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Open Question: His sex drive has dropped off and kissing has stopped... whats this all mean? and more... Open Question: His sex drive has dropped off and kissing has stopped... whats this all mean?He is 30 and I am 25. We have been dating about 10 months. We just got back together about 6 months ago from a break and things were great... he wanted sex a few times a week (especially on weekends) and kissed me like he meant it. Now we haven't had sex in 7 days... he turned me down twice this week saying he is "too tired". I know he has a lot on his mind and recent money problems and is unhappy with his job and is trying to find another one... but no sex in a week and counting? He still holds me at night as I fall asleep - but never really kisses me either unless I kiss him first or its going to lead to sex. He used to kiss me a lot more. Maybe its the dreary winter season kicking in? I asked him last night whats been wrong and he said "why does something always have to be wrong? i'm just really tired babe" I also looked thru the pictures on his cell phone and he has deleted all the ones he used to have saved of me that I sent him but still has pictures of slutty naked girls his buddies send him. Am I over reacting or should I break it off? Open Question: Any other girls agree with this?I read the below quote in an article written to guys about women. I was surprised bc it perfectly describes my feelings about dating rite now. ""You may be a problem for a some women who are interested in you. Think about it this way: She has a pretty orderly life. You pose a threat to that order. You represent risk to her. You are someone who could break her heart, take up her time, and cause her to be emotionally vulnerable. So, at certain times in her life, it makes sense to NOT go out with you."" Open Question: so me and this guy were dating for 2 years and then broke up...?we were broken up for 2 1/2 months but didn't really stop talking now here is our problem...have the annerersery on the new date or the one its always been? thanks for the advice :) Open Question: My boyfriend's sex drive has dropped off and kissing has stopped. Help!?He is 30 and I am 25. We have been dating about 10 months. We just got back together about 6 months ago from a break and things were great... he wanted sex a few times a week (especially on weekends) and kissed me like he meant it. Now we haven't had sex in 7 days... he turned me down twice this week saying he is "too tired". I know he has a lot on his mind and recent money problems and is unhappy with his job and is trying to find another one... but no sex in a week and counting? He still holds me at night as I fall asleep - but never really kisses me either unless I kiss him first or its going to lead to sex. He used to kiss me a lot more. Maybe its the dreary winter season kicking in? Think I have anything to worry about? I asked him last night whats been wrong and he said "why does something always have to be wrong? i'm just really tired babe" I also looked thru the pictures on his cell phone and he has deleted all the ones he used to have saved of me that I sent him but still has pictures of slutty naked girls his buddies send him. Wtf? Open Question: Okay, I have a huge problem. *sigh* idk why im even doign this but.....here we go?about a year ago i dropped out of highschool due to me getting my ass kicked by a girls boyfriend because i touched her inappropriately. Thing is me and this girl have a history together. I would stalk her all the time which resulted in her relationship to fall apart with her bf of many years. So now she's smoking pot and dating all these gang memebers. So when i got my ass kicked for the first time i realized what a pussy i was and fell into a deep state of depression......im constantly at home and always eating.........doing nothing.....i cant even smile anymore. I've completely blocked off all contact with my friends. So what im asking is, what should i do?? please be blunt and dont hold back......idc anymore... Open Question: My boyfriend cannot ejaculate?My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and yet he's the only person that can make himself "finish". He cannot ejaculate by any other means than masturbation. Nothing I do seems to work and I know I'm not bad at sexual favours. We've tried everything but at the end of the day he still has to be the one to do it at the end. We've talked about it before and he said he tends to masturbate a lot. Please no answers such as, "Well, you're ugly." or "You must suck in bed" I have confidence in bed and I'm also very attractive. Perhaps this is a physical/ psychological problem for him? Open Question: Is there any way this marriage can be saved?I've been married for about 18 months, and I truly do love my wife. There really isn't anybody else I'd rather be with. But for some reason, over the past 9 months or so, she's become increasingly cold. She doesn't want to be touched or held, will never so much as give me a hug or a kiss (unless I volunteer first), only says "I love you" only when I say it first, and I've literally forgotten what she looks like naked. When I try to cuddle her in bed, she always complains, "Ow! Your bone is digging into my skin! Ow! My hair is caught! This position is uncomfortable! I can't sleep like this" and moves to the other side of the mattress. I'll illustrate the lack of affection she gives me--one time I was driving out on an empty road several miles from town, and I saw a girl thumbing for a ride in the hot sun. I pulled over and gave her a ride home, and she was so happy that before she got out, she threw her arms around me and kissed me on the cheek. I felt like a 12 year old that had just gotten his first kiss, and was walking on clouds for the next several days. For the next several months, all I could think about was that hug and kiss from a total stranger! I really really don't want to leave my wife because she's my world, but this clause of "no romance, no affection, no sex" is driving me crazy. People have told me that I should just bail and start looking for other women. The problem is, I don't want any other woman. I mean, there was an actual occasion where I was going to meet up with a girl who clearly expressed romantic interests in me, but I ended up canceling the secret date at the last minute because I thought about me being with another girl...and my wife being with someone else...us being apart...no! I just don't want that! I want my wife! Is there any way I can save this? 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