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Open Question: I've become THAT guy? and more... Open Question: I've become THAT guy?Alright, I have a bit of an issue. Amongst my close circle of friends, I've now become THAT guy. You all know what I'm talking about, and everyone's circle of friends has THAT guy. What I mean to say is that, I've become the pseudo relationship guru. If anyone is having trouble, they ask for my advice, which I have absolutely no problem giving. However, the problem is that, while my advice works for them, it never works for me. It's very paradoxical in that I'm a 20 year old guy, and I've never had a serious relationship, and hell, I've just barely gotten to second base with my limited dating experience. Yet everything that I tell them to do works perfectly! Just not for me.. And please, don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm just helping my friends with "get laid fast" schemes, it's with issues with their girlfriends, or helping them find their girlfriends. I'm responsible for 4/5 friends being with the people their with now... I feel like I'm stuck in the movie Hitch, except I'm not Will Smith, I'm not ending up with a super attractive journalist, nor am I apparently as great with girls as he is. I don't think it's because I'm an unattractive person, though I could be wrong. What do you think: http://s843.photobucket.com/albums/zz352/UberDweeb123/?action=view¤t=008.jpg (Also, don't mind the rest of the surrounding house. I'm staying at my Grammas place while she's in Arizona for the winter... Not the most masculine surrounding) It's not the best picture of me, and I'm a little sleep deprived right now because I'm in the process of studying for finals. My real question is what is it that I am doing wrong personally, but helps my friends so much? Open Question: Psychiatric problems + loneliness is KILLING ME... what do I do?I've been suffering from psychological problems for about 7 years now. From what I can gather from psychologists/psychiatrists, I'm dealing with some horrible mix of clinical depression, anxiety disorder, OCD, ADD, and mild psychosis. I actually spent three days in a psych ward last semester. Forget the cliche "I'm going insane..." I already am insane. That's a given. Women seem to avoid me like the plague. I'm decent looking, I'm a nice guy (not an arrogant asshole), I'm creative, humerous, and adventurous, and I'm in good shape. I work out, I do parkour (climb buildings), and practice Ninjitsu (i.e. I'm a ninja)... my friends actually tell me that I'm a "badass." The only girl I've ever kissed was so drunk she would've made out with anybody. It was a rather nice makeout session, but I'd much rather have a real girlfriend. I think that having a "taste" of what could be has actually made things worse. The funny thing is, now that I friended her on Facebook I'm repulsed by her (for example, she joined a group called "I Go To USC... And I Am Better Than You")... but of course I asked her out anyway, and was rejected in that long, drawn-out way that sadistic girls like to do when they want you to think you might have a chance, and don't have the stones to just reject you flat-out. My best guess is that, despite my best efforts to act cool and "confident," my inner "beaten dog" mentality shines through no matter what girl I talk to. Since girls seem to see "confidence" as a legitimate basis for attraction, that must be why I've been rejected the past dozen times I've asked a girl out on a date. Or maybe they can just sense the fact that I'm bats*** crazy, and steer clear of me in favor of more "normal" people (blech). Either that or, there's some kind of conspiracy or curse on me that prevents any woman from ever showing me affection. I'm actually starting to believe I might be in Hell. Perhaps I did something terrible in a previous life, and this world has been set in place to punish me. Now don't think I'm some pansy whining "no one will date me, this is the end of the world :(". No. I have to deal with shit that, unless you have ever had serious psychological problems, you could never imagine. It would be NICE to have a significant other giving me moral support while I fight this battle, but I've come to realize there's no way that's ever happening. So I ask you, what is the cure for this loneliness? At one point I thought the solution was to somehow eliminate my sex drive, but I don't really want to neuter myself, chemically or otherwise. Masturbation doesn't help, of course... just makes me feel lonelier. I get plenty of exercise. I'm contemplating hiring some kind of prostitute, though it'd probably be best to go somewhere like Las Vegas where prostitution is legal. But I know that's not going to solve the problem... I'm just hoping it would make it a little better. I'm turning 21 soon... maybe I should go to bars and hunt for "bar skanks" or something... uhhhm... yeah. Desperation brings us all to new lows, I'm sure. :\ I don't know. What am I supposed to do now?? :[ Open Question: am i stupid or jus desperate?me and my boyfriend of two years loved each other very much in the beginning , as expected. he loved me so much and i knew he really did love me and l loved him two, but in august this year we started having a lot of fights because we couldnt agree on a lot of things and we couldnt have a conversation with each other with out it ending in to a big fight. ever since ive known him, he is not the kind of guy who likes to talk about a problem he would rather forget about it and move on. On the other hand i like to talk about things and move on from there, in the mist of everything he met some one else in this chat room called "mixit" .everytime we had a fight he would then go to her for comfort.so then in september this year the fighting got to much for him and he told me that he has met someone else, when he told me that i was terrible heart broken , i felt pain like i never felt before, they then dated for a period of time and in that process i begged him to come back to me, i had loved him for a long time .even if he told me that he was now involved with someone else i still wanted him back, so i never stopped calling him and asking him if we could get back together again, i know it sounds crazy what i did but i wanted to feel loved by someone.about two months later things didnt work out between him and the girlfriend so he wanted us together . I accepted that and we got back together. but before we got together i had met someone else, when he came to my life he made me feel special again and he would call me everyday and he actually made me believe that they is life after a break up.i then started falling in love with this new guy , because he was always there for me and i thought he was really cute. he also told me that he was having problems in his relationship. but the problem is its been two months already and he has not mansioned any special interest in me, im confused because i dont know if he and his girlfriend fixed things or not , and he does not want to talk about it if i ask.during weekends he usually switches off his phone and i can only get hold of him at work or on his cell during the week and that is also when he calls me the most.i have told him how i feel about him but he never really said much about it, me and him like the same things most of the time , we like the same music , like the same talk shows . but may be he is not that in to me. and my boyfriend of two years is still around , he has changed a lot. our relationship is not the same we is still acting shady because according to him , he is still my hero. he was, still could be but some times when i think of how he left me alone for someone he not even meet and braffed about her to my face i stil get a heart break. he never even apologised. please help me Open Question: help with my avg please.?i have 2 desktops one upstairs and one down....ive always used avg free on both but last year i used norton on the one downstairs...when it expired a couple of weeks ago i deleted it and went back to using the avg free...no problem.when i went upstairs yesterday that one said the avg was out of date, so i deleted it and updated to the new avg 9.0 but it came up with...this computer wont be fully protected because it still has norton on it, which it never had in the first place. i continued the download anyway and ran a scan on it ,it came up clean. an hour later im getting pop ups constantly what have i done wrong. i went into the control panel to check to see if norton was on there and its not! and its not on the one downstairs either, please someone help me. Open Question: sooo, I really like this guy, but heres the problem.....?okay well last year, I really liked this guy that was in my classes, and we always talked and flirted etc. and I thought he kinda liked me too, but he never really said anything to me so I wasn't for sure. and so this school year, I didn't really like him, but I liked his friend, so then we dated for just over a month, but then we broke up. and then me and the guy I liked last year, we started texting alot again. and talking more in class and stuff, and hungout at lunch, so I started liking him again. and he always touches my hair and is very touchy towards me. and so the other day we were texting, and he asked who I liked, I never really said anyone, and so I asked him. and he said he liked me.and he always says he loves me and stuff. but heres the thing. during the summer, he dated this girl I became way better friends with this year. and she is still in love with him. so I don't really know what to do here, would it be bad if we just hung out and made out or what.... any adviceeeee? 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