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Open Question: Is it me or are more and more men seem to be mentally ill? and more... Open Question: Is it me or are more and more men seem to be mentally ill?Before I met my fiancee I date different guys on and off. Some were nice guys and some I will never call back again in life. But the majority had issues. And I'm not talking about financial problems and stress from work, you know, normal issues. I am talking about codependency issues, bipolar issues, narcissistic issues, rage, mood swings, so on and so forth. And now I found out my fiancee has emotional issues and I find myself thinking "what the hell?? How did I get here again?" Everything starts out cool with these guys but then after I fall in love or just like the guy, Bam!! they unravel. I thought it was my imagination that more and more men are just mentally and emotionally unstable, and I even kept looking at myself to see if I need to change my "guydar" so to speak, but then I watched the Dr. Phil show and it confirmed my thoughts. Plus I'm taking courses in school for health and wellness and my teacher said the same thing. I was just wondering if any other ladies had this problem. Just curious. This isn't a male bashing thing so be easy on me. Thanks Open Question: Catholics and Other Christians: I have a really huge problem and need advice!!!?I have a friend of mine that I've known for 10 years. For the past year or so she has not been acting as a friend towards me, she wasn't mean but has been acting very shady. So shady that when she comes to visit [she lives out of state] I feel mad...Now here's the straw the broke the camel's back: I so her online so I imed her saying what's up? She answered by saying "I'm dating a married man"...I was so in schock! I told her how she could have done that ESPECIALLY when her boyfriend [now ex] cheated on her! When that boy cheated on her she was really broken and I was right there with her! Now she's going out with a married man whose wife will give birth to their first born in March! How fucked up is that?! I am so mad!!! I am so mad at her!!! She tells me she's in love and I tell her the whole "your heart can't chose who it falls in love with" is the biggest BS in the world! It's just an excuse to be loose! And even if that were true you don't need to act on it! She's supposed to come in december but I emailed her [she never answers her phone] and told her to please not come. My Christian side of me wants her to come and help her but another side of me is truly pissed off about the situation she WILLINGLY got herself into!!!! She said no prob, she'll go somewhere else but wants to hang out with me...I don't want to! I don't want to be near her but I want to help her because what she's doing is WRONG! PLAIN AND SIMPLE! My friend told me that the only thing I can do is pray for her and I am but I am so mad!!! I need to add one more thing: I blame her AND the married guy but mostly the married guy...My friend is not the one married HE is! but that being said she's also responsible for her actions! I hate people blaming the other woman but the cheating as just a victim...I am NOT one of those people! Both are to blame but MOSTLY and ESPECIALLY the one who is MARRIED! V72 what's the point of being a friend if I can't be honest? what she's doing is WRONG she's acting like a whore! Tatoo: I applaud your friend...A lot of people would have stayed in that "marriage" because for them that's the "thick to thin" part! I told her how awful what she's doing...She just has excuses...I think when she comes in town, I'm jsut going to ignore her calls... Raman: when SHE volunteered the information it became my business! I don't a friend who has to respect for herslef! C: thank you very much...it's just I feel torn you know? Open Question: Ladies what would you do if you were dating this guy and everything was going great until you see something...?in bed with him the first time, an uncircumcised penis? would you have a problem with it. well i kind of got freaked out and got turnd off right away. i was surprized. i guess i should try for it again. I never said i was in love with him btw. we just went out on a few dates. Open Question: Question for single girls-why do treat guys like this-and why would anyone want to get marrie?First please if you answer state your age. Here is my question-I have had a variety of problems with the way single girls treat me over my life. As a clean-cut, athletic man I have no issues finding women. I am married now to a wonderful woman...but the reality is she doesn't enjoy everything I enjoy doing (such as mountain biking) and since we are together so much we don't often have a lot of new things to say to each other. I plan on being with her forever, not because I dont feel like I have other choices, but because she is wonderful to me, appreciates me, and puts up with me which is rare. So here is my problem, as a single guy with a gf, I have lost many girl "FRIENDS" when they started dating guys. So I would hang out, go running with them, whatever, but as soon as they started dating WHAMMO no more time for me anymore. This I dont understand. I clearly already had a girlfriend. Not planning on leaving her or cheating on her. These girls know this. But as soon as they get a man then no time for me, they just disappear. Second scenario, once a guy gets married, ALL his single girl "friends" also disappear. You know, it really makes me wonder why women wonder why guys don't want to get married because when they do- they lose all their social network immediately. Think about it, when a guy has a GF he can still have girl FRIENDS, but as soon as he is married then its a big no-no per society. Why is this? And ladies, most of you want to get married, but if you treat your married guy friends like they have the plague, makes you wonder why any guy would want to lose that happiness to get married? Third sceanrio-some girls want to sleep with married guys. Come one now, this isn't right. You want to break up a happy home? If you do land a guy like this--what makes you think he won't cheat on you. There are a very "limited" amount of single women still in my life that are friends that my wife "allows" me to occasionally do things with. I would not do anything inappropriate because I do NOT want to get divorced. I have a happy life, but socially I would like to occasionally hang out with other people than my wife if she is working and cant go. Its not like I would go out on Friday night and leave her home. What would be ideal also is if I had guy friends, but since I moved away from my home 5 years ago I lost that network. I suppose this is more of a rant than a question, but society's expectations and treatment of married men is pretty harsh. More Recent Articles |
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