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Open Question: I need help with this situation? and more... Open Question: I need help with this situation?I have been dating my boyfriend for a few years and our relationship has been pretty good, other than for the occasional arguments which every couple has. We both treat each other well and we get along great as well. However, I am noticing that something is really bothering me. I have never talked to anyone about this before, so I would like to get some thoughts on here from people who don't know me, so that the opinions I get are not biased. I am in my early twenties and have noticed that for some strange reason, almost all of the girls that I know are either getting engaged or married. Some have finished school and others are still in school. These girls are also NOT pregnant because if they were, they would have had their children by now or it would have been obvious that they are pregnant. I don't know if I can actually call how I feel jealousy, but I am just curious where the future of my boyfriend and I will take us. He has NEVER given me a ring ever, and although I am the least materialistic girl out there, I do feel slightly weird after having other girls show off the rings their boyfriends bought them for their 1 year anniversary whereas a few years have passed in our relationship, and my boyfriend freaks out at the thought of giving a girl a ring. (He said so himself before that giving a girl a ring means you HAVE to marry her). Through conversation, I have found out that his parents are extremely against weddings and all those traditions that exist. They believe that getting married and having a big wedding is a huge waste of money and time. I would want to have a nice wedding someday because I would really regret if I got married in city-hall or something and did not have my special day. I was wondering if anyone could give me some thoughts on this. Could my boyfriend think he is not ready yet, could he be completely uninterested in marriage or could he just think I am not the one? He has actually said to me before and that I am the one for him, and he tells me he loves me everyday. We both spend a lot of time together and help each out a lot. So what could be the problem? Sorry for this being so long, and thank you for reading this. Open Question: I don't know if im cheating on my bf please help!!?1. im 13 2. i've been dating my bf for about 5 months incident #1-------at a party my friends and i played spin the bottle ive know 3 of the 4 guys for 3 years and the other one for 1 year i kissed them all at least 10 times. 2 of my best friends were there (both girls) and i asked them about it later if they thought it was cheating and they both said "no its just a game" are they right? the way i felt about it kept changing from "no you cheated, you kissed 4 other guys and had no problem with it,if fact you kinda didnt want to go home" to, "no you didnt it was just a game and all of your friends said they would never do anything that could wreck your relationship." incident #2 ---------- me and 4 different guys played the "nervous" game on thurs. (5 days ago) at school and im still playing the nervous game with one of the guys i played the nervous game with on thurs. More Recent Articles
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