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Open Question: I'm a married woman with a son and i am in love with my childhood friend? and more... Open Question: I'm a married woman with a son and i am in love with my childhood friend?To start, please be very free to judge or post your views. Knowing that noone is perfect, I appreciate your feedback.I've been married to my husband since I was 19 years old and now I'm 24. When i met my 31 years old husband,(before marriage), i was a virgin; then, with a little of his pressure and my youthfull curiousity we had sex and I soon became pregnant. Being raised from a muslim family, I know that my parents would disown me if they found out that i was pregnant, so i decided to have an abortion. Six months later, after the abortion, my boyfriend then asked me to marry him and I accepted. I did not have much choice because I didnot picture myself marrying another man with my loss of virginity. So I settled with him on a marriage. My husband is a great guy, he cares for me and my son. but I just don't love him. I was always in love with one of my childhood friends. since i was young I always idolized and loved him deeply, the only problem is that he was my brother's best friend which made it difficult for us to be toghether. he is very religious (in a good way) and my husband is not. He is very calm ande collected, he loves school and graduated with his masters in accounting while my husband does not even have a high school diploma and does care to get one. i'm one semester away from a bachelor degree in accounting, I nicely tried so many times to take my husband back to school but he seems satisfied with his JOB as a cook. I even suggested that he get a culinary art degree so he can at least get a job as a chef but no luck. Our sexual life is extremely boring, one every 2 to 3 weeks sometimes a month. we can not have an educated conversation but gossips. He embarasses him often when we're out with friend because he likes using fancy words that he does not even understand the meanings. i just don't think that he is my match at all. he likes showing off clothes and jewelries that he can barely afford. The fact that we have a son together makes it difficult for me because i don't want him to suffers because of my mistakes. we often argue that most of the time when i call my parents they keep asking me if everything is all right at home. I usualy talk to my friend on the phone, we email each other sometimes, i know he loves me but it's mostly in a brotherly way. he is not seeing anyone, he is not into the dating thing. i am deeply confused and i am losing my mind. i often get mad at my husband because of how bad i don't want to be with him. i need help i know! thanks for your time and consideration! Open Question: is my friend headed for disaster?well, here goes.... so recently i went over my fathers house, me and my step sister are crazy close.....she told me how she had sex with her boyfriend......yes i was disappointed because shes fairly young and has only been dating this guy 2 months. my friend is very close with me,his name not mentioned but he went out with my sister for the whole summer, they were very much in love but because of distance problems, they split apart. my friend went into a deep depression, i finally thought that he was getting over it....he found a girl friend and was happy for a while.....than he started telling me how he doesnt like his current girlfriend.... once my friend heard about my sister having sex, he decided he needed to have sex with the girl he 'doesnt' like...after 2 days!!! he told her he didnt like her but she was ok with that!!!! baisically---i want to know, is my friend going down the wrong path? Open Question: Am I just her friend? I still love her. Please help.?I broke up with my girlfriend in September. We stopped talking for a month and she started seeing someone new. (She says it was just a rebound because she was sad about me) We started hanging out while she was dating him and then they came to an end. After they stopped dating, we started hanging out even more. She tells me how much she cares about me and how important I am to her and last night we had a little makeout session. The problem is that while we were hanging out, she kept bringing up the guy that she was dating. Apparently she liked him a lot. But the way she treats me, it seems like she still loves me. And then after the kiss, I thought for sure that she still had something for me. But today, she mentions that guy again and i just couldn't take it anymore. Does anyone have any ideas as to what's going on? Have I been completely replaced by this guy and I am just her crutch? Does she like me AND him? Did she just kiss me to distract her from hurting about him? Should I just move on? I am in love with her and can't go another day making believe that I'm OK talking about this other guy that she dated and can't get over whiel she's spending the night and making out with me... Open Question: Child custody revoked, what do i do?I'm having a problem, and don't know where to turn for answers. My current visitation schedule for my daughter is one overnight a week, and a few hours here and there during the week, but her mother and i have had a great co parenting relationship, and i pretty much have access to her anytime that i wanted. This past saturday night, my daughter, who turned 2 in september was sleeping over. I have problems sleeping every now and again, and i could feel a long restless night coming on. I took a couple of ambien, not knowing how strong they were. I pretty much lost all motor skills, and apparently had a gibberish text conversation with my ex, causing her to rush over, take my daughter, and revoke any arrangements that i may have had. This is killing me, and i dont know what to do. If she files for a modification in court, its going to be 2 months before we even get a date, and i dont know what will happen at the court date. I am a good father, and love my daughter with all of my heart...i just screwed up...big time, and put her in jeopardy...she adores me too, and this time away will kill her. I've tried reasoning with her mom, and even begged her. I also drink quite a bit..but NEVER on days that i have her. I signed up to get counseling, and am going to start alcoholics anonymous this weekend, but i was told, until i'm completely better, the only visits i'd have would be supervised. What do i do..i'm not a drug addict, so drug counseling would be pointless. I just want my daughter back, and i understand where her mom is coming from...but this is killing me. Open Question: Serious question in regards to the bedroom please help!!!?Ok so here's my problem. Me and my girlfriend have been dating/ having sex for the past 6 months now. This whole time she has been on birth control and we do not use condoms. Up untill the last week or so my stamina with her in bed has been pretty good, i have been lasting up to and sometimes above 30 minutes with out ejaculating. As of recently (the last 4 times we have had sex) i cannot last for the life of me. Literally about 3 to 4 minutes into having sex i feel the need to have to ejaculate and have. Im not sure why this problem is occuring in my time in having sex (about 7 years or so) i have never once had this problem up untill recently and its not an age thing either im only 23 years olf. I have increased masturbating recently and even before i know im going to have intercourse with her in hopes to prevent this. Is there anyone out there who has had a similar problem or has any ideas or solutions for me in this matter? This problem is really starting to take its toll on our sex life and becoming a huge problem. If anyone could please help me out i would greatly appreciate it. Thanks Open Question: After reading this what do you think this girl's take is on "spending time together"?Do you think that she is interested in me? We are both 18. I have known this girl for a month and a half. We have been on "two dates", i didnt call them dates though I called them "spending alone time together" and have hung out once. Our last date was 15 days ago and at the end of the night I kissed her on the cheek and she said "awww thats sweet" and kissed me back on the cheek. This is the text conversation I had with her yesterday...does it sound like she is interested in me from reading this? Me: Hiiiiii :) Her: Heyyyy therre. sup Me: nothinn much jus chillin. hbu how was ur dayy?? Her: Good it was a busyyy day. how was urss Me: Yea watt made it so busyy? Mine was alrite jus had hella hw to catch up on u kno Her: Yea not muchh jus school and projects n all that stuffff Me: I see I see..soo there's this big problem that me n u gotta solvee u wanna take a guess wat it iss? Her: umm no i want u to just tell me lol Me: ur no funn..the big problem is that I havent seen u for a longg time n the last time we spent time together was 2 weekss agoo..thats the big problemm we gotta solve Her: I mussst agreeee. that's a pretty big problemm Me: I kno ritee. so u agree this problem needs to be fixed immediatelyyy? Her: Most defff Me: alrite u think u'll be free anytime between fri-sun?? Gotta start plannin ahead a lil early sometimess haha Her: maybe saturday Me: alrite i can work wit thatt Open Question: Why won't my Dell 1525 Wireless-N PCIe Card detect wireless networks?I have tried everything, and I am stumped. In the interests of not getting suggestions for things I've already tried, here's how the land lies: *I have this adapter on my desktop, NOT laptop. There is no switch to enable wireless on the computer itself. *The adapter is detected in Network Connections and Device Manager. *The device is enabled. *I tried disabling and re-enabling the device; this did not work. *The driver is up to date. *Device Manager detects absolutely no problems with the adapter. So basically... nothing is wrong with it, and yet it won't detect wireless networks. I am currently on my netbook. Sitting right in front of said desktop. Using a wireless network. I KNOW there are networks in range, but my desktop won't detect any, even though it has a wireless card, and everything indicates that it is working properly. Why? I even tried connecting manually to the wireless network I have in the house. I entered the exact settings for it that came up in its properties on this computer. The desktop still couldn't find it. Oh man... I made a huge mistake. That's not the card I have. xD I didn't know how to find it, so I went to Dell.com and started customizing the computer I bought, so I could see what the wireless card options were. When I saw this as the only one, I figured that's what I had. But my device manager says I actually have "Dell Wireless 1505 Draft 802.11n WLAN Mini-Card". I still find it extremely odd that the computer thinks the card is working fine, and yet I can't find any networks.. but maybe this makes the problem more understandable or something? I've been talking about the wrong device. >_< Open Question: Was this a good move?My husband decided to take a break from our marriage and moved away from the house. I was not allowed to say anything because he saw all of my efforts to problem solve as being controlling and would tell me the result was I was pushing him away and that if I had left him alone we would already be back together. He would ask me out for pizza then drop me off as if we were dating and send chatty e-mails but nothing about coming home. A couple days ago, I gave him a deadline and told him I am considering dating as an alternative to divorce, if he doesn't come home by the deadline. I said both dating while married and divorce are against my values but divorce is much more expensive and he needs to make a decision because I am tired of waiting for him to decide to start being a husband and time is running out. Since then, I have not said anything else to him. A check came in the mail for him today, and instead of taking it to him,I put it in an envelope and mailed it to him. Was it a good move to tell him I am considering dating if he doesn't come back and reinforcing I am serious by sending the check by mail rather than taking it to him? Why or why not? CASSIUS: I am a brighter crayon than most, but I just love how you think wanting my husband to respect me means I don't care about him. That's a cute baby picture. You must be married. I wonder how you would feel if your wife moved out because she wasn't sure she could deal with the responsibilities of marriage or child rearing and anything you did to convince her things would be ok was seen as controlling. I am sure you wouldn't care if your wife was disrespecting you because you care about her so much,huh? Open Question: Question for the girls...after reading this do you think this girl likes me and is interested in me?Do you think she is interested in me as more than a friend? We are both 18. I have known this girl for a month and a half. We have been on "two dates" and have hung out once. Our last date was 15 days ago and at the end of the night I kissed her on the cheek and she said "awww thats sweet" and kissed me back on the cheek. This is the text conversation I had with her yesterday...does it sound like she is interested in me from reading this? Me: Hiiiiii :) Her: Heyyyy therre. sup Me: nothinn much jus chillin. hbu how was ur dayy?? Her: Good it was a busyyy day. how was urss Me: Yea watt made it so busyy? Mine was alrite jus had hella hw to catch up on u kno Her: Yea not muchh jus school and projects n all that stuffff Me: I see I see..soo there's this big problem that me n u gotta solvee u wanna take a guess wat it iss? Her: umm no i want u to just tell me lol Me: ur no funn..the big problem is that I havent seen u for a longg time n the last time we spent time together was 2 weekss agoo..thats the big problemm we gotta solve Her: I mussst agreeee. that's a pretty big problemm Me: I kno ritee. so u agree this problem needs to be fixed immediatelyyy? Her: Most defff Me: alrite u think u'll be free anytime between fri-sun?? Gotta start plannin ahead a lil early sometimess haha Her: maybe saturday Me: alrite i can work wit thatt Open Question: Opinions wanted: What last name should I give my baby?I have been divorced for 2 years after 20 years and 3 children with the same man. I am now pregnant (surprise!) with a baby girl due March 2010 with a man I started dating earlier this year. My problem is that I don't know what last name to give this baby. I wanted to change my last name since the divorce, but did not (so far) because it is the last name of my children. I am considering changing my last name now so that this child and I can have a shared last name as she grows up. Option 1 – Fischer: My last name has been Fischer since I was 20 years old and is the last name of my 3 older children (20yrs, 17yrs, and 14yrs old.) My ex husband would like for me to keep the last name Fischer and use it for the baby also (he hopes to reconcile one day). However that feels wrong to me, because this is not his child. Option 2 – Mortimer: The last name of the father of this child is Mortimer. Unfortunately, I don't really like his last name and it is not my last name, (we are not married or living together,) but he would like for the baby to have his last name (he has no other children). My other children have expressed a great dislike for the last name Mortimer (the name itself) and have asked me to choose another last name. Option 3 – Brown: My maiden name was Brown, which I never really liked growing up. However, I was wondering if I should just go ahead and change my name back to Brown since that is the name given to me at birth, and use that last name for this baby. Option 4 – Something completely different: Of course another option would be to choose a completely new last name for myself and the baby to use - which doesn't sound half bad at this point but I haven't come up with any yet (seems so foreign to me). I can't really ask family or those involved about this, so any suggestions, insights, or opinions would be appreciated. Open Question: How can i make my boyfriends sister like me?Ive been dating ( illl call him Rob) for over a year now and initially i found it quite difficult to be part of his family. We had many rows and arguements over things because i felt like i tried so hard with them but got little in return. Im not saying they werent nice but they were definately not the same as the ay my family treated "Rob", My family took a lot of time to talk to him get to know him etc whereas i found that when i went to his house his Dad barely opnened his mouth his mum tried way too hard to impress me and his sister goes to my high school but is about four years younger i.e shes 14 and he also has a little brother. i found it so difficult to connect with anyone because it seemed as though every time i was round they were playing the perfect role which is apparantly according to Rob the way his little sister tries to act amongst strangers. it got to the point however when i was made to feel quite awkward because the family has many family issues and there tended to be tension between his parents and Rob when i went round. anyway i stopped visiting his house for various reasons and told Rob why. He said his mother had acted this way because she felt intimidated about the area i live in and other aspects about me which i thought was slightly petty coming from a forty year old lady. He told me that his sister had no problems with me whatsoever. he then spoke to his family about these problems and after about a month i gathered the nuggets to go back to his house which madfe me so happy when i realised that i was starting to get a better relationship with them all, especially his younger brother. I had just returned from a holiday and i thought it nice if i broiught them gifts.. i got his little sister a radley bag which she seemed to love at the time.. anyway However more recently i heard his little sister at school lauighing and talking to her friends at school. All of which were watching me. One of them turned round and said is she pregnant? and the giggling continued. I understand that shes only young but i dont think the i mmaturity is necessary. I just really wanted to be able to however strange it sounds have more of a sisterly role with her and get on with her, but it seems i cant really get to the bottom of her fake persona. she never acts herself in front of me and im worried that she really doesnt like me. I wondered if it was because she may think that i was taking her brother from her but i spoke to Rob and he told me she and him were not that close anyway. I just wish i could really get on with her well and i feel like im constantly trying to please a fourteen year old. Please help me!!! Open Question: Help -- How do I get through the metal detector?Hi, I have a serious issue. When I was 17, I had a serious leg injury where my tibia was completely shattered. The only way I had to ever walk again was to get a special experimental bone implant from a scientist based on a very strong plastic. It has worked great for the past 5 years, not an issue. No sickness, no nothing. I got hit by a truck and didn't get anything other then a bruise. I have one serious problem - It has some iron filling. I don't have the records anymore because the scientists and doctors who did the implant lost the records in a fire the next night before they got submitted to the goverment. I cannot go to my court date because I cannot get through the metal detector. It keeps detecting the iron and the guards won't let me through. I can't prove it is there because the X-ray won't detect the plastic and it looks like my leg is a foil-based fake or something; and I don't have records proving it is really there and not some sort of high-tech bomb (Paranoid security). I can't get through metal detectors anywhere. What do I do? More Recent Articles |
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