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Open Question: I'm intimidated by my girlfriend? and more... Open Question: I'm intimidated by my girlfriend?Alright, this is gonna be a little long, but bare with me. I've recently started dating a girl that is completely out of my league. I would consider myself an average dude, 5 or 6 out of a scale of 10, nothing really special, she on the other hand is easily hands down a 10. Shes pretty much everything I've always wanted in a girl, smart, beautiful, interesting, fun to be around and quite frisky. This may all sound like a good thing, but its caused a few problems. I'm extremely intimidated by her while in bed. The relationship hasn't progressed far enough for us to start having sex, things are still not quite that comfortable, and oddly enough this is a relief to me. Now, I'm a healthy fairly young male (23) and am able to build and maintain an erection until the end while I'm on my own. I've dated and had sex before with several women, and things worked out fine. But something is different with this girl, whenever we are in bed I am insanely nervous and anxious. I don't want to fuck things up, so I am constantly over thinking everything trying to make it perfect. Although we haven't had sex yet, we have definitely fooled around and I am amazed by her. She comes at the drop of a hat and will go on for hours. I've had a few nights where I've spent an hour or so going down, fingering and using toys to play with her, while deflecting her away from me. I really cant get comfortable with her, and I'm insanely worried that if she tries to do something with me, and I don't perform the relationship will most definitely end. She definitely turns on me, and whenever we cuddle/make out I'm rock hard, but when she starts reaching down there I start to panic and, well, one thing can lead to another. I have absolutely no idea how to share any of this with her without freaking her out, and can't actually figure out how to just relax. I have had a good experience with her on the phone, we live about an hour away so she called me one heated evening and we talked dirty for about 2-3 hours, I was able to "participate" for the entire time without any trouble. I just don't know how to transfer the comfort that I experienced that evening into the bedroom. Any help/suggestions would be appreciated, how can I tackle this problem? The worst part of all this is that I seem to know what is wrong, but am unable to figure out how to fix it =/ Open Question: Want someone to answers your dating problem or help you with a dating situation?just ask what your problem is and ill tell you to my best judgment what i think you should do.. and it my opinion and im just trying to give you options.....But dont be afraid to ask please do... Open Question: Should you date someone your family likes ?If you meet a great guy or girl who your parents and brother and sisters really like - and they fit in to your family really well but ..there is only one problem : You are just not that into her as much as your family is. Physical attraction is low - you guys don't have much in common, they just don't get you , you guys don't even have that much fun together - the only thing nice is the fact that your family likes her . WOuld you keep dating to keep up the image or find someone who makes YOU happy ? Open Question: I need help finding a hat pretty please :)?Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost like 7 months and it is almost Christmas. Well, someone stole one of his FAVORITE hats. Problem is, I can't find it anywhere. This is the best way for me to explain: It is a New York Yankee flat brim hat. Green bill. Majority of the rest of hat is black. http://s457.photobucket.com/albums/qq295/i_heart_bengal/?action=view¤t=Picture1.png there's a link to some pictures i had of it. Yes, I know they are not very clear, however, they are all I have. So please please please please please help. :) It would be soo much appreciated! And also, I realize that there are other photos in the album. They are me and my "sister" ":) and well some tennis thing. Open Question: Do I even have a chance?Sorry it's long, don't bother complaining cause I warned ya This girl is one of my closest friends at college. When we first met we went on awkward half dates (mostly started by her) for a while up until her roommate drunkenly told me that I should make her night and f-ck her. Maybe things would have been easier had I followed her advice, but at the time I wasn't very interested in her romantically and stopped dating. I continued to hang out with her though because as I said, she has become one of my best friends. We share a ton of interests and have many of the same friends. Problem is, that was freshman year. This is middler year. We both have been in a failed relationship since then, and are both single now, trying to find someone else. We spend nearly every weekend together, and since I don't drink much and she enjoys drinking a lot we frequently go out to bars and such. I watch out for her, and she trusts me to mix her drinks for her at parties so I can cut her off before she goes overboard. Problem is, we're both pretty shy. Sure she let me hold her hand to guide her back to her apartment last weekend, but she was also blackout drunk. But she also only told me when she was coming back from her internship a week earlier than expected a month ago and wanted to surprise everyone, just to make sure I would be there (cause I live so far away). Basically... I'm madly in love right now. I want to tell her, but I also don't want to screw up this kind of friendship. I know I USED to have a chance, but now I have no idea. If there's the chance it'll happen I need to try, but if there's no chance at all, well, I better keep silent. Regardless I need to make a decision soon, if she gets asked out before I tell her sh!t is gonna hit the fan. Help me? More Recent Articles
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