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Open Question: How can I open myself up to people? and more... Open Question: How can I open myself up to people?Freshman year, I dated a girl who I got really close to. Sophomore year, I dated this girl and broke up with her quickly. This was the start of a long decline. That same year, I liked this girl, as did my really good friend. In the end, I got betrayed by both HIM and HER (she dated him, and he threatened to kill himself if I did anything....sooooo dramatic). To this day, I don't let people get close to me. I make fun of people to make them understand that I care for them, I look out for them, but I don't want the same in return. I don't know why, but it makes me feel a lot more secure after sophomore year. I think the problem with why I haven't been dating is that I make fun of girls to keep them kind of distant. I mean, we talk and stuff, and we joke around, but nobody has gotten to know me DEEP yet. My friend says she loves spending alone time with me because I'm her best friend when I'm alone with her and when I'm in front of people, I act like the "tough guy". My other friend feels like I'm the friend she's been asking God for for a long time. My other friend who I used to like says life without me would make her contemplate suicide. These are female friends who I acted tough, and still kind of do, but I know their deepest darkest secrets and stuff, BECAUSE THEY OPENED UP TO ME FIRST. I don't know why, but they just chose to really choose me to know their deepest secrets. One thing in common with them all; I didn't make a lot of fun of them, because I didn't see them as threatening. They didn't remind me of the guy and girl that betrayed me sophomore year. How can I start opening myself up to people again? I've been like this a YEAR AND A HALF NOW, and it's time it STOPPED! Open Question: i need help with these symptoms (i think)?okay this might be a little long... my first problem, i cant remember when i last got my period, but i do know it was mid november (hectic schedule and cant remember dates) okay now i don't know when my period is meant to be due! symptoms: sore breasts (i dont think i have ever noticed this around *that time*) stomach cramps (i never get these untill i have my period) sore lower back (same as above) but i do regularly get a sore back i feel sick, its bearable at the moment, but after i eat it gets worse please help, im afraid to get another negative (previous months) and dont know if its late enough anyway, what should i do? More Recent Articles |
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