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Open Question: I have an interesting relationship prob. PLZ HLP THNX? and more... Open Question: I have an interesting relationship prob. PLZ HLP THNX?I have an odd problem. I am involved in a loving relationship, but I feel like my girlfriend intentionally bears down on me sexually. I do have sex and display interest in her a lot. We have a decent sex life. Its nothing outrageous, but certainly not cold. I spend a lot of time with my girlfriend.. almost all the time. When were together most of the time things are alright. We quarel here or there about a little thing. I used to hate that she would leave messes and leave lights on, and i used to think she did it intentionally to annoy me, but after confronting the issue, she explained that shes always been like that and shes sorry that it seems that way to me. I have never really felt like she didnt want to be dating me. Sometimes I felt like she could be dating someone better. I toke a lot, but I make a lot of money too. I do take her out to dinner and on occasional trips to landmarks, diners, and hiking. Its not like were in any sort of rut, or are at all unhappy. She did not toke before meeting me. Often times when we are laying in bed or sitting next to each other she is sort of sexually oppressive. She begins rubbing herself either breasts or vagina, and makes a sort of grunting noise. I am not easy to annoy, but I am always annoyed while shes doing this, when things are seeming pretty normal, and im just chilling out. This wouldnt be so bad except she looks and my getting annoyed and i do my best to express annoyance with the ...incidence?... but she starts to get off more and more at my annoyance, and then treats it like a big diss, with an uh at the end, leaving me emotionally raped and drained and my wits end for trying to be comfortable in my own home. were not old enough yet to worry about stuff yet but for the most part she is living off of me. I keep food in the house and I pay for all of our expenses including rent. I feel like im being very disrespected here in my own home under my conditions and when i try to bring it up, she treats it like a matter of personal freedom. She feels at home with me, and feels that these are things that she would be doing at home. She has taken to not wearing pants while doing assignments lately and she is jsut becoming more and more openly sexual, like one of those nasty fat people who just keeps getting off to their own breathing and grunting and everyone knows that theyre just horny and submitting to themselves but its all very disgusting and disturbing. I hate to see this when im out and about and i certainly dont want the ...uhm...masterpiece in my home. I cant tell if she does it to turn me on or if she does it to convey to me that theres some sort of problem or if she cant help herself, but I certainly cant tell her exactly how i feel. I cant say please leave until you can learn to behave yourself sexually in our home, but i am depleted and dont know what to do.I have an extreme emotional attachment to her, but she doesnt realize she is raping my comfort and emotional stability when she...turns on... like this. I really need help confronting this issue calmly and nicely. What do i do? Open Question: have some love problems or i think so :-s (and man x man problems ) so pls help me?oke its a lil long story so hope u wouldn't bore i am gay but i loved (toughed that i loved ) a girl and we start dating and having fun but after several days i kind of get bored of the relationship :| do no why and she says that she loves me so hard and she can't live without me and other stuff but i don't want her anymore really i love a guy from my school but i think he's not gay too :( k i what some advices for my relationship and for my "gay life " :D Open Question: I USED TO BE CUTE BUT NOW AM SOO UGLY!?hey, im 14 and i used to be a cute girl but now i moved to an arab country and i got soo tanned normaly i was very light brown so really light but now am soo dark i wear long clothes n things.. but my face is the only problem its the only thing that got tanned, im so ugly first i used to be told am hot n guys wanted to date me but now am so ugly i have bags under my eyes my face is geting biger and ugly everything now am kinda brown :( what can ido? i use honey on my face and yoghurt and moisuzer u know the daily things but i use honey one every 2/3 weeks and i have this machine used in caoffeur n stuff please dont say make-up thanks wat can ido? my tan doesnt go i have realy dark yelow teth i brush my teeth though;( Open Question: Whats his problem? Please answer?So, we've known each other since the beginning of this year, but we havn't really hung out, as like friends, or even aquantinces. He talked to me first, said hey, and I talked to him later. Hes one year older, seventeen. So he was gonna tell me somethin earlier, but didn't get the chance. Then I talked to him, and he told me he wanted to take me to the movies Friday. Of course, I said yes. So were suppose to go Saturday. Were not going out, just going to the movies. Then I talked to one of his good friends and they said he didn't like me, and just talks to everyone. But he asked me to the movies? And his friend is already dating so its nothing about jelousy. Whats up with that? Open Question: I like or maybe even love this guy but I have to get over him, I just don't know how!?I have a crush.On this guy.I really like him but I don't know how he feels about me. At first I really considered seeing if he liked me back but everyone said that I had to ask him, the thought of that scared me half to death.I then decided that since there was no chance I would be allowed to date him anyway (really long story) I should just try and get over him.People have said to me that to get over a guy just don't think about him and avoid him.That could be a problem as my daily routine requires me to see him about twice a day.He gives me mixed signals. He does look at me when I see him and when I feel like I may be getting over him a bit he looks at me and sends my stomach doing flips and my head spinning.I know that some part of me wants to get over him but another part wants him around me all the time. What should I do? Even if getting over him is the best answer how do I do that? Open Question: Problems with bestfriend?I have this best friend I love very much he's a guy. He recently started dating this girl named Rachael and she absolutely HATES me, she barely knows me and the reason she hates me is because she thinks I'm trying to get to her boyfriend, which is stupid because he's like a brother to me. She always yells at me and tries to start fights with me and her boyfriend who is my best friend doesn't say anything at all to her about it! Yesterday we got into a huge fight about that. I told him he never defends me or ever tells her to leave me alone, he says i should just ignore her but I can't take it! She's really hurting me and never leaves me alone. My question is, what should I do? Should we just not be friends or should I apologize to him? :( Open Question: I need to get over him but how?I have a crush.On this guy.I really like him but I don't know how he feels about me. At first I really considered seeing if he liked me back but everyone said that I had to ask him, the thought of that scared me half to death.I then decided that since there was no chance I would be allowed to date him anyway (really long story) I should just try and get over him.People have said to me that to get over a guy just don't think about him and avoid him.That could be a problem as my daily routine requires me to see him about twice a day.He gives me mixed signals. He does look at me when I see him and when I feel like I may be getting over him a bit he looks at me and sends my stomach doing flips and my head spinning.I know that some part of me wants to get over him but another part wants him around me all the time. What should I do? Even if getting over him is the best answer how do I do that? I have liked another guy but my mind goes back to him. I have a break for christmas but the last time we had a break I thought I was getting closer to being over him but when I saw him my heart just beats faster and my head spins. Open Question: It hurts really bad. Should I break up with him?So this is kind of my fault. I told my boyfriend about my fantasy to get spanked by a guy, and he said he'd be glad to do that for me. Problem is he hit me far harder than I could handle and basically held me down refused to stop until I had tears in my eyes. I did tell him to quit, but he thought I was playing a game...like the whole being punished and begging for mercy thing. So he continued. Now, hours later my butt is still really tender to the touch...feels as if there's internal bruising or something. When he asked why I was crying, I told him that I was totally serious about telling him to stop, and he did apologize and said I could kick him in his balls if I wanted. He asked if he could give me a back rub or if I just wanted him to get out of my house, and I told him I didn't really care what he did, so he pulled up a chair next to my bed and rubbed my back until I fell asleep. So he is remorseful, but now I'm kinda scared of him. Should I continue to date him accepting that it was my fault or leave him? Open Question: boy problems? i needs to be soon! help me boys (or girls)?my friend likes my cousin. during the summer, me and her went to a big mall with my mom, my cousin, my aunt(his mom)and my cousin brought a friend. we went out to lunch and then went around the mall, but we got separated from them. my friend wants to go with her to our school's winter dance, freshman formal. (yeah, were freshman haha) the question is, how can she ask my cousin and i ask my cousin's friend without making it awkward or weird. the only time I will see my cousin is christmas and maybe some after christmas shopping over break, but my friend wont and i wont see my cousin's friend. we have connections to them through facebook, but i think thats weird i also need to get more friendly with my cousin's friend before this, i barely know this. should i comment on a pic or status? or go on chat, hes always on. should i say "oops, sorry i didnt mean to send that to u haha"? idk, im confused. i need this to be soon, i need to get a dress and the tickets and flower thing i told my friend that if i didnt get a date, she would get me a date with a random upperclassman, but i dont wanna go with someone ive never met. Open Question: WHY DON'T EMPLOYER'S TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HIRING VETERANS IF THEY GET TAX CREDITS? HELLO REPUBS, CEO'S, Managers!?Im trying to figure out why businesses do not make it a priority to hire military veterans when the government will give them tax credits per veteran they hire. Not to get political, but if people like REPUBLICANS, CEO's or BIG Business folks are screaming "WE NEED LOWER TAXES", OR "BUSINESSES WON'T HIRE UNLESS YOU GIVE THEM TAX BREAKS", then why on earth aren't they making it a priority to hire individuals such as unemployed military veterans(yes I am one) and people who are in other categories in which they will get tax credits for? Can anybody explain why they are not taking advantage of this and instead choose to search for "THE PERFECT FIT CANDIDATES? I would like to hear responses from HR Reps, Managers, Business owners, Conservatives, Republicans, or even Veterans. In my honest opinion, this right here proves how republicans and businesses are LYING, yes I said it, they are LYING to the american people about why job growth is slow. The Right Wing folks is constantly screaming about needing lower taxes or wanting tax breaks on businesses in order for job growth and the economy to get better, however the government is offering tax credits for veterans, and people who are either on welfare, food stamps, etc who the conservatives claim is milking off the government!! Right Wing People claim we don't need people using assistance from the government however businesses will not even take advantage of the tax credits being offered by the government to give these American Citizens a joob and help get them on their feet!! Now how do republicans explain this. They can't cause they are LIARS!! Tax breaks are being offered to you folks to hire these people and Veterans such as myself, but you choose not to hire us and continue to operate in the same ol system. With that being said, It is obvious to me that TAXES is truly not the problem. It is just like lying to someone when you don't wanna go out on a date with them. That's right, making up excuses, but not disclosing the real truth. Open Question: How do i get my annoying ex to back off a little?My ex boyfriend is actually starting to annoy me now. The more i avoid him, or ignore him, the more determined he is to speak to me. He's very manipulative as well, he knows how to pull the sad boy eyes, and give the hurt tone. The bottom line is when i used to date my ex he'd treat me like crap. He would do things like trick me with warm conversation and empathy into believing he had real feelings for me. Once he got sex no matter what he was like an ice cube. He was too ashamed to introduce me to his family, and in the whole year on and off i was seeing him, he took me out twice and never offered me food in his home at all. Everytime i break up with him first it was the begging. Then the more i realised how much of a jerk he was, the longer i'd cut him out. Last time i cut him out for months, i was ridiculously happy pretending like he didn't exist. He lives opposite me, so if i saw him on the street i wouldn't even say hi, i'd just cross the road. Last week he cornered me in front of my house and started giving me this sob story about how he thought we had a great time he didn't know why i stopped taking his calls. I remember that the time he was talking about, he was a total **** wipe. Called one of his friends to get weed of him when i wanted us to share a private time, wouldn't drop me off home and shortened our time together. When i used to try and make conversation with him he'd turn up the volume of his music, or tell me that he wasn't an intelligent person. Everytime he tries to worm his way back into my life, he pretends to be genuinely interested in how i'm doing what i've been up to? It's all such crap. He's the nicest person on the phone, real friendly and charismatic, but also extremely good at playing the hurt party. How do i cut him out for good. I'm never really happy with him, the only problem is i'm such a sucker for a sob story...he's always got one. How do i cut out the idea of a relationship with him, and get him to accept a distant friendship? I think he'd make a jokes friend but is a crap boyfriend? Any tips? Open Question: Can you turn a booty call into a boyfriend?I've had a crush on this man since I was 16 years old. He lived on the same street as I did, we rode the same bus and for years he never knew I secretly had a crush on him. Fast forward 18 years later and we see each other at the store and exchange numbers. We end up being intimate over the next year and a half. We don't date, just hook up late nights and "do the grown up" for lack of a better term--lol. As a new decade approaches, I find myself wanting to either make it more or leave it alone totally. I have always been afraid to really express myself so telling him that I want more is going to be a problem for me. I guess I need to know if I should even make the effort considering that after 19 months he hasn't bothered to make a move in the boyfriend direction either. What do you think? Open Question: Confused by the woman I'm dating. Why won't she sleep with me?I'm quite shy and don't have much experience with women. Six months ago I started going out with this woman who's pretty attractive. We met through a mutual friend and I was a bit surprised she was interested because she's a little bit out of my league. It was great at first but now I'm getting rather anxious. The thing is, she still hasn't let me take her to bed and I really really want to! We date at least once a week (I take her out to dinner and stuff) and she always dresses in quite a sexy way. She flirts with me a lot, seems to like kissing and fooling around, but she won't go any further. It's becoming a problem because I'm feeling more and more frustrated. I really do fancy this woman and it doesn't seem fair what she's doing. Or NOT doing, I mean! Starting to think she might be just a tease. Trouble is, although I've heard about women like that (and they sound like bad news) I've never come across it before, so I can't be sure that's what she is. Plus I like her, and I'd hate to walk away from something that might end up being good! Short of asking her outright why she won't sleep with me (which I can't make myself do) I don't know what's for the best. I need some reliable way to understand what's going on here, but without offending her. Any suggestions? More Recent Articles |
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