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Open Question: I had sex with a guy on a first date...? and more... Open Question: I had sex with a guy on a first date...?We had an immediate physical attraction and though, I tried...I couldn't tell him no. I started seeing this guy in July and its now December. This relationship has been on and off and recently we are having an on moment. Over the few months I have gotten to know him and I am really starting to develop feelings for this guy. I don't know if they are true feelings because I never took the time to really get to know HIM without the sex. So how do I know??? I am kinda jaded tho because he has admitted to me that he has never been in a relationship. I think sometimes he doesn't know how to be a boyfriend. I think I scare him, he tells me he really likes me, thinks im beautiful and fun to be around. Problem is when he spends time with me we just have crazy sex for the majority of the time. I have broken ties with him several times to let him know that I don't want to have a booty call boy, I want and deserve more than that from him. He tells me that he isn't looking for a piece of ass(...not sure if I believe him) I guess I don't know! Is he worth investing more of my time?? He makes me laugh and we really like being around each other...I guess I am waiting for him to tell me all those wonderful things every girl likes to hear and he hasn't yet. Plus he has set the sex bar so high...I am not sure I will ever find it this good again. I need some advice! let it rip! Open Question: making out while drunk, dating later?I met a boy who was really realy nice and we were flirting (we were both very drunk) and made out later in the night. We didnt talk for 2 weeks because we didnt see each other. Then I bumped into him, and we hung out alone for two hours. We didnt even make out during the two hours, we literally just talked and played video games and got to know each other a little better. Then today I saw him on the bus and we both kind of ignored each other. We were on a crowded bus together, he said hi to me but i was in the middle of a conversation w/ one of his friends (we were talking about school work, nothing personal) and never turned around and tried to talk to me during the rest of the bus ride. He definitely likes me, or at least he definitely did the other day when we hung out, but now he's being weird and distant. Is it possible that hes shy around me in front of his friends but when hes alone with me hes nicer and more outgoing? the problem is, i'm a very shy person too. How can I talk to him more, should i try and text him something during the day just to make conversation? At first I wasnt sure if he was just a player, and didnt really like me but just made out with me because he could, but he definitely did not do that. Is it partially awkward because we made out the first night we met? Is it possible for us to pass the awkwardnes and actually have a relationship? I think part of the reason why its weird is because we were both drunk the night we made out, so maybe we both arent sure if being drunk was part of the reason things seemed really nice between us (or at least I'm wondering that, I dont know about him). Open Question: im confused on what to do!?okay, i'm young (15 years old) and i have a guy problem =P lol. here's the thing: i want the guy when i don't have him and when i do have him i just want to get rid of him. it started about a month ago when i started talking to the guy more. he was like the sweetest guy ever. he's like the best friend type that you can date and he's cute, but after a while i felt like i didn't want it anymore. so we talked less and less and then we just didn't talk at all and after that i wanted him back so bad and then we started talking again about 2 weeks ago and we talked all the time and for a week and a half he like made all of my days better and then he asked who i liked and i told him i liked him and he told me that he liked me to which made me really happy. for the next few days we would wanna hang out all the time and he would text me calling me things like "babe" and "hun" and then i thought that i don't know, i didn't really like it. he over used the terms, i guess. it started to annoy the crap out of me and i decided i didn't want this so i would just try and drift away. well, i haven't really talked to him in like a week and i want him back again & it's just really confusing me. i know if i get him back i'll end up hurting him because i don't know what i want at the moment, but i feel like i can't lose a guy like that. he's the guy that has the personality and traits that every girl looks for and i love that about him except for the fact he goes to fast for me and half the time i don't even know if he makes me happy. again, i know i'm young, but i'm all for finding the guy i need like forever and stuff. i don't like to waste me time, i guess lol. so what should i do? should i realize i'm never gonna be happy so i need to just let us drift so we can talk every once and a while and be friends or something and then wait for the right guy or should i try to go for it again and see if hes still interested and whatever..? Open Question: stuck between 2 guys lol i know it sounds wrong?i dated this guy for a year and after a few months he started flirting with one of my friends, like trying to hold her had asking her for back rubs trying to see her when ever he could ect. (i know nothing happened she has a bf and i trust her she didn't even know he was trying to flirt with her, and yes she is that oblivious but i love her) and he was telling other girls that he was going to break up with me and how much of a bitch i was, and yes i was being a bitch(because he was ignoring me and bluntly flirting with my friend literally right in front of me) it hurt so bad. i told him how i felt about him flirting with her but he didn't stop. so i broke up with him. and i met this other guy who's 30(i'm 19) and he's really down to earth has a job he's been at for awhile, his own place. but as soon as i broke up with my ex he's been trying everything withing his power to try to get me back. i understand why he was flirting with my friend (looking back on it) i was his first real girlfriend and first lover, i think he was just scared or was just curious. i know my ex loves me but it's kinda hard to trust him and i know it's sounds odd but i think he only loves me cuz i was his first, i have no problems being his friend. but the 30 year old guy has a hard time getting close to someone. so to break it down 30 year old guy-has a job, own place, secure in his life, i know he cares for me. but i'm still growing and the age thing kinda gets to me. we have fun but i don't think he's going to take me seriously as a girlfriend. ex- still loves me and still kinda love him he's only 20 so i'm not expecting him to be like 30, and it sounds nice to be able to grow with someone. but don't know if he love me for me or if it's cuz i'm his first. he's a good guy and i think it was just a stupid thing he was going through. and i already forgave him. or magical option number 3 stay single lol tried talking about it with my friends but half of them just tell me to get with my ex cuz there friends with him, and the other half just want me to get with 30 cuz they want him to be able to take care of me (my mother lives off of other men i never wanna be like her in that way) i know ultimately it's going to be up to me, just would like an outsiders opinion. ex? 30? single? Open Question: Im a single 16 yr old girl and I cant seem to find a genuine guy. What should I do? help!?I like dating 17-19 year olds.. I think my problem is that guys like slutty or easy girls. (not me) I have dark long brown hair and light chocolate brown eyes.. am i too plain or something? :/ i would show a picture but idk how.. could it be im picky? Open Question: I need some advice for a very interesting conversation im going to have with my parents soon?So, I have recently began dating my boy-friend, again, this is the third time. We are doing much better this time. I have told him that I do not want to lie to my parents and I want to do things right. They say they trust him but I think they are afraid he is going to break my heart. The problem is his parents are not home much and the condition of me going over to his house is that his parents must be home. He does not like coming to my house because my parents are quite protective and make us stay in the living room with them. I am not, nor plan to be sexually active. In fact, my mom gave me my grandmothers wedding ring after I told her that I was not going to have sex until after I get married. With the parent and house thing we dont get to see each other much and its making our relationship stressful. I am going to try talking to my parents, explain the situation and try to convince me to let me go over to his house even when his parents arent home. They say they trust me. Any advice for things I could tell them would be great, thank you :) Open Question: Cheap date ideas for teens?So my boyfriend and I are both 14 and we are looking for some cheap date ideas... Here is the problem, neither of us can drive, he has a broken arm, and there are NO good movies out! Any suggestions for things we can do? Open Question: am i in the wrong for this?ok so i went to a party with my best friend and my girlfriend, it was my girlfriends, friends party and i didn't no anyone. so there is this guy that has told her that he likes her but is "over" it. so when the party started he saw me and my friend and how we came in with her so he freaked that she came with someone and tried to get us thrown out. more then once. luckily me and my buddy made friends with the big "bouncer" if you will and he turned and said i invited them so shut up!. After that things just went downhill. this guy knows that im dating her and he then put his arm around her and started to flirt with her. so when i went over to get him off of her he jumped back and acted like nothing happened. later on my girl let me and my buddy drink our brew downstairs talking with so guys but 1 guy was missing (take a guess who) he was up stairs chatting with my girl and her friends which i was ok with i trusted her. then i go up to check on her like i did twice before and she's not there. so then me and my buddy go up stairs and find her him and another girl in a bedroom with the door closed. turns out the girl had some family problems but i was pretty tipsy and didn't see the girl "crying" surprisingly neither did my friend. anyway so i got pissed when down stairs and drank 5 straight shots of vodka and downed a beer to get it off my mind she cam down and said that it was nothing and they were only talking so i said fine so she then left me again.... to go with her friends leaving me alone so then i heard from this guy that this guy is hitting on her and said that he wants to screw my gf( not the words he used but keeping it PG here) so i got pissed and drowned a vodka and AMP(energy drink) and went up stairs and starting yelling at her saying that i don't want you hanging out with him, he wants to screw you, i don't like him. and guess were he was once again beside her so i got pissed and went downstairs and my friend like an idiot made me sit next to a toilet while he was talking to his gf on the phone( the toilet was full of piss) when i got a whiff of that i puked pretty bad and the my Girl came and helped me but even though i have done that for her before that's not allowed and o btw when she was helping me guess who kindly walked her downstairs and stood by her while she helped me ya the @#!@ head. so no shes pissed at me cuz i shouldn't have embarrassed her like that and a girl should never have to help her bf. as well i have a sneaky suspension that she grinded with this guy to cuz before the party she said if i grind with a girl im dead and after the party she said grinding was ok (kind of suspicious) well anyways no all her friends and the people at the party well her 4 friends and that guy and all her school friends thinks she should dump me for that... i want to no is that really a suitable punishment am i really that badly in the wrong? let me no thanks . Open Question: Sometimes I feel in love, but other times i'm so bored!?!?!?!?!!!?I've been dating this guy for almost a year and sometimes I'm just down right in love with the kid but other times, i can't stand him! He always laughs at all the little jokes i say, which isn't bad but the thing is, ..... all he does is laugh. Thats not really a big problem. The truth is I don't have a reason for the way i feel. I just have no idea what to do? Should I break up with him or wait it out? btw, I've been feeling this way for a while. Actually a couple of months ago i was seriously thinking about breaking up with him. HELLP MEEEEE!!! Open Question: is he telling the truth?So over break me and my ex boyfriend of 3 years hooked up twice. Recently he has been dating this other girl who has a huge problem with me because she feels threatened. So he cheated on her with me and we had a long talk about everything. Basically he was saying how he really doesnt think he loves her and how the relationship is kind of a trap. He says he misses me and still loves me. We broke up 7 months ago and havent really spoken at all until now. I dont know what to believe. He told me to give him a few days to figure eveything out and then he would call me. Now im just anticipating it and dont know what to do and if he will really break up with her and want to try to be with me again. i need so advice Open Question: Problem with my girl :|?I was chatting with an old friend of mine that I haven't talked to or seen in over a year, ( we were talking over text) and she reminded me of a time where she was walking across the field where my soccer team was practicing, and she reminded me how my whole team stared at her. I told her "Yeah, you looked hot." Remember, this happened over a year ago, when I haven't even met my current girlfriend. Well today she was looking through my texts, I let her as I didn't think it was something to hide, she quickly found the message, and looked at me, moved away and left saying we aren't together anymore. (We've been dating for 2 months now.) I went "Whaaat ):?" she said I was cheating on her. I didn't have time to explain anything to her till later tonight, she called me and we discussed it, I explained that I was just trying to be nice, and I haven't talked to or seen this girl in over a year, and that I had no intentions with her, she isn't my type, never will be, and I told her i'm with her, and thats not going to change. (My girlfriend is so much more beautiful then this girl, and I explained that to her in detail.) Well my girlfriend continues to say "You think she's so hot, why don't you go with her." etc. I told her, no, that won't happen and I explained it that i'm with her. The problem is that my girlfriend constantly talks about hot guys in our schools around me, etc, I don't mind, because I know my girlfriend is with me, and yeah, some guys are hot. (No homo.) + My girlfriend once got mad at me for being jealous once when she kept saying this one guy was hot. I don't know what to say? To make her realize i'm with her, and what I said didn't mean anything. Help me pleasee! I don't want to lose her over something so small. (Yes I know I shouldn't of said anything to this girl, I know thats the # 1 rule., I just need help on what to do now.) Open Question: I am in love with my best friend. What should I do?Ok, my situation is not exactly like the typical one you would read about, so all I ask is that you read through completely before you respond. My BEST friend in the whole world is someone I have known for 11 years! We have seen each other through painful marriages and subsequent divorces and have remained friends throughout. There were times where we lost contact for a year or so, but someone we always stay in one another's lives. We were talking one day about a date we went on many years ago and I jokingly told him (we have real easy communication) that I always had a "crush" on him. He laughed and said that he has always had feelings for me as well and that is why he made sure he always stayed in touch. Mind you, we are both in our late-30's now. I honestly had NO idea he felt that way, even though I have secretly been in love with him for over 10 years. The problem has always been that one of us was always in a relationship when the other was single. It is the case now as well, since he is married. He is a stand-up guy and told me that while he has feelings for me both emotionally and physically and he is not getting what he needs from his marriage, he wants to give it one more try to see if he can save it. He said he does not want to screw up his marriage vows and I told him that I understand and that I would NOT want to have a relationship with him that was obtained in a dishonest way that hurt his current wife. So, you see we are trying to be mature about this very difficult situation. This is not some fling, as we have not slept together except for once like 10 years ago when we were both single. I asked him what he needed from me and he said to be the great friend I always have been and to let happen what will happen. He said that neither one of us knows what the future could bring. I respect him even more know for having the integrity to be honest despite his feelings for me. I would never pressure him as I know that if he was to leave his wife before and IF he decides things cannot be salvaged, our relationship would never last and after all these years, I would not want to mess it up like that. So, I ask you all in honesty, how can I continue to handle this situation with grace and understanding. He is my best friend and I don't ever want to lose him, even if we never get together that way. We cannot control who we fall in love with, but I seriously need advice here. I am not a manipulative woman, so I don't want advice on how to steal him away, etc..... Open Question: What is the matter with me....I just can't get it out of my head....?It has been over a year now but it still bugs me and I can't stop thinking about her. Ok so me and my ex went out for 11 months and I was in love, like i knew that she was what I wanted for ever (I know that sounds weird but that was how much I loved her). Well me and her were perfect for each other like every one said that we were the perfect couple and we would be together forever (I know forever is a long time and they were stretching the truth and what not but any way). Then during our last month together i was seeing that we were starting to have problems (not major but some) and I told her that I would do anything to keep us together (cause she saw it too) and then she just gave up on me... and broke up with me. I was crushed when it happened. All my friends said that I changed after that, like I got really quiet and I was always angry and I wanted to be left alone. well it has been a little over a year now and I still feel the pain. It sounds weird but everything reminds me of her EVERYTHING and it bothers me cause it just destroys my day everyday. I don't know what to do to get her out of my head, I mean i've moved on a bit and i'm still depressed at points during the day and then this girl really likes me and i really like her but she reminds me of my ex and i'm afraid to date her cause i don't want to hurt her. What is something I can do to help? Thank you to all who answered. I'm 16 and I've been trying to move on but I can't. All the music i listen to reminds me of her, my house, the school, everything! I get really depressed by mid or late day and i'm just sick of it. I should stay single a bit longer but i don't know what to do any more More Recent Articles |
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