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Open Question: I have an unusual friend. please read. i need real advice.? and more... Open Question: I have an unusual friend. please read. i need real advice.?i have known this girl for 10 years. we've know each other since sixth grade and now we are 22. we have been friends on and off but have also had major problems, mostly from her end of the friendship. She and i are kinda opposite types. she is wild and loves to party but im the opposite, im a Christian and i want to go to church and kinda live a quiet life. yet we've always been friends. we started having issues in the friendship when she always went after guys i liked or was dating. then she was talking about me behind my back. then she lied, again and again and again. but she always comes back to be my friend. she chooses terrible friends who always treat her terrible and ditch her. ive told her not to do things, then she goes and does them and comes back to me pouting about how it didnt work out. she also lives at home still, has no license or job, and stays home meeting dudes on the internet, creepy ones i might add. i just found out, she has a tattoo. the thing is, i didnt find out from her. i found out from somebody else. the thing is, she never told me. theres lots of things like that shes never mentioned. like guys she's slept with and things she's done. like she's outright lie about stuff, telling me she's only slept with two guys, when in fact she's been with twenty. she keeps on calling me even tho we have nothing really in common. my guess is she's bored sitting at home? i dont know why she wouldnt want to start her life up. she claims her mom or dad wont help her get her license. all this girl seems to do is, meet guys on the net , screw them, and hang out with her high school age friends. ive been thinking maybe she has a personality disorder? something reallly really wrong with her? i appreciate any advice. also, she seems to think i owe her something even when she's in the wrong. like she'll date a guy i like and then expect i should just accept her apology and be her friend again. she'll say "thats in the past. why do you keep bringing it up?" also she never ever compliments me or asks me how im doing. if i get my hair done or like a new outfit, she wont say a word. you know how you are w/your friends if they get something new, you're like, "thats cute". she acts like she doesnt see it. anyhow i appreciate any input on this. Open Question: Why won't my mom let me date?she wants me to focus on my carrer first and doesnt want any distractions. She wants me to be like her and not start dating until she was like 25. I can't argue with her either becasue she's helping pay for my education too. Whats my mom's problem. Btw I'm 20. Open Question: Sexual identity problem?Okay long story short because i've posted this a thouand time before and i'm experimenting in college next year to found out, i label myself gay, fall in love with a girl at first think of her as cover then cant go through with it then realizze i really do like her because i felt suicidal for a week after not because the gay thing well kind of but i really wanted t date her (presently 18). 16 insane gay fantasizes many guy friends didn't think of them that way, 17 find out i love girls but still haunted by thoughts saying im gay, that summer met a girl went clubbing i loved her ass on my waist and felt it for two days couldn't get enough. when i talked to her i was bored until she mentioned something sexual then i got excited but i was pretty miserable around that time also. thought of gay sex breaks me to masterbation finish off, straight sex keeps me going after that. wouldn't say no to straight sex, probably say no to gay sex, well depending on th situation porbably since i never experimented. thought of kissing a girl makes me sick yet still scheming on how i can get one. since that club ive been attracted to guys and girls, i love my women but i miss men too since i never see them anymore. cant masterbate to women first or else my erection feels weird. tried being straight haunted by curiosity, tried being gay planning on making a move on a guy, cant pull myself to hang out with i cause i don't want to ... really. tried being gay, still haunted. my thoughts consist of gay, straight, confused and bi. to the gay sidekick the problem is i keep getting crushes on girls and i still want to have sex with them thanks dustin its just i want to wait util i move out so there isn the drama in telling the girl i like that i think im gay since word spreads so quickly Open Question: What are my rights as a tenant?I'm currently in my final year at university, and I am renting a 2 bedroomed flat with a friend. When we viewed the flat we discovered we shared a wall with an empty building, the representative from the letting agency informed us that the letting agency were in the process of buying the empty building to make into more student accommodation. Having no problem with this my friend and myself signed a contract lasting until the end of the academic year (July). It has now turned out that the letting agency did not buy the property and it has instead become a bar with a late license until 3am (the people in the block of flats I live in opposed the extension to the license but it seems we were unsuccessful) and as the flat shares a wall with the pub I find it almost impossible to sleep until they turn their music off at 3am. I'm in my final year, so I have a lot of work I need to get done. I can't afford to sacrifice the rent (they have post dated cheques for the rest of the year) and find somewhere else. If I complained to the letting agency would they be able to do anything? Do I have any rights seeing as I have nothing in writing from the letting agency to say they were buying the building? Any help would be GREATLY appreciated, I'm going out of my mind. Open Question: not devorce yet but dating?Would it be a problem if she is dating and still married but is getting a devorce. Will it be a problem in the state of new york. She thinks he will use it against her even though they have been seperated for five months and only started dating a month ago. Open Question: why doesnt he ever look at me when hes talking to me?soo ive been kinda dating a guy i guess, hes asked me to hang out three times over a months time. everythings all good, we usually dont have that much of a problem finding something to talk about even tho we dont know each other that well. but when he talks i feel like he NEVER looks at me, especially when we're talking. hes always looking straight ahead or something, but he never plays with his hands or anything. i dont even think ive talked to him like face to face straight on ever! i dont even know what to think. just because im a person who talks with the normal amount of eye contact, i find it weird i cant ever look into his eyes, because all i see is his profile! what does this mean?? so because we never make eye contact.. i feel like i cant ever get a conection with him! or even a kiss. Open Question: I need relationship advice?Ok i'm not in a current relationship but the girl i broke up with i still love. Its complicated but i am currently 18 and i am crazy about this girl but the problem is that shes stubborn with everything especially her beliefs. Mainly though its that we were dating for a year and the most we've done is kissed. And i mean the only thing, i haven't even felt her up in a year, she's that girl that wants to wait till marrige for sex. What do i do? I'm crazy about her and i love spending time with her but there are some things i can't stand. I want to be with her but she's so stubborn that i can't talk to her about something even close to a compromise. Do i change to be with her? I can't stand the thought of being forced to change my ideals and i couldn't do the same to her. I'm not a virgian so i think i deserve so props for making it through a year like that. Don't get me wrong either its only been with one person and it was because we were really close. I believe sex is an expirence that should be between you and the one you love. I mean between her beauty and the strong love i had for her it was torture. Sex makes two people closer in my opinion and it was horrible not to be with her like that. I want to be with her but i don't think it will work out because she isn't willing to work with me. I didn't break up with her because i wanted to but because it felt like i had no other choice. Please show me some other perspectives Open Question: Want different friends?!?ok so im at a new school this year- im a freshman but everyone went to a different middle school together and so i didn't know anyone really when i came. Im also in this advanced studies kinda program (its at a normal high school though) but i basically only have classes with the other people in the program. ive met some nice people but they are reallly focused on studying and they don't really go to parties or date or have many guy friends (mostly girls that ive met) I want to make friends with some other people who are more social and less school-ish. i mean i still want to make good grades but have fun too. problem is idk how to meet people like that since im like isolated with all the other people. plus everyone already has there groups of friends from last year and stuff. what should i do? :D thanks <3 p.s. last year at my middle school i had lots of awesome friends it was so fun and i miss them- they live close but go to a diff hs Open Question: Is there any way we could be held liable for Mold in our apartment?We have been in the same apartment for a little over a year now. When we moved in, we noticed a bit of mold in the bathroom. nothing major, just around the top of the shower where water may have splashed up and around the faucet in the tub....just the norm when it comes to a bathroom. we also noticed a tiny chip in the tub itself, which we reported to the office. the maintenance man came over to look at it, and said that it's nothing and that all the tubs in the apartment are starting to do that. okay so we shrugged it off. a month before we signed another lease, i had dropped the shower head and put a tiny hole in the tub. we called maintenance right away to tell them about it. and when they came over the maintenance man just caulked the hole, and i also suggested that he do something about the original hole as well. i also suggested he do more than caulk it, there was no way that caulk would hold up through all that water. so a week later he came back and put this black putty stuff in the 2 holes. and then when that dried, a week later he came back and put this white paint on the dried putty. he did a crappy job and i was still pretty sure the water would still get through that. i had him give me a receipt saying he fixed the holes, and thats all he did. he didn't even put a date or what he did to them. we resigned our lease this past june, and just this past week we went on vacation. we turned all the heat off in the apartment (our apartments are not very well insulated, so our electric bill is always through the roof). we just returned, and i took a shower only to notice that the mold at the top of the tub is worse!! i think not having the heat on has caused it to grow? I don't know much about mold, but it wasn't cold enough outside to keep they heat on anyway. I am getting worried that its just going to keep getting worse. We are calling the office first thing in the morning to tell them about it. this will be the first time we have mentioned the mold problem (i didnt really know it was a problem till now!). im worried that they will try to blame us for the mold, say something like we should have noticed it was an issue a year ago when we moved in. or maybe even say the hole we put in the tub caused it, even though we called them right away to fix that (even though there was a hole that had been there before we moved in!). I know for a fact we didnt cause the mold, but it is definitly getting worse little by little. Can they possibly blame us for something like this? More Recent Articles
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