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Open Question: I am having difficulty with having sex with females? advice? and more... Open Question: I am having difficulty with having sex with females? advice?I'm a 27 year old African-American male. I try my best you know. I'm positive, people like me [lol], and I work a good job.. So why is it that I always have problems with women? I mean, I have been in relationships, good ones, but when it comes to being intimate with the female I chose, its satisfying for her, but not for me. Not trying to be funny or anything, but most women have problems with me being "BIG" down there. I'm about 11 inches long and have the roundness as a tube for a roll of paper towels [a lil bit bigger] . I've dated different ethnicities and they all say the same thing about me like "Your too Big" or "that's too much" . My experience as far as they go, they enjoy me. Most of them have multiple orgasms when we get together, but I don't. In order for me to be stimulated, i have to get a "deeper" penetration. But when i try to go deep, it starts to hurt them, so we end up having sex for like, 2 and 3 hours because i can't climax! In order for me to climax I literally have to "do it myself" while we are in the act. Do any of you females know what it would take for her to get me off better when i can't "fit?" Open Question: Long Question But Serious: How badly is my teacher flirting with me?Let's start off with I'm 16, and he is 30. Although, he persistently acts like he's 20. :P This question is going to end up being REALLY long because I have many examples, but please bare with me and help me out. :) I've had him as my teacher for about 2 years now and he's one of those younger teachers that basically get stepped on. He's not taken seriously, but the same time, he barely ever has homework and spends most of the class telling funny stories. If you're late to a class from talking to a friend in the hall, he'll write you a pass just so you won't get in trouble.. every time. He's always had rumors, so bad that he's well aware of them, that he sleeps with students once they turn 18. Even though he's especially nice to everyone, I get more special treatment than the rest. I accidently found out when he left his iPhone out that he's dating a girl who he coached and taught until she graduated two years ago. She's 20, he's 30. Him and I had a long talk about it and he told me that while he knows how it can look bad, he really likes her and wants to continue it. He said that if he wanted to do anything with her while she was a student, he could have because he knows her family really well, but he waited. Which is a tad bit creepy. I will admit, he's REALLY attractive and I flirt with him all the time. It's just thrilling to push his limits. One day last year, a friend of mine noticed he looked hard. He saw a whispering and begged me for a full year to tell him what it was. I warned him over and over that it was inappropriate, but he said it was okay. I was still hesitant, so he started guessing. His first guess was that I was checking out his ass. Eventually, I told him the truth and he laughed, saying he wasn't hard at any point during class last year. Every time we're alone he freely swears around me as if I was his age with no limitations. He helps me with my ex bf problems and told me how he still has the ring he bought for his last girlfriend. He's constantly making 'that's what she said' jokes with everyone. I was joking around with him once that he looked like another teacher at the school, who was a little younger and shorter. He started asking things like "Oh, well don't say I have his eyes. I think my eyes are nice..what do you think?" and he said "I'm bigger than him", meaning he was heavier, but I stupidly, said "Oh, you're bigger than him in everyday!" and the whole class cracked up. He ended up telling me later that I was probably right with a smirk. Most of the things we say to each other that are over the line, are when we're alone. Recently, it changed. My best friend and I were in a the room next door with another laid back teacher and she has a religious bracelet that is supposed to be Jesus, but actually looks like the teacher who's room we were in. So, we told him he was Jesus, and he asked "if I'm jesus, who's god?" and immediately we said the other teacher that this is all about. We wrote it on the board, so a lot of people saw it, and eventually word got back to him that we said he was a god. He went to some of my friends and said "What the hell is up with this god thing? It's awkward and it needs to stop." I got SO pissed. I went to him right away, because honestly, if he didn't want to me to say things - he wouldn't ask even after I warn him that it's inappropriate. We had probably over 2 hours worth of time talking about it. He told me that if he thought I was being over the line he would tell me, especially after everything we've been through and kept saying it over and over, in every way possible, as if I was missing something. He told me that he doesn't know why he said that to them and that it sounded more 'joking' in his head. He apologized and endless amount of times. He also said that I have obviously said things more risky than the God thing, because I "questioned him about having a friggen hard on. And even that wasn't too much." < exact words. So, I asked what was too much. He said nothing. But, I knew there was limit, otherwise he wouldn't have said too much. I asked again. And he said I just couldn't proposition to do something with him. I told him I was considering having a normal student teacher relationship after that, so i wouldn't have to worry I was giving him attention he secretly didn't want, but he said that "I want you to do whatever makes you feel less stressed out. But I liked the way things were." so we went back to the way it was. I had a girls night a few weeks ago and he asked if I talked about him on girls night, and I said yeahhhh. He told me he wanted to hear anything negative, but I got a little flirty and said "it was all positive..just inappropriate." he started laughing and wouldn't tell me what he was thinking, so I forced him to tell me and he said straight out that I don't know how much he would give to be a fly on the wall at that party and that he can only imagine what I say when he's not around conside the ending goes: "considering what i saw to his face." anyway, please tell me your opinion on if this is too much! sorry it's so long! :[ it did get cut off. :[ that was pretty much the end anyway. Open Question: How to not seem asexual?Im 16 and in high school. I have a bunch of guy friends, but I haven't really dated anyone yet, never had a boyfriend. I'm outgoing and I do flirt sometimes, and I have a bunch of girlfriends too. I recently discovered that my guy friends thought I was lesbian and I thought it was hilarious and even lead them on, but then I got tired of it and cleared that issue up. And later I was thinking to myself, how disturbing that is. They think im asexual or something. and i don't get why, because i have girlfriends who haven't dated either and they don't think they are lesbian... it didn't make sense to me, until i realized that i have a fundamental problem..Im one of those girls that is just a "friend" to all of them. Im not tomboyish though. even if im not interested in them romantically, it makes me sad to think that they would never be interested in me because they don't see me for who i am..a heterosexual girl. so how do i show them that i am dateable without coming over as slutty or desperate? i mean im not gonna hook up with a guy just to prove it or flirt excessively. Open Question: can someone help with love problem?Well its like this...I'm dating a girl for like 6 months now but i rarely see her now that school started because we are not going in same school anymore...on the other hand i met a girl which is going in my class and we really like each other...i dont know what to do...i dont want to lose 6 months of dating with my gf but now that we dont see each other often i dont know what to think anymore.. any suggestions? Open Question: Dont know if i want to be with him or whether i love him as much as i did before?hello I have been dating a man for about 9months now and we have had a lot of problems since the beginning. We both have issues with drink and we have been aggressive violent with each other on a few occasions when drunk. He has threatened me on a few occasions but never hit me this has happened when he has been drunk and when he has been sober i started to do the same to him which i know is wrong so i stopped doing that. Recently things have gone from bad to worse he had a drink one day and assaulted my best friend(male) for no reason what so ever it was unprovoked he is now bail and will be charged for AHB he may end up going to prison or worse deported as he is foreign. We decided to get back together during this time as we do still love each other and want things to be sorted out we both have made appointments for counselling to get help. My feelings at the moment is that i am no longer sure we should stay together every time i look at him i just see the night he assaulted my friend and all the pain we have put each other through which hurts. We both agreed we are tired of the arguments and the problems we have together. I am scared to get close to him emotionally in case he goes to prison or things dont work out between us i dont know what to do anymore i love him but i feel it is less than before i want to be with him but it hurts at the same time. 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