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Open Question: How can I get my boyfriend to kiss me? and more... Open Question: How can I get my boyfriend to kiss me?I've been best friends with my now boyfriend for a while so we know each other really well. We just recently started dating officially a couple of weeks ago. We've hugged, and cuddled, but we haven't kissed.... the closest I got was the other day when I said goodbye to him, I gave him a kiss on the cheek. My boyfriend is a shy kind of guy who is rather geeky, but in a totally adorable Eric Foreman kind of way. He is incredibly sweet, extremely respectful and would never ever do anything to hurt or offend me, which he has let me know. But the only problem with all of this is that he is lacking in the self-confidence area a little, and I know he wants to kiss me, we were so close the other day while cuddling, but i think he is just worried about freaking me out or something. According to m best friend, she thinks he is just scared because I "intimidate him" and "I'm out of his league." I don't really know what she meant by this, but all I know is that I love my boyfriend, everything about him, and I really want to kiss him. I just don't know if I should wait for him to make the first move, or if I should just go for it when the time is right... help me? thanks (: Open Question: Is being a man in Western society today just too difficult?1. Men are expected to view women as equals, while at the same time, we need to be chivalrous to them, and "treat them like a lady." (Chivalry is the opposite of equality, as it assumed women were weak.) 2. Men have to approach the women almost everytime they want sex or a relationship with her... and not the other way around. 3. Men have to face multiple rejections when they approach these women... and sometimes.. these women are not even nice about rejecting the man. ("Haha, why would I ever wanna be with you!? I can do better") 4. If after multiple rejections the man finally gets a woman to go out with him, he has to pay for the dates and be chivalrous while she does nothing but "grace him with her company and the possibility that sex could happen." And sometimes sex does not even happen! It is possible you could just be used to buy free food and drinks for her. 5. Men are always expected to be dominant if they want to attract a female. Sorry, maybe nice guys don't finish last all the time... but that's only if they still have a dominant personality. Submissive guys most often get perceived as wusses with no backbone, and women have no interest in them, whereas women can be submissive or dominant personality and still get a man. 6. We are expected to be the one who makes more money all the time, and expected to be successful. If we're not perceived as successful, then the woman is not attracted to us, therefore we are rejected and she looks down on us as if we're losers. Even women who make 100k per year STILL will only be attracted to men who make more than they do.(Ever wonder why some men who meet you women lie about what they do? It's because they know you won't accept them or try to even know them for who they are but automatically judge them just based on the simple premise of what their current job is. The crappy job may just be a temporary thing while he is in college/looking for something better you know.) 7. Quite bluntly put, noone cares about men. Noone seems to care that they are falling behind in education. Noone seems to acknowledge that they can be abused by women, or sexually harassed as well. Noone acknowledges their rights concerning their own children like women's rights are acknowledged in this area. (The woman can abort her baby if she wants to, doesn't matter if the man wants the baby. Meanwhile, if the woman decides to have the baby, the man is not given a choice of whether he wants to be in his life or not.) 8. Men have to endure the emotional burdens of two people. The woman will tell us about her problems all day... and we're expected to take them on and support her... which is fine. However, more often than not if I personally have tried to tell women how I "feel"(which is like once every 6 months if something really major happens.. they don't even care at all.) They'll just tell me to "man up" or change the subject completly as if she did not even hear what I said. 9. Men have to listen to sexist jokes about them all the time when they are around women, and the jokes are laughed at. But if a man tells a sexist joke, he is a misogynist, and hates all women. 10. When it comes to man vs woman, men are assumed to be the badguy by nature, we're villified in the media. 11. We have "equal rights" with women, but we can't get away with not assuming all the responsibilities like a woman can. So if you've made it down this far good job... In short... are the expectations put on a man in society today just too impossible? too surreal? If it keeps up this way men will reach their breaking point, even men can only take so much(even if we seem like emotionless robots to you.) I know this whole thing probably sounds like I hate women but it's not really hate... it's more of frustration.. All I actually want is a somewhat equal relationship, but it seems like no other women want this, they either try to control me, and get put off by the fact I stand up to them, or they want me to do EVERYTHING for them as if they are helpless... @Fereshte 11) Well since you ask... they can get away with domestic violence on a man, as I said before. The woman will be believed in court more than the man unless hard evidence is presented against her(this is because society viewing women as victims.) And also... generally.. they can get away with all the same crimes that a man commits, with lighter sentences for their crimes.) They also have affirmative action on their side even though they're not even a minority or really discriminated against anymore? Open Question: Accounting problem please help !?Helix Co. entered into the following transactions involving short-term notes payable. May 14 Purchased $40,000 merchandise from Advent Co., terms are 2/15, n/30. Helix uses the perpetual inventory system. May 29 Replaced the May 14 account payable with a 60-day, $30,000 note bearing 8% annual along with paying $10,000 in cash. ______ Paid the amount due on the note at maturity. 1. Determine the maturity date for the note. 2. Prepare journal entries for all the preceding transactions and events. Open Question: How can I get him to take me out?I've been seeing this guy for the past month or so and so far everything has been pretty good. The only problem is, It's really starting to bother me that he hasn't really taken me out on an actual date. I met him through a friend of mine, we were acquaintances before hanging out but I really feel like after a month he should have been able to find some time to put in some effort. We hang out at my apt and I've told him that we need to hang out outside of my place but I want him to be the one to ask and it seems like he doesn't care that much. Should I ask him about this...like what he likes to do on a date to give him a hint. This isn't going to work for me if he doesn't have the time or wants to put some effort into me....My idea of a relationship isn't just hanging out at my place....help...how can i talk to him about this??? Also we haven't had "the talk" yet. I want to steer clear of that right now. Yeah, I don't want to manipulate him into anything. I guess I need to just point blank ask and be sure Lady Wildcat, great point!!! I like your comment. I am a smart girl as well, my major was math....lol but it's been my experience that whenever a girl pursues a guy he gets scared off. I try to avoid that as much as possible. It's taken me no where with guys. we're both 26 Open Question: Does this sound suspicious to you?Okay, here's the story. My boyfriend has had some past problems with cheating and doing stupid things. About 2 months into our relationship, I caught him talking with this guy on AIM and "webcamming" with him. I figured id give him another chance because everyone deserves another chance. We end up dating for 9 months, but he broke up with me this past summer. We met during our freshman year of college and he ended up cheating on me during the summer. His excuses were depression and he was in a dark phase and he couldn't even figure it out. The rest of the summer we didn't talk and when we came back to school, a few weeks went by where we were avoiding each other. I was sick of acting immature, and due to the fact that we had mutual friends, I wanted to be civil. We settle things and about a week later, he tells one of our mutual friends that he's starting to have feelings for me again. We hang out for about one month and end up dating again. Now, we've been dating for almost three months and I came across a letter he sent to another gay guy on facebook. For the conversation, i'm just going to use the letter B for boyfriend and G for other guy. B: hey, just randomly found out your not going to school here anymore. made me sad 8( hope life is good ! G: hey yeah haha. I'm 30 minutes away now. Its so weird that you messaged me because I was thinking about you yesterday. How are you? we should hang out soon :) B:Haha great minds think alike lol 8P I'm good, frustrated and glad the semester is over but overall good. How about you? Hell yea we should hang out. (number here) Thats my number so hit me up whenever 8) G:(number here)... same goes to you ;) I asked him who this guy was, and he told me he was just a guy he had art class with last year, but only had two classes with because he dropped the class. I just think it's a little strange that you say "made me sad that you don't go here" though you only saw this person twice for two hours. I also think it's strange that the other guy said I was just thinking about you. Same thing as before, two weeks? Seriously and you're thinking about him? It all sounds a little strange to me, and the wink face at the end doesn't help. Can anyone give me their personal opinion please? Open Question: Should I allow her or decline her?Well, given sufficient response from a previous question. I do know this girl is interested in me in more than just a common friend, because I can touch her hand and she will not flinch, so some level of attraction was felt. She also texts me on a fairly regular basis. As to how far she wants to go is anyone's guess. Problem is..she has a boyfriend. Now the answer maybe fairly obvious..or maybe not. I just want to see everyone's point of view on what can be considered friendship and what maybe overstepping and/or misleading. My current interest in her: friend, possible date candidate. Question of interest today is: She offers to help me decorate our family Christmas tree, and yes, I do live at home with the folks. If I let her, can that still be considered friendship or has she already begun to overstep her bounds? Reasoning is normal friends usually won't give a damn to decorate someone else's Christmas tree when their Christmas tree isn't even up yet. Thanks More Recent Articles
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