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Open Question: how come girls don't like to date east indian guys? and more... Open Question: how come girls don't like to date east indian guys?I was at a coffee shop and started talking to this girl for nearly half an hour. The conversation was going really good, we got know each other, shared interest etc etc...but when it came to asking her out, I got this response "sorry I don't date indian guys". Literally...Whats the problem with us east indian guys? And why is the dating scene that much harder for us. Open Question: How to tell a girl likes me through conversation.?Alright, this may be a little long but i need to put a little background info. So, in the past couple months theres been three girls ive really connected with lets call them girl number 1 2 and 3. so girl number one i started talking to out of nowhere, i had dated her a couple years back. So we start talking and at first we were extremely flirty, and our conversations (texts) would last from when we woke up til we went to sleep, and it went on like this for a good month. I started liking her, and every time i tried to hang out with her something happened that prevented me from doing it. And i started noticing after about 3 weeks that our conversations became less interesting and shorter. And now ill text her and the conversation will hit a dead end after 10 minutes. This is an example of how the conversation would go. (me) heyy (1) heyy (me) whats upp? (1) doin blah blah blah So the conversation, it feels like its one sided.because it feels like i am the only one even attempting to make an effort, so i eventually gave up talking to her and let her talk to me. So moving on to girl number two. I've known her for about 3 to four years. Shes very pretty and extremely unique. She talked to me on myspace IM one day and I felt like an instant connection. We just had this amazing 6 hour conversation about everything you could imagine. and then i got her number and started texting her. And every conversation I have with her i feel is absolutely riveting and i just want to listen and absorb what she has to say. We have this unspoken silent agreement (lol) that we only speak on the weekends which may make our conversations better because we dont talk every day??? Well anyways I feel like this is a girl that i really could have a great relationship with, problem is I dont think im that attractive, and we dont go to the same schools. She always tells me secrets and what she looks for in a guy, and what type of man she would want to marry, and every time she says it I think I match up to her standards perfectly. So what do i do? does it seem like she may be interested in me? Do i jump on it while i can or try and hang out with her a couple times first. Well lets move on to girl three Girl number 3 ive known for about 3 years.We would talk sometimes back then, but nothing really deep or interesting, just small talk. She seems like a great girl. So a couple months ago I texted her and we started talking a little bit and it wasnt anything amazing but it was progress. On a side note, a couple weeks ago she posted a bulletin on myspace saying write me an about me. So I wrotes like your the best nuff said, something just simple, and she put it on her profile and it said my name like this Chazzzzzzz :) while noone elses name had anything special. Dont know if that really mattered but whatever. So anyway, a couple days ago i though, well i havent talked to her in a while so ill send her an im. So we started talking and we talked about her school, music things that she likedd. And it seemed like i really started to connect with her. So then i told her she puts me in a musical mood which was kinda lame but whatever, so she says that she loves music, so i say i do too so technically i love you. And she thought it was sweet. So anyways she seems like a great person but I'm not so sure. but i did notice that in the conversation she really wanted to keep it going, like if she asked me a question and i responded shed go why or how is that instead of going oh or cool. So i would say i like girl number 2 the most, and what sucks is i dont go to school with any of these girls, i went to middle school with them but now im in high school and we got seperated. I know this was really long but whatever, just tell me who you think might be interested in me or what i should do or any opinions you have. Thankss :) Open Question: Just turned 20 years old and have never dated...what should I do?I am a college junior (male) who just turned 20. I have never dated a girl before, never kissed someone, and never even hugged a girl I liked. I get the sense that girls don't like me. I am a fine person but very plain in social settings because I have no charisma. I have intelligence, some talent, compassion, and thoughtfulness...but I fail to make myself noticeable to the general public because I can't flirt, wink, smile, or do anything to draw attention to myself. Is this going to be a problem the rest of my life? Will girls never like me because I'm missing the element of flirtation? People tell me "just wait"--but I've been "waiting" for 20 years, and although I haven't always looked specifically for a girlfriend, I've never met a girl that showed much interest in me either. So...how do I get girls to like me, or even to treat me well? Most girls just sort of wave and give a distant "hi" when I see them...I rarely get a true response from them at all and I feel that I need to be more flirty, but I'm not a flirter and it's really uncomfortable for me to show myself off. Is there an alternative--something I can do other than brag and flirt? Thanks!!! Open Question: i need a lesbians help?if you meet a girl for the first time in person from a dating service, do you think she'll want to have sex. I'm looking for a relationship, and I really don't want to have to push her off of me, since she'll be coming a long way to see (like an hour drive)..I'll feel really bad if i have to tell her to leave. I just don't want to freak her out and say the whole "i want to get to know you speech" What should I do? Has anyone ever had this problem? Open Question: Easiest way to move on?Im having trouble getting back on my feet after my last relationship. I dated this girl for two years and really believed i would be with her for the rest of my life.....I was naive. She was my first love, im nineteen and it was my only serious relationship I spent all day literally every day we were together with her. I guess you could say I kinda forgot how to live without her kinda... Weve been broken up for a while now since the end of april and i still think about her everyday. We stayed in contact for a while but she has a new boyfriend and I havnt talked to her in a couple months. I mean i still manage to have fun with my friends everyday but im not as happy as i was. and alot of the time at night i will get really depressed and think that im hopeless. I lost all my game over the two years so i have a lot of trouble talking to girls. Ive had one fling that lasted about a week since and that was a while ago. My ex girlfriend was gorgeous, smart, funny, nice, and just a truly caring/loving person and I just feel like no other girl will ever be as good as she was. I just still think of holding her, kissing her, making love with her, and just when we were together and how amazing it was in general and it gets me depressed. I want a new girl thats even better than she was so I can be happy again, but i feel like i just got lucky to have her and ill never have that. ) : lol im sorry im like spilling my guts on here, no one has any idea how sensitive i am, lol this just isnt me. But idk any advice would be great thank you guys alot, and the social anxiety with girls is such a problem for this it sucks........ ) : Open Question: Does the equivalent of "cookie poisoning" occur in organizations ? (Impersonation, breach of privacy,?gain information, perform actions on behalf of the victim) ? Cookie poisoning is a known technique mainly for achieving impersonation and breach of privacy through manipulation of session cookies, which maintain the identity of the client. By forging these cookies, an attacker can impersonate a valid client, and thus gain information and perform actions on behalf of the victim. The ability to forge such session cookies (or more generally, session tokens) stems from the fact that the tokens are not generated in a secure way. In this paper, we explain why session management (and session management security) is a complex task (which is why it is usually left for commercial products). We describe how the tokens are generated for two commercial application engines. We then analyze the strength of each mechanism, explain its weakness, and demonstrate how such weakness can be exploited to execute an impersonation/privacy breach attack. We discuss the feasibility of the attack. Finally, we recommend an approach to session management which separates the security from the functionality – the latter is carried out by application engines, while the former should be provided by a dedicated application security product. The Sysiphian in-house session maintenance In web application programming, Session Management is complex and awkward. The programmer needs to worry about many aspects of session management which can defocus him/her from the main goal – implementing the business logic that makes the site unique and profitable. Specific issues are: • Session creation and identification – how to ensure that when a new session is needed, it is indeed created? The programmer must identify that a client has a need for a session, create the session and assign the client a session. • Concurrency issues – when two clients access the site simultaneously, each requiring a new session, it is necessary to make sure that the session creation process will still function correctly. • Session termination and timeout – what triggers a session termination? How are the resources of the terminated session recycled? What happens if the client tries to access the site when the termination process is taking place? What happens when a client tries to access a site with a stale session? 2002 Sanctum, Inc. www.SanctumInc.com 2 • Session data storage, multiple servers, fail-over – where is the session data stored (on disk? in RAM?)? What is the performance penalty? What happens in a multi-server site if a client accesses a first server (and establishes a session with it) and then is directed (by a load balancer) to a second server? What happens to the client session data in case the original server crashes? Security-wise, the following considerations must be made: • It should never be possible for one client to be able to predict the token another client received, or is in the process of receiving, or will receive. This is obviously a 'must have' in order to prevent impersonation attacks and consequently breach of privacy. • Furthermore, it is desirable that a client will not be able to predict the next token he/she will get when accessing the site. This is useful in minimizing the damage of stealing the token while it travels (in the clear) to and fro, and while it is stored on disk at the client. • Any token should have a reasonable expiration period – again, to minimize the damage of it being stolen. As can be seen, it is not very easy to fulfill all these requirements, especially if the session mechanism is developed ad-hoc. The more intricate security requirements are definitely something developers, especially ones not versed in security, may easily miss. One recent example is the cookie mechanism that was employed by Verizon Wireless (www.verizonwireless.com and www.app.airtouch.com). The security problem is mentioned in the press (http://www.newsbytes.com/news/01/169781.html), and in technical resources (http://online.securityfocus.com/archive/1/211520 - a report by Marc Slemko, dated September 1st, 2001). To quote from the latter: Cell phone bills are often very interesting things, since they contain names, addresses, and a complete record of calls placed and received, along with the approximate location the user was when the call was made. I'm sure I'm not alone in expecting my provider to provide a reasonable level of privacy for this data. A typical URL used by this "my account" service is: https://www.app.airtouch.com/jstage/plsql/ec_navigation_wrapper.nav_frame_display?p_se ssion_id=3346178&p_host=ACTION Note the p_session_id parameter. This is the only session identifier used. They are assigned sequentially to each user as they login, and are valid until the user logs out or the session times out. Obviously, this makes it trivial to access the sessions of other users by guessing the session ID. Automated tools to grab this information in bulk as users login over tim Open Question: Guys i have four computers i got a message windows generic host problem?after this message my internet connection lost connectivity. after restarting the all computers internet connection runs for 10-15 minutes then again this message comes and internet stop running. i have format my systems so many time. i have quick heal internet security registered version 10.0. i keep my anti virus up to date. but i dont get rid of this problem plsssssssss help me guys Open Question: What does it mean when a guy wants to be exclusive but not bf/gf yet?Ok see me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 2 weeks now. And we were hanging out tonight driving to his house and we were just talking and some how the subject came up and he asked me, "What exactly are we?" (In the relationship sense). And I said I wasn't sure. So he said to me that he only wanted to date me right now. But that he just wants us to be exclusive until things settle down in his life and it's not as stressful. He's really tight on money and he starts a good job in like a month. And that's when he said things will start getting normal again. I have no problem being just exclusive with him and not being bf/gf because I mean we do and act like we are anyway lol. He's affectionate with me in public, holds my hand, wraps his arms around me. So i'm not really too worried. I'm just more so curious as to why he would rather be exclusive than bf/gf. Also I know I'm not 'the other woman' lol. I'm at his house all the time. Around his dad and all his friends. He introduces me to everyone who hasn't met me yet lol. He's always so excited to introduce me to new people lol. I'm like the shiny new toy sometimes haha. More Recent Articles
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