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Open Question: im not able to trust him anymore....what do i do...? and more... Open Question: im not able to trust him anymore....what do i do...?my boy friend and I are really in love and all...and its been some time to this incident...it happened in july...i found a text message of an ex crush of his...telling him the date and time for their meet. I didn't have any problem with him meeting other people...but i didn't like how he hid this "date" from me...and it was a total date...Coffee and then movie and shit...at that time he said he didn't tell me about it because he hadn't even gone and he didn't want me to worry....but then why had she messaged him the date time and place...? he said she was only joking...he went as far as saying that i could call her up and ask her myself....i was not going to do that of course!....but ever since then he sort of lost my trust....im never able to believe him anymore. when he says his message didn't reach me because of network problem...i feel as if he hasn't sent any message at all..coz all other messages are reaching me fine...i cant handle this...its giving me too much grief...i want to either get over him...or get over this lack of trust...you think he could be telling the Truth...? he has a history of lying to his gfs....could a girls "jokingly" message the place and time to a guy for a date...? even when he turned her down...? Open Question: Which boy should I pick...?HELP I have to pick between two guys. I need advice... The first guy I know really well. He is funny, sweet, and always took good care of me. But he can sometimess be a bit of a smart alec and alot of people strongly dislike him for that. We had gone out once before, but due to my parents rule of not being able to go out on dates until I turn 17, we drifted apart. When we broke up, my parents got mad at him and so did my friends because it hurt me. (not because he did anything) We agreed to stay good friends and have kept that promise. Recently, he told me he missed me so much, and would wait for me if I would agree to be his again. The other guy has been my friend for a long time. He is very kind and loyal. We had always been able to talk about just whatever. But he decided now that he wants to date me. Everyone says we should go out. And he really wants to. I know he would be good for me and I know he's a good person. But I really dont feel romantically about him. It seems kinda wierd to me... But maybe that can change. The problem is, I like the first guy so much. But im scared we will drift apart again. My parents hate him, so do my friends. But I just cant tear myself away. Im stuck. I think I should go out with the second guy because it would be healthier. But should I give up somone I love for someone that would be better for me? (I was also thinking that maybe I shouldnt go out with either... But If I do that, how will I turn them down?) Open Question: Please read... could we last being together even though he has no plans for the future and i do?Me and my boyfriend have only been dating about 3 months, but literally since the day we met we knew right away that we would be great together and would last long. We have alot in common, but not so much that its overwhleming, we have opposite personalities in some ways, like hes stubborn when hes mad but i can never stay mad for more than a few mintues. we have a great connection together etc.. he is 18 and im 16 i havnt been in a long relationship before, my longest was 2 months but i have ALOT of experience with relationship and guys, more than any girl should have to have. He is the same, but he was in a relationship for 6 months before. When i had a boyfriend, i used to go out with my friends on the weekends, text and flirt with other guys etc.. but wtih my boyfriend now no one is worth lossing him. I havnt texted one guy back since we started going out, we see each other every single day even on weekends were together form morning til night, sometimes he even sleepsover. so we do talk about the future sometimes, (i really dont like to since i have a bad streak with relationships) but whenever we speak of it, he mentions of us still being together. always. I see him in my future too, but he sees me in his far far future like after college, settling down for good moving in type of stuff way later on, but my only problem is that this guy has no future. I get A's and B's am taking ap classes going to hopefully some good college like UF, and he failed juinor year, tried to retake it and skipped too many days of school so he got kicked out again. He isnt a totally nasty bad a$$ guy though. We both used to do drugs and stopped for different reasons, im a party girl who used to drink every weekend and hes made me stop drinking ever since we were together he is a good influence, but he has no abimitions in life. His dream job is to be a bartender, while mine is to own my own bussiness and such. I dont want to be thinking ahead so much, but even my mom sees that we will last and she gets upset that he has no abitions for life. Can relationships work if one person wants to do somethingt great and the other dosnt even have a highschool deploma? I mean i wanna see if well even last i hope we will but life always does the unexpected, im just trying to think if we last until im a seinor graduating..i would have to make a hard decision. Could it last, even though we are absoutly perfectly compliment each toher in every single way, but he has no future plans? Open Question: I have a "friend" who constantly insults me. How to handle this?i am too much of a caring person, so i make friends with people of all social status. i dont judge a person by there looks or style, and i avoid confrontation and speaking my mind about a person to their face (unless pushed to do so). i see that as a weakness that i plan on growing out of eventually, but for now i starting with this question for now. this guy follows me around a lot, and its hard to not be hanging around him when most of his classes are in my direction, so i pass him a lot and he tags along with me. i met him a few times last year through a girl i dated, as they shared the same class. this year, i see him all the time. apparently all his friends transferred schools so now he hangs out with that girl and I as he has no one else to talk to. every time i talk to him he ALWAYS has a "thats what she said" joke for everything i say. its driving me nuts, and to the point that i am watching what i say. if thats all he did then i wouldn't have a problem with him, but he insults me constantly as a joke. its hard to take it as a joke because sometimes he goes a little bit overboard with it, and i dont know what to say. i act goofy around all my friends, so i pretend to act like i don't know what im talking about or i say random stuff. its for fun, and it makes my friends smile. but now whenever this kids around, which is all the time, he laughs then says something like "how much of a dumbass are you?" or "HAHAH, you're FU*KING stupid" (he puts an emphasis on the FU*K). even when im not acting goofy, and just bringing up stuff for conversation he will find a way to insult me. today a few friends of mine were talking about inventors or whatever, and I brought up that the worlds highest IQ is 210. this "friend" then makes a joke saying to my friends "then cameron must have a 50x's lower IQ than him". seriously wtf. my birthday was yesterday also, and he was nice to me and said happy birthday and seemed decent enough. said happy birthday again before we went to class, then during lunch again he goes back to calling me crap like how stupid I am. on my birthday too. now i show him that i am getting irritated with his jokes, by telling him sarcastically how i love all the insults he gives me everyday. he does an awkward laugh and stops but continues the next day. i don't want to tell this guy to piss off though, because i don't want him sitting alone even though i think he deserves it sometimes. hes a skinny kid too, and im about a foot taller then him so its not like i am afraid of saying anything to him. in a way i am, as i dont want to hurt his feelings but he seriously pushing it. i was hitting on this girl too during lunch and he was with me. apparently he has one class with the girl i was talking to so he felt comfortable telling her i was a complete idiot who takes stupid classes. i just walked away from her after that. what can i tell this kid to get him to back off but not come off as mean? he is a good guy, really nice and has a good family but he seriously tries too hard to impress everyone. thats his problem, and my problem is being too nice. what should i tell him next time i talk to him? Open Question: What should I do? Speak, or wait?Hi! so heres my problem...I just got out of a 5 year relationship a few months ago, and it was a very very serious relationship by that...like we were living together, and talking about future plans, and so on. We broke up because I caught him lying a few times, and then we were basically "broken up" but still talking, and working on our relationship (every aspect of relationship besides doing physical stuff.) So as all of this was going down, a really good friend of mine named D, whose been my best guy friend since I was like 13 (I'm 20) was helping me through it...all the crying, advice, all that kinda stuff. Just because he himself was dealing with trying to get back with his Ex, but they were only doing physical stuff, they werent connecting on an emotional level yet...ANYWAYS, I hung out with D one night, and partied with a bunch of our friends, and I ended up getting really drunk and hooking up with D's bestfriend, who D had been trying to get me to date..I felt really bad, but didnt think anything of it because I was techinally single... I tell my ex when we hung out after that, and then he opens up and tells me he had been dating a girl while dating me for the last month...who was 16. (He's 21.) So that ended our relationship... After that, I was still listening to D, when he was trying to hook me up with his bestfriend N...N and I talked after the hookup, and he told me he wanted to be with his ex, rather than I. So I took it, and didnt think anything of it... NOW MY PROBLEM. D was there for me during all this relationship drama, and I never considered talking to him because he is like my bestfriend, and he WAS doing stuff with his ex...Now they are not, because he found out that she is ENGAGED, and was cheating on her fiance with D...D is now all bummed out just like myself... But I've been thinking a lot, and been hanging out with D like everyday...I think I'm falling for him..honestly. But I feel like I already ruined any chance I had with him, because he's heard so much pain I've had from other guys, and he's had to coach me through it... He's attractive, so attractive, and the only reason we never dated was because we were both in long term relationships... I've hinted multiple times about how we'd be an awesome couple, and he keeps saying "You gotta just see how time plays out." Im starting to feel like I am wasting my time..but on the other hand I understand that we're both not ready to be in a relationship... So I guess Im asking...Should I continue waiting it out, and see what happens? Or should I speak up and really explain to him, that I honestly want to be in a relationship with him, because he does in fact make me feel like I am the greatest girl in the world? I really dont want to mess up a friendship, but I know that he takes FOREVER to make a move on a girl...Ive seen him in both of his relationships, and know how he is...but I dont want to lose my bestfriend. :( HELP. thanks! Open Question: Guy Problem...HELP!!?Here's the scoop. My boyfriend has a hard time making friends (guy friends). He keeps trying to get guys from work to hang out, and they'll say yes, then last minute bail on him. Happens all the time. I feel bad for him, cos he is a cool guy (he can be loud and a little too outgoing so I think some people are thrown off by that). However, he has no problems making friends who are girls. It doesnt happen a lot (maybe 2x's a month), he'll decide to hang out with a friend who's a girl (whether or not it be from work or someone he dated long ago, who it just didnt work and now theyre just friends...some are new friends, some are old). When we first met, he did this a lot more frequently (hanging out with them), but it didnt bother me, cos we werent serious, or exclusive, and I was hanging out with other guys. Its been a year now, and we're very serious, and yet occassionally he'll want to hang out with a friend, who just so happens to be a girl. He always tells me who he is going with, where they are going, and there is always other people there (sometimes other girls, or sometimes a mix crowd). I have a problem with this. It bothers me a lot. Cos some of these girls he asked out way before he met me, and they turned him down, then they'd casually talk, now hes in a serious reltationship, they seemed to come back into the picture. He keeps saying "dont you trust me" and quite frankly its not him i dont trust, its the girls, cos i know how girls can be, if they want something theyll do whatever it takes to get it, even if it hurts someone else. for our anniversary he bought me a pre-egagement diamond ring, he said he wants to be with me forever, but isnt ready for marriage, cos he's still finishing up his maters degree and still lives at home. (he said he wants a real job and his own place before he makes that jump), but gave me the ring to show he is serious. Am I overreacting with him hanging out with other girls? Should I be worried? Should I not care? Im crazy in love with this guy, which is why this tears me apart, cos the idea of him out with another girl sickens me to death. Please Help. I want both guys and girls opinions on this one....what would you do? I want him to go out and have a life other than me, but with GUYS. HELP!!!!!!!!!!! PS.....he was at work when he discussed this, on dinner-hour break...that was 3 hours ago....he just went on his 15 minute break as I was sending this, and called me, just to say I love you.....like he's trying to butter me up cos he knows Im mad. i told him i would feel more comfortable if i were there, but he always does it after work, and he works over a half hour away. i have a severe injury to my right foot, nerve damage, and am still trying to get better, so driving far, scares him....he said he doesnt want me to drive, even tho i can....he says he'd never live it down if something happened to me, he'd feel responsible. i dont know any of his girl friends, and its just weird to me, that after a year, i barely know any of his friends. i just got off the phone with him, he was on his way there, and when there i stayed on the phone with him til he got to where he was meeting the "friends". i was like, "do me a favor, stay on the phone with me til u get to the table" (he was meeting the girl and her friends at ruby tuesdays). and i was like when you get there, to make me feel comfortable, say goodbye and i love you, in front of them. he said it.......but in a loud obnoxious joking way. i was like say it like you mean it. hes like youre embarassing me now. im like embarrassing you? he was like yes, youre embarassing me. so i was like saying "i love you" in front of your friends who are girls is embarassing?????????? hes like yes......and i was like if they were your friends, it wouldnt bother them thered be nothing to be embarassed about. youre embarassaed? hes like im gonna go, cos he was getting pissed, so i said fine and hung up. embarassed? seriously?? wtf. Open Question: Boyfriend....Just a little problem?ok so i have a boyfriend and i am 13. All of my friends are pressuring me and him to kiss me on the lips (he already did on the cheek.) He is an awesome guy and i just came back from our date. So heres my question: 1. Should i make the move? 2. Should he make the move? 3. Should i just wait and not let my friends pressure me and take my time? Open Question: help! what the F)(K is this relationship?well, i'm dating with this girls last week. she is that the girl i like the most. we drunk a lot of beer at night. .at that time, i didn't mean to kiss her. and then, she hug me and she said ; do you want have sex with me ? i didn't said anything ..we looked at each other eyes .then,you know what is next!!. after that, i was trying to talk to her about this problem. she doesn't care and said ;just have fun.. i looked at her and said i'm into you ..she was very happy to hear about this .but .she only want to be my best friends. today ,she calls me and ask me out . i was pick he up to my home.. after that, she hug me again and kiss me .then.we have sex again ... i want to ask what kind of relationship is this? Open Question: I know this is long, but I need some answers please. Am I just overreacting?This girl is a very good friend of mine. These past 2 months she's been flirting heavily with me (for her), to the point where she occasionally changes clothes while in plain sight of me and while drunk holds my hand/tries to sit on my lap (which she does for nobody else). Problem is, this week I've been trying to ask her out. In the process I've probably texted her more often then I normally have, and she's been ridiculously busy this week. Monday and tuesday when I tried she had long standing plans with her sister (I forgot about them) and tuesday she had a work party (which I vaguely remember her mentioning a while back). Yesterday she took 4 hours to respond to 1 text, and didn't answer when I asked if she'd be up for hanging out on friday. I tried IM'ing her again today asking the same thing... no response. She could be really busy. 2 of her roommates are moving out today I know, and she's gotta pack for saturday when she leaves on break. Or her roommate could tell her that I was considering dating her (which I drunkenly asked her like a month ago), freaking her out. Am I just overreacting what could be just a busy week? Do I still ask her out if she DOES suddenly respond? Her phone also is only held together with duct tape, wouldn't be surprised if it was broken... but seriously, I'm kinda freaking out. I wanted to get this over and done with this week but it doesn't seem like it's gonna happen :/ Open Question: I feel guilty for feeling like this about my husband... (sexual stuff)!!?I love my husband with all my heart and we're in our twenties. We've been married for 2 months, dating for 7 years, sexually active for 5 years. I've never had a problem with him.. he always pleases when we are making love - ALWAYS and I always thought he had a decent sized penis. Now, I am having trouble enjoying sex with him because the other day as a joke, i measured his penis. He is 5 inches.. not that it makes a difference but i think it's affecting me psychologically. I swear i can feel him splipping out when we're makin love and i can't stop thinking about his size! i've been with other men with average sized penises and i'd rather be with my husband! i love him... but now everytime we 're making love if i want to come i have to think about other men... a threesome.. GROSS i know!!! but i can't have an orgams unless im fantasizing about other men while we're making love :( i feel so guilty.. what can i do? I OBVIOUSLY CAN'T TELL HIM ABOUT IT!!! More Recent Articles
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