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Open Question: I drive myself crazy to the point of crazy. Why do I let them do this to me? and more... Open Question: I drive myself crazy to the point of crazy. Why do I let them do this to me?I have dated a few girls and everytime we get to the point about discussing past relationships etc. I never have a problem who dated a guy and had sex with them but every girl I have met has a story about a time or 2 where they had a random hookup or sexual encounter with a guy that met the same night etc. As soon as I find this out it completely turns me off and I lose interest? I just cannot seem to get it out of my mind and I kind of get disappointed/sad knowing that the person I know have strong feelings for could have ever cheapened herself like that. Am I just being immature about this or do other guys think like this as well? My past 2 gf have told me they had experiences like this and it has broken my heart everytime. I know the past is the past etc., but this just seems hard for me to forgive even though we are in college and many girls experiment and have sexual encounters while in school. Does anyone have any advice? Open Question: Do you consider people who have bipolar or depression "crazy"?I just saw a question on Polls & Surveys that I felt slightly offended by, asking whether you would rather date someone with bipolar/depression who looks good, or an average mentally stable person. And I was disturbed by some of the answers. First off, people who have bipolar disorder can be perfectly stable. I have bipolar II disorder (less severe), and so does my dad, and a couple of my friends have bipolar disorder, believe it or not. I have tons of friends, quite a few guys have pursued me, and I consider myself happy, healthy, and stable. I am well-liked, have an IQ of 121, play the flute, love to write poetry, horseback ride, participate in anything musical theater, and when my friends have problems most all of them seek me out first to come to for an answer, or to feel better. And no one considers me a whack job. So what's up with this? If you do have an opinion, I'd like to hear it, because I'd like to know why people feel this way. Also, I should add that I am on medication. Do you still consider people who are on medication "crazy?" Open Question: I HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM...MEN THINKING I AM USING THEM FOR SEX!!!!THESE SAME MEN ARE DOGS!!!!?This has been a problem in my last few relationships. I have a very high sexual drive. I don't mind having sex everyday but it's not a problem if I don't. The past 3 men in my life said that all I wanted from them was sex and they were offended. These same men are known for their doggish ways. I heard of them using women for sex. I don't use them though I do in fact like them as a person and we go out and have fun together. I have no idea why they are offended by my sex drive. I DO NOT demand sex but they think I do. I just have a natural flirtatious aura about me. I am dating a guy now who is starting to say sex is all I want. I don't understand. I touched his arm in a playful manner and he said promise me there will be No Sex for one day because we had sex the last 5 days in a row. He comes on to me all the time. We watched a movie at my place with NO Sex and he started accusing me of using him for sex. he really has nothing else to offer me. We are both in college and are being supported by our parents (I work too he doesn't) Why do these same men who DOG other women (they treat me well) feel used by me...I am thinking it's because they really like me and when feelings are involved you can feel a bit used. I have no idea of how to fix myself. Do I even have a problem. I the guy I'm dating now that I really like thinks I'm only using him for sex. i told him I really like him. I am no sex machine or maneater AT ALL Open Question: How do I ask a polite but unwanted guest to leave without offending him?I worked with my colleague until 5 AM last night taking some measurements (our normal working day usually ends at 7 or 8 PM). He is diabetic and frequently has dangerous dips in blood sugar. He also seems to have trouble functioning when he is very tired, much more than I do. He lives an hour away, whereas I live 10 minutes away from work. I invited him to sleep over for fear that he would fall asleep while driving home. I have a very good relationship with this colleague and have worked closely with him on many occasions. The problem is that I know he has other reasons for wanting to sleep over. He is both infatuated with me and painfully lonely, and I don't think he's above taking advantage of my sympathy. I have made it clear to him in the past that I don't want to date him. In spite of this he is persistent in trying to maximize his social contact with me, sometimes to the point where I feel it is conspicuous to others. As an experienced senior colleague, he is also generous and helpful, sometimes to a fault, and as someone relatively new in my field, I rely on his guidance. So here he is on the futon in my living room. He has not made any inappropriate sexual advances, but at the same time I feel "crowded" by his behavior, and I would like my apartment back. I feel that we operate on two different planes. Whereas I am frustrated that I have allowed this situation to transpire, I think he is currently in a state of bliss, and has made no move to even get out of bed, much less go home. He seems oblivious to my discomfort, even though I have even told him point blank that I am uncomfortable having men stay in my apartment. I would like to send him home without hurting his feelings, or at least bring up the subject in a way that does not seem harsh - after all he is a friend, however leech-like his behavior. I have a very good relationship with him and it would not be in my best interest to alienate him. I also fear that he plans to try to "help" me finish my measurements, which are not nearly done. I would prefer to do them on my own. Open Question: Ughhh this really sucks!!?OK so here's my problem! Me and my best friend have been friends for over 3 years. Now she is dating my brother...which i could really care less who she dates but now he is all she talks about. And its like "uhh yeahh i know...i live with him!!" but ever since she found out that i dont want to here about my brother 24/7 she has barley even talked to me...its really upsetting cuz neither my friend or my brother care how i feel about them dating...my brother said"well...its my life... and now Paige is a part of it! Ur just gonna have to deal with it cause i really DO NOT care!" and she agrees with everything he says...im just upset because for years she has lied to me about liking him...every time id mention him she would say something like "ewwhh!! please!! i dont want to hear about him!! he makes me want to vomit!!" and now they r dating??? (Paige is 14 and my brother just turned 18) update: she really wants to get snakebite piercings but my brother HATES them so yesterday when he wasn't at school, she wore her fake ones and said"Dont tell Patrick!!! he'll be pissed!!!" and i didnt tell him i just dont understand how one minute she says shes in love with him and the next second she is trying to hid things from him.... i guess my questions are how can i deal with the situation or how can i make my friend ship better with my friend????? he parents dont trust me because of my brother is bipolar so for some reason they dont trust me??? idk Open Question: the missing condom!!?so i went to my "friends" house last night and we were about to have sex when i realized he opened another package of condoms. the problem with this is, i thought condoms came on sets of 3 at least. we only had sex 2 times and im pretty sure that the first time we had sex he opened that package. so what the hell happened to the third condom? i didn't bother asking him about it but it took me back for a second. do u think its possible that he lost the other one or like, the other package was closer or is there any kind of situation were the third condom in that package couldn't be used... besides the obvious one, im trying not to think he would do something like that. and while im on it. should i ask him if hes having sex with any other girls besides me, it is kinda my Business right? even though were not dating really.... Open Question: boy friend problmes????im 14 and mt boyfriend is 15 and i like him alottttttt but there is one problem and its not a baig deal or anthying but like during school we walk in the halls together and everytime we get to one of our classes he wants to kiss befor i or he goes in and i dont mind kissing him but its only been a week since we've been dating and we must have kissed 25 times by now and weve made out 2 times.. i dont want to kiss so much because its not special and it will be more rare to hace a special kiss and i just dont think its necisary to kiss 5 times a day during school i want to tell him but idk how and i dont want to hurt his feelings what o i do?? More Recent Articles
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