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Open Question: How do I get my family to get off my case about the fact that I don't have a boyfriend yet? and more... Open Question: How do I get my family to get off my case about the fact that I don't have a boyfriend yet?Mosly it's a problem that I'm having with my Mom. Now, let me set one thing straight. We have a very open and good relationship, but she constantly pressures me to get a boyfriend for her entertainment. There are boys who I plain don't feel comfortable with and she says she doesn't understand why I don't date them. I'm 20 and have never had a real bf/gf relationship with any guy, so that's probably factoring in somehow, but I just don't feel ready for one yet. But the pressure I'm receiving from my family and friends is making me feel inadequate. I don't think I'm in the wrong here and I've told them very clearly multiple times that I don't want anything until I'm ready, but they don't believe me and it's starting to make me feel really uncomfortable around almost every guy I know. Does anyone know if there's something I can do about my family or is this some kind of weird psycho-self-esteem issue? Open Question: HELP WITH THIS LOVE PROBLEM?Please READ and help me i really need help with this still.. Ok so i dated this guy for over a year and we had a thing for like 4 years. first time we had a thing and then find out he left ignored me for a year or so because he dated some other girl. We start talking and we end up dating.. well alot of things happen between me and him see him pining a girl to a walk for a hug, and find out that girls are at his house when his friends are there. His best friends hate be because "i FOUND OUT" i took to much attion from them and so they always talk bad about me as i should shoot myself .Ive never been mean to them for all i k i always be the nicest person around them so they wouldnt hate me. Well we broke up cause of fighting over his friends makign our relationship bad.. Well we still hangout and at most the times it seem like we were dating again but no lable. Those 7 months were the hardest because i got so stress out i lost 30 lb just cuz i didnt have a appitite" NOT BALIMIC OR ANN" anways i put up his BS for so much. Well this other guy came into my life and he ask me out and i said yes. When i told me ex about it uz i knew he would of found out he started to cry. He came to work and freak out on my and i coudlt help but cry. Im torn by two guys i love them both but more for my ex.. My ex said he doestn want to talk to me till im single and he said maybe we'd talk i still inlove with my ex but theres a new guy and still love them both IM SO CONFUSED AND I NEED MUCH ADVICE ON WHAT I SHOULD DO ABOUT IT PLEASE.. Do u think my ex still likes me./? or would take me back or what should i dooo soo confused..I tryed expaining him i still love him or have feelings and he keeps saying dont talk to me till your single and it doesnt mean i dont want you back... idk what to do please help! Open Question: My girlfriend cheated on me with her ex. She wants me back. What should i do?I have been dating this girl for 3 months now. We told each other we were in love about a month ago and have been inseparable ever since. We have not had sex yet but have gone farther than kissing. The only problem is her ex boyfriend. She was with him for over a year and lost her virginity to him. She always paned on saving herself for marriage so there is a lot of emotion attached to that. Before they broke up he stared taking her for granite, cheated on her, and just didn't care very much about her. I was basically the reason they broke up. After that he became jealous and stared harassing her with calls every day sometimes making her cry. I tell her to ignore him but she doesn't. Anyway she went home over thanksgiving break and had sex with him. The ex told me about it because he wants her back. I asked her about it she lied but of course i believed her over him but then she came clean. She feel very bad about what she did. She said she was willing to go all the way with me (which is a very big deal to her) and never talk to her ex again if i took her back. Should i take her up on the offer? Maybe this is what needed to happen to fully get rid of the ex problem. Open Question: C++ someone who knows C++ could someone please help me? I can not figure out what is wrong with this program.?include Open Question: I'm having boyfriend troubles.?Hi. I'm a 14 year old girl and I have a 14 year old boyfriend. We have been dating for about 3 weeks. I know him from my brother school's football team. He is sweet and kind. But the problem is, is that he is REALLY REALLY sweet and kind. When ever I talk to him he's like, I don't think we'll be Friends when were older, I think we will be married (keep in mind were both barely 14) and he says I love you a lot and I don't even know what love is. He also ask me how many babies I want and that were going to have them together. He's not one of those creepy syco boyfriends he's just overly into me. It's kinda like this; you know when you go to the fair and you get cotton candy? And it taste really good for the first couple of bites, but then it gets sickening sweet? Well that's how I feel. I really want to make this work, but he's kinda become a hastle to me. ANy advice or tips? Thanks for reading my problem. Open Question: Ok well, there is this guy, and i really like him but i have no idea what to do?Now i am 16, so i will not say anything close to the word love, because i am so young, and plus im not even dating this kid or even "with" him, and i know i dont love him, but i have never felt this way before. We talk everyday in my 5th period class. he is older then me by one year, and well i look forward to this class everyday. I live in a really small town in North Carolina. I think this guy might like me a little but i cant really tell. Any way, i have two problems. A. how to i move past the friend stage because if he doesn't feel the same way this class would be so awkward for the rest of the year. and B. He cheated on his last girlfriend, and the girl he cheated on her with was my sister. ahah but really he is a really good guy like don't let that fool you. Oh, and like my sister and him are friends they never dated or anything and my sister knows i like him and shes cool with it Open Question: Am I making this too big of a deal?I've been dating my b/f for about 2 months now and we've been arguing every night for the past few weeks. He's a great guy and treats me very well. But I have a problem with all of the girls in his life. He has TONS of girl friends here at college and at home. He hugs them everyday..pokes them..called one of them babe when i was around. he's very flirtatious and it bothers me cuz i feel like im not the most important he wants to be with. He says he only wants to be with me..but i tell him actions speak louder than words. he texts girls constantly..esp. his friends from home..they talk every single day and sometimes reall late at night. i just feel like i constantly worry and i usually dont do that. ive tlked to him about it so many times..he doesnt understand. hes gotten better with all of the girls..but i think theres a line that should not be crossed when you have a g/f. I have tons of guy friends but i dont feel a need to txt them all the time..every day even. I dont hug them..or call them up late at night cuz i have him and i dont need any other guy. Open Question: What happens if I have good looks but the personality of an autistic person..would women date me?I wont say I look great, but Ive never been told Im ugly..Only problem is I cant hold conversations very well..Girls flock to me at first but after three sentences they flock away..Are there girls who just like guys for thier looks? Alot of guys are like this.. Heres my photo http://users.adultspace.com/hotfuck101/profile_picture_view-picture-3002256.html Open Question: My parents won't let me become more independent?We are not poor. Nor are we wealthy. We're an average middle class working family. I get almost no spending money whatsoever, except an occasional 60 dollars during my birthday. That's pretty much all I get in a year to buy clothes and anything else I may need. I make my own meals, do my own laundry, fill out my own paperwork, and everything else myself. The problem is, I am entirely dependent on my parents for money and they use this opportunity to control me. I have TRIED to get a job. I have even filled out the papers to get a worker's permit but my parents refuse to sign it. They think if I try to work now at an early age as something unprofessional, I'll end up working as a cashier for the rest of my life (which is ridiculous logic). My parents also charge me for everything. They have a HUGE record of all the money I cost them and they tell me that I owe them all that money when I grow up. Braces, medical bills, you name it. I currently am in an all-girls private high school (I will owe them for that too along with college).I REALLY want to get a job. I don't want to 'owe' my parents my entire life but yet they refuse to let me get a job now so I can start saving and owe them less than I do. But it's not just money problems. They control EVERY aspect of my life: I'm not allowed to talk or think about boys whatsoever (much less date or talk to any), I have never been to a school dance (no guys at school anyway), I have never been to a friend's house, I have never been outside my house by myself, I'm not allowed to open the windows in my room, I have never crossed the street by myself, I have never done ANYTHING basically. My parents are ruining my childhood and future by inhibiting me from doing anything. I am grateful that my parents shelter, clothe, feed me, but if I owe them for all of this later then basically I'm feeding myself right now. Not only am I indebted to them, they have also taught me no life skills whatsoever. (I am 15 by the way) More Recent Articles |
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