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Open Question: How to get a guy to notice you? and more...

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Open Question: How to get a guy to notice you? and more...

Open Question: How to get a guy to notice you?

I am in 7th grade and he is in 8th grade. I've had a crush on him for a while but this new girl in my grade dated him and broke up with him 3 weeks ago. I don't even think he knows me. I hang out with him but I am so shy. I barely have 4 friends. The only reason most of them know me is through kindergarten but back to the problem. When he is around I am normally reading a book around him. We participate in the same activities but he never talks to me. He is my first crush so I'm not sure how to approach this. I really need help and it will be greatly appreciated, CMR

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Open Question: What should I do first?

I'm 19 years old and most of the time, I think my life is worthless but there are moments that make me think my life is good. I have suicidal thoughts, but I haven't done anything to inflict harm on myself. My mother is what makes me motivated to keep living because she brought me to this world and I am aware of the sacrifices she has made for me. I want to return the favour. I don't have courage confronting my issues to others because I think highly of myself. I would be ashamed if I told someone of my problems face-to-face because I want to keep my pride and dignity intact. Although my social life and my state of mind are a mess, my career is not. I feel that my issues will make others think of me as weak. I'm a big liar. I am not who I am when around others. I try to be high and mighty. I pretend that everything is fine. I don't think anyone detects my "bs". I feel that I've made many bad choices in my life and I continue to do so. I think I seek out negative outcomes so that I can be miserable forever. I think I have dysthemia. I feel lost and I'm unhappy about my current lifestyle. I want to change it, but I don't know how. I'm introvert because I don't like being open to other people. I think I am insecure. Also, it's hard for me trust people. I don't know why I am insecure and distrustful of others (maybe subconsciously I know). I've never had a real friend or been in a relationship. I do make an effort to make friends, but I can't seem to keep those relationships. When someone tries to get close to me, I automatically push them away. Instead of having close friends, I have acquaintances. I think I push people away because I am afraid to get hurt and rejected. I've been on dates, but none have ever lasted more than two dates. Most of the time, I don't want a significant other. I am only attracted to a person's physical appearance. Also, I don't really want to get to know them. I make my own version of what they are in my mind. If they do not resemble to something I expect them to be, I immediately lose interest and move on. I find myself thinking of having sex with the same sex more than the opposite sex. But I don't think I am homosexual. I think I'm just curious. Also, I only like thinking about sex, not doing it. I see people out with their friends and significant others and I wish I have that. But whenever I have the chance to develop those relationships, I destroy them because I feel that I don't want them anymore. I think I am the type of person that wants something that I can't have and don't want something that I do have. I think I'm a passive person. I know what is wrong with me, but I don't do anything about it because I don't know how, it's difficult to change or don't want to admit to others that I have problems. By the way, I've never been abused or experienced a traumatic event.

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Open Question: Im starting to realize some truths within Christianity, but Christmas is coming up.?

About the Christmas tree: In the bible it says not to cut down a tree and adorn it with silver and gold. About Santa Claus: It seems like Santa is the new Jesus. Christmas is more about him than Christ. About Jesus' Birthday: No one knows the EXACT day on which Jesus was born. The bible does not give a date. How the hec did we come up with December 25? December 25th is in fact the birth date of the Babylonian fertility god Tammuz. In ancient times the winter solstice was celebrated in Babylon. According to the pagans, the god Nimrod would visit the evergreen tree and leave gifts upon it. This festival became known as the Saturnalia, and friends and family would exchange gifts. I was raised as a Baptist Christian. In my house as a kid we had trees, decorations, plenty of toys... the whole shebang! I have even had a tree or two in my own house. I have been studying the bible, its truths, and what God REALLY wants from us. I have come to the conclusion, that a lot of things we hold to be truth is in part or whole FALSE! Jesus didn't celebrate his own birthday, so why are we celebrating it for him? He did tell or ask us too. Santa has officially become the new Christ. Every Christmas movie I watch talks about Santa, and not once, not once, mentions Jesus. I mean, aren't we supposed to be focusing on him? Where did Santa even come from? What does he have to do with Jesus... My problem is, Im having a hard time letting go of my family traditions now that Im coming into the truth. What if I have kids some day? I always envisioned me, my husband, and our future kids decorating the tree, sipping eggnog, playing Christmas songs on Christmas eve, and waking up to lots of presents under the tree. Its such a happy time, and every little kid loves it. How can I take that away from them? What am I to do? PLEASE READ THOROUGHLY before answering the question... Many of you are totally missing the real point.

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Open Question: A C++ Programme which tells us the Name of The input by user.?

Our Base is 1 January 2000 and I want to make a programme which demand date, month and year from user and show the name of the day given by user in the form of Date.e.g. Enter Date: 1 Enter Month: 1 Enter Year: 2000 Day is : Saturday It was an example above......... I would be thankfull to you if anybody can solve this problem.....

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Open Question: Ice skating date questions?

Yesterday I was asked to go on a date (yay!) at an ice skating rink. The only problem is, I'm HORRIBLE at ice skating. I usually can't stay upright unless I cling onto someone, which I really hope he doesn't hate me for. Any tips or advice for this date?

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Open Question: mayan decline dissapearance presentation help?

well i gotta present for 30 minutes, im allowed using a class involvement activity /game to eat up some game but this is all i got anybody can help me??? i really need to make it longer Maya Civilization, an ancient Native American culture that represented one of the most advanced civilizations in the western hemisphere before the arrival of Europeans. The people known as the Maya lived in the region that is now eastern and southern Mexico, Guatemala, Belize, El Salvador, and western Honduras. They thrived for more than 2,000 years. The Maya built massive stone pyramids, temples, and sculpture; developed a system of writing using hieroglyphs; and recorded their achievements in mathematics and astronomy. Archaeologists long believed that Maya culture reached its highest development from about ad 300 to 900, during what is known as the Classic period. Recent discoveries in northern Guatemala, however, have challenged that assumption. There, archaeologists have found highly developed cities, sophisticated art, and examples of Maya writing that date from as early as 600 years before the Classic period began. After 900 the Maya mysteriously declined in the southern lowlands of Guatemala. They later revived in the north on the Yucatán Peninsula and continued to dominate the area until the Spanish conquest in the 16th century. Descendants of the Maya still form a large part of the population of the region. Although many have adopted Spanish ways, a significant number of modern Maya maintain traditional cultural practices. From about ad 790 to 889, Classic Maya civilization in the lowlands collapsed. Construction of temples and palaces ceased, and monuments were no longer erected. The Maya abandoned the great lowland cities, and population levels declined drastically, especially in the southern and central lowlands. Scholars debate the causes of the collapse, but they are in general agreement that it was a gradual process of disintegration rather than a sudden dramatic event. A number of factors were almost certainly involved, and the precise causes were different for each city-state in each region of the lowlands. Among the factors that have been suggested are natural disasters, disease, soil exhaustion and other agricultural problems, peasant revolts, internal warfare, and foreign invasions. Whatever factors led to the collapse, their net result was a weakening of lowland Maya social, economic, and political systems to the point where they could no longer support large populations. Another result was the loss of inestimable amounts of knowledge relating to Maya religion and ritual. this is nowheres near 30 min yet :(

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