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Open Question: immigration problems for criminal case (prety theft) indian girl staying in us california ? and more... Open Question: immigration problems for criminal case (prety theft) indian girl staying in us california ?iam very guilty for what i did but i was involved in a criminal case prety theft my case ended up with 550$ fine 3 day service and 1 year prohibition. i have chance apply for earlier prohibition date. after that will have problems in my visa iam on f1 convert soon into H1 visa. is the immigration helps me in this ? how long this processes take. is iam eligible to get H1 visa. help me iam struggling with this from 3 months. Open Question: Question about boyfriend's parents...too religious?I love my boyfriend, and I like his parents a lot. They're very nice to me. However, they're also extremely religious (church every Sunday, Bible Study twice a week, etc etc). I don't usually have a problem with that at all--I live under the policy "to each her own". But that's just it--my own! I'm NOT religious, at all. I'm not Atheist, either (I'm a unitarian universalist, and I have my own beliefs of God and stuff). And I definitely don't impose my views on others. However, my boyfriend's parents, when we talk to them (because they're very intelligent and have useful advice for us, we like to talk to them) they try to impose their views on me. I find it very rude, and I get very uncomfortable, because A. I don't know how or if I should tell them I don't feel comfortable with this, and I will never be religious and B. It goes against everything I stand for, which is: Don't impose your views--especially religious ones!--on others. Example of behavior: I once shared with them a very interested show I'd seen on Discovery on the creation of the earth...it mostly revolved around the Big Bang theory, evolution, the extinction of the dinosaurs, etc. I'm a big Discovery network freak, and I thought they might be interested. I never thought there was even a religious aspect to this show. Immediately when I brought up the death of the dinosaurs being related to a large asteroid, my boyfriend's step father cuts me off (which he gets upset if I do) and tells me, "I don't necessarily believe that(...) God created the earth(...) flood killed dinosaurs..." So I brought up other facts as to why I thought the show might be true, simply because I didn't want to look like a retard, and he says: "They have proof man and dinosaurs walked together...they have found fossils from the same age...museum exhibits prove it..." blah blah blah. WTF? Then, I left the room, after feeling furious for being not only cut off and interrupted completely, but for also being made to look stupid, I hear my bf's parents discussing about how I'm "confused and mislead" and "It's sad that I'm being tricked into believing this" and "I should be Christian, not ignorant" blah blah blah again. ?!?!?! I'm SO offended by this, I can't even express it in words. NEVER would I have called them ignorant for their beliefs, and if anything, THEIR beliefs are the sketchy ones. I mean, come on, a BOOK that has been translated a million times from the original, which was put together years after Jesus' death by the ROMANS, who decided what books went into it and what ones didn't? MINE has scientific fact to it. >.< That's even beside the point, though. The point is, I'm offended, and I don't know how to tell them I don't believe in Christianity, I won't ever believe in it, and I don't like when people try to impose their views on me and then call me ignorant for my own beliefs. His mom even tried to convince me when I was telling her interesting facts about Judaism that the Jews HATE Christians, and that Jews called Christians "ignorant" of God (but guess what they just ffing called ME?), etc. but when did you EVER see the Jews murdering Christians...? Never... So, anyway, how do I talk to them? I've only been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. I don't want to destroy my relationship with them, and I don't want to offend the like they did to me. They absolutely crushed me--I went home crying that night. And, amongst everything else, they're making me turn away from religion (especially X-ians) even more. I already don't like religion because every religion I've found doesn't match up with my own personal beliefs--and not only have I been mistreated by Christians but my whole family has. So how do I tell them this? SHOULD I tell them? What are the odds it'll ruin my relationship with them? What should I say? :( I need advice. I want to continue chatting with my bf's parents, but at this rate, I'm going to have to cut off communication entirely except when necessary, which I don't want at all. Thanks for any advice you can give me. Shellie (Also, WHERE do Christians get these silly ideas like humans were alive when dinosaurs were? That a big FLOOD killed everyone BUT one guy and his family and 2 of each animal, and somehow they still managed to get enough to eat (without killing the animals) to survive and repopulate? I don't get it. I want some of the methamphetamine they're taking. I do live in Spokane, the meth capital of the USA...>.< Open Question: So do you think she is interested? Does she like me?met this girl online, we went and had drinks together. It went well and I didn't kiss her but just gave her a hug. She said she had a great time. She has called me and also texted me many times since our date. She texts me all the time. She called me today to tell me about her going out last night. The problem is that she never asks me anything about myself. She always talks about her or what is happening currently. But never or very rarely about me, my family, interests, etc. I take this as she is not interested or she is selfish. Am I wrong here? Do girls not ask a guy they are getting to know questions? She even sends me pics of her over my phone. It's weird. She keeps constant contact but never really asks me anything. I have no idea what her agenda is. Open Question: How do I deal with this problem!?well theres this girl that i met, and for awhile weve been talking and i finally told her i liked her, she was thrilled. it turns out that she likes me back. but the only thing that stopped us was that she was a freshman and i was a senior. let me tell you, she doesnt look like a freshman at all. Anyways, so we just kept it at a "friend" stage since she didnt want to go out with me. But the reason was that i wasnt sure where i was going to go to college so she didnt want to go out just to break up a few months later. Well wevew texted eachother after skool ended, but then i stopped getting texts from her, for awhile now. When i saw her again i was happy :) but it turns out shes dating someone i kno....bad :( i was hoping that now that i go to college really close to the high skool maybe we can go out again. but now that shes taken, i have all these weird feelings.....feeling like i failed or something, i really think that the guys shes with now doesnt derserve her at all...besides that weve got into contact again :) and since i have a car we can spend time with eachother alot more. DO YOU THINK I HAVE A CHANCE TO CHANGE HER MIND? i REALLY like her before when we met and i still do, and i think she still like me too since we met. i mean, with all the time talking and hanging out is enough to change her mind, to have the same feeling from the past? what else do you think i should do? HELP!!!!! Open Question: My boyfriend talks to his attractive female friend all the time?Ughh. I've been dating this guy for over a year, but for the past few months we've been having big problems. He's known this one girl for over two years and they used to be super flirty and like best friends. They've grown apart since then but they still talk everyday over e-mail! Most of the time it goes on for hours. I tried cofronting her about it and told her to chill out but it was useless. Then I tried asking my bf if he could talk to her less because it makes me uneasy (I still think he likes her. She's super flirty and he even has pictures of her saved!) and he refused. What should I do? It's been months since it started making me uncomfortable and he doesn't care. He still talks to her all the time. He refuses to work things out or compromise, so in a way it's like he prefers her to me. Help?! Open Question: How can I get her to go from being friends to more than friends?I met this girl through mutual friends at a wedding about six months ago. Initially I wasn't attracted to her as any more than a friend, and we became very good friends. Recently, I've realized I've become quite attracted to her as more than a friend, and the feeling seems to be mutual (trust me, I'm too much of a pessimist to be lying to myself about this.) I've asked her on two dates now and they both went fairly well, but the problem seems to be that we're so comfortable around each other. It's awkward if I try to hold her hand or put my arm around her, because we've spent so much time *not* being that way. How can I get over this (primarily physical) barrier in a way that won't feel so awkward that it kills the moment? More Recent Articles
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