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Open Question: How to let her know i love her? and more... Open Question: How to let her know i love her?Me and my best friend have known each other since she came from Mexico when she was small. We were good friends over the years passed by and we grew up, as we went to junior high and the start of high school she dated many of my close friends(I've always liked her and thought she was cute), then around the end of freshmen year when she finally broke it off with the last of my friends... i began flirting with her a lot we were like that all till sophomore year when i heard my friends still liked her and wanted to get back with her. I'm a very nice guy so i backed off so they could be together but they never did get back together, but after that more of my close friends wanted to get with her so i stood of to the side... We stayed good friends and i even met her whole family(They all liked me and i know they want me to date her- i know that for a fact) that helped me become her best friend in a way. Well one day she asked me out, but since i did not want to messed up to my friends i rejected her. But we stayed close friends... well time went by and she got pregnant... she had the kid a little boy named Alex, but the father left her and is god knows where hes at... Shes had several relationships but non have worked out she said "She does not take them seriously no more, since she had the kid". Ive been in relationships of my own(just recently she left me for her ex sad she lied and played with me for 6 months) well since that break up ive realized my true feelings for my best friend but the problem is shes been talking to this guy for a while it seems like she really likes him so ive decided to leave to Texas after the holidays and start a new life, i just want to tell her how i feel before i go... (its amazing how much happen in only 2 years im a senior now) the point is well i know there was a time when she really like me and i was an idiot for not taking my chance.. Im scared that she will tell me that was i waited to long to tell her and she moved on... Also im celebrating Christmas with her and her family and were doing secret santa, im just curious to know what u think is it a coincidence that the person i got was my best friend or did her family set it up?(They gave me the paper i did not choose) Open Question: Guy problems? Help please?Ok so ive been dating this guy for over a year now...here is a small picture of whats happening.. (Im 18 and he is 22) When i asked him if he was a virgin, he said no. He had told me he had slept with 7 other girls...but he said was immature then and he was over that. I told him im a virgin and i want to wait until im married, and although id like a guy who was a virgin as well i really liked him and it was cool that he had sex before. Later, he told me one of the women he had slept with was a woman with children...which i thought was discusting but whatever it was in the past. As time went on, he told me he lied and he had only slept with one woman...the mom. As more time went on, he told me that was a lie too and he only had a gross ex in which he put it in and took it right back out...he wasnt attracted to her and had only dated her because he had been pressured. He said he didnt want to tell me the truth because he was embarrased.. So, I dont know if he is a virgin or what....i dont know what to think... ALSO Back a while ago, i had seen text messages of a girl calling him babe and stuff. He said she had stopped. They hung out one day. went to the mall. She took him into victorias secret. She took off her shirt later on that night. they didnt do anything he said. He even told me he had loved her at one point, but he loved me more and i was right for him. DUNNO WHAT TO THINK He recently told me he never really had a girlfriend or anyone he really liked before. (he had even tried to kill himself)..and he had prayed for a girl like me to come into his life? Hes a really nice guy and he is pretty good looking too... He gave me a promise ring last valentines day...hes admits hes obsessed with me and deeply in love with me. I tried to break up with him once...but he started to cry and he got on his knees and he begged me and started to get sick... Does this sound like love or obsession? Lies or embarassment? I KNOW THIS IS VERY LONG BUT PLEASE IDK IF I SHOULD BREAK UP WITH HIM OR WHAT...I HAVE VERY STRONG FEELINGS FOR HIM He told me the mom was a lie after a while. And yeah lol he is barley going back to school because of me he says.. Open Question: Has my GF had too much sex?Me and this girl have been together for a while now, she took my virginity so she is my first real sexual partner. She on the other hand has had sex with 12 guys, 3 of which were while she was dating her old boyfriend, she swears that I'm different to her, and I believe her, but I just have a hard time forgetting about her past, she hates what she's done and even cry's about it to me sometimes. It still eats away at my inside and she says she's never felt the same way about anyone whenever me and her have sex, but I don't know why but it still bothers me, anyone ever had problems like this, anyone have any advice on the subject? Oh yeah and she is 16 years old and I am 18 Open Question: I am a Cancer, And my Girlfriend is a Gemini (relationship problems)? Please help!?I am a Cancer And my Girlfriend is a Gemini We have been dating since Late july of last year, i am 18 and she is 22. At the beginning of our relationship, everything was wonderful. It took us about 3 months for us to start being sexually active with each other. (i lost my virginity to her, also). But, She and i haven't made love since late September of this year. :[ When i ask her what is wrong/is she in the mood? , she either doesn't answer at all, or she quickly says "No.". She means the world to me. I'm afraid i'm going to lose my Gemini :[[ Because i'm a Cancer ... I know i can be over-emotional and a little clingy at times... Any tips on how i should talk to my Gemini about our sex life, and how i should treat her daily? :] Thank you very much!! Yes. We constantly go out on dates :3 and go out of town :3 My family has said the same thing all of you are saying. She isn't the cheating type. I may be overly optimistic.... but i know my Gemini. We did go for awhile without saying "i love you" to each other, because she was afraid that i didn't really love her. She also has a problem with her body image. :[ She'll make me turn around while she undresses.... She doesn't like her breasts (they are small--- but to me, they are just perfect :] --- and she says they aren't "perky" anymore) :[ i try to reassure her everyday, that i think she is perfect!! (i really do think she is perfect!!) Open Question: My girlfriend is Asian and I believe her father doesn't like me because of my race please help?Me and my girlfriend are very close with eachother. I have been with her for almost four years, we are very close and happy with eachother. We are only two years apart, so I know it can't be the fact that I'm a little older than her. Her whole family is Asian, and I don't believe any of her family stays from dating within their own race. But we met at a store back years ago and after one date, quickly fell in love with one another and things have only gotten better and better between the two of us. The main difference between us is our race. I am Scandinavian and she is Asian, so my skin is pale white her's is light yellowish(more light.. we live in Northern America).So... the problem we are having is her father. Her mother ''adores me'' and her sister is cool with me and has liked me. Her friends are also very accepting of me. But her father has always gave me dirty looks and never much talked to me or even tried to know who I was. More than he just was judging me by how I look. And it was no problem but recently he started yelling at my girlfriend and is grounding her and all this other bad stuff and I feel horrible about it. I feel like it is my fault and her mother is trying to talk to him about it but he is acting like an a**hole about it. I never would hurt his daughter, I am deeply in love with her, and we both are planning on moving in together shortly (we both are over age eighteen currently). But she has to listen to him sense she is living with her parents at the current time. So it is hard, he never seemed to care that much but for some reason recently he started acting like this and but we don't let it ruin our relationship. We already agreed we will not let her father break us apart. We are happy together and I know I could never be this way with any other girl. So it hurts me a lot to know she has to put up with an emotional hell with her father when she goes home. Lately she has been staying the night at my house as much as she can because he won't let up. I feel terrible and have tried to talk with him about it but he won't let me. What can I do, if anything? I never did anything else wrong. I use total respect and manners when I had dinner at their house and always treated their daughter with complete love and gave and still give her happiness as she does for me. It just hurts to see that he is resenting me, for whatever reason. I have always been nice to him even though he gave me dirty looks and talked about me behind my back, because I always (and still) want him to accept me. I would rather not be in a feud with my (in a few years to be) father in law. But it seems that may end up happening even though I don't want it to. But my girlfriend doesn't want to even be there currently. We talked it over lastnight and she is going to be moving in with me in about a week (by her complete will, she doesnt want to live with her father anymore she said). I understand she is angered at her father, I personally am as well. But I don't want to be distant from her parents. Her mother is really nice and offers me to stay the night and eat with them all the time. And lets me stay there with her sometimes. I think her mother is really great and a nice person in general. But her father, again, is making things stressful. Again, we both are not going to leave or be disloyal to eachother over this small thing. In all it is nothing really compared to our love, if her father truly won't accept me and her love together she says he just won't be a part of our life at all. That is not what I totally want, but it may end up coming to that conclusion. Her mother however I don't want her suffering for that, because she is a very kind hearted person. Sorry this is a long thing and is all messy in it's worse way... But please any help would be great to hear. Me and her are fine, but I want her father to get over himself for whatever the reason(S) are so we can all move on and be happy. I also fear he will not like his grand children because of this. But if he is going to continue to act this way, neither of us want anything to do with him in our lives. But please give any advice you can. Again I apologize about the messy details. I just am feeling so stressed and not too great because of this entire situation. But no worries for me and her, we will make it through this together because we are so deeply in true love with eachother. Thanks for your time and answerers that will hopefully post helpful answers. '"The Man of the Hour"', thanks. Your answer is the best I have seen so far... I too had that attraction, haha. But I fell in love when I met her now we are only interested in eachother. No worries, I will say again, we are not going to let her father's opinion on our love break us apart. She even say she wouldn't leave me if I cheated on her, so that is no problem, but I'd never do that to her and she'd never do that to me. Thanks again for your answer.. I am hoping for more though.... 'tenniskid' Her father is not a racist, it is nothing like that book. He just is not accepting. He doesn't hate or want me dead. He just doesn't want his daughter dating me (very likely) because of my race. But it's not like we look all that different. I have blond hair and blue eyes and she has black hair and black eyes. The only main difference is our appearence really. But our skin color is almost the same, actually Asian and Europeans have the most similar skin tones than any other races in the world. So our children will not look bad or much different besides I hear the Asian gene is very dominant. But I don't understand though. I am confused. He is not saying why he is doing this, I am not a scumbag or a gangster or anything. We are just two kids that are in love with eachother. But hopefully when she moves in with me he will begin to see what he is doing is very wrong. We never did anything bad to him and we are very happy together. Open Question: Shy guy needs help getting this shy girl I like?We're both friends. She hasn't gone out with anyone before and she is kinda shy. We're both 16. When we talk together, we have a good time and I usually get her to laugh. I want to talk to her more, but the problem is, I have trouble finding opportunities to talk to her. We have 4 classes together, but we have assigned seats in all of them, so I can't just sit next to her. Sometimes we split up into groups and sometimes I'm with her, but its rare when that happens. Also she is always with friends so I can't just talk to her without somehow finding my way into their conversation and it's really hard when she is with her friend that doesn't like me at all. I really want her to get an idea that I like her, but I need some help in doing that. Also, how can I kinda flirt with her, but in a way so it isn't too obvious. I don't have that much dating experience and I'm kinda shy myself so any imput helps. Thanks Open Question: Will an AMD Turion 64 X2 mobile technology TL-50 / 1.6 GHz processor run the sims 3?DxDiag: ------------------ System Information ------------------ Time of this report: 12/2/2009, 21:55:46 Machine name: MARIE-PC Operating System: Windows Vista™ Home Basic (6.0, Build 6000) (6000.vista_gdr.090805-0102) Language: English (Regional Setting: English) System Manufacturer: Hewlett-Packard System Model: HP Pavilion dv6000 (RV005UA#ABA) BIOS: PhoenixBIOS 4.0 Release 6.1 Processor: AMD Turion(tm) 64 X2 Mobile Technology TL-50 (2 CPUs), ~1.6GHz Memory: 2494MB RAM Page File: 1204MB used, 3985MB available Windows Dir: C:\Windows DirectX Version: DirectX 10 DX Setup Parameters: Not found DxDiag Version: 6.00.6000.16386 32bit Unicode ------------ DxDiag Notes ------------ Display Tab 1: No problems found. Sound Tab 1: No problems found. Sound Tab 2: No problems found. Input Tab: No problems found. -------------------- DirectX Debug Levels -------------------- Direct3D: 0/4 (retail) DirectDraw: 0/4 (retail) DirectInput: 0/5 (retail) DirectMusic: 0/5 (retail) DirectPlay: 0/9 (retail) DirectSound: 0/5 (retail) DirectShow: 0/6 (retail) --------------- Display Devices --------------- Card name: NVIDIA GeForce Go 6150 Manufacturer: NVIDIA Chip type: GeForce Go 6150 DAC type: Integrated RAMDAC Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_10DE&DEV_0244&SUBSYS_30B7103C&REV_A2 Display Memory: 1049 MB Dedicated Memory: 57 MB Shared Memory: 991 MB Current Mode: 1280 x 800 (32 bit) (60Hz) Monitor: Generic PnP Monitor Driver Name: nvd3dum.dll,nvwgf2um.dll Driver Version: 7.15.0011.7713 (English) DDI Version: 9Ex Driver Attributes: Final Retail Driver Date/Size: 12/4/2008 02:42:00, 5898240 bytes WHQL Logo'd: Yes WHQL Date Stamp: Device Identifier: {D7B71E3E-4104-11CF-AD6D-BC1002C2CA35} Vendor ID: 0x10DE Device ID: 0x0244 SubSys ID: 0x30B7103C Revision ID: 0x00A2 Revision ID: 0x00A2 Video Accel: ModeMPEG2_A ModeMPEG2_C ModeVC1_B ModeWMV9_B ModeVC1_A ModeWMV9_A Deinterlace Caps: {6CB69578-7617-4637-91E5-1C02DB810285}: Format(In/Out)=(YUY2,YUY2) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_PixelAdaptive {5A54A0C9-C7EC-4BD9-8EDE-F3C75DC4393B}: Format(In/Out)=(YUY2,YUY2) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY {335AA36E-7884-43A4-9C91-7F87FAF3E37E}: Format(In/Out)=(YUY2,YUY2) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_BOBVerticalStretch {B338D50D-A64A-4790-AC01-475B64252A78}: Format(In/Out)=(YUY2,YUY2) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_BOBVerticalStretch {6CB69578-7617-4637-91E5-1C02DB810285}: Format(In/Out)=(UYVY,UYVY) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_PixelAdaptive {5A54A0C9-C7EC-4BD9-8EDE-F3C75DC4393B}: Format(In/Out)=(UYVY,UYVY) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY {335AA36E-7884-43A4-9C91-7F87FAF3E37E}: Format(In/Out)=(UYVY,UYVY) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_BOBVerticalStretch {B338D50D-A64A-4790-AC01-475B64252A78}: Format(In/Out)=(UYVY,UYVY) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_BOBVerticalStretch {6CB69578-7617-4637-91E5-1C02DB810285}: Format(In/Out)=(YV12,0x32315659) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_PixelAdaptive {5A54A0C9-C7EC-4BD9-8EDE-F3C75DC4393B}: Format(In/Out)=(YV12,0x32315659) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY {335AA36E-7884-43A4-9C91-7F87FAF3E37E}: Format(In/Out)=(YV12,0x32315659) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_BOBVerticalStretch {B338D50D-A64A-4790-AC01-475B64252A78}: Format(In/Out)=(YV12,0x32315659) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_BOBVerticalStretch {6CB69578-7617-4637-91E5-1C02DB810285}: Format(In/Out)=(NV12,0x3231564e) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_PixelAdaptive Open Question: Hey, what would you guys do if you are dating this kind of girl?I'm bestfriends with this girl whom I've also dated before. I haven't had / looked at any other girl after her. I respect her dreams and ambitions. I see a future in her and she does so too, with me. She told me that I changed her life for the better, for she claimed that I changed her view on men, and marriage too. However, people think that she seems to be too good for me. She's tall, very beautiful, smart, talented, mature... but she comes from an upper class family. I haven't seen any other girl like her, and I love her so much. Everytime we would face obstacles along the way, our relationship's just getting stronger... even during times that we're not allowed to be with each other physically. But, like I've mentioned earlier, people are looking down on me. Her parents believe that she deserves someone better. She told me about that before, and she said that she had terrible relationships with the men her parents suggested... she's only considering them because, although they still had the upper class image, they're experiencing some financial problems. As for me, I'm just kinda normal. I am presently a pre-med student, but my life's pretty ordinary. I don't look bad at all, but her other suitors are pretty much better looking than me. Not to mention, more financially well off than me. This is somehow affecting my self-esteem, even if she accepts me for who I am. I am now undergoing a strict diet and works out at the gym, to make myself at least look better, physically. As for the financial part, I'm doing my best with my studies, so I could at least be able to afford the same future these guys can give to her anytime. I am not quiting on her. It also hurts that her parents, specifically her mom, doesn't accept me yet. I have received hurtful words such as me being a social climber and a bastard (I came from a second family). I'll do anything to save our relationship, but I'm also fearing that she might break her relationship with her parents, whom I still respect deeply. Her mother is much stricter about this matter, although her dad believes in the possibility that we might just be for each other. Open Question: If I fast, will I be able to go on a date Friday?Here's the deal: I binged, I vomited and then burned 700 calories at the gym. My stomach is growling so I know I did a decent job ridding my body of calories. My parents are leaving town Friday and will be gone by the time I get home. They never know if I eat breakfast or lunch, and I can probably skip eating completely tomorrow unnoticed. If I can get through that then I can fast all weekend while laying around and not having anyone expect me to do anything, and since my last piece of food was gone by 6 p.m., I can go for a 104 hour fast if I don't eat again until first thing Monday morning. (I'll eat gum, mints, diet soda, and that kind of thing.) The longest I have ever gone not eating is 32 hours, but I am now determined. The only problem is I got asked out and have an ice skating date on Friday night, 49-52 hours into my fast. Will I even be able to function by then, much less be fun? If I drink enough caffeine, will I have decent energy for my date? And yes, I know I have a problem with food. Give me advice as far as the date is concerned, not my eating habits. I don't care if I have fun that particular time, but I do want the guy to like me. Ok calm down, I'm 5'9" and 115 pounds, have only made myself throw up 5 times in my entire life, and have never gone more than 32 hours without eating. I'm not about to drop dead, I just want to get under 110 and this seems like my chance. Open Question: idk to trust the girl i like?there is this girl that i have been talking to everyday for about 4 months now. Well now i like her but theres a problem. She dated this one guy for like 2 days and he ended up dumping her. Well she said she never talks to him but i found out she has been and when i found out i asked her why did she lie about it. she said she doesnt like him and the reason she was lying is becuase she didnt want people to think she was stupid. Well she said only he starts talking to her but then she ended up saying shes starts talking to him sometimes. i dont know if she is lying to me and still likes him. I had my friend ask her if i were to ask her out if she would go out with me and she said, she hasnt really thought about it. So i was just wondering what all of your opinions are on this. Thanks for any response. Open Question: family splitting problem?in a year i will start high school, me and my dad who got divorced from my mother have decided to live in a town all the way across the country. i have lived with my mother my whole life and we havent told her yet. i feel terrible about what her and all my friends will think if i just leave and never come back i cant sleep and im worried. i think it will hurt my friends and mother terribly. i dont know how to deal with all this. my dad said hell talk to my mom and i have to talk to my friends. i dont know how bad it will be to have to start all over in high school. i really could just use some guidence or comfort im so stressed about just disappeaering. oh god what about my girls friend been dating 2 years and were still strong.. Open Question: Should i come forward or shouldn't?well the thing is i like this guy he is funny, caring, amazing, has a great smile,a comfy aura if thats make sense i didn't fetl about him this way before to be honest we were apart for many years ..we met last week for the first time and it hit me.. this strong feeling Inside ..my heart just jumped right out of my chest when he is there.. i just love being around him the way he looks at me ammm it just melt me completely i never told him how i feel but it seems that i'm always hovering around him .. MY PROBLEM is : first he is younger than me 4 years younger i know it's ok to date younger guys these days but still i need someone out of my circle to tell me it's fine to do so..second we are related he is my cousin it's okay in our family traditions to date/marry someone related to you my concerns is than he doesn't feel the same way and i'll end up looking like a fool in-front of the whole family and i don't wanna make it awkward between us and yeah i sensed mixed signals from him that's what confuses me should i go with my feelings or leave him a trace here and there what should i do please share your thoughts thanx BTW we are italians it's FINE and completely Legal so Ignorant people keep your answers to yourselfs please More Recent Articles
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