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Open Question: Is there anything I can do? I'm very confused..? and more...

Open Question: Is there anything I can do? I'm very confused..?

Ok, so I have liked this girl since 4th grade, but never really knew her. I moved out of the country for a year because of my parent's job, and I came back about 5 months ago. I'm a sophomore in high school now, and I started talking to her a lot about 3 months ago, and we became good friends. Then I asked her out on a date to a restaurant 3 weeks ago, and then a week later we started going out. The first time we hugged (like 3-4 months ago), it felt different, very hard to explain, but I guess I can say that it felt really good, and I didn't want to let go. Then the first time we held hands (3 weeks ago) I got the same feeling. Now, the first time we kissed (1-2 weeks ago) I got the same feeling, again. The problem is, everytime we hug now, it's not as special as the first time we hugged. Same with holding hands. I still really like it, but it's just not AS special as the first time. Now I'm scared that the kissing will start to lose it's "special" feeling. I don't want this to happen, because then the next step from kissing would be.. well, oral/physical sex, and I know that I'm not ready for something like that. I want to wait until we're older before we do that, and I don't want our relationship to just be about that. So, what can I do to make sure that the kissing/hugging/hand holding is enough for now? Take her out to dinner/movies more often? I need some help here, I love her and don't want to damage our relationship. Oh, and don't say that we're too young or anything, because I don't think you can tell if someone is too young based on age, but on maturity and personality. Sorry if this question is confusing, but my thoughts are really jumbled and dis-organized right now, I'm just trying to make sense of it. Has anyone else ever been through the same thing as me? Please help, thank you.

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Open Question: Is 19 or 20 too young to get married?

me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 3 years and i was just wondering how young is too young to get married. we would both be going to the same college and i was just wondering what kind of problems would occur or what things would be different with us being married. like financially and what not. help?

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Open Question: I like my ex BUT he has a girlfriend?

I've been in relationships off and on these past two years but all in all the best one i have had is with this guy i dated two years ago. So you dont get confused we'll just call him 'Jared'. We loved eachother and then we broke up, and then hated eachother for a year and now were friends again. I just got out of a relationship and was looking for something to cheer me up so i looked at some notes 'Jared' gave to me and then i started to like him again. I just have two problems. 1. He has a girlfriend and they have been dating for about 2 months 2. I dont know how to make a move on my EX!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME! I feel almost the same way i did two years ago before we started dating. I wouldnt mind a second chance with him PLESE HELP :)

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Open Question: How should i talk to him about this?

K so there is this guy that I like a lot and I don't even know why I like him so much. I mean we don't talk much, we did in the summer but after we only say hi in the hall sometimes. But he knows I like him and a few weeks after I told him he got a gf who he is still dating. My problem is that when I saw him with his gf, my heart broke and I decided that I was going to try to ignore him and cut him out of my life because I thought it would be the only way to get over him. But of course it didn't work; I found myself more in love with him. and now I think he kind of hates me because when he got the clue that I didn't talk to him anymore, he completely ignored me and his status on facebook said.....'ur really fuked up and u need help.....' . I don't now if he was talking about me but I think it's about me. Should I talk to him? Because I really wanna be friends if i cannot be his gf I at least wanna be his good friend &&it may sound like hes a jerk but he really isn't

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Open Question: How to ask her out on a date? NEED HELP!!!!!?

ok so there is a girl i met about a week ago at a party. we have each others cell numbers and we have been texting all week, talking and flirting. i dont know for sure if she likes me more than a friend, i have been told she likes me and at the party, from what i can remember and what she told me, we were holding hands and leaning on each other. but over this passed week she has been giving me mixed signals like when we text each other we flirt like the whole time and i think that is a good sign but, she wont text me first, its either i text her first and then we talk and flirt together or we dont talk that day. she will never text me first, idk if its because she is scared about texting first or if she just wants me to text her first idk but what ever it is i have to text first or we dont talk for that day. ANYWAY i cant drive till about 8 more days and i want to ask her out on the day i am able to drive but the problem is.....idk how to go about doing so, because i dont know for sure if she likes me it makes it harder for me to just ask her on a date. PLS HELP!!!! she is the coolest girl i know and i dont want to blow my shot with her any help will work pls!!!.

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Open Question: should i be worried about my gf hanging with her "friends"?

okay i really love my GF and she has ALOT of friends, but that not the problem the problem is that 90% of them are her ex's.... and the other 10% wants to date her. we have been daten for a 2 week and she spends alot of time with her friends (which are her EX's) and she only spends like two days out of the week, even when i try to set something up to hang out with her she will always have planns with someone else.... i dont know if i should be worried or not. she sais she loves me and i know i love her too, but when i with her i never wanna leave, is it normal to feel like this, cause all my other ex's i didnt have to worry cause they always wanted to spend time with me everyday. or am i just smuthering her? do i need to relax? thnx guys, ima just give her alittle bit, and make my decision, ima just go ahead and get ready for the breakup though, just in case

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Open Question: Lies My Teacher Told Me questions?

- [Ch 5] How has slavery impacted foreign policy and territorial expansion in the United States? -Why is it, according to Loewen, important to fovus on white racism between 1890 & 1920 in the treatment of African Americans? (p.161) -[ch 6] what is the significance of John Brown's statement that "this question is still to be settled" (p 172) in understanding how history textbooks are written to present a particular point of view? -Critique "Loewen's" analysis of the Gettysburg Address (p 182-183) Do you agree or disagree with this analysis? Why? -According to Loewen, why is it important to understand the roles of "carpet baggers" and "scalawags" in understanding the Reconstrction Era? (p 196-199) -[ch 7] Why do you think AMerican History textbooks routinely leave out issues of social and economic inequality? Your response should include an understanding of "social class" described on pg 202. -ch8] Do text books paint a realistic picture of the American federal government? Why or why not? Be sure to include specific examples. - Why do American History textbooks gloss over the recent past? What, according to you, is the last date for history? -What do the last chapters of American History textbooks convey according to Loewen? -What are Loewen's solutions to the problems in American History textbooks?

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Open Question: Girls, what do you make of this?

Ok so here is the situation, I am 20 years old and the girl I like is 20 years, we both go to the same college and all that. Last april I got out of a really bad relationship that I had been in for over a year. My ex gf cheated on me and lied to me but I was really good to her because I wanted to believe that she was a good person. Turns out she wasnt over her ex who was her high school sweetheart and even though they didnt end up getting back together she was still in love with him, pretty much the whole time we dated. Anyway, I dont care about her anymore the problem is that I met this new girl about a month after everything ended with my ex and obviously i wasnt over her yet. I thought I had been in love with her even though she treated me like shit and walked all over me. So when I met this new girl I wasnt ready for any commitment or any relationship and I tired to force myself because I liked her but I just got scared and pull away. So we stoppped dating during the summer and we hadnt really talked until a month ago. She was upset with me for becoming so distant and I explained to her why I had been like that, which she said she really appreciated me doing. At this time I realized how much I liked her and how she was the only girl I had felt anything for in a really long time. So we started talking, just texting really, but it was frequent and flirty and going really well. This went on for about a month and then I finally asked her out. She said yes and I called her to set it up and it all went great. Then, the night before our date, I went out drinking with some friends and got drunk. I sent her some pretty flattering messages which she thought were cute at first but as I got more drunk they got a little dirty and I crossed a line for her. Even though she knows me and knows I would never do anything inappropriate or disrespectful to her she said I made her feel a little uncomfortable, so she canceled the date thinking it would be kind of awkward. I understand all of that and I get that it was my fault. So I apologized to her and owned up to my screw up, saying that it was immature and rude of me to have said dirty things like that, even if they really weren't that offensive. She said she knew I was joking but that it was unattrative that I had acted that way. I apologized again and told her I was simply drunk and not thinking and I meant nothing by what I had said. I told her I didnt want to screw up with her again and that I would do anything to make it right to show how serious I was. So the next day I sent her an edible arrangement to show how sincere I was being and that I wasnt just some guy trying to get in her pants or something. She only said thanks, so I told her again how very sorry I was and how I thought she took what I said very seriously when I was just drunk and not meaning anything by it and that I hoped she could forgive me. That was the last thing I said to her. I havent heard from her since and it has been over a week. I can accept it if she doesnt want anything to do with me, thats her choice and I respect that. But, what I don't get is why? What did I do wrong? Will she ever forgive me? I deleted her number after texting her a couple of times with no response, I dont want to be bother her or be a creep, but im bummed out about it.

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Open Question: Why does a Taurus male say he misses you then does not want to see you?

I have asked question on here about his Taurus male quite a few times now, but once again, I am completely confused by his actions. We live about 3 hours apart, and have spent 2 great times together that were fun, sensual, relaxing, stimulating and both said we like each other. I am Taurus as well, he is 45 I am 50. Our schedules are opposite, he works 12 hour shifts, overnight, every other weekend. I work days, M-F, so it is a bit challenging to get together. He communicates much better in person, and in between times we have texted and occasionally emailed. Less than a month ago, we had arranged to meet, me going to him, but at the last minute was called in to work and couldn't say no. He called me and we had the best talk we've ever had....he opened up to me saying that he really wants to see where things progress with us, that i make him feel good, that he has told his co-worker about me. This was all a surprise to me, I have been very patient with the situation, given him lots of space, also lots of verbal praise for the things i admire and like about him, but I had no idea he saw us as progressing! He seemed shy saying these things, and I know it was BIG for him to say them. So we made a date for the next weekend only at the last minute I called to tell him I couldn't make cause i had a sore throat, didn't feel good, and didn't want to give it to him, but said i was very disappointed. He at first made a joking comment about it being an excuse, but then seemed to believe me and said I made the right call, told me to take care of myself. We again talked about getting together the next weekend, and left it that he would let me know what his days off were after Thanksgiving. He didn't do that, and I left several messages for him and texted. Finally that Sat. I get an email saying his phone service was screwed up and he was sorry we hadn't gotten together yet....but that was all. He has no family and may have been very down with the holiday, but would be too proud to tell me that. He finally texted me last week again, after i had tried contacting him a few times, and told me got his new phone...we texted kind of flirty but nice messages up until he had to go to work, and I also said i would like to go see him this weekend. He said he would have to find out about his work schedule....I said, let me know. Out of the blue he sent a simple text from work a few hours later saying he misses me - it was very nice! The problem is, it is now Sunday and he never got back to me about getting together. I texted Sat. morning to find out, but no answer. I am very very hurt and upset, and do not understand the hot and cold. Of course all the worst things are running through my mind, that he's got a date, etc. He told me he's not a serial dater, and wants to see where things go with us. My question is: Was he so hurt by me not going there due to a sore throat that he could be punishing me?? three weeks later?? He was hurt by something I did on our last date, and it took him a week to get over it, and let me know. I have read a lot on here about Taurus men....but he usually does show me respect and lets me know what is happening....why this sudden silence and not getting back to me? Again. maybe it's cause it's the holidays, but the silence feels very bad....What should I do??? GIve him space, tell him how this made me feel??? ANY words of wisdom from Tauruses or lovers of them would be greatly appreciated!!! I made a few typos...FYI he was the one who was called in to work when we were going to meet a month ago...

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Open Question: Im 15 and in love r we going to fast?

I love my boyfriend he is very respectful to me and caring. We meet while at school he just got out of a realationship with a girl (and they were timid around eachother not the right match) we even texted when he was dating her. and When we 1st started dating like less then a month later We started feeling something we've never felt about anyone else. We both havent dated much and he was my 1st kiss (I could have it earlier but i wanted to love the person 1st Find the right one u know)? We both Fell in Love and its Great! I love him so much i mean Everything he does and his smile and voice im head over heals in love i guess you could say. He always says he loves me and calls me beautiful and I dont know how i got so lucky and makes me laugh! (is this love) So we do makeout and we have so much chemistry together and sometimes we get a little carried away ! which theres nothing wrong with that but our hormones do go crazy but we are still in control...but sometimes not so much (he would always make sure earlier in our relationship that i was ohkay with new things cuz it was new for him too. so that was sweet ) im having lots of feelings that i want him to be my 1st i know my body is ready but my feelings are more important i guess im just scared of the end result. But i know we can wait Because we love eachother and he said thats not a problem to wait! I love his family they are great people and so are mine all very loving so We do think of our family and ending results but what can i say we are 2 Teenagers in Love! so if we Did.......? would it be too fast..... and we have only been dating for 2 months but we have been through alot together (my big brother passing away he was there for me the whole time ) I have so much love for him & it seems at least 6 months you know. but we can wait Thank you guys so much so far. Great answers they are all very meaningful and Caring i really do love him

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Open Question: Ex girlfriend problems!! please help!!!?

So i dated this girl for 6 months off and on. We were really close and the few days that we would be off, we were best friends. I asked her to homecoming and after the dance she decided that she hates me and that she doesnt want to talk to me. We hung out on halloween and she went out of her way to be a bitch. When she found out i had moved on from her and was dating another girl, she flipped and tried really hard to find a boyfriend. She ended up dating the kid who sits by the locker bays at lunch by himself and he will only talk to her on facebook. Before we broke up, we would always hang out with my best friend and his girlfriend who is one of her good friends. She wouldnt let them hang out with me. My best friend still did tho. He told me that even to this day she asks how me and my girlfriend are doing and does she think we will break up. He says she talks about me non stop. And randomly i will get texts from her saying hey! =) and when i try and talk to her it goes well for 5 minutes and then she gets super bitchy... Does this girl still like me? i was in love with her and she broke my heart and i dont want her back, but i dont know what to do. I feel like she realizes that breaking up with me was really really stupid and that she cant get over that fact that i have moved on from her.

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Open Question: Do you think 14 is old enough to date?

I'm 14 and my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to go to a pic nic his family's having this Saturday. He's 17 and we've been together for 2 weeks. It's nothing serious so far and I don't expect it to be. My mom says I can't go because I'm not ready to have a boyfriend. My dad is fairly okay with it. My mom says a relationship follows a sequence of events which includes sex and, if I start at a young age, I'll get there at a younger age. I think that just because he's my boyfriend doesn't mean we'll have sex. I'm not that good at making friends and it's hard for me to feel loved. I finally feel like I belong and fit with him but my mom won't let me. I have this problem everytime I want to date someone. I'm tired of it! What do you think? People my age don't interest me.

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Open Question: Why did my FPS drop so much?

Hello, I've had my computer for nearly a year now. I used to play world of Warcraft on all my graphics maxed out,I would have 45-60fps average fps. Now for the past two months or so it has drastically dropped down to 15-20 fps, in environments with many players it can go way down to 5-10fps. I did a disk cleanup, ran all my anti virus programs (came up with nothing), and I also updated all my drivers etc. It didn't really do much. I also keep my computer ventilated and every now and then spray the dust out of it so it's very clean inside. Here is some additional information on my computer. Also have a 64bit operating system and an ATI Radeon 3650 HD graphics card. ------------------ System Information ------------------ Time of this report: 12/13/2009, 16:57:39 Machine name: LOSTWAGES Operating System: Windows Vista™ Home Premium (6.0, Build 6002) Service Pack 2 (6002.vistasp2_gdr.090803-2339) Language: English (Regional Setting: English) System Manufacturer: HP-Pavilion System Model: FK790AA-ABA m9400f BIOS: Phoenix - AwardBIOS v6.00PG Processor: AMD Phenom(tm) 9750 Quad-Core Processor (4 CPUs), ~2.4GHz Memory: 8190MB RAM Page File: 4721MB used, 11873MB available Windows Dir: C:\Windows DirectX Version: DirectX 11 DX Setup Parameters: Not found DxDiag Version: 7.00.6002.18107 32bit Unicode ------------ DxDiag Notes ------------ Display Tab 1: No problems found. Sound Tab 1: No problems found. Sound Tab 2: No problems found. Sound Tab 3: No problems found. Input Tab: No problems found. -------------------- DirectX Debug Levels -------------------- Direct3D: 0/4 (retail) DirectDraw: 0/4 (retail) DirectInput: 0/5 (retail) DirectMusic: 0/5 (retail) DirectPlay: 0/9 (retail) DirectSound: 0/5 (retail) DirectShow: 0/6 (retail) --------------- Display Devices --------------- Card name: ATI Radeon HD 3650 Manufacturer: ATI Technologies Inc. Chip type: ATI Radeon Graphics Processor (0x9598) DAC type: Internal DAC(400MHz) Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_1002&DEV_9598&SUBSYS_90101043&REV_00 Display Memory: 3316 MB Dedicated Memory: 505 MB Shared Memory: 2811 MB Current Mode: 1680 x 1050 (32 bit) (59Hz) Monitor: HP w2207 Wide LCD Monitor Driver Name: atidxx32,atidxx64.dll,atiumdag,atiumdva,atiumd64.dll,atiumd6a.cap,atitmm64.dll Driver Version: 7.15.0010.0176 (English) DDI Version: 10.1 BGRA Supported: No Driver Attributes: Final Retail Driver Date/Size: 4/28/2009 22:13:16, 2391552 bytes WHQL Logo'd: Yes WHQL Date Stamp: Device Identifier: {D7B71EE2-D6D8-11CF-7071-1AB0A1C2CA35} Vendor ID: 0x1002 Device ID: 0x9598 SubSys ID: 0x90101043 Revision ID: 0x0000 Revision ID: 0x0000 Video Accel: ModeMPEG2_A ModeMPEG2_C Deinterlace Caps: {6E8329FF-B642-418B-BCF0-BCB6591E255F}: Format(In/Out)=(YUY2,YUY2) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,1) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_PixelAdaptive {335AA36E-7884-43A4-9C91-7F87FAF3E37E}: Format(In/Out)=(YUY2,YUY2) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_BOBVerticalStretch {5A54A0C9-C7EC-4BD9-8EDE-F3C75DC4393B}: Format(In/Out)=(YUY2,YUY2) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY {6E8329FF-B642-418B-BCF0-BCB6591E255F}: Format(In/Out)=(UYVY,UYVY) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,1) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_PixelAdaptive {335AA36E-7884-43A4-9C91-7F87FAF3E37E}: Format(In/Out)=(UYVY,UYVY) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_BOBVerticalStretch {5A54A0C9-C7EC-4BD9-8EDE-F3C75DC4393B}: Format(In/Out)=(UYVY,UYVY) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,0) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY {3C5323C1-6FB7-44F5-9081-056BF2EE449D}: Format(In/Out)=(NV12,0x3231564e) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,2) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_PixelAdaptive {552C0DAD-CCBC-420B-83C8-74943CF9F1A6}: Format(In/Out)=(NV12,0x3231564e) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,2) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_PixelAdaptive {6E8329FF-B642-418B-BCF0-BCB6591E255F}: Format(In/Out)=(NV12,0x3231564e) Frames(Prev/Fwd/Back)=(0,0,1) Caps=VideoProcess_YUV2RGB VideoProcess_StretchX VideoProcess_StretchY DeinterlaceTech_PixelAdaptive {335AA36E-7884-43A4-9C91-7F87FAF3E37E}: Format(In/Out)=(NV12,0x32

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