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Open Question: I can't stop cheating in relationships. I think I need help-or am i normal? Im only 18!? and more...

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Open Question: I can't stop cheating in relationships. I think I need help-or am i normal? Im only 18!? and more...

Open Question: I can't stop cheating in relationships. I think I need help-or am i normal? Im only 18!?

Okay, It's kind of a long story so please hang on in there! I'm 18 years old,not to be stuck up but I am good looking- I have had a little history with sexual abuse with molestation from a family member but other than that I was raised in a very good home and I've been spoiled with love from my parents so I have no explanation on where this cheating problem comes from. Other than is it hereditary? because I know my dad and 3 older brothers all did it [im the youngest and only girl and i don't think my mom did] GUY #1-I've been in a relationship with my High School sweetheart for 3 years. I'm gonna be 19 and he's going to be 21. He has been there with me thru everything the good times the bad times but omg the stuff that he used to say to me was never the nicest and he seriously has this crazy ass jealousy issue. He hates even when guys look at me even though I always catch him looking at other girls but i never care! He is the one that I lost my virginity to and he's the first guy I've even ever kissed! He's the only one that I've ever ever had sex with. I know that he loves me and he has never felt love like mine because his childhood was soo messed up and he has never had another serious girlfriend. He wants to marry me and provide me a beautiful life but idk i know i love him but i can't stop thinking EVER about the way he woud be, comparing me to other girls puttin me down, and just dumb shit I can't ever get over. GUY #2-We are more like bestfriends but I've known him all of my life [because we're neighbors&the same age and we've always had each other for classes] he knows everything about me and I know everything about him. He knows even about my cheating but only with him-my main boy-and one other guy I'm dating. We never have kissed but we've been close to doing so soo many times and he's been in love with me since our freshman year but he was always too shy to ask me out and he got beat to it. We always talk every single night we txt each other daily and we always joke around that we're husband and wife and we'll be together when we're older. sometimes we say we're going to runaway and not tell anyone and live happily ever after lol he also got punched and fears my main boyfriend because welll guy number one is 6ft 200 lb and he's bout 5'7 n 170 lb GUY #3-We barely started dating, I met him this September and the first time we seen each other it was like DAMN!! He couldn't stop eyein me and I couldn't stop eyein him so I gave him my number, We hit it off immediately. He's so sincere and he makes me feel sooo goood about myself. and he says he likes teling me things that make me feel good because he knows it makes me happy. Plus he's sooo fine! He's the best lookin out of all the guys he looks like Chingy! I think I'm falling in love with him. he is raised so good and he's so polite and has real good manners. and i love love love the way he ksses. i only get to see him once a week because he lives like 45min away. but we txt constantly. he really really has deep feelings for me. GUYS #4-5-6: They claim to really like me but to me I don't really care for them at all. We just text send pictures here and there [naughty ones] but they invite me places buy me things. I've never kissed any of them and don't plan too. So I don't worry too much about them. So I'm juggling 6guys at once and not even my friends know. They only know I'm dating 2 guys. I don't know if I want to be with one - I don't know if I should just keep this going on forever but I worry what if i find MORE guys - I don't know if I'm CRAZY and need help because I have wonderful guys to choose from. The only thing I do know is that I don't want to break nobodys heart and I don't want to be alone. IDK IDK IDK! What's WRONG with me!? [please dont call me trashy names or laugh at me because I'm 100% serious with my question.]

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Open Question: Does he want to have a relationship with me or what?

There's this guy who works 3 doors down from where I work. We went on one date back in february, and got a kiss, but i kinda messed it up when i said something that sounded like i was rushing things. it was awkward for months but it did get better. i asked him in may if he liked me as more than a friend and he said he thought we shouldn't be more than friends, so from then on i acted like a friend. a few months ago we started hanging out and talking more outside work, he would just randomly ask if i wanted to go to a movie or something. about a month ago we were taking a walk and we ended up making out between two apartment buildings. he did tell me he didn't want me to get too carried away and asked if we could go on like normal, though he didn't want to seem like he was putting, he just didn't want it to get weird between us. and i did act normal and aloof, and flirted every now and then. he also told me that he feels too busy to really commit to someone because he works and goes to school all the time. sunday he gave me a ride home from work and we sat in front of my house for about 30 minutes talking. we talked about personal stuff and he apologized for taking advantage of me a few weeks ago. he did drop hints of us getting together again and maybe having a little fun. i don't have a problem with doing that every now and then but thats not all i want, i told him that, he knows i want more, and he completely understands that. we have fun just talking and we could talk for hours. he told a mutual friend that he would never hurt me and one of his closest friends agrees that he's not the kind of guy that just does that to girls. i'm 18 he's 20, and we have been friends for over a year he didn't want it to look like he was putting me out i figure he's not using me because he's nothing like my ex who from the very day we met was trying to get in my pants and 99% of the time when he called or texted me was a sexual advance. that is completely opposite of this guy. and he usually intiates the conversations

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Open Question: Why my telecom xt sim won't work in my cellphone?

My cell phone is Nokia N70... I buy my telecom xt sim on november 28....I open it and still have a network coverage...So I follow the rules...I txt some1 to activate my sim...When I go home I open my telecom broadband and then I check my cell phone to register it to the telecom site...I check it and saw that I don't have a signal and no telecom xt at the top...After that I left my phone to stay like that cuz I think they activating it...In December 1 I check my phone and still don't have a signal so I think Im going to recheck again tommorow...So Today... I check my phone and still don't have a signal..I count the date and It's almost 5 days and still didn't activate?? Is my sim has a problem or my phone is faulty? Im using telecom xt NZ

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