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Open Question: i need help with a girlfriend problem? and more... Open Question: i need help with a girlfriend problem?im seventeen and me and my girlfriend have been dating a good while,one week we decide to lets just say try something new, not sex though, but any way during the next week we start fighting more and more just over the dumbest little things. she seems like she is acting completly different now, whenever i brought up that we need to to work things out she started crying, but we did start talking about it soon afterwards. the following three days she had been crying though thinking i was mad at her or something but i wasn't. i mean there are times especially in this past week that i may have said something stupid and regreted and tried making up for but now she is getting to the point where she wont resond to my texts or answer any of my calls, when i asked why she wouldn't she told me she just hasn't been in the mood to talk to me. i was wondering if this has all happened because of what we did, becasuse be fore it everything was completly fine, or something else. now when i do see her it just doesnt feel the same like before because there is this awkwardness that i can see on her face that there is still something bothering her. so please help me out, i just want to figure this out Open Question: Girls, I need your help! (pics included)?I've been friends with this guy for a while, and I think he's sooo cute. I can't tell if he likes me or not. How can I be sure if he's into me, and what should I do to get his attention. He's hard to read because he's really sweet with all of his friends, so I can't tell if he's flirting with me or just being nice. Here's a little about me: I'm 22 and studying psychology. I'm social and outgoing, and I LOOOOOVE music and movies. I think musicians are way hot, but I also need intelligent conversation, so that rules out 99% of them LOL. Also, I'm 5'7, so I need a guy who's at least 6ft (I don't mean to be shallow, but if I'm in heels I still want my guy to have a couple inches over me). I'm usually a straight forward and fearless girl, but for some reason around him I can't help being shy. A little about him: He's 23 and in med school. He also is an amazing singer and guitarist with a deep crooning voice kind of like Ville Valo's. He's such a sweetheart and so much fun. He can be a little weird and quirky sometimes, but it's in that interesting and cute way. He's 6'1, so basically he fits all my criteria hahaha :P The only problems are: Too many girls try to flirt with him. He can be a bit mischievous (he has lot's of stories that honestly sound like a lot of fun, but I just don't know if I can handle that kind of trouble in my life). He's super busy all the time between school and music and sports, etc. He's really smart and very persuasive, so I worry that he could manipulate me (he's really nice so I don't think he would, but it's something to consider). Here are some pictures of him. Let me know what you think. Would you date him, or does he sound like too much trouble? Thanks! :) http://i850.photobucket.com/albums/ab69/nadia22j/Photo156.jpg http://i850.photobucket.com/albums/ab69/nadia22j/Photo175.jpg Open Question: How do I know if he wants to kiss me?So I've never had this problem with guys in the past but here it is.... I've been dating a guy for a couple months now...we really like each other and have already broken the "touch barrier" (holding hands, cuddling, hugging). The only problem is that his parents don't want him dating because all they care about is him getting into college...so we're not able to hang out except for in hallways at school and the occasional band practice. I have been wanting to kiss him for a looong time now, and I've tried all the corny techniques such as looking from his eyes to his lips and back, leaning my face close to his, etc. but nothing works. I tell myself it is because he has never kissed a girl before(which he hasn't) and doesn't get the hint....but I just don't know. Any tips on how to know if he wants to kiss me? and hints on how to get him to? Open Question: I want my ex back, i dont know if there bad signals?OK so we have been dating for a little shy of 3 years, we have had our fair share of good, and bad times. We have been broken up since november 10th, sadly our anniversiry, because i went out with one of my bestfriends wich happens to be a guy friend and i lied to him saying i went out with a girl, he texted her and she didnt cover me up, i didnt wanna say the guy cuz he is jealus and its always been a problem, and he thinks i will leave him cuz his mother left his father. So when i got home it was really late and he was calling and i was like i was with maria and he didnt believe me like usual. The next day he calls me like crazy saying he texted maria and she said she never hung out with me, i got so mad that he went out of his way to call one of my friends so i kept hanging up on him saying its over since he doesnt trust me. The next day i called him and was like we need to talk and he said it was fine, we took a ride, and he hapeened to look so hot, and im like damn you look hot why cant you look like this when your with me, and he starts smiling, i told him i was sorry and that it wouldnt of happened in the first place if he would trust me with my guy friend and he said he sick of me lies and i said i was sick of him and him always being in a bad mode and being tired, and that the sex was geting boring. I thought he would of called me, but he didnt and it was a week, and thats pretty long for US. So i called him on his b-day at midnight on the dot, no answer. im like ok w/e, so i try later in the afternoon and no answer, i call him the next day and he said he was busy getting a tatto and we would talk later. He called me like 5 minutes later saying he went to a party on his b-day and got drunk and some girl drove him home ( i Didnt believe it because hes shy and doesnt have many friends just texting buddys) i said i was sry and made him think i was mad about the girl but i knew it was a lie. I called him 2 days later but he didnt want to talk and said to only call him once in a blue moon, we texted later that night and he told me he meet some1 and she makes him happy and he lost all feelings for me, i went in panic mode and went to his house (this isnt the first time he did stuff like this to me, he went out with my bestfriend to make me mad about 1 year ago and i called him begging him back and he took me back) and tried talking to him in person and he wouldnt come out the house, he said he didnt want to see me and he end up blocking me phone, i was pissed. So then 2 days later i call him off another phone and he said to leave him alone and hes getting ready to go out and he said im sisqo and he doesnt want me, i took it down like a man, and dealed with it. A week later on thanksgiving i contacted him off my moms phones and asked if he would be here for my support and pain and he said he would and said he can talk for 5 more minutes so i did, i asked him to unblock my number and he said no problem, he unblocked me 2 hours later but i was busy so i didnt answer it, and i wanted to enjoy the happiness i felt and the possitive hope. So i called him 4 hours later and he doesnt answer. Then at 2 oclock in the morning he calls me and i was sleeping, so i ended up waking at 3 and called him back and he said he was tired and not mad at me and call him in the morning, i called him in the morning and he didnt answer, he ended up calling me later and said he was shopping cuz it was black friday, i asked him if he would be willing to talk in person and he said he would think about it i said i didnt wanna presure him and he told me he was going to a parade with 3 girls that were JUST FRIENDS, and said were JUST FRIENDS, (He said that cuz i told him my guy friends were just friends) so i call him the next day and he says hes to tired cuz he got home at 3, (Ironickly the time i got home when i lied to him and said i was with maria) and some girl was coming over for a while so he would call me later, so i get ready, and im waiting for his call... and waiting.. i called him 5 hours later and he said he was going to the movies with his FRIEND that was a girl, and i hung up. He called me later that night to tell me he got really drunk, and that 5 girls are on his sack. I was pissed and hung up. At this point i was done with the games, i called him the next day and said he was going to the movies with a different girl, i said ok bye. Then 2 days later i called him because i wanted to give him the letter i wrote him, he said he didnt know because yet ANOTHER girl he was planning to hangout with was in the way, he said i could drop it off, i did. He then calls me to thank me for the letter and says we can be friends later, i said ok bye. Then i called him one last time cuz i owe him money cuz i crashed his car and his bumer is damaged and i wanted everything settled, he said he was going to the movies and he will get it some other day!!! i havent talked to him since?... Open Question: help me with this problem please?ok so me and this guy have been best friends for a while now i have known him since we were 4 and were 14 and 15, i did like him when we were little but not like i do now im like in love with him sooo bad.we hang out on the weekends because im home schooled and hes not so i don't see him alot .were best friends we text everyday when school lets out till we go to bed,and i can tell him i love him and stuff but i think he thinks i mean friend love but i don't, i think he does like me there are somethings he does that make me think he does,i like him and want to tell him but i don't want to ruin our friendship or nothing plus on that he has a girlfriend ugh i would wait till they broke up but he never stays single long when he is which he never is they have been dating for 9 months now.so i need a way to be able to tell him how i feel without losing our friendship if he doesn't feel that way to.and i've never been in a relationship so i have no clue what to do Open Question: Advice on dating a virgo man! Is he truly interested?I started talking to a virgo about 2 months ago. (His birthday: Sept 22, Mine: Oct 22) I noticed him on campus sometime last spring and we would see each other frequently at the gym. Whenever we would run into one another he would hold the door for me, smile, be very outgoing and other days not. Being a libra, I was instantly attracted to him but wasn't sure how to introduce myself until just 2 months ago. He invited me to tailgate with him and his friends for the first month of knowing each other, and during that time we ended up bonding and becoming intimately close. However, things slowly changed after I let him know that I was enjoying my time with him. He became more distant. We were able to talk and clear the air when he told me he still had strong feelings for another woman, and didn't think it was fair for me not to know. I understand that Virgo men are slow to open up to others and when they truly care, its hard for them to let go. Supposedly this other woman is wayy out of state and they are not together because of the timing and distance. He is also going through a spiritual moment in his life. I have maintained some distance from my virgo but still continue to keep in touch to let him know I'm thinking of him (obviously I still have feelings for him). I am not sure what to think of our relationship, whether its just a friendship or if hes even interested in me at all. We see each other on a regular basis, he helps me with advice when I ask, and he has opened up to me about personal problems. Other days he will not acknowledge me at all! When I ask him casually if he'd like to hangout he always has an excuse. As for now, I've told him that Im grateful to have him in my life. He recently told me he trusts me while we were both dealing with an individual causing drama. Good sign?! So Im asking anyone that is a virgo, knows a virgo, or has experience with dating one--what should I do? Is he interested and just slowly analyzing everything, or am I getting my hopes up over nothing?? Open Question: What do I do here? (Drama Filled Story Attached!!!)?I got to know this girl about six months ago. We didn't talk a lot, but even then I kinda had a thing for her. But I was dating someone else and so was she, so I just shut it all out for that time. Over the summer, while we still were both dating other people, we started txting each other out of the blue. She's such a great girl, funny, attractive and exactly my type. But again, we were dating other people, so I blocked it out. However, we didn't stop texting each other... We would talk abt everything, including problems in our current relationships. After texting for a month or so she started telling me goodnight and "sweet dreams" after we'd talk or even days when we didn't talk at all. The very first time she texted me "goodnight" she said she needed to tell someone goodnight and she needed to be told it in return before going to bed. I wondered briefly why she wasn't texting this to her boyfriend (Or maybe she did both????) But I didn't think much of it, and besides, we were still dating others. I broke up with my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was one of those bad breakups and this girl kinda helped me through it. Her random "goodnight" txts would always hit me right when I needed them. We recently hung out for the first time by her request. It was me and her along with my sister and her boyfriend. It was just at my house and we hung out and walked drove over to a nearby creek. Nothing really special.... But all this is re-sparking my feelings for her, but she is still dating her boyfriend of two years. I deliberately bring him up sometimes and she doesn't seem to eager to talk about him or even shrugs him off. But I'm worried that I may just be seeing what I want to see, like maybe I'm exaggerating this in my head or I missed a joke or something.... The actual story is that I told her that her English teacher would go easy on her if she told her she knew me. She laughed and so I threw in that she could let her boyfriend do the same, and that's when she seemed to shrug him off. So is this girl viewing me as a friend or something more? Honest answers appreciated :) Open Question: Religion and Dating. Should I go for it?So, there's this guy. It's the classic situation. We see each other a couple times a week at rehearsal. He goes to a different school. We're both seniors. He compliments me often, because I've been playing the trombone longer than he has, so I can sightread better. I help him play. We make jokes, even inside jokes. We smile a lot. We're together during sectionals. I make him laugh, he makes me laugh. And I think there could be a spark! I definitely like him, but I wanna be sure this feeling is shared. He did (playfully) invite me to a concert he was playing in, (with his band. that's right.) and told me to bring all my friends. And he's super nice and cuuuuute:) I should flirt with him to see, but I'm just not very good. I think I'll just smile a lot, lol. I have two problems: #1. These rehearsals end this week. We have two concerts and it's over. I might not see him again. So, I might wanna make a move. I was thinking maybe giving him my number, and telling him that we should get together sometime? Or a straight-up "Jeff, let's go for coffee"? Or facebook it, if I ever add him? Any suggestions would be appreciated, and how to execute them, and how to muster up the guts to do it. Oh, and he lives 30 mins away from me. It sucks. Problem #2. He's a devout Christian. As in, plays at his church, goes to a Christian school and has strong beliefs. It's not like he talks about Jesus all the time, but I'm not a devout Christian. I'm a hesitant Catholic. As in, my beliefs are very different about God and the Bible, and I'm not at all traditional - I've been baptized, but that's about it. Could this be a problem in our (hopefully) relationship? Should I reconsider? Any help at all would be sooooo great!! :) Open Question: Who wants to hear a story!?Jenny was so happy about the house they had found. For once in her life 'twas on the right side of town. She unpacked her things with such great ease. As she watched her new curtains blow in the breeze. How wonderful it was to have her own room. School would be starting; she'd have friends over soon. There'd be sleep-overs, and parties; she was so happy It's just the way she wanted her life to be. On the first day of school, everything went great. She made new friends and even got a date! She thought, "I want to be popular and I'm going to be, Because I just got a date with the star of the team!" To be known in this school you had to have clout, And dating this guy would sure help her out. There was only one problem stopping her fate. Her parents had said she was too young to date. "Well I just won't tell them the entire truth. They won't know the difference; what's there to lose?" Jenny asked to stay with her friends that night. Her parents frowned but said, "All right." Excited, she got ready for the big event But as she rushed around like she had no sense, She began to feel guilty about all the lies, But what's a pizza, a party, and a moonlight ride? Well the pizza was good, and the party was great, But the moonlight ride would have to wait. For Dan was half drunk by this time. But he kissed her and said that he was just fine. Then the room filled with smoked and Dan took a puff. Jenny couldn't believe he was smoking that stuff. Now Dan was ready to ride to the point But only after he'd smoked another joint. They jumped in the car for the moonlight ride, Not thinking that he was too drunk to drive. They finally made it to the point at last, And Dan started trying to make a pass. A pass is not what Jenny wanted at all (and by a pass, I don't mean playing football.) "Perhaps my parents were right....maybe I am too young. Boy, how could I ever, ever be so dumb." With all of her might, she pushed Dan away: "Please take me home, I don't want to stay." Dan cranked up the engine and floored the gas. In a matter of seconds they were going too fast. As Dan drove on in a fit of wild anger, Jenny knew that her life was in danger. She begged and pleaded for him to slow down, But he just got faster as they neared the town. "Just let me get home! I'll confess that I lied. I really went out for a moonlight ride." Then all of a sudden, she saw a big flash. "Oh God, Please help us! We're going to crash!" She doesn't remember the force of impact. Just that everything all of a sudden went black. She felt someone remove her from the twisted rubble, And heard, "call an ambulance! These kids are in trouble! Voices she heard...a few words at best. But she knew there were two cars involved in the wreck. Then wondered to herself if Dan was all right, And if the people in the other car was alive. She awoke in the hospital to faces so sad. "You've been in a wreck and it looks pretty bad." These voices echoed inside her head, As they gently told her that Dan was dead. They said "Jenny, we've done all we can do. But it looks as if we'll lose you too." "But the people in the other car!?" Jenny cried. "We're sorry, Jenny, they also died." Jenny prayed, "God, forgive me for what I've done I only wanted to have just one night of fun." "Tell those people's family, I've made their lives dim, And wish I could return their families to them." "Tell Mom and Dad I'm sorry I lied, And that it's my fault so many have died. Oh, nurse, won't you please tell them that for me?" The nurse just stood there-she never agreed. But took Jenny's hand with tears in her eyes. And a few moments later Jenny died. A man asked the nurse, "Why didn't you do your best To bid that girl her one last request?" She looked at the man with eyes so sad. "Because the people in the other car were her mom and dad." [E] Don't even bother insulting me or saying somthing gay. Keep your comments to yourself. More Recent Articles |
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