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Open Question: I'm beginning to think I was misled? Do I go for it here? and more... Open Question: I'm beginning to think I was misled? Do I go for it here?This girl is a close friend of mine. We've been friends since freshman year of college, and while we kind of dated (neither of us called it that) that came to an abrupt end after a friend of mine drunkenly suggested to her that she make my night and I guess just completely freaked her out. After that we really didn't hang out a whole lot up again for about half a year. 3 years later now she's giving me all kinds of signs towards something. She's gotten ridiculously comfortable around me, which seems weird when you put it in context of her being one of the shyest people I've ever met. She'll change clothes around me even if I'm having a conversation with her in a position with a clear view of her changing. I've never even seen her hold hands with anyone except me, when drunk. Problem is, I asked one of her roommates her opinion a little while back (a mutual friend of both of ours) who said I probably shouldn't and I had probably waited too long. Yet my friend still continues to give me signs that make me want to try to legit ask her out. She still lets me stay nearly every weekend at her place and trusts me more than almost anyone else. What do you do here? Ignore advice and ask her out anyway? I want to just hug her and tell her I want to take her out on a date but knowing her she might get weirded out with even just a hug if she's sober. Get her a little bit of alcohol first before I ask her out even though that seems horribly wrong? Open Question: So I've come to the realization that I'm still in love with my ex. What do I do?Soo, to make a long story short, I dated this guy last year, and at first we had a great relationship and we fell madly in love. But then towards the end we both got really stressed, things got complicated, we barely got to see each other, and since we got accepted to colleges across the state from each other, we just decided it would be best if we ended it. But to this day we remain good friends. Now, it was really hard getting over this because he was my first real love. And for a while I really thought I was over him. I was single and ready to mingle, so to speak. But within the past few months, I've come to realize that I'm not over him. At all. In fact, I'm still head over heals in love with him. So a few weeks ago, I messaged him on facebook saying I really missed him. I didn't use the "L" word, I just said i missed him. And he messaged me back saying he missed me too. A lot. But the problem is, I just moved to NYC for school, and once I get an apartment, I'm pretty much here for life. And he's going to school in Rochester (like 400 mile away), and while he loves New York and wants to love here more than anywhere else, it just doesn't look like he'll be moving here any time soon. Even though there's a school here, Hunter College, that would be perfect for him, because it's affordable and has a lot of majors he'd be interested in. And that would just make things better for us, because we'd finally be near each other. The problem is, he doesn't want to got to that school because it's a college, not a university. So what should I do? I still love him, there's a chance he still has feeling for me, but we just can't handle a long distance relationship, since we don;t even know if we'll ever end up in the same city together. So what should I do? Open Question: Should I stay or go, How can I deal with letting my man lead his baby mama on?So I am with a guy right now we have been dating 5 months now and we are very serious. We already say we love eachother and talk about our future together. Before we got together I did say that I do not like to date men with kids, simply because I dont want Baby mama drama. Well my man did not tell me he had a kid I found out later because he added me on FaceBook and he had been tagged holding her. We did have a hard time with that because he knew how I felt but He said He was being selfish because he wanted to be with me that bad. I decided to stay with him I do really care about him and Love him. Long story short I got a little nervous so I messaged the babys mom after all I was going to meet his kid on xmas and his family. but when I messaged her I just asked her if they were together she said yea and that he was cheating on her. I didnt believe her simply because after that she told me he told me you were together and went off about how she was mad that he isn't there very much to see them. The thing is she was never suppose to have the kid they broke up she said she was getting rid of it and kept it anyways, I think to get him back. So She said she was moving on which is wierd because I wouldn't think that she would just give up that easy but she did. Not only that my man yelled at me for messaging her... She told him he doesnt get to see his kid now. So she uses the baby to keep him and get what she wants. Now my only problem is I dont know what to do I love this guy but I feel like he shouldnt let her do this I dont kow what to do? and I have bad feelings about it all! This all has made my relationship questionable and hard so Im just wondering if I should stay with him? and if I do what can I do to make it easier to accept that he wants to lead her on to see his child? Open Question: Help?with guy problems.?I have a guy friend and we arent dating, we are just really good friends. I want to get him a present, already did, but he says that he doesnt want a present and thinks if anyone see that i got him a present they will think that we are going out, and lots of people have been saying it but he doesnt want to make them think even more. WHat should i do? Open Question: Need help on names,Help?Grr. Okay,so i kinda really wanna change my name. I hate it and don't leave me an answer telling me it's pretty or i should like it or anything to go against me wanting to change it. I really don't like it. My name is Remmi. Useally it's spelled Remy. Prounced the same. My mom sadly named me after some guy she meet before my dad. His name was Samuel Remy Ortese` I don't like the fact I'm named after some dude my mom dated and the fact that my name is a guy's name! I hate that. And that stupid movie Ratatouli or however it's spelled. I swear,everytime I meet someone after that movie came out,everyone is like ''Oh,like Ratatouli?'' You have no idea how embrassing and annoying it is to get that kind of response from your name. And how i get made fun of from my family about being a male rat. Very annoying. I'm almost 19 so legally i can change my name. The problem i have is,i don't know what to change it to. I want somthing diffrent,maybe kinda goth or dark and pretty. I consider myself a little dark and very diffrent. I like being unique and i want somthing that is just a unique as me. Somthing pretty and girly too. Got any ideas of how to help me out? I like names that start with K or C. I really like the name Kitty,but that is kinda plain,so what might go good as like a middle name or just a combo name like Megan-Kitty or somthing. I like that combo,actually. I Really like the name Megan But idk it is kinda common. Any suggestions? And if you put a name,if you could add the meaning that would be kool too. THANKS!!<3 Open Question: Is it weird to date a sisters past "GUY"?So here goes my story. About my a year ago my older sister met a guy and she hung out with him a few times. All she did with him was kiss him, things didn't work out and they've just been friends since. OK forward to a year later ---> i move in with my sister and we threw a party here. I met the guy she used to date and he was totally my type. At the party we talk, he tells me he doesn't like my sister and i gave him my number, seeing as i was a little intoxicated i gave him the wrong number. SO a month after the first party goes by i forget about him. We throw another party here and he comes again. This time we really hit it off and i gave him my correct number. We have talked ever since and we hang out on a weekly basis. I really enjoy his company and we are kinda a "Thing" now. BUT i just found out that between the time of the first party and the second party he continued to text my sister and try to "talk" to her. SO now i feel weird knowing that although the first party he told me he wasn't interested in my sister he still tried to talk to her after. Is this weird? He doesn't ever bring up my sister and makes it a point to avoid her. What should i do? I feel as if i'm second choice. My sister is fine with it. that's not really the problem. I'm just wondering if this is weird? Maybe i shouldn't talk to him? Or maybe i should talk to him about it? 6 minutes ago 21 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details Ok so i think i might have been a bit confusing. Since me and this guy started talking and seeing eachother he has not talked to, tried to talk to, or tried anything with my sister. We started talking after the 2nd party. things didn't work out with them because my sister goes threw guys like nothing. In my eyes he is a really sweet guy and my sister even says so. I wanna believe that if he had met me and my sister he would have picked me first but he didn't even know i existed at the time he and she met. I feel really shitty because until today things have been going extremely well. And since i moved up here i haven't met anyone i've enjoyed hanging out with as much as him until now. 4 minutes ago Open Question: My opinion on feminism- Star me and I'll give you a thumbs up.?I KNOW THIS IS LONG, BUT I WANT EVERYONE TO READ THIS, I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT IT A LOT. To be honest, It kind of makes me mad. Whether we like it or not, women have an advantage over men. First of all, why can't we hit them? If a girl hits me, I can't hit her back? Uh, no. I'll f*ck a ***** up if she wants to start a problem. But why is that so politically incorrect, yet, women can hit men and it's ok because she's emotional? Ok sorry, I'm ranting and getting off topic, but please bear with me, this might interest you so please listen (read) to what i have to say. Another point, why do women want to eliminate sexism, yet, they're fine with the little rules like "ladies first", or pulling her chair out for her, or that the boyfriend pays for the dates and the wedding rings etc, etc... Also, they use their periods as an excuse to be a complete b**ch. Excuse me if I'm wrong, but don't you know that it comes every month? Take birth control if you don't want cramps, but don't throw shoes at me because you weren't prepared for your time of the month! Okay, my point is that I don't have respect for women. I have respect for EVERYONE. Every living being. But i think that even the statement "you have no respect for women" is sexist in itself, ladies and gentlemen. I don't respect you for your gender and no one else should. Anyway, what do you think? I'm supposed to be writing an essay for 9th grade language arts on feminism, and this isn't actually what I'm turning in to my teacher, but some of the points I've made here are going to go into my project. Summer Love, you're a sexist. I'm acting like a woman? Way to stand up for yourself, you're saying I'm horrible for talking about women? What do you call what you just said? And I'm just being honest, and It's the truth. GET OVER MYSELF? who the hell do you think you are? this was a discussion we had in class and now I have to write about it for school, It's not like I hate the female race, I'm just saying It's what I think. Open Question: Dating your boss bad or good idea?Is it a bad idea to get involved in a relationship with your boss? Is it just asking for problems down the road? More Recent Articles
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