friend just ask me out to be his date on prom night. But the problem is my boyfriend already did that and i say yes. when i explained that to my best friend. he just walk away and the next day, he never talk to me again. he just won't even if i did...help me...

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