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Open Question: i'm sorry this is so long but i need your help.. what do YOU think i should do? and more... Open Question: i'm sorry this is so long but i need your help.. what do YOU think i should do?well, to make an extremely long story somewhat short, i'm in love with this girl. i've seen her in a serious relationship, i've seen her get cheated on and be completely broken. i've seen her rise from that, and she's now in a relationship but she always says "it's nothing serious." this january will make 3 years that i've known her/felt this way for her. friends tell me to try and date others, and i dated this one girl but it didn't work out at all, she ended up hurting me. i ended up going to the girl i'm in love with for advice, because she's one of the only ones i could trust with it. she helped me through it. she'll sometimes do things that look like she could possibly be into me, too. (walking into a circle of people i'm in and bringing up a show i told her i was watching the night before. like, 'so how about criminal minds last night?!' and taking me out to clear my head, asking me to go to her job with her to get papers and contiuously telling me 'i'm so happy you came with me, i'd be so bored without you.' showing a lot of skin around me, etc.) but then my insecurities get the best of me and i point out all the things that would make her NOT like me (besides the fact that she's 5 years older.) we don't talk everyday, maybe a couple times a week.. sometimes less than that. she leads a very busy life. i know many of you are probably like "okay, i don't see the problem.. just tell her how you feel." well, it's truthfully not that easy. it's taken me so long to finally get her to trust me and open up to me like she does now. i'm willing to wait, because i've been waiting this long and some of her (meaning having her as a friend) is better than none of her. i just don't know what to do.. i'm so in love with her, and it breaks my heart to not have her. i miss her so much the pain is excruciating. i don't know what to do.. someone PLEASE help?! she's the only reason for happiness i have in my life, and i don't know what i'd do if i lost that. but i feel like i'm not good enough for her and she deserves so much better than me.. Open Question: need huge help with this letter of intent. wrote it out- need your opinion.?so i'm applying to School of Visual Arts, and here's my Letter of intent- i know there are a billion grammer mistakes- try to help me fix them if you can, i'm preoccupied with portfolio work and need your help. i know it's long- but PLS! thank you in advance. What is the purpose of existence? Men arrived into this world in order to change. We arrived here in the form of little bugs, and perhaps one day a human will come out of that same little insect. But it's difficult for us to change. I once heard of a little boy who went to the zoo with his parents, the kid was deferred by the elephants; he saw a huge elephant, four meters tall! Joined by a rope to a hook stuck to the ground. So the kid pondered and thought, why doesn't the elephant tear himself from the rope's grip? It's an elephant! Rip the rope, get out! Why are you enslaved to this little rope? He asked his parents, and they were thinking of a logical excuse, they explained that perhaps it's a trained elephant and he doesn't feel like bursting out of the rope right now. But the kid was very clever, and doubted this answer. The kid met head-on with the elephants trainer and said "sir, tell me why doesn't this elephant free himself? Why doesn't he tear the rope?" the trainer replied "listen child, when that elephant was little, we found him and tied him down in this zoo, with the same rope tied to the same hook in that ground. But he was only little, he fought and tried to liberate himself- he tried and tried, but didn't succeed, he was too little. He tried again and again and again, until he fell asleep at night from failures. He woke up the next day with renewed strengths! He said 'now I will get away, I will go back to the nature and to mother elephant!' he tried and tried, until he fell asleep with the same horrid feelings again. And after a number of days with that same struggle in his life, the worldly day arrived in which the elephant grew frustrated and gave up his hopes, the elephant said to himself 'from this rope, I will never be liberated' and although many years passed since that elephant was little, and today he's a huge elephant- four meters tall! He could easily pull three big trees out of the ground at once, but still the elephant's mind was locked on his previous failures, on never freeing himself from the rope, and so he stopped trying." Maybe that's one of our problems? That something is locked in our thoughts? We tried and tried, and we can't proceed. But we must remember- every day is its own world, each minute is a minute that had never before occurred. Today is December 18, 2009- understand that this date is a historical date! Not only is it my birthday, there never was, and never will be a date like this one in the world- it is one of a kind. Every day is a special day, a mysterious day. Maybe today we could if we tried, make that change. I believe that a big part of our purpose is to be a part of this beautiful and unique world, but also learn how to be our separate selves, to fulfill the "expression within". There is always a choice, that does not automatically imply that the choices available are easy or that the options are always fantastic. The options that a person has are strongly dependent on the environment in which they find themselves. On earth, we are separate beings, we can touch if we choose, we can cry, we experience emotions individually. We each have a separate special body, mind, and soul. And we all are of free will to learn and experience, to follow our paths and our instincts. To sniff the awakening smell of seasons changing or of our mother's cooking, to follow the road that our souls are attracted to. My name is ____, and my soul wants to learn and experience, to be creative and happy. I truly believe that my soul is leading me to SVA, and I won't stop until I reach it. Open Question: Hairstyle for a receding 20 year old?Okay so im not really that bothered about my hair receding. My dad started receding at 17, so i have done better than him and he never had a problem dating women. Its hardly receding at the moment and you cant even tell without looking very closely but i really just want to take the focus away from my hair. I have always been told i have a very attractive face and a nice personality......so i would like them to be my main assets rather than my long (Ashton Kutcher) hairstyle Any ideas? (i have dark brunette features) Open Question: Long story, please help!?So I dated this girl for a little over six months. Then she broke up with me over a phone call saying she didn't feel the same. I asked if we could talk but she never agreed/wanted to. I was seriously messed up, I really love this girl. I've tried to get ever her but never was able to. Then like two months later she asks to hang out with me. I thought we'd start being friends again. It was difficult being with her because i missed being her boyfriend, but I did it anyway because i care for her and enjoy her company. One night after hanging out she texts me saying she broke up with me because she had a lot of problems and stress in her life then, and she thought not having a boyfriend would reduce that, but that she was wrong and that she wants me back/she misses me/breaking up was a mistake etc. I said next time we hang out we'll talk. I was excited to finally get answers because i had heard rumors that one of the reasons she really broke up with me was because she wanted to go to some dance with another guy. And I saw on facebook that she was in a relationship with someone for like a week or something idk. i wanted to make sure that i wasn't just a last resort; that the other relationship(s) didn't work out and I just "better than nothing" or whatever. We scheduled a time to talk but that night she invites a bunch of people over, so we never got a chance. (wtf) She never really mentioned it again, so i brought it up a couple times but she always says she can't because she's sick and her mom won't let her. (and she has been reeeeally sick. like she only goes to school for a half a day) But she's had opportunities to talk to me multiple times but never did. So whats going on? I can't figure it out. Is she scared i might not take her back? Has she changed her mind again and doesn't like me? I need to know if i should start (well, 'restart') moving on. Lord knows thats going to take a while. Thoughts?? Open Question: THIS BOY DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO MAKE A MOVE.?So. Here's my little background with this kid: I like this guy, he likes me back, etc etc etc we're like a bf/gf but without the official title because of complications with friends which kinda sucks but that's a different story. We're freshmen in highschool and have liked eachother for two years as of tomorrow (or at least that's when I started liking him officially hahaha. Not that we've been 'dating' since then. Actually we just had our first kiss like a month ago and we hung out for the first time like two weeks ago :)) Now here's the problem. He does not know how to make a move. It's quite frustrating, really… I mean I always have to initiate almost everything and I hate doing all the work. Especially when I'm the girl. The only two things he will do is sometimes be the one to text me, and he will come up and talk to me if we're both walking to the same class. If I go over and sit next to him or something, he'll flirt and such, but with things like kisses and hanging out I always have to be the one starting it. I mean, we went and saw a movie together and the seat rest was up when we got there and I was like pressed against him with my head resting on his shoulder and he didn't even think to put his arm around me. I know he likes me because he tells me (and kisses me back when I kiss him and generally does boyfriend-like things) he just hardly ever is the initiator. I try to talk to one of our mutual friends to see what I can do, but the mutual friend is always like ahhaha that sucks yeah _____ just kinda fails. And I don't know what to do about it. Ugh. Boys and girls help? Other then this he's like a perfect sweetie, he'll say the cutest things! :D and like I know he wants to hang out and stuff (I suggested we hang out again and he was all "yeah I agree") And ughh I just don't know how to get it into his brain that I know he likes me but it'd be so great if he'd do something to show me every now and then, yknoww? THANKS AGAIN. I realize I just asked a question about him like fourty minutes ago. Really he's so great just this one problem he has. Grr. Help meh out? sorry it's a bit long to read :3 Ermm it's been two years and we (like I said) JUST had our first kiss. I don't know how much slower it can get hahah :) Open Question: Could you please give me some advice, i don't know what to do? i love her but..?well, to make an extremely long story somewhat short, i'm in love with this girl. i've seen her in a serious relationship, i've seen her get cheated on and be completely broken. i've seen her rise from that, and she's now in a relationship but she always says "it's nothing serious." this january will make 3 years that i've known her/felt this way for her. friends tell me to try and date others, and i dated this one girl but it didn't work out at all, she ended up hurting me. i ended up going to the girl i'm in love with for advice, because she's one of the only ones i could trust with it. she helped me through it. she'll sometimes do things that look like she could possibly be into me, too. (walking into a circle of people i'm in and bringing up a show i told her i was watching the night before. like, 'so how about criminal minds last night?!' and taking me out to clear my head, asking me to go to her job with her to get papers and contiuously telling me 'i'm so happy you came with me, i'd be so bored without you.' showing a lot of skin around me, etc.) but then my insecurities get the best of me and i point out all the things that would make her NOT like me (besides the fact that she's 5 years older.) we don't talk everyday, maybe a couple times a week.. sometimes less than that. she leads a very busy life. i know many of you are probably like "okay, i don't see the problem.. just tell her how you feel." well, it's truthfully not that easy. it's taken me so long to finally get her to trust me and open up to me like she does now. i'm willing to wait, because i've been waiting this long and some of her (meaning having her as a friend) is better than none of her. i just don't know what to do.. i'm so in love with her, and it breaks my heart to not have her. i miss her so much the pain is excruciating. i don't know what to do.. someone PLEASE help?! she's the only reason for happiness i have in my life, and i don't know what i'd do if i lost that. but i feel like i'm not good enough for her and she deserves so much better than me.. Open Question: I Have A Boyfriend Problem.. :(?okay ive liked him for soooooooooooo long and where dating and he apperintly called me fat to his friend... but i dont know what to do because he said he diddnt what do i do? Open Question: How should I tell my parents that I'm engaged?I am 21 and my fiance is 24. We've been dating for 3 1/2 years and just got engaged three weeks ago. We are a couple of old souls. We don't party or hang out with anyone who parties. We are committed to eachother and want to spend our lives together. My parents are not the understanding kind. My mom is judgemental and thinks she's right about everything. My dad thinks I'm still 3 years old which is even worse. We are both in college. I am almost done with it and I have a part time job as well. My fiance was laid off from a very good job 1 year ago and hasn't been able to find anything since, but is living off of unemployment. He started working right out of high school and never went to college, but now he's working on a degree that will take a few years to complete. (We want to get married in 2 years). I am completely terrified to tell my parents that we are engaged. My mom has told me that if we ever did get engaged, my dad would be upset. She likes to make me miserable so she could be making it up. But I'm scared any way. I want more than anything to tell them and for them to congratulate me and be happy. So if anyone who's had a similar problem or has some advice, I would appreciate some help. Thanks! My parents like him. We both still live with our parents. Open Question: Am I over reacting with my boyfriend?Here's the scoop. My boyfriend has a hard time making friends (guy friends). He keeps trying to get guys from work to hang out, and they'll say yes, then last minute bail on him. Happens all the time. I feel bad for him, cos he is a cool guy (he can be loud and a little too outgoing so I think some people are thrown off by that). However, he has no problems making friends who are girls. It doesnt happen a lot (maybe 2x's a month), he'll decide to hang out with a friend who's a girl (whether or not it be from work or someone he dated long ago, who it just didnt work and now theyre just friends...some are new friends, some are old). When we first met, he did this a lot more frequently (hanging out with them), but it didnt bother me, cos we werent serious, or exclusive, and I was hanging out with other guys. Its been a year now, and we're very serious, and yet occassionally he'll want to hang out with a friend, who just so happens to be a girl. He always tells me who he is going with, where they are going, and there is always other people there (sometimes other girls, or sometimes a mix crowd). I have a problem with this. It bothers me a lot. Cos some of these girls he asked out way before he met me, and they turned him down, then they'd casually talk, now hes in a serious reltationship, they seemed to come back into the picture. He keeps saying "dont you trust me" and quite frankly its not him i dont trust, its the girls, cos i know how girls can be, if they want something theyll do whatever it takes to get it, even if it hurts someone else. for our anniversary he bought me a pre-egagement diamond ring, he said he wants to be with me forever, but isnt ready for marriage, cos he's still finishing up his maters degree and still lives at home. (he said he wants a real job and his own place before he makes that jump), but gave me the ring to show he is serious. Am I overreacting with him hanging out with other girls? Should I be worried? Should I not care? Im crazy in love with this guy, which is why this tears me apart, cos the idea of him out with another girl sickens me to death. Please Help. I want both guys and girls opinions on this one....what would you do? I want him to go out and have a life other than me, but with GUYS. HELP!!!!!!!!!!! Open Question: Can someone make me a really cute but not so expensive outfit?My friends and I are going to the mall for like a group date and stuff...just hanging around and goofing off...well my friend already has her outfit and its super gorgeously amazing! I like the stores www.shopjessicalouise.com and www.hottopic.com but i have a problem with choosing outfits...help? And if you find anything from another store thats similar to the style I like that would be fine. Thanks in advance! Open Question: I want my ex-girlfriend back. What should my game plan be?Out of the blue my girlfriend dumps me, claiming the she is still in love with her ex and very confused. She doesn't want him but at the same time dating me with these feelings makes her feel like she is betraying me. Everything has been going fine. We reached a plateau in our relationship, but no big fights or problems. I think this is not the whole story. In reality she probably isn't as attracted to me anymore. Our relationship moved into a long distance phase and as a result I wimped out and started being too easy and not a challenge anymore. I played it cool at first and ignored her, but she called me one night, stripped away my defenses with too many questions and I wimped out again. She cut off all contact: facebook, yahoo and phone. I've been good about not pursuing her since, but what should I do from here? I'm really missing her. Also, what are your thoughts on her reason for doing this? I'd really appreciate some feedback. More Recent Articles |
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