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Open Question: How do you know if you are an alcoholic? and more... Open Question: How do you know if you are an alcoholic?I totally enjoy a good glass of wine. I also love to share a pitcher of beer with my fiance while watching a Football game... but in my past I had an ex boyfriend convince me that I had drinking issues. i even attended some meetings for help.. but didn't relate too much to the people attending these meetings. I have since broke up with this ex boyfriend. And my new boyfriend (who I was friends with for 8 years before dating seriously) feels that I have no problems when it comes to alcohol. How do you REALLY know if you are an alcoholic? People who attend AA meetings do not tell you either way.. so you never really know. Open Question: Questions on Pregnancies?So Ive had problems conceiving for about a year. Irregular periods they're never on time. I had to take Provera for a week to start it, then BC to keep it regular. On top of that I have a fibroid, which is also why it's hard to conceive. Either way, it doesnt keep me from TTC. In Oct 7th-9th I had my first real period without any help from medicine and it lasted only four days, it usually lasts eight. Then I TTC the day before my OVU date. On november, I missed my period again but On the 29th I spotted when I wiped but I had gone away now. I took a test last week and it said negative. Does anyone know what coud be wrong? The spotting, Im trying not to think anything of it becuase of the irregular periods. Might I ad once ore. Period was Oct 7-9. Missed it Nov 7th. Spotted Nov 29th and 30th. Lightly. Its Dec first. What should I do? Open Question: How do I get over this anyone else had this problem?So my ex and I are very recently divorced. Unfortunately at the moment until he finds a new place he is living across the street. We have a two year old son together. He has met someone knew he is a college teacher and he is dating a college student or so he said but since then has changed that answer whatever. Anyways we have 50/50 custody of our son. He just started seeing her a week ago and she is already sleeping over at his house when he has our son. He won't let me meet her and thinks he is doing nothing wrong having sleepovers with our child so soon and introducing her to him so soon in a relationship. I feel like he is throwing her in my face on top of it and it is pissing me off. I feel like he isn't really putting our son first. I don't know how to get over this. He tells me there is nothing I can do about it and I am sure he is right but how can I move on and put my mind at ease with this? Open Question: Should I keep dating my bf of 3 years?I have been dating this guy since the beginning of my senior yr in high school. Now I'm a sophomore in college. He is a wonderful bf to me (he cheers me up, knows what to say, is supportive, listens, funny, etc.) I love him for that. The problem is we started living together at the beginning of this school year and a lot of things started to bother me. -He does not go to college and he has no idea what he wants to do in life... sometimes he gets a job but he'll quit and he has no interest in learning a trade. -He plays video games for at least like 5 hrs a day -He never helps cook or clean unless I ask him directly. I'm worried he's going to stay like this because he gets motivated sometimes but never follows through. I've gotten mad before but it doesn't help either... I really need advice because he's been talking about marriage and I don't want to engage someone when I have these concerns. I really do love him or I wouldn't have stayed with him this long.... ultimately all I want is for him to do something with his life.. I DONT want to break up with him... do you think he'll change? What should I do? Open Question: Dating a guy with kids help?OK....I just got out of a relationship about 4 months ago...and now I fell in love with a guy that has kids...which I told myself my whole life I would NEVER date a guy with kids. BUT I have never felt this way about anyone before- I'm sooo in love and he is with me...it's crazy. It truely was like love at first sight. We are so connected it almost scary. Here's what happen- he's the brother of a friend of mine. Her and I were talking about getting together for a while...one friday night I happen to be hanging in and she was like I'm gonna take my brother out and cheer him up, he just got out of a long term realtionship..blah blah, I was like OK? whatever I'll go I was bored at hom anyway...and he and I ended up talking non-stop the whole night..pretty much finishing each other sentences..and things just got stronger from there. I find myself wanting to do whatever makes him happy even if that menas he's not with me....we have talked about all this too.....my problem is I feel so sad for him and the kids...and for her. He wasn't married but they were together for a long time. He says its over which I believe him, but I still find myself talking to him and pushing him back to her. Telling him maybe they shoudl try counseling again or maybe they can work this out....I know what the hECK is wrong with me...I WANT HIM, but I truely want whats best for him and the kids....It's hard splitting up when you have kids, I grew up in a mixed family and so did he. I also think that I would totally do anything for him. I would stay with him forever kids and all. He knows I want to get married some day and have a child of my own and he says he wants that too!!!! This is just really hard cause I know in my heart I will never and can never be his first, and he will always love the mother of his children (not that I think there is anything worng with that, she has given him something very special and they share that) He's a very wonder man and very sensitive and I do love. I'm just not sure how to do this, how to be second? He had a life, 2 kids, and a long history with this ex....she sounds very nice and it's not that I don't like her or anything.....I just am not sure how I'm suppose to handle this? I know I'm just babbling...and I'm not sure there is even a question in here.....????? I'm just not sure how to love him and not feel this way....it's hard when your not the first love in someones life especially when they are still connected to the ex.....cause he is my first true love., I feel like we are soul mates- I've never been in love like this before. Anyone out there that has gone through this and can relate I would appreciate your story.....especailly if it worked and how you dealt with your feeling if you had the same ones I do.....Thanks for the help! Forgot to mention, I have no children and have never been married. He's never been married and his boys are 6 and 8. Open Question: Who is wrong and to blame?Honest opinion, Tell me what you think because there is alot of upset people here. Girl meets boy,everything fine, oneday girl finds boy is cheating online talking with girls giving his number etc etc..many times. he promises he will never do it again, he begs her to stay and he loves her. Then he does it once more, she decided he isnt interested and not good enough so she goes and marries someone else. it dosent work, they spend 2 months apart, boy has a date with someone else.Both arnt normal, girl is depressed, suicidal because she loves boy too much and her life has felt ended, t boy is sending emails begging to come back. A friend brings them together and acts as a counsellor, they talk open and work the problems out,aknowledge they both did wrong. Girl leaves the short marriage to the other man, goes back with the first because she loves him more than anything in the world, faults and all. Things are fine and dandy. Friends now turn on girl saying she did the most awful things and cheated her boyfriend. Who do you think is the worst one here? Honest please? More Recent Articles
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