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Open Question: Is my boyfriend taking advantage of me, taking me for granted or does he just not care about our relationship? and more... Open Question: Is my boyfriend taking advantage of me, taking me for granted or does he just not care about our relationship?I've been with my boyfriend for a little bit over a year. When we first started dating, he was very charming, he opened doors for me, brought me food at work, would always tell me I was the most beautiful girl in the word, would help me put on my jacket if it was cold outside, take me out to dinner or the movies, tickle me, or do anything to make me laugh.I was very attractive to him because he dressed nice and kept his beard and go-T shaved and said that he loved spoiling his girlfriends (when he was in relationships with them) and that he works on cars too......During that time it seemed like it was the perfect relationship... We moved in together 2 months after dating because we were the type that we couldn't go a day without seeing each other. 10 months down the road, is when things really started to change. He stopped taking me out, and when we did go out, I was the one that was paying 90% of the time. We both have full time jobs so we both work very hard and we split all our bills in half so its equal. (i.e.rent, electricity, etc). He also stopped complimenting me, when we did go out, i would really dress myself up to make myself look pretty and for him to see that. That stopped. He barely opens doors for me anymore. Those are just some of my problems with him, but my biggest problem that we have been fighting lately over is the fact that when he gets off of work, he just comes home and sits on the couch and plays video games or watches tv/movies which leaves me to do majority of the house work, vacuuming, washing dishes, laundry, scrubbing and mopping floors, cleaning mirrors, cleaning the toilet/tub/sink, cleaning up the cat litter on the floor that is all spread out, dusting, anything that you can think of.. the list goes on. He sometimes does laundry, dishes and takes out the trash but he thinks thats all there is to cleaning. We have fought numerous times on helping around the house and for a couple days its okay, but then a week later, i'm back to where I was. I dont expect things to be spotless, but I mean c'mon if you see something on the floor that shouldn't be there, shouldnt you at least pick it up? After we fight he continues to tell me he'll help out more but he is not proving himself...And about the compliments when I ask him why he doesn't tell me I'm pretty or beautiful anymore he just says "you already know you are, so I shouldn't have to tell you." The very last fight we got into about all the things I listed above, was a nasty fight of swearing at each other. I was so broken hearted that it feels like he is not trying to improve on anything. And he said "ask me when you want me to do something." But I shouldn't have to ask, he should just do it on his own, right? The 2nd biggest problem that I have is that I feel like he doesn't appreciate the things I do. I cook him dinner (not all the time) but when I try new recipes and cook it for him he never says thank you. Or when I take him out to dinner or a movie or wherever we go, he never says thank you. And weve gotten into arguements about that and he says he'll try to say thank you more or show me that he appreciates the things I do for him but so far nothing...I also told him in our last 2 fights that if he doesn't stop being lazy and if he doesnt start taking care of his responsibilities, then he'll be signing a new lease next year after our apt lease is up... I feel like he is taking me for granted, taking advantage of me and just flat out does not care about our relationship. Am I right or am I doing something wrong because I am getting no where in this relationship. I am at my breaking point and have exhausted all options. Communication does not seem to click in his head.. I am frustrated, feeling lonely and tired of having to do majority of the things myself. Am I just better off by myself? Open Question: Terrified from the guy in last relationship...hard to get over and move on..what to do?Hi everyone, I have quite a complicated situation....In relationships..i am usually very Independent,i break up, i move on..and it has never been a problem for me..Until i dated this last guy...and it was a horrible experience..Lots of fights..argument..he made stupid accusations and what not...he even stalked me...and wouldn't leave me alone.(we were together for only a month and half!) I told him word by word to leave me alone and he finally did..after a week of phone calls and messages. Now when i meet new guys...i am really scared of getting to know them. I just recently met a cool guy and he said few things that were exactly what my ex said..but things that any guy would say. I started comparing...and then for the whole night and day all i thought of what my terrible relationship and how annoying things were. And now i don't feel like getting to know him or take the effort to get to know anyone cuz i am scared they will be as psycho as him. It is soo strange!...I really hope time heals it..but its been more than two months already...any advice? Am i being too weird? Open Question: girl problems please help!?Ok, I'm 18 out of high school. This girl I used to go to school with wont leave me alone. she is 16 and has a huge crush on me. She shows up at my house and leaves me notes. the other day she showed up in my house naked. I want her to leave me alone, but she keeps telling people we are dating. Her dad heard and called the cops on me. I have done nothing wrong. what can i do. Open Question: i really like this guy! help?ok i know this question is asked A LOT but i still need help=] so here's the lowdown: i've had a crush on this guy on and off all during high school and i'm a senior this year. he seriously is so attractive, especially when he plays basketball, man i could watch him play all day!! haha he also has a good personality is nice, kind, smart funny, and he's seriously awesome! but i'm in the friend zone with him right now and just playin it safe but i do try to flirt with him and smile and say hi in the halls and when i have precal and weights with him. i sometimes catch him looking at me, but i could be mistaking that for a meaningless look haha but the ONLY problem that i think there is, is that he's been in a couple past relationships where he liked someone, and they liked him back and they were kinda together, but he never officially committed, i think it was so he could get out of it easier if he wanted to. but he also seems not ready in the aspect of serious dating, and i've never seen him hug a girl or anything besides his only official girlfriend at school, and that's a bit of a problem cause i like the physical part of a relationship just like most everyone else does. but that still doesn't matter, cause i STILL like him tons and tons and i never stop thinking about him. pathetic, i know =] sorry this is so long, but i just need some advice to let him know that i like him without coming on too strong =] Open Question: Cannot format hard drive?I've been having trouble with my computer lately. I have two internal hard drives, both of which are 150GB. Suddenly, the second hard drive (D:) disappeared from 'my computer'. I looked in Computer manager, and found the drive without a letter or name. I tried right-clicking and formatting the drive, but it gives me an error of "An unexpected error has occurred. Check the system event log for more information on the error. Close the disk management console, then restart disk management or restart the computer." I did both steps and it still gives me the same error. I've also tried "Change drive letter and paths", but it give me an error of " The operation failed to complete because the Disk Management console is not up-to-date. Refresh the view sing the refresh task. If the problem persists close the disk management console, then restart disk management or restart the computer." I did both of these steps and still receive the same error. Any way to fix this problem? I had all my games saved on that drive, as well as the save data. If I lose that data from formatting the drive then that's fine. If there is a way to recover the data and get my hard drive back up and running do tell, otherwise I'm more worried about the hard drive. Open Question: Asking housemate to leave who is not on lease and has yet to pay rent.?I am currently having problems with one of my current housemates. I live with two guys. While my other housemate and I work away on a mine site every second week, our other housemate works in the city and spends all his time living in the house. Less than a week into moving into our new place I received a phone call from our property manager issuing us with a breach of lease form as the city based housemate had been playing music loudly constantly all week and had kept the neighbors up all night playing loud music, drinking with friends, etc. After I got home from work I spoke to him about the incident. He promised it would not happen again. His behaviour has not changed, however. He continues to play loud music and have friends over making noise. While I am in the city I had to constantly tell him to keep it down. There have also being other issues (his friend's sleeping in our beds while we're not there, hygiene issues, smoking in the house, drug taking in the house) and so we are asking him to leave. We have only begun living together and I am not looking forward to seeing how much worse the situation can get. In asking him to leave the house would like to know what laws we need to adhere to. He is not on the lease, and to date (3 weeks into living there) he has not paid rent. He has paid me a bond, however, it was not the full amount requested. How much notice do we need to give him legally? We both have to spend substantial time away from the house and I am very worried about asking him to leave and then not being there to supervise his last few weeks. More Recent Articles |
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