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Open Question: I just want to meet my bf's ex. Is that too much to ask? and more... Open Question: I just want to meet my bf's ex. Is that too much to ask?My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now and he broke up with his ex to date me. And here is my story...PLEASE PLEASE READ. I really do not know what to do. Ever since they have maintained a friendship, they talk on the phone, email, and see each other from time to time (only like 3 times tho). I was fine with this till one day after a month of my boyfriend and I dating I saw an e-mail he wrote her a week after they broke up. It said he had made a mistake and would never stop loving her. This e-mail was written two months previous to me reading it, and as I said, a month after we started dating. So orginally I didn't care if they were friends but after reading the email I told him I did not want him to see her...ever.... which was a mistake. Ultimatium only made him go behind my back. When I found out he was going behind my back to talk to her and call her, I freaked, broke up with him yet he begged for me back and I gave him a second chance. I did learn that I need to give him room, if they are gonna be friends so be it. So they called each other, met up for coffee, e-mailed...etc. The only problem is she hates me, wants nothing to do with me and refuses to be in same room as me. He just avoids it by hanging out with her without me. But I have HAD IT! I want to meet this girl and she what she is all about. Everyone I talked to who knew her when they dated say she was a huge *****! So why are they friends!?! ugh... So yes here is my question. I told my boyfriend that the next time he sees her I want to meet her. I feel this isn't much to ask, but he feels it would only make things worse. First of all she does not want to meet me. Second he thinks I may take any laugh, look or facial expression between them to the extreme. What do you guys think? Open Question: am i making things way to complicated?ok so here's the whole story!!! name: danny age: 14 ____________________ danny and i have been friends for forever. litterally. his mom and my mom are BEST friends so we've been friends since we were born. over the summers we litterally spent everyday together. during school years we texted eachother like everyday. recently,well last summer, i found out that danny liked me. like really liked me. i recieved this information from my mother who tina (dannys mom) told her, and danny told tina. i'm almost certain that he didnt mean to tell her that she kind of figured it out. so now i know. and danny doesnt know that i know. i've know since like the middle of summer but i never asked about it or questioned him or anything. so now he's acting different. his convos are more, idk how to put it, more showing off, i guess. idk but like he would brag about his baseball team winning a game and how HE so won i form them. oh and another thing he brought up was "you remind me of my girlfriend" and i was like ok well whats that suppossed to mean... and then later like 2 hours later in the conversation it was like 10pm i was like "so y are u texting me at ten o'clock at night? shouldnt you be texting your girlfriend" and then he was like "oh yea about that, there is no girlfriend" and i was like " then y did u tell me you had one" and he was like " idk just pushing your buttons" (his words) another thing was on his birthday (monday) i texted him at like 5 in the morning, all i put was "Happy Birthday:)" and i texted him at five becuase thats when i get up to get ready for school. i wasnt exspecting a response i mean hell he would probably still be fast asleep. lol but in a matter of idk like ten minutes he texts me bk "lol thank you" and i was like "lol srry if i woke you" and he was like "nah its ok im glad you texted me" and i was like ":)" then later that day like around 2pm-ish his MOM of all people text me saying " WE miss you lets do five guys" (five guys is an inside joke that happened like months ago but its hilarious lol) and i was like " awe i miss you guys too, im busy today and tomorrow but any other day would be fun :)" and she was like " thats ok WE have baseball practice we'll call you and make plans" and before i could respond danny texts me from his phone and says " hey hows it goin?" and i told him then he started ACTin all stupid wanabe gangster ( which he is so not like that in person like ever unless hes makin a joke or somthing) and thn he asks "so r u singgy" and i have no f''''n clue wth that means so im like " huh?" then we go bk and forth not getting anything anywhere so after like 20 mintutes of this i tell him bye and a few words and dont return any of his msgs. of corse i couldnt stay mad at him for long but i still refused to text him. he didnt text me at all the rest of monday, tuesday, wednesday, or thursday i never texted him or anything then today (friday) i get this random text saying " hey whats up" followed my a chain msg wanting me to finish the sentence " before 09 is out i want to do _______ with the person that sent you this..." and i told him "y do u send me stupid shit like this u know i hate chain msgs" and then he said " just answer it" so i was like fine idk make brownies " (another thing we do together...lol we make dessert and brownies are my favorite lol" and so and so forth so danny isnt like most boys he's nice, athletic, cute, funny, sweet, conciderate, he cooks, hes actually very intelligent;for a guy that is; and he is so adorable! i find that he is also VERY pertective of me, idk if thats good or bad. my parents ador him! same with his mom and i. i also love his mom shes amazing really. ad he's great with kids. uhh idk what to do idk if he likes me as much as i think he does and if he does idk what to do because of the age difference (3 months which makes me in 9th grade and him in 8th) and he lives in ft. myers and goes to school there and i live in cape coma so theres a little bit of a distance problem also if we do start dating and it ends badly it would be catistophic for the friendship between our moms as well as ours. i wouldnt be able to live without danny being my friend. he is my closest friend and the only person in the world that holds my trust. rather he knows it or not. ehh any advice? srry i wrote ALOT didnt mean to do that much....lol Open Question: Dermatologist question?I have had bad acne on my back for a while, so now I have bad scarring as well as about 100 spots on my shoulder area. I feel so ugly that I don't even get changed with the other gutys in p.e. I had bad acne on my face too now it's just mild-moderate instead of severe, but because i've had it for a couple of years also, my skin isn't nice anymore, it's rough and there's tons of scars. Please, I feel REALLY insecure about it and won't start dating til the problem's sorted. What can a dermatologist do about my scars and acne? I was ona ccutane and it did wonders so i'm hoping to go on it again. Thankyou. Open Question: What are some good gifts to get your gf?weve been dating for a year and she said she got me somthing good and i want to get her something good to. so i need some ideas. money is not the problem Open Question: I'm sorry this is so long but i need your help.. what do YOU think i should do? i really love her?!?well, to make an extremely long story somewhat short, i'm in love with this girl. i've seen her in a serious relationship, i've seen her get cheated on and be completely broken. i've seen her rise from that, and she's now in a relationship but she always says "it's nothing serious." this january will make 3 years that i've known her/felt this way for her. friends tell me to try and date others, and i dated this one girl but it didn't work out at all, she ended up hurting me. i ended up going to the girl i'm in love with for advice, because she's one of the only ones i could trust with it. she helped me through it. she'll sometimes do things that look like she could possibly be into me, too. (walking into a circle of people i'm in and bringing up a show i told her i was watching the night before. like, 'so how about criminal minds last night?!' and taking me out to clear my head, asking me to go to her job with her to get papers and contiuously telling me 'i'm so happy you came with me, i'd be so bored without you.' showing a lot of skin around me, etc.) but then my insecurities get the best of me and i point out all the things that would make her NOT like me (besides the fact that she's 5 years older.) we don't talk everyday, maybe a couple times a week.. sometimes less than that. she leads a very busy life. i know many of you are probably like "okay, i don't see the problem.. just tell her how you feel." well, it's truthfully not that easy. it's taken me so long to finally get her to trust me and open up to me like she does now. i'm willing to wait, because i've been waiting this long and some of her (meaning having her as a friend) is better than none of her. i just don't know what to do.. i'm so in love with her, and it breaks my heart to not have her. i miss her so much the pain is excruciating. i don't know what to do.. someone PLEASE help?! she's the only reason for happiness i have in my life, and i don't know what i'd do if i lost that. but i feel like i'm not good enough for her and she deserves so much better than me.. Open Question: I'm sorry this is so long but i need your help.. what do YOU think i should do? i can't seem to find much help?well, to make an extremely long story somewhat short, i'm in love with this girl. i've seen her in a serious relationship, i've seen her get cheated on and be completely broken. i've seen her rise from that, and she's now in a relationship but she always says "it's nothing serious." this january will make 3 years that i've known her/felt this way for her. friends tell me to try and date others, and i dated this one girl but it didn't work out at all, she ended up hurting me. i ended up going to the girl i'm in love with for advice, because she's one of the only ones i could trust with it. she helped me through it. she'll sometimes do things that look like she could possibly be into me, too. (walking into a circle of people i'm in and bringing up a show i told her i was watching the night before. like, 'so how about criminal minds last night?!' and taking me out to clear my head, asking me to go to her job with her to get papers and contiuously telling me 'i'm so happy you came with me, i'd be so bored without you.' showing a lot of skin around me, etc.) but then my insecurities get the best of me and i point out all the things that would make her NOT like me (besides the fact that she's 5 years older.) we don't talk everyday, maybe a couple times a week.. sometimes less than that. she leads a very busy life. i know many of you are probably like "okay, i don't see the problem.. just tell her how you feel." well, it's truthfully not that easy. it's taken me so long to finally get her to trust me and open up to me like she does now. i'm willing to wait, because i've been waiting this long and some of her (meaning having her as a friend) is better than none of her. i just don't know what to do.. i'm so in love with her, and it breaks my heart to not have her. i miss her so much the pain is excruciating. i don't know what to do.. someone PLEASE help?! she's the only reason for happiness i have in my life, and i don't know what i'd do if i lost that. but i feel like i'm not good enough for her and she deserves so much better than me.. Open Question: What should I do about my girlfreind?Ok Im here because I have no one to talk and Im in some serios pain right now.Ok...You guys will think Im pathetic when I say this but here goes. I never had a girlfreind before and Im 17 still in highschool.Im just not good with girls. There was this one day where I just felt really loneley and hopless and I always thought that I was never meant to be with someone I love.I would always be lonely livin in a house bymyself for the rest of my life.well that day I decided to go hunting...but in the wrong place.craigslist and I found a girl thats 21.and we started emailin eachother.But I was never really planning to fall in love I just wanted to know how it feels to get a girlfreind.This girl was a freak she was bi and loved sex.and we even had cyber(It was her idea)...anyways I eventually started to talk her more and more and we even talked on the phone a couple of times.we even exchanged pics.then one day she said shes startin to have feelings for me and thats when we started to go out.shes told me so many things about her and eventually even said she loves me...but I didnt really feel the same so I just went with it.Then we finally meet one day and we went on a date to the museum.I even got my first kiss ever :).and the whole day felt like magic.It might of been the best day of my life cause it felt so right.but this girls a freak...and at times she would only think about sex.anyways we went on a couple of more dates and got more sexual.but not to the point where I lost my virginity. The problem is that she lives very far from me...like a 3 hour trip away from me.and I only see her like once a week. I ve grown this feeling...I call it love. the feeling of always wanting her to be with me.I wanna live my life with her and even get married.and she says she feels the same.now were having sex and I lost my virginity to her and was proud...but now Im not.I cant tell if this girl really loves me.If she really cares or she just wants a boy toy to have sex with.and now everyday I cant sleep without the fear of her cheating cause I barley see her and we dont talk as much as she used.It makes me suspicious cause she thinks about sex a lot.I literally get thoughts about her cheating on me 24/7. I dont wanna be hurt.I dont wanna lose this girl. I ll never find another girl like her...In fact I ll never find another girl again.Im hopless.Ive sacrificed so much for her.and she might be toying with my heart.I talked to her about the way I felt and she was "hurt" cause she thought I trusted her...but were still together.This girl has literally stolen my heart. and she can do whatever she wants with it. I wanna trust her. But its just so hard.and my pain is increasin more and more everyday.the only thing on my mind is her all the time.The thought of her lying to me and cheating would literally kill me. Id never date again cause I just wont find another one...how can I trust this girl?is she cheating?what should I do? And yes I know its illegal but it doesnt bother me. Open Question: what would you do in this situation?okay, so my bf (boyfriend) and i have dated for more than 9 months. everyone i know tell me he is lieing to me. that he's a player, he is cheating on me. the list goes on and on. but i trust my bf. so i didnt figure anything. well actually there have been a couple people i didnt even know. i asked him "so your saying the people are just lieing to me, there just makeing all this up in their heads" all he said was idk. ohhh and we never talk on the phone. only texting i hate it. ANYWAY, this girl who i have had problems with before with the whole bf thing. (she tried stealing him) everyone says they talk. well there was a basketball game, and a wrestleing match. my bf went to the game this girl went to the match. the girl said i have to go to the bathroom went outside and met up with my boyfriend. when i told him i didnt want him talking to her at all. i show up and go off. and he insist he didnt do anything. i broke up with him. but of course i still love him am i being blind about this.what would you have done. More Recent Articles
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