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Open Question: I caught my friend stealing from her parents, but she does have a reason to help out her boyfriend.? and more... Open Question: I caught my friend stealing from her parents, but she does have a reason to help out her boyfriend.?Me and a friend were hanging out then she invited me over to her home (we were alone parents out, which is often) and she told me to wait downstairs. She sounded a little sneaky so I decided to follow her. I thought she had some surprise for me or something so I snuck up behind her and took out a mirror at the top of the stairs and watched where she went. She went to her parents room instead and took some money out of some desk drawers. I was shocked and ran back downstairs. Anyway it was a couple of minutes before she came back down and proceeded to show me quite a few photos of her and her new boyfriend and she said he was coming over soon and wanted me to meet him too. Well we did and the first thing I noticed was her handing him money. She said she met him two months ago and started dating. However a week ago he had been fired for drinking on the job and screwing up big. So his parents just kicked him out of the house. His wallet and clothes are still in the house and they won't let him in so he's penniless and needs to borrow her clothes (oh, she's kind of tomboyish and has quite some clothes that do suit him and he's not a big guy about the same size actually so no problem there). He's actually living at her house, in her room but also hiding it from her parents as well. She says she's using her own savings to pay for his needs temporary until they resolve the problem with his parents but they won't let up. However, since I saw she take money from her parents that's for sure where she gets the money from. And she lies about it. Well I immediately told her, don't give him your money, we're friends, my money will work too and it's a hardship we share together. They said it was fine. So, it works for now. And I told them they should go talk to his parents again and discuss about the unfairness of them simply kicking him out and if they aren't letting up I'll go with them next time and have a talk. However I don't know how to bring up the stealing problem and how to resolve that? I don't want to hurt anyone but it's wrong. And I'm pretty sure the boyfriend doesn't know where the money is actually coming from. I do hope the kicking out of the house problem is resolved soon, though any tips are welcome. Thanks a lot. Open Question: Why are black women at the bottom of the list when it comes to dating?Even other black guys don't want to date a black girl because of stupid stereotypes. My best friends who is asian never has a problem finding a boyfriend and he is usually black. She'll ask them if they like dating black girls, and they always say no. She'll ask why, and they'll say its because were to loud, ghetto, mean, and we always bring alot of drama. Im nothing like that at all but guys will never no because they don't ever give me a chance. I've never had a boyfriend, and any guy ive liked is usually only interested in girls of other races, or just want to be friends. Outside of that a couple of time there were white guys that wanted to date me, and I'd like them at first, but then I'd find out that they only like me because im black, and they like the stereo type which again im nothing like, so it never works out. It just get so frustrating. Anyone else with this issue? If anyone thinks im joking go on google and type in why are black women, and see what's there. Its just that im honestly nothing like these stereo types my friends make fun of me for not "acting black" and tell me to take lessons... which is sad because I don't believe in acting black i am who am. I love the color of my skin, but I hate that it keeps guys from wanting to get to know me ya know? does that make sense?? Open Question: what should i do about my boyfriend?towards the end of summer my boyfriend and i started having problems, nothing major i just wasnt treating him the best and then in october at the end, he said we needed to go on a break to figure out whether or not i really wanted to be with him..which i do, and then after a month we talked about it and he said he needs time away still cause hes a senior and he hasnt figured out college stuff and i understand that, but now its december and i just miss him so much :/ we barely talk and i havent seen him since october. i also think another reason is his friends, cause i know some of them are going off to the navy in the beginning of summer so im assuming he wants to spend his last year with them, but i dont see why he cant also just be with me. he told me he doesnt want to be broken up and that we wont be apart forever and how he still loves me he just needs time, but idk what to do. dont tell me to leave him because thats already what all my friend say, i love him too much though, we've been dating for 9 months..i cant just let go. but i've been so unhappy, i feel like im losing everyone close to me because im always in a unhappy mood. im hoping that on christmas i can talk to him and convince him to get back toge4ther with me, but what do i say? Open Question: What should I get my new girlfriend for Christmas?We're both seniors in high school and only started going out in the end of November. Also, we talk a lot, but we've only been on one (maybe two) real date(s). So the problem is that by the time Christmas rolls around, it will be just long enough that I should get her a gift, but too short for me to really know her well. What would be some good ideas or even guidelines as far as price goes. Also, I'm kinda in some really awkward timing because her birthday is in January and then Valentine's Day is in February. I think it's too soon for jewelery and the only other idea I've had was getting her some roses with a poem that I wrote (but that seems more like a Valentine's Day gift, if it lasts that long). Basically, we are still in that awkward getting to know each other stage and I don't know what the limits are on price, intimacy, etc. Please help! Thanks. Open Question: how to deal with bf/gf problems?My best friend is dating a guy I liked for a long time, she obviously doesn't like him that much and she would like to break up with him for another guy but she doesn't know how because he is really nice and hasn't made any mistakes. Meanwhile, her boyfriend really likes her and has no idea of the upcoming break-up. He's even going to get her a really special gift for christmas. Also, the other guy that my friend likes doesn't seem to be interested in her, and her boyfriend has never liked me. I know that my friend's boyfriend is going to be hurt and I feel so sorry for him. I can't tell him of the break up and I can't get my friend to change her mind. It's all so confusing and I have no idea what to do. Please help.... More Recent Articles |
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