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Open Question: I got rejected by this girl a year ago, and now I like her again and she is flirting with me? and more... Open Question: I got rejected by this girl a year ago, and now I like her again and she is flirting with me?Okay, well last year, I REALLY had a thing for this girl. It was the biggest crush I have ever had in my life. It was on a week long trip for school and we hung out then. We became pretty good friends and she eventually found out I liked her. When we got back to school, we said Hi in the halls and we talked a little, but we eventually just stopped seeing each other because we have no classes together. Last year, I found out she didn't want to date me so I got over it. The fact was though, I was extremely shy. I had a lot of confidence issues and I had a lot of trouble talking to her, and I can tell she knew this. However, this year, I have completely changed. I am not afraid to say anything to anyone. I am extremely confident around girls now, like I have no problems. Me and her have one class together and like in the beginning of the year we didn't talk much, but when we did, I was perfectly calm and she even thought I was funny at times. About two weeks ago I just spontaneously started liking her again, not sure why, but I just did. Then, I noticed she would joke around with me a lot. I was sitting down one day, and she kicked my leg and smiled and then I smiled back and kicked her leg (Obviously not to hurt her) and she smiled. She has been talking to me a lot more and one time when she was, the teacher started talking, so I did a test by just walking away and sat with another friend and the whole time I was their, she was staring at me and smiled every time I glanced over at her. I can tell she thinks I am really funny and all and every time I mess with her, she always gets this smile, I can't explain it, but like besides it being the cutest thing, it just is saying something. The other day, we were just texting each other for like two hours and I tried to be as flirty as possible, and she is smart so she probably figured out I like her again. So what do I do? I think I should go for it again, but I also don't want to get hurt like last year if I am wrong. I talked to another girl, and she thinks she likes me. But I need some more opinions.... Open Question: Warped Tour 2010 lineup so far. Oh yeah! (Some EPIC bands this year)?**-Bands I like/love After Midnight Project *Alesana* AM Taxi Anarbor Andrew W.K. Artist VS Poet *Attack Attack!* Breathe Carolina Breathe Electric *Bring Me The Horizon* Call The Cops Chase Long Beach Closure In Moscow Confide Deals Gone Bad Disco Curtis Emarosa *Emmure* *Enter Shikari* Every Time I Die Eyes Set To Kill Fake Problems Fight Fair Haste The Day Hey Monday I See Stars In Fear And Faith Initials *Iwrestledabearonce* Chernobyl Last Call Mayday Parade Middle Finger Salute *Motion City Soundtrack* Never Shout Never Of Men And Mice *Parkway Drive* Pierce The Veil Polar Bear Club Reel Big Fish Riverboat Gamblers Set Your Goals Speakeasy Tiger *Suicide Silence* *Sum 41* *The All American Rejects* The Cab The Casualties The Chase The Dillinger Escape Plan The Flatliners The Frantic The Reverand Peytons Big Damn Band *The Rocket Summer* The Snips The Summer Set The Swellers The Word Alive Tip The Van VersaEmerge We Are The in Crowd *We The Kings* Whitechapel Check www.warpedtour.com for updates, tour stop dates and more. Open Question: Guys i need some dating help please (help from either guys or girls) ?Well there's a boy that I like and we are both in high school (same grade as one another) he's insanely smart to the point where he's pretty much flawless when it comes to academics at the same time he's really athletic the only problem is that he has absolutely no social skills at all and is considered a complete nerd... [[its really hard to strike a conversation with him]] does anyone have any suggestions as to how to win his heart? or at least subtly get his attention!? Open Question: (LONG QUESTION) Do I have a right to be upset or am I just being silly or selfish?I'm warning you in advance that this is going to be a kind of long question because there is some background to be covered for you to fully understand where I am coming from so if you don't like reading, please change to another question now. Nearly 4 years ago my parents seperated. It was hard on me and I decided to live with my brother and Dad. The relationship between my mother and I is very strained and I don't get on with her at all. The parent - kid relationship is muddled up and sometimes I feel like I've been stuck with the role of parent. I talk to her pretty much once a month if that. The relationship with my Dad is also very strained because he is not one to express emotions and he bottles things up where as I like to talk about problems etc. He hardly ever pays attention to me, we never do stuff together and our house doesn't have 'rules'. We don't even eat meals together... He doesn't care where I go or what I'm doing. Most teenagers would love that but I need that support and guidance and it's not there for me. Whenever I mention how I feel he goes 'you're an adult now' and I'm freaking 15. Even when we do talk, he talks down to me like I'm an absoloute moron and I can't stand it. He either completely ignores me or treats me like a lump of dirt. It hurts. The only person that is truly there for me is my Nana and she's been going through operations and sickness as well as my Poppa. My Uncle and Aunt recently split up so she's also been stressed about that as well. It's just one big family of stress here and everyone does their own seperate thing. Well, just now I went downstairs and glanced at his computer screen where he left his laptop and he was filling out an application for a dating website. I'm absoloutely shattered and disappointed and I don't know whether I'm being stupid or not. My Mum's had a few boyfriends and has one currently but my Dad has always preached that he will 'never ever have another girlfriend' after the mess that is my parents. I feel almost like there's not much to share and I don't want another person just coming into my life like that. I wish my Dad would have talked to me or something but I really didn't expect it. I've been through so much in the past years and I don't need another person coming in and complicating it all. I don't know whether I have a right to be angry but I am. Can someone please put his in perspective for me? What should I do?! Um. Okay, just thought I'd clarify some things before I get a lot of rude answers that I can't deal with. 1) Yes, I realise that a lot of people have seperated parents but that doesn't make my pain any less significant. 2) Why am I constantly putting myself out there to make my Dad proud when it's never good enough. I almost feel like he's replacing me. 3) The relationship with my Mum isn't going to change. She's immature, she's attention-seeking and she's unbearable to be around. She's hurt me on a number of occasions before and I've forgiven her every time but I'm through with it and I don't care any more. I'm never going to get the mother I used to have back. Open Question: i need helpppp ! boy problems .. blehhh.?soo , ive been talking to this kid Alex for almost a month now . we've hung out once & we kissed & held hands and all that nonsense . he told me he was already falling for me and he loves it cause it happened so fast . he says that HES ALL MINE . & im all his . im his babygirl and he doesnt wanna have to share with anyone .. uhm . recently i found out he used to date a girl i dont get along with . i didn't make a big deal outta it but i did find out they had sex ( which he " forgot " to tell me ] . ever since i found all this out it seems like things are changing . he used to text me from 6am(weekdays for school] - 11pm . nd these past couple of days we been talking like 2 hours all together . & today he said he didn't feel like talking . & we made plans to see eachother on Christmas Eve .. but now he ' doesnt think they'll work ' ... ? i asked him if anything has changed and he said ' no baby, your still my everything<33 ' but today i was looking at his Facebook .. and he was calling other girls baby & stuff ... oh & he wants to hang with one of xmas eve ? .. kooool ?! what should i say to himmm ): what do i do !? Open Question: How do you get rid of worm.win32.netsky virus when you can't seem to download a removal tool?Hi. After doing a little research, I've tried to download from microsoft.com, the malicious software removal tool. Although my system says the download is completed, I cannot find it anywhere. I tried running MRT, and tried searching for it, to no avail. It does not let me choose anywhere to download it, only the options of "save file" and "cancel". I choose save file, it downloads, and then I have no idea where it goes. I could really use some help getting rid of this thing, so I can get my anti-virus up-to-date. AVG scans come back with no issues, and with the problem of downloading anything, I'm unable to download other things to try. Other suggestions? Open Question: is there something wrong with me?okay, sooo heres me problem. my best friend tells me all the time that the reason i dont have a boyfriend is because i have an intimidating presence. idk how i do though. im very tiny, like im barely five foot. and i have a good personality. but like when i get around guys, i act indifferent. i mean, i dont flirt like other girls and throw myself at guys. is that why? she said if she was a guy, she'd be nervous talking to me because i never show an interest in anyone. i've had a few pursuers, but no one i would like to date. also, i think im pretty, but not like "hot" pretty like most guys want. like all i hear all the time is how "cute and tiny" i am. so basically this is two qustions wrapped in one. so do i sound intimidating? and do guys not like me because im not "hot". i would like a guys perspective on the situation, but girls would help too. thank yuh for reading this! :) oh yeah and im fifteen. Open Question: i need help picking a guy. which guy should i date?okay i realllly need help. i am sorta talking to this guy i met through an old bestfriend of mine . we started talking on myspace threee months ago and ive fallen for him so hard. we've talked about meeting,but havent yet. i cant help but say were both in love and plan on meeting and spending all the time we can together. i meen we talk from like 12 at nite till five in the morning,every nite and he makes me feel like the best girl in the world. then i have this amazing boyfriend who it seems like i couldnt live without,yeah we have our problems,but overall our relationship is pretty good. anywaysss i love them both and im very confused on what guy i should date or what i should do. HELP ! 10 pts for best answer (: Open Question: in love with best friends boyfriend..? with all additional details added @_@?yeah so added all details..cause with peoples responses think i should clarify some things. Ok so im like completely in love with my best friends boyfriend..and i had a crush on him but never told her about it before she started dating him, he kind of acts like he likes me sometimes too tho, like he cuddles me and kisses me on cheek and forhead and always hugs me so much and his gf even asked him one day we were hanging out who would be his second choice if he didnt have her and he said me..but he was laughing a bit and im not sure if he was saying it jokingly..but i reaaly like him so much..he always listens to me and helps me with my problems and s.hit.. but hes dating my best friend..like my best friend since kindergarten.. him and her have been on and off for about 8 months now, the longest theyve lasted without breaking up is 2 months.. and she is telling me she thinks they should break up but she tells me she doesnt want to cause she loves him.. wtf..i dont know what to do...like if they do break up would it be horrible if i went for him..like how could i explain it to my friend without her getting mad..? ok to clarify some things, i already know she woudnlt stop being my friend if i did go for him.. she seriously is always saying she thinks we'd make a great couple and that we should go out..its really odd since hes her bf but w/e. The reason they are on and off is cause she treats him like s.hit every day she tells him hes ugly, gets pissed at him if he goes away from her to talk with his guy friends for like 5 minutes, and she is a total flirt and does the worst things with other guys right infront of him and acts like she doesnt realize shes flirting. and the kissing of cheek and forhead , sometimes shes the one telling him to do it o.o like the other night we all were sleeping over at our other friends house, she wanted to sleep with both of us so we all slept in same bed, him in middle, he kept trying to cuddle her and kiss her and she told him he was being anoying and to cuddle me and kiss me, so he turned around and leaned on top of me and was like is that really wat u want ?'looking at her' and shes like YEAH! O_O! and so he kissed my forhead and she was like "LOSER YOUR SUCH A PUSSY NOT KISSING LIPS XDD!!!" -she makes it realy hard for me to try to ignore feelings all the time..- and ive know guy (and had crush for about 3 years now) and been close to him for about 2 years. and im 17 :/ Open Question: how to approach a woman who suffered physically abused from her ex? I think she didn't get over it! Any advice?so theres this woman... shes from brazilian´s branch office, I met her about 2 months ago..shes new here in nyc office...and she'll return to her country (brazil) as soon as our new project finish,(shes architect). Seriously, Im impressed, I cant take my eyes of her, Im always creating unreal situations and reasons to talk to her, (I create a story that my my apartment was painted, and coz of my "allergy", I spent one week in the same hotel that she is, to get closer and talk to her)... Shes gorgeous, really is, extremly beautiful and hotttt... besides that shes intelligent and polite...but her attribute that I most like is that shes very decent...I noticed that coz almost all singles men from office asked her out, and she didnt accept none. And when I was in hotel, I noticed that her routine was: work + gym (in hotel) + shopping sometimes, and nothing more, always alone or with Kate (also architect from our office)... The problem is that she doesnt give space to me, when I try to talk to her, she only answers... I was so curious about her, that I called a friend from brazilian's branch office, and he said shes divorced with no kids; She got married at 17, with her 1st bf,and he was 15 years older, lawyer and became judge. She divorced him when she was 26! Now shes only 28! Her marriage ended coz HE HIT HER! Reason: jealous. And since this situation, she became more quiet, sad, and closed person. He also said shes always receiving flowers, but never accept a date. Shes lonely since she got divorced (2 years ago)!!!!!!!! Well, now that I know she says NO to everyone, Im acting like a 18 year old boy: I dont know how ask her out..Im afraid of her answer! Im scared with my own feelings, coz I think Im in love with her..I think about her all the time... and to make things worst, Kate told me that she complains EVERY DAY that is horrible stay away from her family and culture, that she misses to hear portuguese (her language).. that she cant wait to return to Brazil.. So, I was wondering: I want a serious relationship with her, and if this happen, I would like to marry her, but seems she would never leave her country. SO, is it better force myself forget her, get over???? reasons: 1st coz she will probably say NO, 2nd coz she would never move here, to live with me... Or should I try, maybe she falls in love and changes???? Please, I really need advices!!!!! Open Question: My step sister claims she was molested?Okay, so Im 15 and I have a 16 year old sister that claims she has been molested as a child. Around 8 or 9 years old. She has lived in Mississippi for the first half of her life until she move to CT and her mom met my father and got married. She never told her mother about this incident until just this year in September when we just started the school year. The thing is, she has no signs on have been sexual abused or molested. She puts herself out very well, and have been with quite a few guys. She has a big ego and is full of confidence. The problem with this is that I would expect her wanting to bundle herself up and not show her body at all and even have an interest in sex. But no, she shows her clevage and wears tight clothes on purpose. My aunt was molested at the age of 21 and she was never showing her body, dating, having a high confidence, or any of this. Now my sister is a very happy person. She gets good grades, has good friends, and never needed to attend a single therapy session. This is not adding up to me. She is the kind of person that will do anything to crave attention and this is not the way to do it. All the things she does is dosent add up to her story of the molestation. She wont even give out the guys name. The only sign that she is showing that accumulates that she is sort of telling the truth is when the issue of molestation or rape is brought up, she gets very defensive. I need some other peoples opinons on this. I really want to help her and be there for her if she was molested, but something tells me its just another spot light craving story. Please help. Thanks. And also another issue I keep thinking about is how it was just out of the blue one day...8 years later... Thank you everyone =) Its been bugging for so long and I never knew what to do about it since I cant put myself in that position. I just want whats best. Open Question: Serious relationship problem, please help me?I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years, we're seventeen. I love him very much, but there's a problem. I see him up to five times a month I guess. I've been hanging out with my friends from school a lot. And i've started developing feelings for one of my guy friends. I've been trying so hard not to let it show. I have no intention of breaking up with my boyfriend, but I can't tell my friend I like him either, because that would ruin our friendship. What do I do here people? THANK YOU SO MUCH. Open Question: Boyfriend problems please help!?!?I know this guy we talked since this August and also were dating we started our relationship around november.. its been all good but lately he has not been texting me like he used to or talking to me on the phone... hes a lil ruder now and he used to tell me he misses me and i like u a lot and i love you on text and the phone and now he doesn't at all! we kind of have a long distance relationship we dont see each other often due to school, distance, and life... he lives 45 mins away but we live in totally different towns... he never contributes to coming to see me, every time we met up it is because i made the effort to go to his area and see him.. idk hes been shady and acting diff.. whats going on can anyone help?? I already taked to him about it and he just shakes it off and he thinks im acting wierd and he doesnt seem to care....I am nicer than i usually am to anyone else to him Open Question: I'm worried that I have the gift of celbusy. Is there anyway to know if I have it?I'm worried that I have the gift of celbusy. Is there anyway to know if I have it? I'm 21, I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed by a girl. I don't even have any friends that are girls... I can't even make friends with girls in real life without screwing it up... I've never even been on a freaking date. I've been praying for a girlfriend for over 6 years. There's no girls for me at chruch, not like that matters since I did like a girl from chruch. She'd probably reject me or, I'd screw things up before we become friends... I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do sometimes look at porn, though for the most part it's fixed. But I could still use some prayer for to get this fixed. Since I don't want it in my life anymore. I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm lazy I'm apprently creepy... I have Social Anxeity Disorder I have low self confidence I can be selfish I tend to slur my speech. I talk too speech. I have a hard time explaining things. I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I have OCD(Mostly fixed, yay God) GAD(Mostly fixed, yay Jesus) ADD(Not bad enough to cause any real problems) Social Anxiety and a touch of depression(Fixed) Open Question: dealing with creditors after a long illness?I was unable to work due to 3 incurable illnesses that I have. I just recieved ssdi. I nearly died this summer from trying the HepC treatment(I never used needle drugs-had it since a child). My nervous system is shot to date from the drug side effects. I was not successful with treatment. Also I have degenerative spine and disc disease which is untreatable. I notified all my debtors that I was having health issues and waiting for social security and that I was extremely ill. I have been returned to my debtors by credit collectors and then bounced back into other credit collector hands. I am trying to reconcile my debt but the ridiculous amount of interest penaltie and other stuff they add on my bills are 3-4 times higher than they should be. At this moment I have a summons for a hearing on a 4300. bill that I owe around 1200. or less on. When I got SSDI I lost my medical coverage because I am under 62 I have to wait 2 years. My monthly deductable is 950. before I can get help with any medical or prescription bills. I am high risk. I just paid $113 today on a small part of my prescriptions. Total monthly are over $600-more than anything I should be going to the doctor regularly. I am trying to pay the real amount I owe on these bill and sacraficing the money I should be using to keep me healthy and go to the doctorl. Each and every person I owed money to was informed of my crisis. My ssdi is max so too much to go to legal aid but not enough to go to the doctor pay bills and buy prescriptions. I am getting sicker and need to keep monitoring my health-I have been ignoring it to pay these bills but I don't want these people to screw me like they are. Can't file bankruptcy have equity loan on home that I have to renew this coming year. The bills are around a total of 8K but I only owe about 3000 which included interest up to the time I let them know I was having severe mdeical problems. Open Question: what do i do ? i love him ! but hes sending me mixed signals.?I used to date this boy for about two years. about 2 yrs ago we broke up because we were going different places in our lives. we had a fight because i found out he had cheated on me and that he had been doing drugs for a while. i made some mistakes too along the way and we decided it would be better if we just seperated. after a while i met someone and he was great.. we had alot of problems but i knew he cared about me. i ended up marrying him for legal reasons but i decided recently that it wasnt working out and that i had to move on with my life. school to me is a priority and i moved out of my apartment and moved back in with my parents until i can find another apartment and qet my life toqether. recently, my ex began to write to me again but he doesnt even have a GED.. the only thinq that keeps us on speakinq terms is the fact that we both continue to have feeling for each other and we cant get over each other. i love him. but all of a sudden he tells me how he loves me and misses me and the next moment he tells me we're taking things to fast and im taking things too seriously. im so confused. he says he wants to be with me but that im takinq him too seriously. i know we cant have anything at this point in our lives.. it would never work out.. but i cant live without him. i love him too much. i need to know how he is in order to have some peace in my own life. and im sure hes feeling the same way. what do i do ? he avoids these conversations.. how do i forget him ? Open Question: in love with best friends boyfriend..?Ok so im like completely in love with my best friends boyfriend..and i had a crush on him but never told her about it before she started dating him, he kind of acts like he likes me sometimes too tho, like he cuddles me and kisses me on cheek and forhead and always hugs me so much and his gf even asked him one day we were hanging out who would be his second choice if he didnt have her and he said me..but he was laughing a bit and im not sure if he was saying it jokingly..but i reaaly like him so much..he always listens to me and helps me with my problems and shit.. but hes dating my best friend..like my best friend since kindergarten.. him and her have been on and off for about 8 months now, the longest theyve lasted without breaking up is 2 months.. and she is telling me she thinks they should break up but she tells me she doesnt want to cause she loves him.. wtf..i dont know what to do...like if they do break up would it be horrible if i went for him..like how could i explain it to my friend without her getting mad..? ok to clarify some things, i already know she woudnlt stop being my friend if i did go for him.. she seriously is always saying she thinks we'd make a great couple and that we should go out..its really odd since hes her bf but w/e. The reason they are on and off is cause she treats him like shit. every day she tells him hes ugly, gets pissed at him if he goes away from her to talk with his guy friends for like 5 minutes, and she is a total flirt and does the worst things with other guys right infront of him and acts like she doesnt realize shes flirting. and the kissing of cheek and forhead , sometimes shes the one telling him to do it o.o like the other night we all were sleeping over at our other friends house, she wanted to sleep with both of us so we all slept in same bed, him in middle, he kept trying to cuddle her and kiss her and she told him he was being anoying and to cuddle me and kiss me, so he turned around and leaned on top of me and was like is that really wat u want ?'looking at her' and shes like YEAH! O_O! and so he kissed my forhead and she was like "LOSER YOUR SUCH A PUSSY NOT KISSING LIPS XDD!!!" -she makes it realy hard for me to try to ignore feelings all the time..- and ive know guy (and had crush for about 3 years now) and been close to him for about 2 years. and im 17 :/ Open Question: Do I have anything to worry about -- the other girl?I've been dating this guy for a few months now. He's a complete gentleman. He treats me like a queen. Everything about him is absolutely perfect. The problem is...this girl. I've met this girl once. I have nothing against her. She's very pretty, seems like a nice person. I didn't know my man and this girl have had a "long friendship" -- so to speak. -(checked his phone while he was asleep, yes I know) Called her 30 times within a day. -I asked one of our mutual friends about this girl: "Oh, he can't stand her. He thinks she's a bitch." -I called his house phone the other day and I swore I heard this girl in the background talking. Do I have anything to worry about? Open Question: guy problems really badly!?okayy i like 2 guys and they both like me, one said he still loved me and another one likes me, i dont know which one i should date because the one that loves me hurt me but so did the other guy, so please help and no jokes! More Recent Articles
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