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Open Question: I have a fix-it ticket in California, I can't show up on my court date, what can I do? and more... Open Question: I have a fix-it ticket in California, I can't show up on my court date, what can I do?I have a fix-it ticket in California, there is no way I can show up to court as I leave this weekend due to an emergency, and I can't change the date because the court house is closed obviously since it's the weekend. I've fixed the problem, all I need is for an officer to sign it off this weekend. Can a relative go to court for me and pay the ticket? I am so frustrated because I don't know what to do in this case. It's an emergency, and the ticket says I need to show up in court by the 23rd, I won't be back until the 24th or 25th. Please help. Yes I made a mistake on waiting til last minute, but I've been gone for quite awhile since I got this ticket. I actually don't even drive that much and that's just my luck. I will go to the adequate police department tomorrow to get my ticket signed off. Hopefully they can give me more advice on this. I will also call the courthouse on Monday first thing to hopefully extend the date. I can't do it online, my brother says I can call in and ask for an extension, so hopefully I can do that. Either way I will have someone also show up for me on Monday to pay for it, hopefully I get it all squared away. Resolved Question: I've asked this before but I still need help :[ I got cheated on?I don't want any of you guys to state the obvious. I really need an answer because I am THIS close to being depressed: --- Ohkay, I don't know what that was but whatever, here's my problem. I got cheated on. I asked for advice on here when it happend, and you all said not to take him back. Unless he seems REALLY sorry and is showing it with actions and not just words. Which he did, and with me knowing it will never be the same, I took him back. I started ALL over with him, we dated 8 months and I started over and treated him as if he was a guy I met a minute ago. He noticed that, and he's working hard to bring that trust back to me. He buys me gifts every 16th of the month, even when I ignore him for no obvious reasons, he follows me around and tries to get my attention, and when he gets mad at me and walk away, I shrug my shoulders and walk off to talk to other guys who give me the attention I can get without my boyfriends help. So in short: He IS treating me better. He IS trying to make things better. He DOES love me. He uses Yahoo! Answers too, and in one of the questions he said, "I'm in love with my girlfriend and she can tell because I'd do anything for her." Which he does, if I told him to tie my shoes right now he would, but I don't treat him like that. Never, but if I wanted to he wouldn't care. But here's the problem: whenever I see that girl he cheated on me around, I get upset. I look at her and wonder what she had that I didn't. Yes, he came back, and he treats her like dirt to prove he seems me as the only girl for him and he is sorry, but still. If he didn't care about me before why is he so into me now? I didn't change a bit, except my hairstyle, but I don't know why he loves me. If he cheated that proves he didn't love me before right? Why does he love me right now? For guys who cheated before, what does this mean? And I don't really want to leave him :[ Never. P.S.- I didn't take him back right away, I dated someone else before, but he wasn't the one at the time. Open Question: Why do people think all problems would be solved if Black women dated outside their race?I am Nigerian/Congolese American and I came from a really strict family. I live in the south and the university I graduated from was 2nd or 3rd as far as the most DIVERSE school in the nation. I could have went to a more "prestigious" school but I chose that school because I saw all the Indians, Africans, and Arabs and I fell in LOVE. I am smart...not too ugly and not overweight. I am really shy and quiet in person and I rarely raise my voice... I do not have men of all races running up to me...or even conversate with me. I go to networking events and sometimes I approach a group and they always shy away from me. It is not true that men outside of my race are interested in dating Black women. Many of them have too many stereotypes and just a lot of prejudice... Im sorry I have no intentions of settling either. If I fall in love with a man that is a janitor then that is fine...but we would never have children. I am a traditional girl and I want a man that can be a good protector and I do not have to worry about losing my house and worrying about my children. I am not desperate to marry so I dont plan to settle. God forgive me...but I NEVER want to be on welfare or have to work two jobs because of my bad choices in finding a husband... My MAIN point is however...it is not easy...and prejudice is very very real. Aww...Thanks Whitney Resolved Question: Boy problems!!!! Help needed!!!!?Here's the thing: there's this guy who I used to be "bf/gf" with a couple years ago but we were kinda young so we didn't get to actually go out on a date. Anyway, I don know how exactly we broke up but I've liked him ever since... He has a girlfriend now but the thin is I don't think it will last very long, but who knows? So I began texting him and we had a nice little Convo and everything went great. Today at school, it was like he began noticing me again (omg right!? Haha....) Because we didmt talk as much after we "broke up". We made eye contact atleast 3 times throughout the day (which is pretty good considering were not in any classes together). But he didn't just look at me and look away, we like... Held the gaze for a few seconds. Yes, as a teenage girl, I did get butterflies. However, I texted him and said "hey" a few hours after school... but no reply. I'm getting paranoid!! I'm really in Need of some guy advice. I've seriously been crushing on him for the past three years... Or two- I'm not sure... Thanks for the answers!! Oh, btw, I don't want To break up him and his gf because she is one of my friends (not a close one though). And I think there still might be something between us as cheesy as that sounds... :) Open Question: How can I get my mom to accept my boyfriend?I am a nineteen-year-old college student who just finished my first semester in college with straight A's. I have never had a speeding ticket. I work during the summer and during school. In fact, I already have a job lined up for next summer. I do the chores I am supposed to (when I'm at home) and go to all of the family gatherings required of me. However, I still have had my car taken away, and I am under threat of being removed from my household, school (which I am doing so well in), and any other financial support from my family. This is because of my boyfriend. Although we have only been dating for three months, our relationship has been going on for closer to ten. He is a sweet, intelligent boy that I share a lot of common interests with. Although he is the same age as me, he is not in school because his family is very poor. He does work full time, however, and recently purchased a car. My mother absolutely disapproves of him because she says that he is a "loser". Although to some he may be, I don't really give a shit. I think that as long as I keep doing as well as I do in school, in work, and in my public life, and that he makes me happy, that we should be able to continue our relationship. My mother says that she can control who I do and do not go out with because I am still her dependent. She claims that she is protecting me from making bad descisions (which I obviously have not made yet). I do not understand whys he can still punish me so harshly despite all of the hard work that I have put in towards my success. I probably will not have my car until February at the earliest. My mom took my $150 paycheck that I just got a few days ago, in order to cover my phone bill that she will no longer pay because I am still talking to him (my phone bill was only $90, but she says that I owe her $900 fror all of the phone bills that I have ever had since we have been together). She says that it is not her who has a problem with my boyfriend, it is my grandfather. My grandfather finances many of the things in my life. Since I am white and my boyfriend is black, my grandfather would never ever approve of our relationship. She says that denying me support is what my grandfather would want her to do. She claims that she isn't racist, but why would she want to uphold his racist principles? Someone please help me figure out what to do with this situation What I failed to include is that my boyfriend lives at home, and we have a long distance (only 90 min) relationship most of the time. It would be very difficult for me to be an independent and own a car, because I attend an expensive private college (most of it is already paid for by scholarships and grants). I also do not want to sever ties with my family because I do love them very much. More Recent Articles |
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