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Open Question: Im 24 and i have never kissed a guy, is this weird? and more...

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Open Question: Im 24 and i have never kissed a guy, is this weird? and more...

Open Question: Im 24 and i have never kissed a guy, is this weird?

and yeah, i think i'm ready by now... I don't have any problems and im not that ugly.. i don't have anything weird, im not chubby or anything..im 24 yrs old, im 1.59m and 118 pounds. i have brown long straight hair, white skin, brown eyes... everyting else normal...i have friends and i go out with them... (as a group, not like on dates) is this normal?(to never kiss somebody)? im not a lesbian or anything, it just hasn't happened to me... idk why I haven't had sex either, or anything AT ALL

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Open Question: Am i really controlling?

me and my gf have been together for close to 4 years.were both in college now, but shes 250 miles away.we've had our ups and downs in our relationship and we had sum trouble with sum guys.we broke up because of it.just recently one of the guys posted sumthing on facebook and i asked her not to talk to him and she thinks that's controlling, but i dont think so because of the fact we had a problem with him and she left me for him.Another thing is shes becoming good frineds with this kid.im not the biggest fan of him.anyway she put a pic of him and her as her default on facebook with them almost on top of each other with her hand on his chest.i asked her to take it off cuz it looks like they like eachother and i dont think its appropriate because shes dating me, and than again she calls me controlling and refuses to take it off.i think its extremly disrespectful. i dont tell her she cant go out, she cant have any guy friends or anything like that....so am i really controlling?

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Open Question: Dating dilemma - ladies, please read?

I'm love struck by this girl I've only seen around campus, Ashley. She has a beautiful smile that makes her whole face light up and seems sweet, caring, and smart. The problem is I had one coffee date this summer with an acquaintence/friend of hers, Jamie, whom I met on match.com. I asked Jamie on a real date following our coffee meeting, but she never responded. This was 5 months ago and I couldn't care less about Jamie any more. I want to ask Ashley out, but would it be awkward since I had coffee with Jamie & asked her out a second time 5 mos ago? Ladies, would you go out with a guy one of your friends had coffee with once, but didn't want to date further? (She gave me a huge hug at the end... I think she liked me, but not romantically.) How do you suggest I go about this?

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Open Question: Worried that Accutane has damaged me permanently?

About a year and a half ago I took accutane for 5 months and had little to no problems on and off the drug. It came midly about 2 months ago and I was put on it again briefly just to get rid of it for good. Now I've stopped taking the medication and for the past 3 weeks I have had a headache/ migraine everyday since the exact date. The doctors i've gone to don't know what it is.. I'm worried because I'm getting really bad migraines all day every day from the time I wake up to the time I go to bed. Can Accutane do this after discontinuation? Can it permanently damage something?? I did NOT have headaches while on the accutane... Help?? In a lot of pain rite now..

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Open Question: Is it wrong for me to be excited to be pregnant?

I'll start off by saying that I am only 18. However I'm incredibly mature for my age. My mother left my family just about two years ago and in that time I became the only woman in the house with my father, my brother, my boyfriend and my uncle. Therefore I do all of the cleaning and looking after everything, I control the finances and I have already taken care of Christmas :). I am attending university and I was given 18 credits directly from high school, therefore I can take a semester off without losing anything. This means my baby will be born around August (August 6th as a due date), and I'll take the following semester off so that my baby is 5 months old before I go back to university. Money isn't really a problem either. I've always wanted to be a young mother... so I'm really excited. I don't think that my grandparents will feel the same way though. How can I stay happy when I'm not sure how others will feel? Because of my age (I'll be 19 when I have this baby) should I feel guilty? Do you think that in my situation, having a child is the wrong thing to do? My father even talks to the animals and says, "Go see Mom". lol, so I've turned into the maternal figure of the house.

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Open Question: Need serious advice. Boyfriend addicted to opiates. Recovered addict advice?

Specifically, he's addicted to opioid painkillers such as hydrocodone, etc. He has hid this addiction from everyone: myself, his family, and his friends. Apparently, this has been an ongoing problem with him since he was 18 (he's now 22). He has never gone so much as a 6 months without using. As soon as his family and I discovered this, we immediately arranged for an intervention, and his placement in a rehabilitation facility. I am having such trouble coping with the fact that he has been lying to all of us the entire time. I dated him for nearly two years, and he hid everything so well. He desperately wants help, and told me that he tried to ween himself off of the drugs but was not successful. As I write this, his parents are en route to his place to detain him and place him in rehab. He has repeatedly begged me to stand by him throughout the process of getting clean, but I don't believe I am capable of it. He has lied to me, and even stolen prescription medication from my father. This in an individual who is not a monster, but simply someone whose mind is twisted by the opiates. When clean, he is a wonderful and honest person. Am I doing the right thing by staying away? I don't plan on ever dating him again, but at this point I don't even know if I have it in me to be supportive because I'm so angry at him.

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Open Question: filing a complaint with a private company?

i went to a pc repair place that offers internet service. i was using a port in the back of the store and one of their workers sat down next to me for a full fourty minutes and harrassed me sexually. i was so uncomfortable. finally his boss saw him and asked if i was ok. i said yes just becuase i was so uncomfortable. he was commenting on what i viewed on the internet and saying things like "i wish that was see-thru" in reference to a model wearing a rain coat (i was searching for rain coats). talking about daryl hannah running around naked in some movies from the 80's. and finally asking "what do you do in the evenings?" this isn't sexual but he also went off on barrack obama and said that he was a socialist and WE (as if to include me?) don't like that. i told the manager right after this and he dismissed it. i later found out that the manager had been fired from his previous job for hitting on a 16 year old girl. so i want to file a complain with the owner. i originally went there because my hard drive crashed so now i am concerned he went through my photos. i did have compromsing pictures on there. but they are sexist pigs and i am afraid of being ripped off and offended again and dont really want to be one on one with them. one problem i have is that i forgot the date that this happened on. whats the most efficient way to get this done? and can you give me any tips so that i dont have to put up with anymore shit. a lot of small businesses make a lot of money per week and i think that i could sue and get a settlement. so if someone is so unocmfortable that they become frigid they have no chance of later stating their discomfort. i did tell the manager and he didn't care.

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Open Question: what a better tv brand and should I go LCD or Plasma?

Bought a vizio flat panel tv like five years ago when they were like 1999.99!!!! My now super cool 720P... wow is out dated with the new 1080P tv's that are thinner, better color and of course half as much now! Anyhow, I'm looking at tv's at Sears and Bestbuy, Costco, and Walmart, and I'm trying to decide which tv brand to go with. Vizio wasn't a bad tv... it actually is holding up like a champ and has given me little to no problems so far. I want to know what everyone thinks. I'm looking to spends 900 bucks on a tv, and want to stay in the size range of 42-50 inches. Also should I go LCD or plasma? the 720P and 1080P does make a difference to me but again I was at Sears last night and some tv's look just as clear in 720P than some of the ones that were 1080P... Let me know where my money should go with this tv.

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Open Question: Would you girls date a guy with a speech problem?

If the guy had a good personality would you still date him? Not like sssssstuttter, but it takes awhile for him to get the words out.

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Open Question: Am i a control freak?

me and my gf have been together for close to 4 years.were both in college now, but shes 250 miles away.we've had our ups and downs in our relationship and we had sum trouble with sum guys.we broke up because of it.just recently one of the guys posted sumthing on facebook and i asked her not to talk to him and she thinks that's controlling, but i dont think so because of the fact we had a problem with him and she left me for him.Another thing is shes becoming good frineds with this kid.im not the biggest fan of him.anyway she put a pic of him and her as her default on facebook with them almost on top of each other with her hand on his chest.i asked her to take it off cuz it looks like they like eachother and i dont think its appropriate because shes dating me, and than again she calls me controlling and refuses to take it off.i think its extremly disrespectful. i dont tell her she cant go out, she cant have any guy friends or anything like that....so am i really controlling?

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Open Question: What Does the average Man think of Amputation on women ?

If a women has lost her leg or arm or any other part of her body does it keep you from asking her out or thinking of her as a sexual person .this is not a joke for any reason other than I work with people who have this problem and would like an answer ,whats its going to be like in the dating world for them now that they have lost a body part.

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Open Question: relationship problem, I'm hurt and sad, please help?

a little long.. please bear with me and please please help me. me and my bf had been dating for 3 and a half year.. have our ups and down like all other couple, had big fights and stuff.. he even cheated on me once and i forgive him, then on he swears he wont do the same thing again. and then for because of work he was away from me. and i, the attention needing sort, request him to call me every night, sms me when he had free time (please note that i ask him only when he's free, when he's busy i understand that he didnt sms me). i always need his assurance that he love me, he misses me. i feels really unsecure having him away from me, as u can understand because of the past affair that he had. and then last 2 days. the way he talk to me was suddenly different, he wasn't as loving and seems like he doesn't have things to talk to me. i sms him and ask him what's wrong. after i insisting he finally told me that he feels suffocated, suffocating because he needs to call me everyday, need to sms me constancely. he says sometimes after work at night he's tired he just wanna be alone. that he doesn't want to need to call me everyday. im hurt, is guys thinking and feels differently from girls? if it's me after a hard day work, the one i want to talk to the most is my bf. but in his case it's different. he wants to rest and relax and be alone. am i pushing him too much? how do i overcome my own feeling of missing him alot and unsecurity and at the same time, giving him more space of his own, and not having to talk to him everyday? i feels lonely easy.. and i need him almost all the time.. what should i do? it's really hard to suppress my lonely feeling. i'll try not to sms or cal him too much.. i'll give him some space. i'll care for his feeling.. but....WHO will care for how i feels? so i should go feeling miserable in order for him to feel better?

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