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Open Question: Men: Would you date a woman who suffered with bipolar disorder? and more...

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Open Question: Men: Would you date a woman who suffered with bipolar disorder? and more...

Open Question: Men: Would you date a woman who suffered with bipolar disorder?

I am 28 and have suffered with what I thought was depression off and on for the last 10 years. Due to some recent experiences, I am realizing I may be bipolar and need to seek help and treatment. My moods have caused problems in relationships before, but I am hoping that if I am able to get treatment maybe I can lead a more normal and stable life. My question is - would you as a guy be hesitant to date a woman knowing she had bipolar disorder, or would you not want to date her altogether? Thanks in advance for your thoughts and feedback!

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Open Question: what to do in my first date ?

hi i'm 21 male. i need some help in dating. 1- my biggest problem is: should i kiss her in the car when i driving her to her home after the dating ? or what should i do ? and how to know if she is ready for the kiss ? or ... ? 2- which is the best time to catch her hand ? in the cinema ? or in another place ... ? 3- what body language should i do to attract her ? and how to know if she is impressed by me ? 4- what should i ask her ? and what is the best place and the best time for each question ? 5- ......? i have a lot of questions but i realy need help ? everytime i go in date i made a lot of mistakes : ( i always feel that. i'm not shy men but i'm stupid. i lost more than 100 girl because of that.

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Open Question: Hey, we're a little stuck...?

I'm going on a double date with my bestie, her boyfriend, and my crush...One problem though. Now we have no idea where to go! We're all not allowed to have people over our houses and we DON'T wanna go bowling, movies, mall etc. We need to go someplace fun, unique, and romantic (my bestie thinks she's gonna get a kiss hahah) Any suggestions?

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Open Question: Too shy! I just want to be myself; espically to him.?

Ok I have a huge situation. I'm way too shy. Its starting to really become a problem. I'm 21, and people even say I make situations awkward. I've dated before, not to successfully due to the lack of conversation, I'm not wanting to sound shallow or anything but I know that people dated me in highschool just for my looks. I hated being this girl that guys would date because I just smile and "look pretty, never has anything to say. I've missed out on alot because of this. I would watch my friends date people and see the connection they have and it just made me feel like a joke. I have been seeing this guy since early spring, I even went to highschool with him aswell, I like him alot hes a great guy and things were going good at the start, we dated and after a couple months he told me he didnt want to be in a relationship, funny thing is I'm pretty sure he did in the begining. At this point I'm still seeing him, its difficult since we're not actually dating so if I go out and he's there (which he always is, we have very close mutal friends) he acts differently towards me than any other girls, my friends are always telling me that hes looking over at me or some other cheesy cute little things guys do. He also always kisses and hugs me when I leave. (He's not one of those guys that even hug a girl goodbye). This makes me think he still likes me, I just want to know how I can just be myself to him, we have soo much in common. But whenever we try to talk its just stupid stuff like hows work? good. Followed by an awkward silence and both of us looking the other way haha just like in a movie...If anyone has any advice on how I could talk to him and actually get to know him it would mean the world to me. I really don't want this to be the type of thing that happened to me in highschool. Thanks for any advice.

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Open Question: my boyfriend hates my best friend?

so i didnt really kno my boyfriend's ex girlfriend and when we got together he lied about being with her and told me he had never had a girlfriend( since he was my first i guess he thought i wouldnt date him if he had) . when we got together i found out that he had gone out with her for a while and i didnt really care so i let it go. she pretended like she really liked me although i had never met her and obviously i had no problems with her. then all of a sudden she called my boyfriend and yelled at him about me and said that I had been saying stuff about her behind her back. he asked me and i said i have no idea. why would i say stuff about someone i dont kno?!! anyway suddenly all her friends were attacking me and saying things about me which made me feel like crap since i hadnt done anything. my bf supported me and in the end we found out it was a misunderstanding and my best friend had said something about her to someone and it went around and everyone thought it was me (confusing) anyway now my boyfriend hates my best friend! and expects me to hate her aswell( real immature) it really annoys me i mean who cares?!! just coz she said something bad about his ex doesnt mean i have to hate her? and so what i think his ex has done alot of harm to my reputation and feelings so she deserves it. why does he care????

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Open Question: How come when girls are nice to guys, they always assume we are flirting?

I am nice and like to joke around with guys, but that doesn't mean I am flirting, that just means I want to be your friend. I have had guys call me a tease for TALKING to them about similar interests (nothing R-rated, so I have no idea where this "tease" idea came from). And because I say no to a date I am automatically a jerk, yet I never gave any sign that I wanted to go on a date to being with. How come when girls are nice, some men just can't handle it and assume we must be flirting??? Like it's not possible for a girl and a guy to be only friends. :p I'm confused about this-it's a recurring problem not only with me, but also with many of my friends. Care to share the secret boys? lol ;)

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Open Question: Jealous friend...or something more?

I have a little problem. I used to really like this guy and I was getting all the right signals and everything so I asked him out, but he said no. Since then I've dated another guy (a rebound) and two others have asked. Recently I found a new guy that I like, but I still don't like him as much as I liked the first guy. He asked me out and I said yes. Today, some of my friends (Guy 1 and 2 included) went out for lunch and I told them that I was dating Guy 2. When Guy 1 heard that, he looked like he had been slapped. After watching me and my boyfriend for a while, he stormed off. I really think he is out of line in acting like we had something when we obviously didn't, especially after he rejected me. However, he is a good friend and I don't want to lose him. Did I just surprise him or does he actually have feelings for me? Yes, I have to choose one; they're friends.

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Open Question: My gut is telling me run and my heart is telling me stay! I need advice before I make a mistake. Help?

Long but please read. I need mature answers! He is 30 and I am 25. We have been dating about 7 months. He says he "Cant tell me he loves me" cause of being hurt so much in the past and showing emotions has always gotten him hurt, but he says his actions should speak louder than his words - and they did til about a month ago. Now he never texts first - he used to text "good morning babe" or SOMETHING during the day if i wouldnt... now nothing. If I text, he'll text back though the first time - but after awhile or if I ask him a question, he won't respond. For instance, I said "Want to go to see the lights saturday night?" and nothing. I said "Just an idea" and still nothing. Its probably because he doesn't know... but he used to ALWAYS text back. Also, his kisses have become infrequent and rare and he almost avoids mine. I ask him what is wrong and he says "nothing babe" He doesn't seem as interested in my day to day life. I know he is having money problems right now... severe ones... so maybe this all has nothing to do with me. I don't want to scare him away with my insecurities but it sure as hell seems like something is wrong! Some people say I should back off... let him come to me. But all I can think about is "out of sight, out of mind"... if I do that, and he doesn't call or text, I'll be heartbroken with no answers. Normally I would say "how about this weekend we..." and he agrees. He hardly every initiates plans unless its something planned like a birthday party, etc. Think I should continue to do this? Also, to make him wonder... today I sent him a text asking "hows it going hun?" and nothing. So three hours later I sent him a text saying "Hope your day is good mines terrible" and he said "whats the matter?" in about two seconds. I didn't reply. I wanted to make him wonder. What should I do?

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Open Question: What should i do??? I'm in so much pain...?

So my girlfriend of two months just broke up with me this morning. She said that she has a "commitment issue", meaning that she still has the urge to sleep with a guy, even while we were dating. So she told me that she still loves me, and hopes that things won't change between us (aka, friends with benifits), but doesn't think that us being together right now is a good thing, while she tries to figure out how to straighten out the whole "commitment" problem. What should i do? She keeps telling me to be happy, that she loves me so much, and that she is sorry, but no matter what, it hurts. a lot. She was my first relationship, my first love. I just don't know how to deal with this. What would you do in my situation? would you move on, or would you wait it out, seeing if after she figures out the commitment problem, that maybe she will come back to me, saying shes more prepared this time? I love her so much, and i just can't seem to let her go after all of this. She is my best friend. I'd hate for us to get awkard and stuff, because we have to see each other at school everyday, and we have practice after school everyday, and we have classes together too, so its not like i could even avoid talking to her if i wanted to( which i don't). Please just give me advice on all of this..i'm so confused and in so much pain....

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Open Question: Is this wrong to do or does it not matter dating someone whos not vegetarain?

So Im a vegetarian and I've started dating this guy who isn't.Which isn't a problem for me because its his choice like mine to be a vegetarian. but I just learned he hunts,that's something im worried about Im very much against it and I was just wondering would this be something wrong if I date someone that hunts when im fighting against it? or does it not matter?*He is respectful of my choice and doesn't talk about hunting around me but im still unsure if this makes me a hypocrite? Any Opinions would be great!

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Open Question: I like one of my good guy friends...help!?

I met this guy about a month + ago, and we became extremely fast friends. We met on our church retreat, and we just connected on such an intimate level so quickly. I immediately fell for him, but I'm confused now. At the very beginning, he said we were just friends. But now we spend multiple days a week together, we do things alone, and we talk for hours at a time. The problem is, he thinks friends should not date because it can get complicated or ruin the friendship. However, I think if done correctly, it could make an excellent relationship, and I'd still want to be best friends if it didn't work out. So my questions are: how can I tell if he likes me as more than a friend? And is it possible to convince him to act on those feelings as well? Thanks so much! Also, he has personally told me he thinks I'm attractive---and he says he's usually shy around girls he likes, but he said if he liked me, he would probably still act the same way with me because I am such and outgoing person. Thanks again! :D

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Open Question: is it right for me to give a girl a ring if your not dating?

so my girlfriend broke up with me a few days ago....because she said she has a cruch on some guy and said its not fair for me. But she said that she just needs time and is 100% sure she will want to be with me again. (we are both 16, been dating for almost 6 month) Problem is her birthday is in a few days and I had already gotten her a really nice expensive promise ring for her.....because I am so in love with her and nothing in my life seems right when im without her. But can I give it to her if were not back togaeher yet?

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Open Question: I don't have a cell phone and I am in High school. Be honest, is it harder to get girls without a cell phone?

I understand that I need to talk with the girl alot.. But I don't have a phone! Tell me the truth, im afraid to start dating anyone if I dont have a phone. I'm not shy, I'm athletic, I've been told I am handsome (and i think i am, i am very vain (i cant stop looking in the mirror, sorry to sound self-centered)). But I am willing to ask a girl I like out with no problem because I can treat her right, and I am very nice. (i'm 15)

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