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Open Question: Let go or try it again? and more... Open Question: Let go or try it again?this is a long story but i hope you can give me some help.... so me and my ex boyfriend were dating for three years. We meet in my home town but then i moved to az and there were times when i went to visit but most of our relationship has been long distance. We never any problems until he meet a girl at the bar. They started to hang out and he started to get feelings for her and then one day he just broke up with me. I was completly heart broken and shocked, i had no idea..... a few days went by and my friends invited me to my home town. i agree since i wanted to get out and stop thinkiong about him. The same night we got there we went to the movies, i didnt want to go at first but they finally convienced me and i decide to go. i tried to relax and enjoy the movie but i could only think about him and her since i was so close to where he lives. i keep wondering to myself why he had just let go of everything for some chick he barely met. The movie was over and as i was walking out of the movies i saw him and her holding hands waling towards the ticket stand. i was completly shocked and surpise to see them there. i didnt know what to do. so just stood there watching them as tears filled my eyes. After this i was in so much pain i didnt do anything but stay in my bed all day along. after a couple of weeks he randomly called me and ask how i been. i told him that i was really bad and that i missed him and then i told him that i saw him. he was speechless and then he told me that he was calling me to ask me to forgive him and that he missed him as well, He wanted to know if i could give him another chance. and i seriouly dont know what to do...... Open Question: I think I have a horrible best friend, but i need another opinion. Is her behavior understandable?my friend is a fun person, however she is very judgemental. She always caves into peer pressure, for instance, if something is popular she has to have it, just because everyone else does. However she has usually been a very good friend to me. She invites me places and we hang out and have a good time, and because i'm poor, she spends her money on me. She has baught me a lot of stuff over the past three years. But whenever I start to get interested in a guy, she begins to vehemently hate that guy. She forbids me to text them while she's around, and says I'm being ignorant by texting. But whenever I'm texting one of our female friends, or a guy friend that we both hate (wierd relations with guys friends lol) she's perfectly fine. She hates when I hang out with them. She hated my last boyfriend, for no reason. She didn't know him. Now I have a new boyfriend. Keep in mind, before I met him, my friend and I hung out once or twice a week on average, and i see her everyday in school. I go out of my way to visit her classes and what not and occasionally get into trouble for being late to my own classes. Since the day I met my boyfriend, we've hung out every single day. He are very close partners. I still see my friend once a week, every week, IF she wants to. She keeps asking me "So... where have you been all week?" even though we hung out that week, as usual. She wouldn't give a shit any other time. And She also called me and said she does't want "our friendship to die." and that we have to hang out soon, and more often. Of course, I put up the effort to invite myself over her house at least once a week and we hang out at the mall every friday, because we have friends that work there. And she still says we aren't hanging out enough. Actually, this is the most we've hung out for a long time. And in my last relationship I hung out with her every other day. That three-four times a week for several months! And she still implies that I ignore her. She has never dated anyone. 1st becasue no one lives up to her impossible standards (she was raised in a very judgemental enviroment) and 2nd because she's too shy to go after a man that she wants. And she gets soo jealous whenever I start to date someone. She degrades my boyfriends, saying they have pimples, pudge, funny looking hair, ect. I took my friend on vacation to Florida with me, and at that point, I was just getting close to my boyfriend. He was having problems at home to (he comes from a violent home) and I was texting him almost constantly, but I still paid 90% of my attention on my friend. And at nights, when everyone was winding down from vacation fun, my boyfriend called me and it gave me a chance to relax and talk to him. Being stressed from my friend and family telling me how ignorant and rude I was being and how I was ruinging the entire vacation for everyone, all because I was texting, I was relieved to hear my boyfriend's voice and it relaxed me a lot. My friend got so pissedoff at me for calling him on our vacation. Now i can understand that she may be jealous, but is it me, or is she going to extremes to make sure I don't spend time with him? More Recent Articles |
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