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Open Question: I really need some help. I'm tired of asking my mother!! FYI it's long it's hard to make it brief.? and more...

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Open Question: I really need some help. I'm tired of asking my mother!! FYI it's long it's hard to make it brief.? and more...

Open Question: I really need some help. I'm tired of asking my mother!! FYI it's long it's hard to make it brief.?

Alrighty I'm 20. I'm christian. The guy I care about is christian, but he's also 17 almost 18. Now that age is out of the way I'm gonna dive into my problem... I've liked him since august. We met at camp. After camp we started texting and calling each other everyday. Then when I was going back to camp for a month he wanted to write letters to each other. I loved the idea. So we did. We also were able to meet up and had a sorta date. Neither of us said we liked eachother though and he didn't make a move. I guessed it was because I was older than him. Then when I got back from camp I wasn't able to visit him where he lives which is like 4 hours from me. He was sad about it. We could've met half way, but I had car issues. Meanwhile I got involved with another guy to the point that we stopped contacting 24/7. He had school though so he was busy too. We would text eachother and facebook. Then I split up with the guy i had been seeing. He never knew about this guy I had dated since we never became official. I then made a trip down to visit friends and also see him. When He came to pick me up it was weird from the getgo. I was so positive there had always been something between us. We went out to eat, but he had to get home for work so we were both sad we could'nt hang longer. Then he suggested I come and stay at his house since I was in the area. He had a guest room. I said yes of course since I had missed him!! So I drove down to his house, but when I get there it became so awkward! I was tired from my other activites, but why would that change things? We went out and got a movie and then we were sitting in his room in the dark watching it and I kept getting the feeling like he was trying to distance himself. We've never been distant. I kept hoping he'd say something or make a move, but nothing! I couldnt beleive it. Then the next morning we went out for breakfast and he's fidgety and not looking me in the eye. (not like him he's always been comfortable around me) It was so weird I actually felt for the first time that maybe there isn't anything between us, but friendship. Normally you feel the i like you vibe, but I just didn't. I've felt it before in the past. After I left we still talk and he acts like were still close, but I just can't figure it out. So my question is.... was he scared? Was he waiting for me to say something since I'm older? I act so young and immature and i'm way innocent. That's why we get along so well. Is there a chance that he does like me, but wasn't ready to do anything about it?? I also wonder why he'd invite me to stay with him if he didn't care at all? Would you really do that for just a friend? I had a place to stay afterall. And my firends who are also his friends tease him about us being a couple. Also in the past when my girlfriend asked him if he'd marry me (teasingly) he responded "yep! I'm working on it haha" I just dont get it. I'll be seeing him soon at a get together. Now my mom thinks it's cause we're just too far away and he knows it. That might be it and I don't want an LDR, but there's nothing wrong with liking a person! Advice??

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Open Question: Girls in your opinion..does it seem like this girl is interested in me from this conversation we had?

We are both 18. I have known this girl for a month and a half. We have been on "two dates" and have hung out once. Our last date was 15 days ago and at the end of the night I kissed her on the cheek and she said "awww thats sweet" and kissed me back on the cheek. This is the text conversation I had with her yesterday...does it sound like she is interested in me from reading this? Me: Hiiiiii :) Her: Heyyyy therre. sup Me: nothinn much jus chillin. hbu how was ur dayy?? Her: Good it was a busyyy day. how was urss Me: Yea watt made it so busyy? Mine was alrite jus had hella hw to catch up on u kno Her: Yea not muchh jus school and projects n all that stuffff Me: I see I see..soo there's this big problem that me n u gotta solvee u wanna take a guess wat it iss? Her: umm no i want u to just tell me lol Me: ur no funn..the big problem is that I havent seen u for a longg time n the last time we spent time together was 2 weekss agoo..thats the big problemm we gotta solve Her: I mussst agreeee. that's a pretty big problemm Me: I kno ritee. so u agree this problem needs to be fixed immediatelyyy? Her: Most defff Me: alrite u think u'll be free anytime between fri-sun?? Gotta start plannin ahead a lil early sometimess haha Her: maybe saturday Me: alrite i can work wit thatt

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Open Question: i am wanting to date my ex girlfriends sister.?

i will try to explain this story as best as i can. 3 years ago i met 2 amazing girls online... they lived an hour away from me so i ended up hanging out with them. i ended up getting really attached to one of them and it come to the point where she told me how she felt about me... but before this she told me she was married. and being a somewhat decent guy i felt like i was splitting a marriage up.. so a small amount of time passed and i ended up dating the sister... we were together for 1 year... i got really close with her family and the original sister and her kids.through the whole thing the original girl was always there to talk to me and has been amazing to me. so after a year i find out the girl i dated cheated on me the whole time and she moved to pa with the guy she had been talking to the whole time. now 2 years pass and her moving back from pa brought us all back together. the original girl i talked to is now divorced. and we have been kinda seeing each other for a month... the girl that was married told her sister that she has feelings for me. and her sister is not wanting her to talk to me. i really care for this girl and i think she really cares for me... we have been there for each other through so much but her sister is her hang up. because she is so against it. any advice on how to approach this problem? the thing is when me and the girl i dated split up a lot of drama started and we were pretty nasty to each other. i will not try to make any excuse for it.. i was a ass. and this keeps coming up... and the girl i want to date does not want to betray her sister by moving forward. thanks for the advice so far guys/gals i do not talk to my ex now... i have not talked to her since halloween.... but she lives with the girl im interested in now :/

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Open Question: i don't want to kiss my bf?!?!?

we been dating for little over month now i do like my bf i like hugging and holding hands but last date when he tried to kiss me i get too nervous so i couldn't but problem is now i don't think i don't want to kiss him!! what is wrong with me?? at least i used to want to kiss him but now i dont even want to and i haven't even kiss him yet

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