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Open Question: How come parents that havent been through any hardships...? and more... Open Question: How come parents that havent been through any hardships...?How come some people in the form of single parents or married act like since they haven't been through any hardships in life, that the not-so-lucky parents like myself, deserved the hardships that have come their way? For example, I overheard my mom on the phone saying to somebody, "At least one of my daughters (referring to my sister) had sense enough to get married." As if, I choose to be single, as if it isn't hard enough raising a child, an Autistic one at that. I want to be married, but I'm not going to make it my mission. Sometimes I do wonder, what in the heck is wrong with me, why haven't I met anybody that either takes me seriously or wants to be in my life. People get married all the time, and it is very common, so why is it that the one thing that is so common for many people doesn't seem likely to come my way? I've dated many men back in my late teens and early twenties. But at the time, I thought that I would always have it like that, that I would never have any problems later on in life, meeting good men, that I would always be skinny and beautiful. Well I was wrong, and now in my 30's, supposedly the prime of my life, I'm single, raising a child by myself, who is Autistic. I have a nice townhome, a truck, and life is very simple, work is easy. But sometimes I just wonder, what is wrong with me? My mom was married twice, my little sister is married, my dad is married, why am I not married, and will I ever be married? I have never had a guy even propose to me, Never So because of these things, and some others I won't mention, I feel like my sister who is 4 years younger than me, married with 3 kids, and at leasting renting a house feels like her life is good and my life sucks. And in a ways my life could be worse, because I know somebody has it worse than me, but it does suck to an extent, versus hers. So therefore she feels that since she has a good life with no hardships that have been thrown her way, that she is better than me. I am a single parent who is now celibant,( for other reasons), and not dating at all,( some of which is due to personal reasons of a life altering situation, and due to not to many guys out there that are available, and raising a special needs child. So does anybody know why people who are parents think that just because they did achieve the American dream, got lucky and found a guy that wanted to marry them ( which isn't easy), had healthy kids with no disabilities, and live in a house, and basically live their life as if it's all about them, nobody's else outside our family circle's life is important, and you suck, because the guy you thought was good enough to sleep with and have a child by, turned around and did his own thing leaving you hanging. And lastly since your child is Autistic, sucks to be you? Does anybody relate to this? Open Question: Msn Problem?! Please Help !!?Im trying To Download the windows live messenger 9.0 because my other one was out of date so I can't use it anymore. I've Tried Installing The New One But It Always Stops at %65 And Then Skips Through And Then It Says Error. They Keep Telling Me There's Another Msn In Use When There Really Isn't Coz I Went On Control Panel And Its Not There.. please help Thanks, Jazz x More Recent Articles
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