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Open Question: Husband+drinking+women-trust=? Can we work? and more... Open Question: Husband+drinking+women-trust=? Can we work?My husband and I have been married for 6 months, Since the day we said "I Do" things became completely different. We used to worship the ground each other walked on, but now we can barely speak. Our biggest problems are his drinking habits, his idea of "fun",and other women. Somehow I misunderstood every thing we ever had in common, and now I'm the mean wife that wants him around, and gets upset that the only people that he talks to are girls. His drinking has gotten very violent, he hasn't hit me, but It's gotten pretty bad (shaken and the like). He's made a profile on adult dating sites, Even the other day, he snuck out at 3 in the morning, took off his wedding band, went to his friends where it was the two of them and two girls. He swears nothing happened, but I don't believe a word he says... I just want to know if this marriage can be salvaged. I do love him so much, but I can't live like this, and even though the promises are tempting... I've heard them all before. HELP! We live in Germany, I moved here with him, two months ago. So leaving isn't super easy. I love him so much, and I love who he was, that makes it harder to let go... Open Question: Why is it that I only like girls that ignore me?When I'm dating someone, after I know that I got them under my spell I ditch them. But I always like girls that ignore me. I met this girl at a bar and wasn't sure if I liked her. I texted her the next day anyway and she answered back in like 2 minutes and it totally turned me off. I didn't text her back for an hour and then she stopped responding to my texts and that's when I started to really like her. The same thing happened with a different girl and she basically told me that I only liked her because I couldnt have her. Whats my problem and how can I fix it because it always ends up with me getting hurt. Open Question: What could have happened boy problems?Ok i've been dating this boy for a little over 2yrs now.. he went to vegas for a week with his uncles and was amazing called texted told me how much he missed me blah blah.. cam home wednesday stopped by for 2 hours to his house and took a little nap with him and left told me he loved me and will call me later.. didn't see him thanksgiving but asked if he could make time for me friday night.. he came into my work place surprised me and waited till i got off of work came back to my house and was all over me telling me he missed me loved me and than gets a text from his sister saying she is out at the bar with his ex and this other girl and his older sister text right after saying come to the bar as well. So he got up and went and i got pissed and something nasty but i said i was sorry he gave me the biggest hug and kiss and said i love you and we were fine.. an hour later texted me saying " i cant do this" and we've been broken up since friday what did i do ?? what the hell happened? he's been soooo nasty to me telling me he'll never love me like i love him.. im not that important in his life.. that he hasn't been happy for a while.. is this worth it.. its killing me please help! Open Question: How do I get her back??? Or do I?Ok my story goes like this my ex girlfriend now I am completely in love with is 14 years old and I am 16 years old. We were working on our problems for weeks when she just decided to give up on me I guess and Told me she didn't love me anymore, 2 of her friends at least don't like me one of them completely hates me, Her parents don't like us dating because of her age and She has a new boyfriend what should I do, Should I keep trying to get with her Or should I just give up? If you think I should keep trying to get with her explain to me Open Question: how can i found the right emo guy to date?i have had 3 different relationship on my life. the 1st was totally cool but i never got the chance to meet him in real life. the 2nd one was alright but then we got 2 broke up cause of a stupid argument we had. the 3rd one was alright at 1st but then he stared talking about his ex-girlfriend and his past problems with her and saying to other girls are they cute or are they hot so i had to broke up with him cause i was seeing was that he dosent show any respect for me. so if there anyone out there please tell me how to find the right emo bf for me thank you nd have a great day =) Open Question: so Its not my problem but I wanna help and I need your help?well heres the thing my brother is 17 he owns the high school every girl`s dream boy and he is dating this amazing girl now and she is not a CHEARLEADER -thank god- anyway last night me and him stayed home and watched TV together but someone send a text to his girlfriend saying that she was having sex with my brother in the time that he was me and his girlfriend hates him now I would hate him too and I wont believe him too but this is the only time that he is not lying and she is so mad at him and he is SAD!! and thats a first so how do I tell his girlfriend the truth? Open Question: Please help me I really need some advice!?I just broke up with my boyfriend last night and I'm taking it really really hard. Brief history: it was love at first sight.. we moved in after dating for just a few months.. he came to my country and met my entire family and told my grandparents we would be together forever. No guy has ever met my entire family back home. He recently bought a house and i felt like all of our dreams were coming true. Now the bad stuff: we started having problems when we first moved in and i always felt like it was because of his mother. I really thought that when we moved out of her basement things would be different. There have been some occasions where he did really screwed up things. Once he made me drive to my moms house drunk because we were in a fight about something so stupid. He put my life in danger and was never able to admit it. Another time i lied to him about something stupid because i didn't want him to get upset and he spit in my face!! At the beginning I always used to leave and stay at my moms when we fought and he used top always tell me that i was running away and making it worse and begged me not to leave many times. He got me pregnant and i had an abortion which i still regret to this day and which he al;ways brings up. This has put our relationship on the rocks even more. Most recently he has been the one asking me to leave every time we get into a stupid little fight and i have been so hurt by it. This weekend we got into an argument because i felt he was being rude (we had people over and he was making jokes at my expense) and he thought i was being too sensitive. I called him annoying and he was so quick to ask me to leave again. I gave him an ultimatum and told him I'm tired of turing my life upside down every time we fight by packing unpacking, packing again and all this back and forth. It's exhausting and i always want to come back or not leave at all. I went to work and when I came back it seemed like he had thought about it and changed his mind but then he overheard me talking to my best friend on the phone about him, got mad and said maybe it is for the best if i really do go, so out of anger i told him its over. I felt really bad that he heard me but i wasn't calling him name or anything he's just a really private person and hates having other people know our business. I just feel like if he can argue with me in front of his mom and tell her everything I'm allowed to talk to my best friend about him! That night he was talking in his sleep and tried to cuddle with me. I heard him dreaming and telling me not to leave. I felt so bad because i didnt mean to say it was over but i was so hurt that he asked me to leave that i moved away from him in bed and was very cold. The next day he went to work and i packed my things and left. We talked after but he was so angry about everything and would not accept my apology about saying its over. I have been trying to call him and text but he is being so cold. He told me again last night that we are done just like i said and he really seems to mean it. I cant express how much i love this guy. we have been thru so much together and he is my whole life. I am so hurt and confused and i keep blaming myself for all of this. I feel like i never should have had an abortion but i was so scared that i would end up a single mom and im still in school. I feel like if i wasnt so sensitive all the time we wouldnt fight but in the same time i feel like he is way ruder now than before and maybe i cant take a joke anymore because i don't feel loved. I have been praying and am going to church for some counceling today. My best friend told me she is really concerned because she has never seen me like this before and I'm taking it really really hard. I am concerened for my emotional well being right now too. I feel like a zombie, I cant function properly and I'm scared. I feel like I cant go on without him. I think some time apart will be good for us but i didn't want it to end. I thought he was so in love with me and i want him back i want him to want to work on this and i cant help but feel hopeless. I don't know what to do. He's a gemini and i know he doesn't like to be chased but i don't know how to rectify this or how to pick myself up from this downward spiral. Please help! Open Question: Intercultural marriage question?Hi i am not sure if this is the right place to ask this question. I am going though a serious culture problem here . Well i am originally from India and i am dating a girl of German origin from Romania. We have plans of getting married soon Now i feel i am going to be other victim of Indian conservative society. My parents they somehow like other indian parents(i wont say all i mean like some) think only Indian girl is best since they have bla bla culture and other girls make no sense(bullshit). I tired to convince them saying look parents i am not being selfish here but its me who gonna live with her not with u guys, so why i have to take someone else chosen girl on my head. It is as equivalent of selling myself. I am sorry i am not being racist here. But i am sure many have experience this problem before. i have 2 choice either walk away from her saying look i am a jerk and it was a mistake we dated. Second i tell her look lets gets married and later we tell my parents its our life we have to work out together irrespective of conservative society we live. Anyways we have plans to live in Australia after marriage so that she find it comfortable to live . I sometimes feel it is easy to walk away but it is hard to find a girl who really find u worth to spend life with and like the way you are. Kindly advice Open Question: This will be a bit of a long question, but I really need advice!! Family problem?Well my parents divorced- let's just say a real nasty divorce. And I choose to live with my dad because of the previous things my mother has caused in the past. ANYWAY, my dad has found someone else and they are getting extremely serious. I have one older sister, but she is 19 and in college who doesn't have to deal with any of this. My dads girlfriend has two sons, one is 11 and one is 15 and I'm a 14 year old girl. I am having to meet the 15 year old in a week, I've already met the 11 year old. Supposedly the 15 year old does not like the idea of my dad dating his mom, and I'm really afraid that he is going to be a straight up jerk to me, how should I introduce myself / break the ice? My dad and his girlfriend are extremely serious... it is freaking me out. I know that this is ONLY a CHANCE but if they get married... how would it be different living with boys instead of just an older sister? I know I might be too worried about this, but I'd appreciate the advice. Like how I can keep my personal space, sort of avoid fights with them, etc Thank you so much to anyone who answers, I appreciate it :) Open Question: gf says she is confused, help?last saturday i had a date with a girl i known for 4 years,i met her online and she claims she has liked me alot for 3 years and we had an on and off friendship for ages, only met her first time eva on saturday and we started off quite arkward as i was very nervous (and she was shocked about how shy and nervous i was) but we went cinema, i gained the nerve and we cuddled, when we left and i bought her a lil teddy and kissed her (it was done quite nervously but i did it non the less), and i asked her to be my gf at the end of the day, and she said yes now since yesterday she has gone very wierd and funny with me, saying she is confused if she wants to be with me or not, saying she dont know how she feels about me anymore and its not me thats the problem its her and that she aint feeling any emotions right now, she dont feel herself caring about anything at the momment, and so i asked if she wanted to see me agn this weekend, and she said no because she needs to clear her head, and i asked if another guy was involved in this decision and she said she can promise me that there is no guy involved im good friends with her sister and i text her about it and she replyed "oh my sister is always doing that, she does that with every guy and they ussaully get fed up and leave" what do i do? i do really like this girl, but this is getting stupid now, i feel im more likely to get hurt here Open Question: Really Need Some Advice?Okay, so about 2 months ago now, this guy in my class told me he liked me and I liked him too. We met up that night and kissed and talked a bit. He wanted to go furthur but I made it clear I did not do that on a first date. However, the problem was that he had liked this other girl in the year below for some time and so I told him he had a desicion to make as he was not stringing me along while he decided who he wanted. He decided he wanted her and about a week later they were going out. We agreed to remain friends and I told him that I was really happy that he told me truthfully his feelings and that he did not string me along. They have now broken up and although we said we would remain friends we haven't properly spoken since. At school we smile at each other when we pass, but nothing else. I am still interested in him. Should I talk to him? Do you think he was just stringing me along while he made up his mind? He did seem really sweet. His exact words were I am really sorry but I just love ------ too much. We are both 15 btw. So basically, what should I do? Should I start to talk to him and sort of let him know I'm still interested? Just try and forget about him? Btw, he did make up his mind within 12 hours of me telling him he needed to Open Question: Where does one even begin to get help with a social phobia?Following on from how I feel in an earlier question. I am totally unsure if I am suffering with depression, or if I am miserable due to a social phobia. I am petrified of meeting people, especially women (I am 29 year old male). I have never asked a female out on a date and have had minimal experience with women. I need to get help, but where does one start? Surely NHS GPs will just have you in, then out, and maybe give you some pills. How can I get to the root of the problem? I don't want my life to be ruined anymore. Thanks in advance. Open Question: Is there a problem with buying stocks for dividends, then selling them after the ex dividend date?My strategy is to both buy and short the stock the day before the dividend payment. By both buying and shorting they will cancel each other out. Take the dividend and then cancel both of your trades. Basically, I'm guaranteed the dividend without a loss and only costing me the price of commission. What do you guys think about this? Do you know how these dividends will be taxed on my tax return? Open Question: Why does it seem like my whole family (including my husband) likes animals more than me?My husband and I have been fighting a lot recently because he's got a huge anger problem and I have an equally huge anxiety problem. And whenever I have a panic attack, he yells at me, freaks out...he's even thrown things at me. But when the kitten we just got attacks me when I'm trying to sleep and tries to suckle on me even though he's been weaned for a loooong time, he says to just be patient and caring. What the hell? Why can my stupid husband think it's okay to treat me like trash, but I can't get mad that the cat just scratched me really bad on the face because he's got a problem with not wanting to leave me alone. And this isn't the first time he's treated me worse than an animal. In fact, my whole family has done that to me since I can remember. My mom let her chihuahua attack me all the time, then said I deserved it. My dad used to abuse me ALL the time, but he loved taking care of his stupid poodle. My husband, when we'd been dating for awhile, kicked me out of bed so his stupid freaking dog could lay with him. He let me sleep in the freaking floor all night, didn't even try to remove the animal even though he had one of those beds that was technically a single. Why is it that no one cares about me as much as animals? Or is it just I'm around the wrong people? I don't know. It just really hurts. I can't stand it. And my husband can't see why I am mad at him right now, which is ridiculous. And the thing is, don't get me wrong, I love animals. I'm all about animal rights, and I've taken care of animals all my life. I love them. I'm even a cat person! I just don't understand what the hell is up with my family. For crying out loud, we have a baby! Is he gonna do the same thing to him?! Just, please answer. I really don't want see any bashing, if you are just going to be an ass, don't bother answering because I get enough of it in real life. If you bash me, I'm going to report you. More Recent Articles |
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