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Open Question: How to get her parents to accept me...? and more... Open Question: How to get her parents to accept me...?So I am looking for some advice. I will try to give as much information as possible, in order for you to help the best way you can. About two years ago, I met this girl at school who subsequently had a huge crush on me. We became close friends and started seeing each other. Recently, we decided to turn our friendship into a relationship. The catch is I am 20 and she is 18, doesn't seem bad, right? Well if you are her parents it is a different story. The problem lies in our age, for an age gap as minuscule as that may seem is a huge barrier. He parents told her, when they were told that we had started dating, that she is never allowed to speak with me again. The other problem seen by her parents is that I am a junior in college and she a senior in high school. However, we've practically known each other since we were little, just didn't know know each other (went to school, church, etc etc together). They say that I am only after the "fresh meat" and must have something wrong with me because I want to date a girl still in high school. It was said that I am "nothing but a creep who wants the fast action and move on." (For the record we are both waiting until we get older to have sex. Not being prudes, we just are being careful in case of an accident we don't want to have to deal with a kid while in school). She has tried speaking with her parents, but they always tell her that this is an adult matter and she needs to grow up a little before she can discuss it with them. We have both written them letters (actual paper letters, not e-mails or texts), asking for a chance to sit down and talk to discuss our intentions, but they have fallen on deaf ears. She has even gone as far as asking family friends and her priest to talk to her parents asking them to at least give it a chance. Nothing seems to work. We both really like each other and care for one another in a way your best friend would. And that's how love happens, between two persons who grow to be best friends. We have over the years. It is straining our relationship, because we both have decided to stick it out until she goes to college, but it is causing her so much hurt choosing between me and them. I've even gone as far as saying if you truly believe we were meant to be than we can try it again when you move out so you do not ruin your relationship with your parents, but she won't have that. She wants me in her life as much as I want her in mine. Any advice would help, please. This is really hurting the both of us and we don't know what else to do. Thank you! Open Question: what is going on with this relationship? ball in his court?I went out with a guy for 7 years (me being just 19 and him being just 18 at the beginning), we've broken up and got back together twice. Now he has broken up with me again stating the same reason as both times before (that he loves me but he's not in love with me). We were living together for a year when he decided to break up with me. I think the main problem was boredom as he didn't work, didn't socialise very much and he disliked my friends. I was working but I felt like a hamster on a wheel as I paid for most things and we spent too much time together. He has depression and was not an easy person to live with at times -(I'm not perfect but he made me feel down quite a bit of the time, but when it was good it was very good). A few weeks ago he phoned me and asked me to meet him because he misses me. I deliberated about this for a week before I agreed to meet him. He says its weird and like I've died by not being friends after spending so much time together We met up and had a great day together, but I ended up going back to his place where we watched a movie and had sex. It was very unexpected as we had been sending mixed signals all day, so after he kissed me I took a step back to consider what I was doing (before I did the deed). I am an adult and I have been wanting some good sex for ages, so I decided to go through with it for myself. I miss him a lot and have been asked on dates from several other men but I still love him and so far have only snogged a few of them over the 6 months that we've been separated. I think he is immature, as he has told me that he basically wants what he cant have. I asked him to meet up later this week because I have to sort out him getting his stuff from my house. I am unsure of what way to play this? Do I leave the ball in his court and be friends? I know I don't want to be just friends but I'm not sure if I'd want to go back to having a relationship with him? Should I just hold tight and see how it pans out (ie if he'll ever mature and decide for definite what he wants?) but have fun in the meantime. We were very happy during periods of our relationship (when he was working, when we were both at uni etc). We are both independently back to studying and he has moved into his own place. Open Question: Do I have a dating problem or a jealousy problem?How do I stop it? I get jealous around other girls :P Yeh I know I know. Expecially when theose other girls are around my boyfriend and he seems to be more into them then me. And texts other girls non stop and when I text my friends he gets on me about it saying I better not be cheating. Which I'm not but he 's always texting and flirting right in front of me :( What should I do. If anything Open Question: Do I have a dating problem or is it a jealousy problem?How do I stop it? I get jealous around other girls :P Yeh I know I know. Expecially when theose other girls are around my boyfriend and he seems to be more into them then me. And texts other girls non stop and when I text my friends he gets on me about it saying I better not be cheating. Which I'm not but he 's always texting and flirting right in front of me :( What should I do. If anything Open Question: What do you think is up with this girl?We went to an amazing concert for our first date. Then for the second date I took her to the Griffith Observatory. Then a day later I tried texting her but she didn't reply back. I called her a day later and found out that she didn't pay her bill for texting. So then I asked her out again and she said yes but her grandparents were in town for the weekend and she can't go. So she said to call her again next time. So I called her today and I got no answer. Then an hour later I called her again and got no answer. It's been four days since we last talked. I didn't leave her a message. What do you think is up with her? Do you think she has phone bill problems again? Should I wait for her to call me or try calling her again tomorrow? Open Question: are you a single girl?I am an honest, guy.... you know all that stuff, that a guy is, and wants. I work in Iraq as a contractor. I work 60 days in Iraq and go home to IL on my vacation that last 30 days. I am here to work in Iraq and don't want to meet a girl here, that comes with problems. And i don't want to be here for ever. When I get home on vacation I have to rest, take care of my banking, see the doctors, visit with family and friends, and what ever else people do when they are not working. I don't have much time to meet some one and get to know them long enough to really connect. you have to understand I will be gone working in Iraq for the next year or two. She also has to understand I want something real. Something can grow to solid long term relationship. I also have a 10 year old little girl that lives with her mother, and I as a responsible adult will spend a lot of time with her.... I only see her for 4 months out of the year. SO, to sum this up.... I want to meet some one online and make a friendship... then when I am home meet in person and date.... and hope it goes somewhere. If you are a single girl (or know a single girl) and are willing to work with what I have to offer..... Let me know. Open Question: What can I do to stop myself from having dreams about getting a girlfriend?I'm a 20 year old guy soon to be 21 who is having trouble. You see, I have never once done anything with a girl before, but I keep having these vivid dreams about meeting various girl and dating them. It makes me upset because I know there only dreams and nothing more. I'm one of those guys who wears glasses, has a lot of acne, and is overweight. that's a combination no woman would want. I'm the type of guy who likes to stay at home and read books, do math problems, build models, ect. All of my time is dedicated to study because I would like to make a lot of money someday. I think when I make a lot of money then all of the cute girl will want to get to know me. It's just going to require my patients. How do i get rid of these dreams so I can stay focused? Open Question: Boyfriend problems, help please?I currently have a boyfriend. His name is Zeke. We started dating, unexpectedly, a few weeks ago. We were great friends. Zeke and I .. I don't think we make a good couple anymore. I liked it better when we were just good friends. So my first question is.. Should I break up with him? If I should, how/when? I've never broken up with anyone. And I still want to be friends, like we used to. Second part.. I like someone else. His name is Jacob. I have liked him for.. forever. I can honestly consider him my best guy friend, and I think I'm one of his best girl friends, if not his #1 girl friend. He's given me hints that he's liked me too. We have taken walks alone at parties, held hands, he's flirted, etc. People have told us we would be a good couple. But I'm still not sure if he likes me the way I like him. The problem is, Jacob has a girlfriend. Her name is Emma. He started dating her days after he held hands with me. I was so upset.. I felt like I had been led on. What should I do about this problem? Should I tell Jacob that I like him, and see what he says? Should I just wait until him and Emma break up to make a move? I'm so confused. Thanks soooo much. xoxo Open Question: I am literally a miserable teen.?I have nothing socially or financially wrong with my life, I have fantastic friends (I've changed groups. Due to my previous ones wanting me to be miserable) I am an honor roll student, I am artistically gifted, and I am generally pretty. In fact too, I am about to endure a large move overseas. But I always feel fat, I workout a lot and I am a vegetarian, so I eat well. Everyone says I'm skinny but I know I'm not. But that's not truly the problem, that's just part of it. I feel as if I am a 25 year old stuck in the body of a 14 year old. I want to grow up and get married, and be with someone who truly truly loves me. But I don't want the f*ck ups first. I want to cut to the chase! I want to be a mom too. I get so jealous when I see moms at the mall. I don't know what's wrong with me! Everyone says they want to enjoy their teens, but I just want them to be over! I like being me but, I want to be well, older. I've only dated 3 guys so far, only one I was mad for. But now I am single and not looking for anything short of Mr.Romantic. It makes me mad cause no one understands. What's wrong with me?! What can I do to fix this?! Please help! Thank you! I hope everyone has a great day xoxo Btw, I'm not a brat who thinks this is the end of the world... I've asked my friends for help. I just want to stop feeling this way. I've googled this and nothing comes up. I hate bugging everyone, but it's the only way to truly find out. And I know things could be worse... But that doesn't automatically make me feel better.. Sorry guys. :\ More Recent Articles
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