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Open Question: I want a date to WINTER FORMAL, but there may be a problem...? and more... Open Question: I want a date to WINTER FORMAL, but there may be a problem...?My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago. Our high school's winter ball is in late January. I still want to go. But, it's girl's choice. Am I allowed to ask someone else to go with me? Or is it too early after we broke up? We dated for 6 months. There's this guy in my science class and he sits next to me and helps me out and smiles at me and I catch him looking at me a bit during class, I kind of want to ask him, but I don't know if it would be bad to ask someone to the dance with me. I am attracted to him, I think he's cute and sweet. I'm still [obviously] in the awkward stage with my ex, we were friends before we started dating and have mutual friends that we hang with all the time, so I don't want it to seem sluttish or anything that I ask this guy to our winter ball so soon. Would it be okay to ask him? If you think it is, when should I ask? Definitely not going to ask him now, if I do, I'd end up asking in January. It's not too formal, our theme is Neon. So you go as couples. But I don't know if it would be a bad idea to go with someone. Open Question: my father has an alcohol problem and abuses my mum its cutting me up inside what shall I do?Hes always had an alcohol problem and has always started drunken arguments with my mum and when we were younger he used to pick on us too. He never got violent but its all mental and verbal abuse and he is a horrible person to be around when sober as well. He will accuse her of having a drink problem when she dosent often drink and of spending all his money, when in reality we are in debt because he spends over £100 a week on alcohol. He ruins a days tidying up in 20 minutes and seems content to live in squalor. I am getting to the stage where its annoying me that my mum never left him, however I know from things she has said that she never ever saw herself as being a divorcee and thats probably why she never escaped. They have been dating since they were 19 and are now in their mid-50s so I suppose its also fear of the unknown thats stopping her. I am 24 and will be moving out soon, (Its not my 1st time though, I have already lived away from home before at university) is there nothing I can do? It seems like I just have to accept that she has made her choice now, but the atmosphere and general home life is terrible and I dont want to dread visiting my parents in future, and times like Christmas etc. I think I do have to just let my parents get on with it as there is nothing I can do now, but I just want to know if there is anything more I can do? I asked my mum a few nights ago why she chose to stay with the man who abuses her, and why she chose a childood of arguments and tension for us as kids, but she refuses to accept that me and my brother suffered and the concept of arguments at home ot being good for kids is totally alien to her (at least thats how it seems), and I could tell she was close to breaking point, I came down later and her head was in her hands and I felt guilty for asking her but it makes me angry that my parents didnt face facts and divorce when we were young.......what should I do, if anything? ok its not just drinking he puts her down all the time, refuses to talk to her, tells her she dosent know what shes on about, will fly into a rage from being calm in about 10 seconds and isolates himself from all of us, often refusing to speak....dont think that because is isnt violent that it isnt serious Open Question: What should i do now..?Okay so i have a crush on this guy named sam in my english class. He and i are friends but here's the problem. I told him on friday last period when we were together that i liked him. He replied me writing a letter and this is what it says; " Im sorry to inform you but i am not on the market at the moment. You are (no offence) crazy to think you wouldn't be a girl I would date. I am also sorry to say that you are friend to me but maybe over time i may like you the same way you like me. I am truly sorry, i only like you as a friend but i know that any guy who gets to date you is a very lucky man. I know one day you will find the guy you are looking for, you're a very nice girl and you're very smart as well. I'm surprised that you like me but im also surprised that your not beating the men off with sticks. You're a good friend and i hope.. no i know you will find the right guy. " After that, i really want to just give up but i don't know. Should i? i really like him and im just so confused right now! HELP! :/ Open Question: should I break away and become more independent?I am in my mid to late 20s. Very close to my family. the only problem is, is that I am very shy. I don't really date (although I have been told that I am attractive). I just get scared around guys I like and am attracted too. Recently, some on my closest family members have been getting annoyed with me when we are in public (because I get so shy) I know they care about me, but it hurst to see them rolling their eyes, when they thing that I am not looking. I am thinking about branching away from them and starting to be more independent. The only problem is, I am super shy and awkward around people. Any recommendations on how to break away from them and get a life? Open Question: I am dating my best friend, but my other friend[guy] has a problem?I'm a girl, and ive just started going out with my best friend, my other friend who is a guy, told me he was very happy for me, since he was one of the first people to know that i liked my best friend. The thing is, couple of weeks ago my boyfriend told me that our friend wasn't happy wiht us going out, so much so he gave my boyfriend a min of 3 months to break up with me. I never thought my friend could be so two faced, but just realised it. am so confused now, I really dont know what to do. I can't confront him about this since I promised my bf I wouldnt tell him, and I really dont want to. but I need some advice, please? Open Question: Dating for the wrong reasons...?Hey, So I just have a small question, its may not really have a straight forward answer, every one has their own opinion. First off, I am 23 years of age What if I really enjoy being single. BUT. Recently life started getting harder, I just cant seem to achieve my goals in life. I cant start doing the one thing I want to do as a career for the rest of my life, I cant seem to make enough money, worried about my sister and brother not being able to get the same college education I did, my parent separating. Everything started getting worse and worse just suddenly. So is it fair if I date a girl just so maybe I can tell her stuff. And like have someone that cares. Its hard to explain, but I cant talk to anyone about anything and its killing me the way I keep it in. I was just worried that it is not really ethical if I get a girlfriend then let her into my miserable life and all my problems. I feel like it something I should not do... Should I just keep trying hard to fix things up first. Or should I try going out with girls and see how much help I could get there... More Recent Articles |
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