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Open Question: I'm 18 and i have issues getting hard for sex? and more... Open Question: I'm 18 and i have issues getting hard for sex?Well i was 15 when i first tried having sex with a girl. I couldn't get up and we never had sex. Later when i was 16 i had been dating a girl for 9 months and we successfully had sex (though we were completely used to being naked with each other). We had sex many times over the course of the next year and i never had any problems with getting hard. Though after we broke up i tried to have sex with another girl and once again the problem came up once again. I went back to having sex with her for a while and i never had an issue (never lost it during sex either). We eventually stopped and 2 months later me and a girl were in bed about to have sex and i couldn't get up. I don't know what to do and yes it's very frustrating and embarrassing. I don't know what the deal is, i have no problem getting hard around my ex or with myself but i cant when its with a new partner and i dont always have time to get to know the new girl. I dont think its nerves because im not nervous... Open Question: How can a Pisces Woman make a Scorpio Man lose interest in her without being mean to him?I'm getting this very strong vibe that this man is looking at me as a potential wife. He talks about how he wants to get married, have kids, wants to my thoughts on raising kids, tells me I'm "pretty" "cute" "sweet" etc.In the context of describing a woman that he once asked to marry him but within weeks called off his engagement to he tells me that "it should have been me" but doesn't elaborate on that sentiment when I got quiet and then asked him what that meant. All round he's a really great guy and sexual tension between us is actually off the charts. But there are a lot of things about his life style that are in opposition to my moral code. I'm a Christian and he's not. He drinks, smokes weed occasionally, visits strip clubs and thinks it's okay, engages in casual sex etc. etc. If I was the kind of woman who could be in a committed relationship with a man I KNOW would be MISTAKE to ever end up married to then I wouldn't have a problem. I'd date him, we'd have fun and eventually our differences should cause the relationship to end. But my conscience won't let me do that so I have a problem and hence my question. In addition to that a year ago before I knew any of this about him (I actually thought he was Christian, which was a terrible assumption on my part-lesson #1 never assume) I told him I liked him and he said he liked me too and we developed a very close emotional bond albeit via telephone (we don't live close to each other but i might move to his state for work). So ideally, I'd like to stay friends as we are now, just letting him know that despite any residual feelings I have (and unfortunately I do have them) we have no romantic future. Helpful advice only please. I'm really in a pickle. Open Question: My feelings are so hurt, I feel so bad about myself, How do I move on?I was involved with this guy for a few months, and I'm stressed out I can hardly sleep.I just found out that this guy I was involved with, flew out out of town to see another woman or visit her shall I say, i text messaged him from a different number and we were texting back and forth, and stuff, and hes asking me what am I doing for the day, and eveything, he thinks that I am somebody from a bar he met, but I just think its weird that he would fly out to see someone , he told me about this girl, that she was his close friend, and that she would always call him about her boyfriend problems, so he flew to the east coast to visit yet he was on the phone with me, plus on top of that he treats me bad, he doesnt want to take me out, does not want to talk or have a nice conversation, he basically told me sex is all I will get and all I deserve, and he also told me that if he was nice and stuff to me I would not respect him and he wanted me to come over a few hours, but I never can stay all night, and he was making breakfast and I told him "Oh I'm hungry, I'm on my way" and hes like "Well there maybe none left by the time you get here" but yet on the flip side he prank calls my phone and job phone as well..and I just notice that these are the type of guys I always tend to get involved with, guys who do not want a relationship with me, or date me, or take me out,...I always get used and hurt for some reason.. I feel like I'm not good enough, or unattractive, what gives??I thought I had all this figured out,..I was celibate for four years, and I broke my celibacy for someone who could care less about me. and its been over five years since I ve had a REAL fulfilling relationship.I feel so so bad now..and the thing is that I still have feelings for this guy..what do I do?? Open Question: Why do black men blame all there problems on the white man?Im not defending white people or "white men" im just noticing this huge trend with black men these days blaming the "white man" for not having a job, for not being able to simply act approiatly saying its due to slavery and its a black man thing.. and i would never understand cause im a women. And now there even saying that now black women are running to white man and saying there fair well "goodbyes" to black women for dating white man.. i mean have we really lost are sense of belonging here as people? dont you see the more you keep making up excuses the more it is setting ourselves back. There is nothing in life that you can not achieve with effort. The white man has nothing to do with anything, yes they are the ones in power BUT with effort you will get what you want. And about the whole black women dating white men thing, dont mind them there are PLENTY of black women who are happy with black men and want one. I dont know why you people are already waving your hands saying "goodbye" is this another excuse as to why SO MANY of you date white women?? Look at this fool on youtube and his many black man followers saying there fairwells to black women?? i mean is this guy serious?? what is becoming to our people?? what happend to unity?? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DFz5cIi07HY I HAVE A CLONE YOU RETARD. Look at our profiles and u would see who is real and who is not. I AM THE REAL LIZ If your talking about "long hair dont care" that chick is a nut job she cloned me! why the F would you think i would be having 2 accounts worshing white men then going on to this one? wtf? no point. Read my profile if u dont believe me. This is the real Liz.. im by far no white man worshiper.. Open Question: I get treated so bad by guys whats wrong with me??I dont understand?I was involved with this guy for a few months, and I'm stressed out I can hardly sleep.I just found out that this guy I was involved with, flew out out of town to see another woman or visit her shall I say, i text messaged him from a different number and we were texting back and forth, and stuff, and hes asking me what am I doing for the day, and eveything, he thinks that I am somebody from a bar he met, but I just think its weird that he would fly out to see someone , he told me about this girl, that she was his close friend, and that she would always call him about her boyfriend problems, so he flew to the east coast to visit yet he was on the phone with me, plus on top of that he treats me bad, he doesnt want to take me out, does not want to talk or have a nice conversation, he basically told me sex is all I will get and all I deserve, and he also told me that if he was nice and stuff to me I would not respect him and he wanted me to come over a few hours, but I never can stay all night, and he was making breakfast and I told him "Oh I'm hungry, I'm on my way" and hes like "Well there maybe none left by the time you get here" but yet on the flip side he prank calls my phone and job phone as well..and I just notice that these are the type of guys I always tend to get involved with, guys who do not want a relationship with me, or date me, or take me out,...I always get used and hurt for some reason.. I feel like I'm not good enough, or unattractive, what gives??I thought I had all this figured out,..I was celibate for four years, and I broke my celibacy for someone who could care less about me. and its been over five years since I ve had a REAL fulfilling relationship.I feel so so bad now..and the thing is that I still have feelings for this guy..what do I do?? Open Question: How to solve this failing love?I've been with my boyfriend for little over 3 years. For the 2 years everything seemed perfect. He was an amazing person, always thought about me, buys me a rose and/or a card if i was sick or just to tell me that he loves me, and etc. He was my best friend and could always count on him. I'm a romantic person so everytime I got a little bit on money, I would spend it on him. But for the past year everything has changed. He never seems to think about me and puts everything else before me. He'll break plans with me. I had to have surgery (wasn't a serious surgery but I'm absolutely terrify of surgery) and he promise me he'll be there for me no matter what. We ended up in a fight the day before because he broke plans with me. He never showed up for my surgery or when I was home after being released from the hospital. He told me that I didn't deserve him there. Months later, I lost our child after only 2 weeks and he wasn't there for me. He told me that he was with his friends. I love him more than anything and he says he loves me too. I know all our past fights have been my fault because he has changed so much that he has turned into a guy who I could never date. I feel as if I'm trying to turn him back into the guy who I fell in love with. He used to be my best friend but now he laughs or gets mad when I tell him how I feel. He's so disrespectful to me about my feelings now. If he does something to hurt my feelings I simply tell him and he gets really defensive. We are complete opposites too. He's the type who is never wrong and has a problem admitting when he was wrong. I'm on the other hand nothing like that. I'm not always right and I have no problem saying I'm sorry. He says I always tell him what he does that make/ made my feelings hurt and he says that in a negative way and calls me stupid. I dont mean to sound nagging when I do it if I do but I tell him when he hurts my feelings so that he know and that maybe he wont do it again. That never seems to work. He used to NEVER be like this. I dont understand why. He is so spoiled because of me. I spoiled him because he lost his parents after his first bday and had to raise himself so he had nothing. He's not so ungrateful towards everything that I do. I tried the whole stop spoiling thing but it doesnt make him anymore grateful about anything.I just want to get that flame back that we once had. He always tells me hes going to work on things but never does. Since he's not willing to work on our broken relationship how should I try to do it? I'm not willing to give up 3 years because I have tried and could never stand to be without him. Open Question: Possible creepy teacher, help! Is this too much?Let's start off with I'm 16, and he is 30. Although, he persistently acts like he's 20. :P This question is going to end up being REALLY long because I have many examples, but please bare with me and help me out. :) I've had him as my teacher for about 2 years now and he's one of those younger teachers that basically get stepped on. He's not taken seriously, but the same time, he barely ever has homework and spends most of the class telling funny stories. If you're late to a class from talking to a friend in the hall, he'll write you a pass just so you won't get in trouble.. every time. He's always had rumors, so bad that he's well aware of them, that he sleeps with students once they turn 18. Even though he's especially nice to everyone, I get more special treatment than the rest. I accidently found out when he left his iPhone out that he's dating a girl who he coached and taught until she graduated two years ago. She's 20, he's 30. Him and I had a long talk about it and he told me that while he knows how it can look bad, he really likes her and wants to continue it. He said that if he wanted to do anything with her while she was a student, he could have because he knows her family really well, but he waited. Which is a tad bit creepy. I will admit, he's REALLY attractive and I flirt with him all the time. It's just thrilling to push his limits. One day last year, a friend of mine noticed he looked hard. He saw a whispering and begged me for a full year to tell him what it was. I warned him over and over that it was inappropriate, but he said it was okay. I was still hesitant, so he started guessing. His first guess was that I was checking out his ***. Eventually, I told him the truth and he laughed, saying he wasn't hard at any point during class last year. Every time we're alone he freely swears around me as if I was his age with no limitations. He helps me with my ex bf problems and told me how he still has the ring he bought for his last girlfriend. He's constantly making 'that's what she said' jokes with everyone. I was joking around with him once that he looked like another teacher at the school, who was a little younger and shorter. He started asking things like "Oh, well don't say I have his eyes. I think my eyes are nice..what do you think?" and he said "I'm bigger than him", meaning he was heavier, but I stupidly, said "Oh, you're bigger than him in everyday!" and the whole class cracked up. He ended up telling me later that I was probably right with a smirk. Most of the things we say to each other that are over the line, are when we're alone. Recently, it changed. My best friend and I were in a the room next door with another laid back teacher and she has a religious bracelet that is supposed to be Jesus, but actually looks like the teacher who's room we were in. So, we told him he was Jesus, and he asked "if I'm jesus, who's god?" and immediately we said the other teacher that this is all about. We wrote it on the board, so a lot of people saw it, and eventually word got back to him that we said he was a god. He went to some of my friends and said "What the hell is up with this god thing? It's awkward and it needs to stop." I got SO pissed. I went to him right away, because honestly, if he didn't want to me to say things - he wouldn't ask even after I warn him that it's inappropriate. We had probably over 2 hours worth of time talking about it. He told me that if he thought I was being over the line he would tell me, especially after everything we've been through and kept saying it over and over, in every way possible, as if I was missing something. He told me that he doesn't know why he said that to them and that it sounded more 'joking' in his head. He apologized and endless amount of times. He also said that I have obviously said things more risky than the God thing, because I "questioned him about having a friggen hard on. And even that wasn't too much." < exact words. So, I asked what was too much. He said nothing. But, I knew there was limit, otherwise he wouldn't have said too much. I asked again. And he said I just couldn't proposition to do something with him. I told him I was considering having a normal student teacher relationship after that, so i wouldn't have to worry I was giving him attention he secretly didn't want, but he said that "I want you to do whatever makes you feel less stressed out. But I liked the way things were." so we went back to the way it was. I had a girls night a few weeks ago and he asked if I talked about him on girls night, and I said yeahhhh. He told me he wanted to hear anything negative, but I got a little flirty and said "it was all positive..just inappropriate." he started laughing and wouldn't tell me what he was thinking, so I forced him to tell me and he said straight out that I don't know how much he would give to be a fly on the wall at that party and that he can only imagine what I say when he's not around considering wha He's not making me feel uncomfortable, or anything. I just want to try and figure out how he feels about me based off all this. please, help! :[ The end got cut off, but it said 'what I say to his face' is this too much? Open Question: Top Ten Signs You're a Fundamentalist Christian?10 - You vigorously deny the existence of thousands of gods claimed by other religions, but feel outraged when someone denies the existence of yours. 9 - You feel insulted and "dehumanized" when scientists say that people evolved from other life forms, but you have no problem with the Biblical claim that we were created from dirt. 8 - You laugh at polytheists, but you have no problem believing in a Triune God. 7 - Your face turns purple when you hear of the "atrocities" attributed to Allah, but you don't even flinch when hearing about how God/Jehovah slaughtered all the babies of Egypt in "Exodus" and ordered the elimination of entire ethnic groups in "Joshua" including women, children, and trees! 6 - You laugh at Hindu beliefs that deify humans, and Greek claims about gods sleeping with women, but you have no problem believing that the Holy Spirit impregnated Mary, who then gave birth to a man-god who got killed, came back to life and then ascended into the sky. 5 - You are willing to spend your life looking for little loopholes in the scientifically established age of Earth (few billion years), but you find nothing wrong with believing dates recorded by Bronze Age tribesmen sitting in their tents and guessing that Earth is a few generations old. 4 - You believe that the entire population of this planet with the exception of those who share your beliefs -- though excluding those in all rival sects - will spend Eternity in an infinite Hell of Suffering. And yet consider your religion the most "tolerant" and "loving." 3 - While modern science, history, geology, biology, and physics have failed to convince you otherwise, some idiot rolling around on the floor speaking in "tongues" may be all the evidence you need to "prove" Christianity. 2 - You define 0.01% as a "high success rate" when it comes to answered prayers. You consider that to be evidence that prayer works. And you think that the remaining 99.99% FAILURE was simply the will of God. 1 - You actually know a lot less than many atheists and agnostics do about the Bible, Christianity, and church history - but still call yourself a Christian. Open Question: Hi, My date of birth is 23.02.1983 at 06.10 A.M. Thanjavur(Tamilnadu)?Hi, My date of birth is 23.02.1983 at 06.10 A.M. Thanjavur(Tamilnadu) Currently I have problem in my career as well as progeny. I am very eager to know when i can achieve my pregnancy and have success financially? what is in store for my future about my married life? Open Question: Teen Christian Dating Advice Please!?I am really looking for Christian views on this, just preferrably. Okay, for a while now, there has been this girl at my school who likes me and I do like her too. We have gotten to know each other alot and I am more than ready to ask her to be my girlfriend. She is so... I'm not sure. It just feels so much like we are so good for each other right now. But the biggest problem is spirituality. My mom's only concern is if she is a churchly Christian like me. We have never discussed her family's views of it at all, but from some other resources that I care not to mention, I have discovered that this girl's family may be Rastafarians. This is no problem for me because my closest cousins are of the same beliefs, yet they are the just as ordinary and down to earth as the next family. I have no problem with her family believing this way because they are a normal, loving family with common interests just as the average American family and even my own! But my mother cares so much more about the beliefs. I am very confused and hurt by how this may tear us apart in a potential relationship. Is this really wrong in God's eyes? I am so confused. Please offer Christian advice. Thank you... Im almost 14 btw. Open Question: Trying to Understand women?I have dated and I have found that girls like guys that are jerks. So I started to act like that and guess what happen I got more dates. My problem is I want to meet a long term relationship and I want to be who I am the good guy. But girls dont like that. Am I wrong to think this? How can I help myself out on this. thanks More Recent Articles
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