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Open Question: Ladies: do you find it attractive...? and more... Open Question: Ladies: do you find it attractive...?when guys are 'whipped'? cause i have this problem that, even if i'm not dating a girl, i will end up doing anything for her. is this a weakness or a strength? Open Question: Please help me, I have only 3 questions?1/ Sometime, it takes a life time to find your perfect magnificent one, but then she thinks that you are "imperfect" to her! What should I do? 2/ Whom would you rather marry to? One who really loves you or one you really love? 3/ I am 49 yrs old, never believed in love at first sign, but then life proves me wrong, I fell in love with this girl, I am sure she likes me too, because I am tall, good looking, respectful and have a good personality, not only that, I told her that I really like her and respect her and she is my priority...But, she told me that because I have an 18 yrs old son from my pass marriage and that is a big problem to her! What should I do? should I beg her to give me a 30 days trial to prove to her that she is the only one in my life, and although I love my son so very much, but I am not going to let that interfere with our life? Please help...!!! people say: "if you love someone, set them free.." hic hic hic.. I know this one is not going to come back.. I can't give up, I don't want to give up....HELP!! Note: until now, I only met her once over a date, 2 hrs dinner! Anh this was 3 days ago! Open Question: Is this guy playing me or being genuine? Is he like every other guy? (guys, feedback plz!)?There's this kid, Dylan, who I've been hooking up with on and off since June. However, I haven't ****ed him and he knows I'm inexperienced so he always says he would never pressure me to do anything. For an example, if I just want to be friends, he's fine with that..if I want to hook up, he's fine with that. He remembers things I've said and would say things like (after I told him about this guy who tried to take advantage of me), "I called that. I feel like I'm the only guy who can hang with you and not get in your pants." Because I'm emotional, I always start small fights and tell my best friend. Once my best friend called and yelled at him and he remembers the whole situation even though it happened a month ago. He questioned me why my best friend did that and wouldn't stop interrogating me. He said that if I ever have a problem, I can come to him and talk to him about it..which I have before and he's been honest with me since the beginning. He said he thought what I did was kinda shady and there was another time where he kinda thought I was lying to him and didn't wanna hook up with him, and he said to me, "I've dated a girl for two years and didn't get anything so I think I'll be fine." However, he doesn't wanna relationship right now and I still wanna hook up with him and eventually give 'it' to him. Does he sound like every other guy tryin to get in my pants? Would he lose respect for me if I gave it to him? & Is he playing me or being genuine? Thanks for your help! :) Open Question: Is it normal to feel rotten at the end of 12 months of therapy?I originally went to talk through adopting a child. But my therapist didn't agree with a single person adopting a child, so we never really talked about it. I don't know how, but we got onto other stuff, and it seemed that in every situation the therapist asked, "and what did YOU do to THEM?" She said I had strange ideas about society, and encouraged me to date on line, so I did. When a guy used me, she said, "well, he wasn't abusive to you, was he?" When I said that I didn't like the corporate world any more, she said it was my problem for not fitting in, even though I have always been popular at work and just don't liek it. In my last session she told me she was doing therapy for another organisation too, and even though she didn't have experience with that kind, they were paying so she took it. Then she saw me in public and smiled really fakely - I was taken aback. I phoned her to reschedule my next appointment and have not heard back from her after a week. This is most unusual. Why am I filled with so much self doubt about everything? I feel almost weakened by self doubt which I never had. My confidence is zero. I also noticed that she is very unkempt looking. Open Question: winter formal highschool relationship problem please read very important?Hello, saturday is the winter formal at my highschool. Im 14 a guy and a freshman. i asked a sophomore who at the time liked me but now she just wants to be friends. she really used to like me but we never talked in person hardly. she would constantly text me every straight for two months all day long being more than friendly. all of the sudden tonight (friday) she says she doesnt like me anymore but still would like to go to the formal with me. and now she likes some other sophomore...:( but i believe i might have a chance still. She might be nervous and probably a number of things. During the rare occasion i talked to her in person would always be at the end of the day when im tired and look bad. Maybe since i have a very nice tuxedo and i look great in it she might change her mind? we are going out to dinner before the dance. i got her a lovely wrist corsage and am paying for the entire event. i believe she might still be attracted to me but im not sure. I agreed with her about the friend part saying " you are right, we barely know each other how could we like each other" and we are "friends" now. keep in mind that i have excellent grades (4.0) and do have time for dating. yes i know that eventually it will end. but for the time being please help me. So please are there any suggestions to how i could make her like me again? if there are any further details dont hesitate to ask. Please as many answers as possible from anyone. thank you -John Additional Details during the time we always texted it was so great. we really had something there. she would say ily...then really quickly respond jk. so there was something. how can i possibly get the "something" back? we are going to the dance as "friends" apparently Open Question: My Boyfriend Doesn't Love Me Anymore, But He Still Cares About Me?I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months. We became very close after about three months, I lost my virginity to him and he's the first guy I have actually sincerely loved. And he's different. He was the one that wanted to take everything slow physically. So everything was great. I moved four hours away, but we still continued our relationship. We have never been on the verge of breaking up and we fought, but they were always petty arguments. Eventually he got another job, so he was working 62 hours a week and he started to neglect our phone calls. When I brought it up because I was upset, he tried harder and we eventually worked it out. So it's been wonderful, until about a month ago. I noticed he didn't call as much and I didn't know if he still cared about me. He later went on a vacation to visit his brother and everything was great again. He called everyday to tell me he loved me a missed me and wanted me to come back home. That week was wonderful and I was happy again. But when he went back home he changed. He barely called. He didn't try at all and it really hurt. At this time I hadn't seen him for a month, so I went home for a couple of days and we talked. It came out that he didn't love me anymore. Basically, he didn't have those feelings then. He has always been peculiar about love. Mostly he doesn't want to have to feel compelled to tell me he loves me back, but he will call randomly just to tell me he loves me. Anyway, after he said he didn't love me anymore, I was ready to leave. But he said he still cared for me and that he thought caring and love were on the same page. He asked if I wanted to work it out and he said he wanted to work everything out. He asked me the reasons why I was unhappy and wrote them down and tried to work with me to fix the problems. Some of the reasons he mentioned about not having the same feelings for me stemmed from an unresolved argument when I was with him a month before and also not seeing him for so long. I also think I was putting unneeded stress on the relationship by taking the whole situation too seriously. I also understand that he doesn't take stress well and working two jobs while trying to maintain a relationship with me has been difficult. But he realized that he had stopped trying, but even though he didn't know why, I think it's a good sign. Lately it has been better. Our phone calls have been pretty frequent, every other day instead of every four days when he was not trying. Also they have been more fun and longer. We are just trying to get back to when the relationship was fun and carefree and not so serious that we argued all the time. But sometimes after I get off the phone with him I'm still sad, When I talk to other people they think that he still loves me. He obviously still cares about me, but he's been too stressed and deep down he still loves me? I don't know. I just miss him and I want him to love me again. I'm about to go home for a month for winter break and I hope during that time we can salvage what we had before. I just need advice and perhaps confidence that we can be happy again? Based on what you've read, what do you think? Also, sorry it's so long. TL;DR My boyfriend said he doesn't love me anymore, but he still cares about me and wants to work everything out. Advice to salvage the relationship and be happy together again? Thank you so much Adam and umair23. More Recent Articles |
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