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Open Question: How many times can you reschedule your jury duty date? and more... Open Question: How many times can you reschedule your jury duty date?I am currently a College student at my local community college I get no state help to pay my schooling so this all comes out of my own pocket. I recently had to reschedule for my Jury Duty which I was summoned for in November 2009 and I was rescheduled for this January 2010. Problem is, the date I was rescheduled for is the first day of my Winter class and I can not be absent or I will be immediately dropped from the course. I was wondering how many times can I reschedule for Jury Duty? I reside in California. Thank You. Well I did some research on my own and for anyone who has a future reference Question like this here is some info straight from the CA court system, Jury service may be postponed one time for up to 90 days. An excuse from jury service must be in writing. There is no permanent excuse to jury service except verified medical illness. If you are requesting to be excused from this summonsing period, complete the response form attached to your jury summons. Open Question: When is the best time for a woman to lose her virginity? Physically not emotionally. Women only, please!?I know that you shouldn't have sex until you find the right person but I was just wondering if there was a possible "best" time to lose the virginity that will make the pain less. Like, is there a time when your body is just more flexible or strong. What about ages? Would losing your virginity hurt more or less if you were like 15 compared to 22? I am a virgin and even though I don't have a bf at the moment, I know that sex is going to start coming up more in my life as I am supposed to be going to college this coming fall. Sex scares me truth be told. I am afraid it's going to hurt me so bad that I'll never want to have sex again. I'm also scared to death that he won't know what the hell he's doing and put things where they don't belong. Not to mention, theres the fear of getting pregnant, being made fun of if your bad at sex and etc. In other words, I am a nervous wreck when it comes to this topic. My friends call me a prude because I've never had like a real official boyfriend before that I ever like wanted to do things with and I'm supposed to be graduating high school in a few months. (I know, it's embarassing about my boyfriendlessness and I am quite aware of it) This only makes me more nervous about everything related to intimacy. I have zero commintment issues, that's not my problem, I just always feel like I have to settle and that I can never get the person I'm interested in when rarely asked out on dates. I feel so behind on dating and everything else and I would just like someone who knows much about dating, sex, and boys to just help calm my nerves and inform me on things I know I'm obviously missing information and encouragement on. Please, help. Open Question: Trying to pick from a few unique girls interested in me; advice?I'm at a crossroads in my life, and I have a lot of options in front of me... I'm trying to see the pros and cons of each choice. See, there are these four girls: "H" - My girlfriend. We have a casual relationship, and things are peaceful. She's happy, and really cares for me. I don't care for her the way she does for me. I think she's a nice friend, but we don't have that spark, that passion. She doesn't have other social outlets aside from me, so she ends up just seeking my attention all the time. It's not a horrible thing to have a girl who loves you and wants to do everything to make you happy, but I'm interested in a partner, not a yes girl. She's not very strong or independent, and it repels me. She is currently seperated from her husband, for close to a year now. "A" - My ex from work. We had a fling for a few months, that started while she was engaged to a guy who lived many states away. They were having problems, and he was becoming a little scary to her "You have to move here because I'm the man in the relationship, and your role is to obey me". She ended things with him, and we dated for a few months. Things were very passionate, but due to the circumstances surrounding the engagement, we were never able to be very public about it. It ended badly, and she spent the next several months apologizing to me. I eventually started speaking to her again. She's very flirty, and we have a lot of sexual chemistry and tension, a lot of flirty fun. "L" - An ex from a few years ago, we had a fling for a few months. I ended it to pursue something more substantial with another woman. We've maintained a friendship over the years, and she recently had a baby girl, and is a single mom. We, too, had a lot of chemistry, and she's a very independent woman. "S" - This woman is amazing. We're friends, and that's all. I bring her up because she's a really wonderful girl, and is sort of a measure of "perfect" for my situation here. She's an independent, intelligent, beautiful woman, that I would find myself in awe of being with. My complicated situation is that the first three girls, my girlfriend, the ex from work, and the the single mom, all want to have a relationship with me. Not a casual fling, but pursue an real relationship. I don't feel very strongly for my girlfriend, and so I'm working to let her down gently. There's no reason to hurt her feelings, she really is a very nice person. From there, I don't know if I should pursue something with the ex from work with whom I share a lot of chemistry, but has messed me over before, the ex who is now a single mom, or neither. Neither would be the choice that goes something like, "I should be focusing on myself because neither of these girls are quality". I seem to have very different standards than most, because a few people are pretty quick to dismiss everyone. They think the ex from work is, haha, "a little ho-ho" becuase she's flirting with me while I have a girlfriend, and we started relations while she was with her fiance. Easy to dismiss the single mom, too, because she may just be trying to latch on to some stability. Am I too relaxed with my standards? Does dating an ex who's now a single mom seem like I wasn't good enough in the first place, but am good enough now that she has baggage? Or should I be satisfied to have a girl who counts herself lucky to be with me, and learn to be content with someone who respects and loves me, but for whom I'm a little luke warm? I'm confused between my thoughts and my friend's advice.... EDIT: The last paragraph is an outline of the conflicting opinions I'm recieving from people, not really my thoughts. Her daughter is beautiful, and not in any way "baggage". "S" isn't interested in me, she's just a high caliber person. And I agree that "H" deserves more. I ended it once before, explaining that my feelings weren't there and I felt guilty about it not going anywhere. She insisted I not worry about the future, because my feelings could grow, and just enjoy "today". I'm not enjoying today as much as I did, which is why I'm looking to end it with her. Open Question: life is so complicated?ok so this guy has been keeping in contact with me for 7 years now ... he was 5 years older than me so when i was younger we could never have gotten into a relationship. he called and texted me a lot when he was in college to let me know if he was or wasnt going to be intown or to take me out to dinner.. now years later im in college and we were still doing the same dance untill one day he told me over the phone how he felt. the problem is im in north carolina and hes in florida. so when i come home for the summer we start to hook up- he gets mad at me for little things like being too busy or ( i hooked up with one of his friends 4 years ago) . i then tell him that i cant go through with hooking up unless we are going to date cause i like him too much... he then tells me how he feels always likeing me but im in NC and hes you cant start a relationship long distance. he says you have to be with that person for a while first. so we decided to be friends and for me to live my life dating other guys up here. but he wants me to call him whenever i am in town. now when i got back up to nc he kept in contact and before i went home for thanksgiving break he called schedule hanging out. when i got down to fl i had to cancel i cept trying to reschedule but he wouldnt answer. then i started to get mad cause he wasnt returning my phone calls. when i talked to my friend she said he never wanted to date me (i was thinking than what was all this bullshit) i defriend him on facebook... realize i overreacted without talking to him. when we talked he was an *** he was like i thought we were just friends and when i asked if he ever cared he was silent and then he asked why i defriended him i told him cause hes been sending me mixed signals for a long time. his answer : i disagree. i hang up the phone furious at him ... later he texts " hey sorry i wasnt very articulate when we spoke at the beginning of the week. i like you. i think you're cute but you're in college. you need to do your own thing. i will always be there for you:)" my question is what does he want from me. should i forget him and see him just as a friend? does he just want to hookup? or does he really like me and want a relationship after college if were in the same place? oh i forgot to add not that it really make any difference but im a D1 athlete i only get 4 days off durring thanksgiving and only 8 days for xmass break then i have the summers. thos are the only times i come home - not to mention xmas i travel with the fam. Open Question: Not sure what I should do...?My boyfriend and I broke up 4 months ago. It had been a 3 and half year relationship and we had plans of being together forever, as do most long term relationships. After we broke up I liked another guy who was my exboyfriend's friend (We'll call him J) J had liked me for over a year while we didn't talk and legitimately loves me. Once he found out I had feelings towards him, he was a complete sweetheart, as always. He brought me on the most amazing date, including golf, lunch, a mountain walk, watching the sunset, he rented a movie and he even gave me a back massage. He seemed perfect. So, I decided to date him. While we were dating, every time we drank he was really mean and acted angry. He'd say hurtful things many times. Since I have a father who's an alcoholic, it reminded me of that and hit home for me. Plus, I started to realize I wasn't over my ex. I thought, if I talk to him it will be fine. So we had a little talk about his drinking. One night he drank to the point where he almost burnt my house down while sleep walking. Not his fault, but still a problem. So, I broke up with him. I had told him it was mostly because I wasn't over my ex. Which, he helped me through. After a month of being friends I was starting to get over my ex. J was really trying. He was nice when he drank and still hasn't gotten drunk like he used to. He says he'd do anything for me. Then.. I get a phone call from my ex boyfriends mom saying the ex was in the hospital because J beat him up. Story was, J had been harassing the ex for a couple months and wanted to fight even though my ex didn't want to, he had no other choice. J hit him once and he hit his head on the pavement when he went down so hard that he got memory loss and brain damage from it. I got extremely upset, worried and disappointing in J. I'm not a violent person, I hate confrontations and anger. So I told him I never want anything more then friends. Well after a while J couldn't handle just being friends because he loved me too much, which I understood. It just hurt being so close. We said a last goodbye and he left my house. I was miserable again for 4 days... then he started talking to me again because he said not talking didn't help, it just made it worse. So here we are again.. I do have feelings for him.. but After the drinking situations(which are fixed), the fight which he was a complete ass about, and my ex's parents always telling me how much of a loser he is.. I don't know what to do. Also, my mother says hes a good guy but I should lay low and single for a while. idk I like him but he loves me.. should I just give him another chance? Or look outside the box? More Recent Articles
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