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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Open Question: How long do i continue this way with this guy? and more...

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Open Question: How long do i continue this way with this guy? and more...

Open Question: How long do i continue this way with this guy?

I have been dating this guy for over a year. We talk everyday and see each other here and there. We have become very close friends if not best friends. From the begginning he has wanted to take things slow and said he has a hard time trusting women. Recently i got frustrated with the situation as anyone would- and just wants a little more than i am getting. He told me he doesnt want a girlfriend. The reality is we treat each other as we are together and are not dating anyone else. The problem is trying to get him together to do things seems to scare him. Im not sure how to handle this situation anymore. I am on the verge of walking away and then he says he doesnt like being given ultimatiums. We adore each other but what do I do?

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Open Question: My girl's ex-boyfriend (for real!), is this a problem?

My girl's ex-boyfriend (for real!), is this a problem? I started dating a girl recently that I like a lot, and I think we have great compatibility. She is very beautiful and we have fun together. However I wonder if she has some "excess baggage" in the dating department. She dated this guy she knew in high school for 8 years (she's 25 I think), and they lived together for most of that time. She pretty much became a part of his family. They broke up over a year ago and I'm guessing she stopped feeling that way about him before they broke up, but they continued to live together while dating other people because apparently they have no jealousy issues (weird?). She tells me that she stopped being attracted to him, she sees him as a brother, and that is why they broke up. Needless to say I am slightly worried by this since they still hang out frequently even after we met and I have never dated a girl with such attachments. I want the kind of girl that I can fall in love with and become best friends with myself, not just be a boyfriend, but also a best-friend. I have had that before, and I am emotionally open to have that again. I don't know wether she is or not, I would like to assume she is open as well, but is this too much baggage?

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Open Question: Guy Im dating doesnt want to being labled?

I have been dating this guy for over a year. We talk everyday and see each other here and there. We have become very close friends if not best friends. From the begginning he has wanted to take things slow and said he has a hard time trusting women. Recently i got frustrated with the situation as anyone would- and just wants a little more than i am getting. He told me he doesnt want a girlfriend. The reality is we treat each other as we are together and are not dating anyone else. The problem is trying to get him together to do things seems to scare him. Im not sure how to handle this situation anymore. I am on the verge of walking away and then he says he doesnt like being given ultimatiums. We adore each other but what do I do?

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