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Thursday, December 17, 2009

Open Question: I Don Kno Wat 2 Do.........? and more...

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Open Question: I Don Kno Wat 2 Do.........? and more...

Open Question: I Don Kno Wat 2 Do.........?

Ok,we'll go by the name, which is Daniel, am 17 and I have a gurl, her name is Stephanie, for over 8 months, we be living in happiness, we fought once in which I apologize in a romantic way, and we're both happy. Things changed........ On Monday I logged on Facebook and I sawthat I had a friend request, and when I checked up, I was shocked... A pretty sexy s** girl in which I knew 4 yrs ago.. My then gurl, I realized it was her by her name, Jessica [Last name], I accepted the friend request, in which she was online, she started hitting me up on the chat and started remembering me things we both did way past together, she still loves me and since she's in Italy and i'm in the U.S.A. things can't work, but I didn't tell her that and she doesn't know I have a gf... But her parents along with her are coming to holla for Christmas (our parents are very close friends), and she couldn't wait to see me personaly. When I went to her profile and checked up her pics she still had the chain I gave it to her for her 13th Birthday!! + she sent me sum picture in which one of them she was wearing the half heart tag with my name and relationship date necklace on her neck!! My problem is when she get what should I tell her, I mean my parents left Italy bcuz my dad got offered a job. We're all African-Italian and thats y. Am always thinking cause next year I'm going to Italy since amma be 18 and what should I do about me and Staphanie? She's so innocent, I don't wanna break both of them hearts but... I really don't know. Stephanie or Jessica? By the way I went out with jessica since childhood, over at the age of 6-7, I left Italy at the age of 14 and am 3 months older. Stephanie, 8 months relationship, she asked me out, popular girl, boys dream in my HS. I'm confuse and feeling pain for them, Stephanie can see that am changed, she be asking me wats wrong, but I can't really tell her!! What should I do??

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Open Question: How could I get him to be my boyfriend? BOYS ANSWER PLEASE(:?

So i've liked this kid for about 2 1/2 years now. he goes to my school. he is the only boy i love, or could imagine myself dating. and i want to date him really bad. problem i dont ever talk to him, but he texted me before like one time. so we have eachothers phone numbers. and he knows i like him. its embarassing to even talk to him. cause then he'll know im trying to flirt and he'll think im dumb, so i dont know what to do, but i love him a ton. and he just broke up with his jerk of a girlfriend and i know he wants another girlfriend so what should i do. well what kinds of things should i say to him? just give me some ideas APPROPRIATE ONES to get him to like me back. or whatever. i just need to know what to say to him, guys what would you want me to say to you if this situation was happening ? just gimme ideas of what to do.

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Open Question: could you please give me some advice, i don't know what to do? i love her but..?

well, to make an extremely long story short, i'm in love with this girl. i've seen her in a serious relationship, i've seen her get cheated on and be completely broken. i've seen her rise from that, and she's now in a relationship but she always says "it's nothing serious." this january will make 3 years that i've known her/felt this way for her. friends tell me to try and date others, and i dated this one girl but it didn't work out at all, she ended up hurting me. i ended up going to the girl i'm in love with for advice, because she's one of the only ones i could trust with it. she helped me through it. she'll sometimes do things that look like she could possibly be into me, too. (walking into a circle of people i'm in and bringing up a show i told her i was watching the night before. like, 'so how about criminal minds last night?!' and taking me out to clear my head, asking me to go to her job with her to get papers and contiuously telling me 'i'm so happy you came with me, i'd be so bored without you.' showing a lot of skin around me, etc.) but then my insecurities get the best of me and i point out all the things that would make her NOT like me (besides the fact that she's 5 years older.) we don't talk everyday, maybe a couple times a week.. sometimes less than that. she leads a very busy life. i know many of you are probably like "okay, i don't see the problem.. just tell her how you feel." well, it's truthfully not that easy. it's taken me so long to finally get her to trust me and open up to me like she does now. i'm willing to wait, because i've been waiting this long and some of her (meaning having her as a friend) is better than none of her. i just don't know what to do.. i'm so in love with her, and it breaks my heart to not have her. i miss her so much the pain is excruciating. i don't know what to do.. someone PLEASE help?! she's the only reason for happiness i have in my life, and i don't know what i'd do if i lost that. but i feel like i'm not good enough for her and she deserves so much better than me..

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Open Question: how to ask a girl you have never met out?

Hi there. I need some advice on how to ask a girl that I don't really even know out on a date. I see her when I am at my locker she isn't that far away from me and I have seen her staring at me a few times. So I know she is interested in me and I think she is pretty cute too. The problem is I have 5 minutes to get to class, the hallway is crowded, my friends are always with me and I am not the type who likes to go and just talk to people I don't know. I'm not good at it. She is usually with a friend and I think that it might be awkward to go and talk to her if the friend is standing right there. What should I say to her if I get the curage to go and talk to her? Does anyone else have anymore advice? Thanks in advanced ;D

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Open Question: ok big problem with a freind?

ok so i know this boy since 4 grade and i like him but my Friends think hes not right for me but i like him do you think i should date him or not he´s one of my friends but dosent know i like him please help me

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Open Question: i have no idea what to do. i love her but i can't tell her. help?

well, to make an extremely long story short, i'm in love with this girl. i've seen her in a serious relationship, i've seen her get cheated on and be completely broken. i've seen her rise from that, and she's now in a relationship but she always says "it's nothing serious." this january will make 3 years that i've known her/felt this way for her. friends tell me to try and date others, and i dated this one girl but it didn't work out at all, she ended up hurting me. i ended up going to the girl i'm in love with for advice, because she's one of the only ones i could trust with it. she helped me through it. she'll sometimes do things that look like she could possibly be into me, too. (walking into a circle of people i'm in and bringing up a show i told her i was watching the night before. like, 'so how about criminal minds last night?!' and taking me out to clear my head, asking me to go to her job with her to get papers and contiuously telling me 'i'm so happy you came with me, i'd be so bored without you.' showing a lot of skin around me, etc.) but then my insecurities get the best of me and i point out all the things that would make her NOT like me (besides the fact that she's 5 years older.) we don't talk everyday, maybe a couple times a week.. sometimes less than that. she leads a very busy life. i know many of you are probably like "okay, i don't see the problem.. just tell her how you feel." well, it's truthfully not that easy. it's taken me so long to finally get her to trust me and open up to me like she does now. i'm willing to wait, because i've been waiting this long and some of her (meaning having her as a friend) is better than none of her. i just don't know what to do.. i'm so in love with her, and it breaks my heart to not have her. i miss her so much the pain is excruciating. i don't want to be the person, who 50 years from now still says "i wish i would have told her while i had the chance.".. someone PLEASE help?!

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Open Question: i'm terrified of looking back and saying "i wish i would have told her when i had the chance." what do i do?!?

well, to make an extremely long story short, i'm in love with this girl. i've seen her in a serious relationship, i've seen her get cheated on and be completely broken. i've seen her rise from that, and she's now in a relationship but she always says "it's nothing serious." this january will make 3 years that i've known her/felt this way for her. friends tell me to try and date others, and i dated this one girl but it didn't work out at all, she ended up hurting me. i ended up going to the girl i'm in love with for advice, because she's one of the only ones i could trust with it. she helped me through it. she'll sometimes do things that look like she could possibly be into me, too. (walking into a circle of people i'm in and bringing up a show i told her i was watching the night before. like, 'so how about criminal minds last night?!' and taking me out to clear my head, asking me to go to her job with her to get papers and contiuously telling me 'i'm so happy you came with me, i'd be so bored without you.' showing a lot of skin around me, etc.) but then my insecurities get the best of me and i point out all the things that would make her NOT like me (besides the fact that she's 5 years older.) we don't talk everyday, maybe a couple times a week.. sometimes less than that. she leads a very busy life. i know many of you are probably like "okay, i don't see the problem.. just tell her how you feel." well, it's truthfully not that easy. it's taken me so long to finally get her to trust me and open up to me like she does now. i'm willing to wait, because i've been waiting this long and some of her (meaning having her as a friend) is better than none of her. i just don't know what to do.. i'm so in love with her, and it breaks my heart to not have her. i miss her so much the pain is excruciating. i don't know what to do.. someone PLEASE help?!

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Open Question: Do we HAVE to kiss? I don't get it...?

My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been dating for 6 months and are *very* happy together, very much in love, and have even talked about possibly marrying in a few years. We are very affectionate with each other- hugging, kisses on the lips, cuddling, saying how much we love each other, etc. We even make love almost every day- true I'm not comfortable with "taking over" or being "the active one" during sex but I definitely participate and he knows I love it. And besides he lasts literally 20 seconds so he knows he has no right to really complain about MY performance. But, all in all, even with the sex, we are both really happy and I don't think we mind our little problems regarding that. But, the main thing is, we haven't french kissed. Mainly because, to me, it is way more intimate than sex and I'm just too uncomfortable/nervous to do it, but also because I just think it's sort of gross. I've kissed several guys many times in the past, but I haven't been in love like I am now and this nervous to do it. And, nowadays, when I think about it I just think it's gross. He doesn't mind, and we're still happy together. Is this wrong? Do we have to french kiss and make out like normal couples to grow closer? Especially if I don't want to to it, and he doesn't mind? We do a ton of other romantic, very affectionate sexy things, but still I'm concerned this is a problem. Every relationship has its quirks and problems, right?

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Open Question: Dating sites Question...?

Hi, I'm a Caucasian man in my early 40's that's looking for a long term relationship with a great woman. Here's my problem...my looks are just average, but I have a huge heart..great sense of humor..am very romantic and attentive to my partners needs...and I'm considered by my peers to be very Intelligent and well read. But I'm having a heck of a time getting the ladies to notice me anymore, and i was hoping the community could point me in the right direction on this. I'm actually very attracted to both Asian, and Hispanic women, and also find some African American ladies very nice as well. So I guess i'm trying to find the best avenue to meet these lovely women, and get their attention! I'm looking for someone in the age range of 35-49...but can't seem to find any websites that specialize in the age range. or ethnicity's i'm looking for! Can any of you offer any suggestions? Thanks for your help!! :-)

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